Hello there!

I really enjoy all your content and i absolutely identify with a lot of what you say about Alpha/faggot dynamics.

I love serving men and have a couple of Doms/Alphas I serve and who enjoy playing with me. But I likewise have a couple of subs who I Dominate and I really enjoy controlling them and pushing them to be the best subs they can be.

One of my Alphas has enjoyed using me and my sub, like a tiered heirarchy. Which was great fun.

My question is this – where do switches fit in the “Hierarchy”?

Hi, thanks for writing to me.

I don’t know what the context is for these relationships. Are they findom relationships? Sexual, in-person relationships? I’m assuming they’re in-person sexual encounters based partly on what you described about a three-way Hierarchy. 

Personally, I don’t recognize versatile people as a permanent part of Hierarchy. Obviously, they’re constantly shifting anyway, which is problematic. But the other thing is this: what are the chances you’re going to be happily versatile for the rest of your life? I’d say it’s close to 0%. Eventually what’s going to happen is a powerful Alphas is going to take complete control of you and force you to accept the real truth: you’re submissive. 

I have this theory that versatile people are really subs and faggots who simply cannot accept their reality so they take on a dominant role as a coping mechanism. You may disagree, but I’ll bet not very strenuously. I think you can see where I’m coming from. 

Boy, I really hate these questions about versatility. I get myself in trouble every time, but I can’t seem to come to any other conclusion based on the evidence I’ve seen. Maybe you’ll be different … but I doubt it.  

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Hi Sam, I’m a fag from New York and I recently meet a alpha online, one thing that confused me was the he told me he was vers and the likes getting fucked. I’m curious Sam can a gay vers be an alpha in your experience and opinion.

Thanks for writing, brother. In my experience, a vers guy cannot be Alpha. It violates one of the tenets of Alphahood, that they are dominant Men. You cannot claim to be dominant if another Man is topping and penetrating you. Sorry. I know that’s going to offend switches out there, but I don’t care. I’m tired of pretending like this is not the truth just to placate their indecisiveness. 

Here’s another truth: practically every vers I’ve ever known eventually makes a decision one way or another eventually, and they almost never choose Alpha. In other words, they’re really bottoms/faggots who are simply trying to resist it. 

I find this behavior to be just as offensive as so-called “cash masters” in findom pretending to be Alpha so that faggots will pay them money, and then they weakly tribute that money to real Alphas in secret. It’s underhanded and pathetic. 

BE WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE!! 

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Hello sir, I’m a 20 year old sub that’s new here just recently followed and I’ve recently entered into a dom/sub type of relationship. I’m obviously not well versed in this area due to being new but my dom is saying I don’t have choices anymore now. I understand that but it makes me a little nervous but also excited. He’s also asking me to push my boundaries ie he asked me if I’ve ever done watersports and I told I hadn’t and wasn’t sure about trying it. His response was we are gonna change that and I don’t really get a say in it because I’m a sub who needs to owned by a man. It turned me on a little but also just wondering if that’s how it usually is and what other things I should expect coming? Idk I’m just overall a little nervous any advice would be great appreciated thanks for reading.

My brother, thank you so much for writing to me! I appreciate your honest apprehension. 

Don’t be afraid. Your new Master sounds confident and an Alpha with a plan for you. Keep in mind that the things he’s suggesting (like watersports) will help you get more deeply in-touch with who you are and your purpose. 

Think about it this way: it feels good to you for a reason. You were born to be owned by an Alpha, and you were born to submit and serve him. It feels good because you sense this truth. I promise, there’s nothing better than knowing your purpose and fulfilling it.

I don’t know what to expect from your Master, of course. I would guess he will probably put you in chastity, and that’s an adjustment you can overcome.  

I recommend that you just try to be obedient and respectful and really give it your best effort. You will grow so much through training and use. 

If you need more advice/help, please reach out my brother! 

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