i can’t find the thread it was in but a guy on your site mentioned that he was in a frat and it made me want to tell about my experience

i was made into a frat fag for like two years. i still fag for my brothers but i dont do it much for other guys tho i have been asked

i went to penn state and rushed for sigma chi. me and a high school buddy rushed together but he dropped out like a couple of weeks in so i there by myself

i tried to make friends and make myself useful in the frat but i was getting word that the seniors had wanted my buddy and that i was just a tag along so i probably wasnt going to get a bid so i was nervous for my place. i didn’t know people there and i wasnt like from a wealthy family or anything so i was just trying to be like a good brother.

a few weeks in to the pledge four seniors took me aside and told me that they were thinking of cutting me loose. i was devastated kinda but they said there was a way i could stay. one of them asked me what my head game was like. i thought he meant was i smart and so i was like, oh yeah pretty good. and they cracked up because they knew i didn’t get it. anyway they told me that if i sucked dick then they’d talk to the chapter president about letting me stay. i didnt want to do it. i thought it was like some dumb trick and that if i said yeah they’d just be like ‘fag!’ and throw me out. so at first i was like ‘your not fucking serious’ but they kept on and said that they were. in the end i told myself that if was going to get thrown out then i kinda had nothing to lose anyway so i agreed to do it. and then they were like okay pick one of us. they made me pick who i was gonna do it for which was worse in a way than actually doing it. i picked a dude called scott and they were like, why him? i said i didnt know and they made jokes that i was into him. but anyway we did it. he stood by the bed and i had to get on my knees. i took his jeans down and then he sat on the bed. the other guys were watching and making jokes. then eventually scott was like, ok just fucking do it so i did.

once i started it didnt seem to bad. i sucked him. everyone went quite and just watched. my head was going up and down. i didnt really know what i was doing i’d never even gotten head before haha. i’d fucked girls and had gotten hand jobs but had not gotten head so i was just doing what i figured would feel good. and he was into it. and he came. i wasnt expecting it like he hadnt said he was gonna cum so he came in my mouth and i pulled away and spit it out. the guys called me a pussy but i was like, i’ve done it. then they were like, so okay who’s next. and i realzied then they wanted me to do it for ALL of them. like i thought they had just meant do it once. at first i said no but they were like, you already did one, what’s the difference so i n the end i agreed. so i picked the next guy and they told me i had to swallow.

i sucked him kind of the same and when he came he held my head and kept me on him and he shot in my mouth and i made myself swallow. then i did it for the next two.
after we were done they said they’d put in a word with the president. but after that it was obvious that everyone kind of knew what had happened. like people were making jokes about it the next day and making comments about it. and then i got called in by the president and a couple of other seniors and the president basically said that he’d heard i’d done a good job and that i’d probably get a bid if i kept doing it. so i was told if any brother asked me, i had to say yes. and they were like, you might as well stick with it, right?
at the time i figured it was just for my pledge so i was telling myself it was just a few weeks. but i was already geting used to doing it. but then my big had a talk with me and he said that i was being lined up to be house fag sort of as a permanent thing for my freshman year. and i was like what the fuck? they want me to suck dick for a year??? and he was like, well more than suck dick. and he told me that he’d been told to like properly break me in. i freaked out but he calmed me down and told me that it was really just for the pledge and that after that it probably wouldnt happen. i think in some way i was sort of starting to like it, or get used to it. and i liked the attention i was getting and anyway i figured fuck it so i agreed. so for like a couple of weeks my big started fucking me, just getting me used to it as much as i could be.

and then i was basically handed to the seniors and they started fucking me too. i got my bid and was initiated. and for a couple of years i was house fag. i didnt really do chores but i was expected to be available for anyone who wanted to use me. and like i said i liked getting the attention and i got to be good at it.

after i left college i didnt really do stuff with guys, but a few years later there was a fraternity convention in Vegas and some of the exective comittee were there and they knew about my role in my chapter and i was invited to spend some time with them and i did stuff for them.

i still think about it and i like to ready about other guys doing it

Thank you for writing … brother? Maybe?

People think I’m exaggerating about the use of faggots by straight Alphas in fraternities and universities, but I’m most certainly not. It happens MUCH more than anyone freely admits. The hierarchical model of male interaction not only predicts this, but almost DEMANDS it. You shouldn’t feel badly or be embarrassed by what happened to you. This is simply the way Alphas express their dominance with weaker males.

I’m not sure what thread you’re talking about because this site has carried many true stories like yours over 11 years. The most dramatic was the powerful thread about “Frat Fag” and his Alpha frat brother named Duke, and it very closely mirrors what happened to you. I am intending to republish that thread to my paid Substack. It’s an incredible story of rape, betrayal, and friendship, but one that ultimately led to purpose fulfilled. Keep your eyes out for that!

One thing your experience shows clearly is the devious, predatorial nature of Alpha packs. Those frat Alphas very cleverly groomed you before you ever tasted your first dick. They worked on you through instinctual pack knowledge that needs no discussion; it’s simply understood.

In cases like yours it’s hard to know if you are a natural faggot, or possibly someone with leanings that were exposed through pressure from these Alphas. Alternatively, your feelings now could be residual “Stockholm Syndrome”-like aftershocks arising from your two years of being used. Usually this happens to rape victims like me (although I’m definitely a faggot), but I wouldn’t call you a rape victim. It’s quite interesting to me that you’re craving service opportunities years after the experience.

From my perspective, it’s hierarchically correct to follow your gut instincts. If you have a desire to serve, then you should find an Alpha somewhere and offer yourself to him. You might be able to answer any lingering questions you have through some honest exploration.

But I do thank you for sharing your remarkable college story. There are plenty of actual faggots who would love to be used the way you were for two years, and I’m sure they thrilled to your account. Please feel free to update me if you want/need to!

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Hey Sam,

I have guided a young fag, aged 17, on and off. He definitely loves being a submissive faggot. However, sometimes he resists. I have been guiding him to like black and dark cocks more since he is white.  He sometimes tries to say he likes all alpha cock, but I want him to only like dark cocks. How do I convince him it is what he wants?

Master, thank you for writing to me!

My first question is this: why don’t you want the faggot to serve YOUR cock? It sounds like you’re serving as this fag’s pimp rather than its Master. (I’m joking, but only a little bit). I’m guessing this fag is remote.

Seventeen-year-old fags are typically quite uppity and rebellious, so if the fag is remote, you’re going to have a hard time enforcing anything with it. In either case, though, you must break down the fag’s resistance, not to black dick, but to OBEYING ITS MASTER. Servicing black dick is not an issue with a faggot that is obedient and embraces its purpose. This is really where your fag is going wrong, Master.

It’s hard to advise on this situation given that I’m not sure if this is local or online ownership, Master. However, I think chastity would help break the faggot of its independent spirit and get its mind focused on what YOU want, and not what it wants.

Thank you, Master!

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I am an Alpha Male who has bred cunted and owed fags for a while. This is a wonderful site. Truthful and enlightening. I have a two part question. 

Part One – I have had fags rim me and it is always thrilling. Knowing a fag is back there running his tongue over my asshole gives me power that is unmatched.
However I have noticed a trend were Alpha Males are rimming the fags they are using. What are they getting out of rimming the fag? Does the fag get excited about this? Should this be something I give to the fags I use? 

Part Two – I have one fag that has been with me for six years now. I have noticed that it’s pussy has taken on more of a slit look (like a woman’s pussy) over the years rather then a round hole like mine. Is this something you see happen to fags? Does this happen all the time? Over time or are there fags that just have that look? 

Hope you can give me some answers. Master Beck 

Master Beck, it’s a profound honor to have you on the site and sharing your experiences with the world! I’m sorry about the delay in my response, Master! I’ve been dealing with an extraordinary and absolutely unwarranted life situation. One more month to go!
 
Let me answer both intriguing questions at once:
 
1. I’m glad that you mentioned the unparalleled power you receive from having your asshole licked, Master! I’ve been telling straight Alphas that very thing for decades, and every one who tries it tells me it changes their life!
 
I think Alphas lick their faggots’ pussies for the same reason why they lick female pussy: it prepares the hole for penetration. For a faggot, that preparation could be critical depending on the size of the Alpha’s cock.
 
2. Of course faggots love to have their pussies licked, but for different reasons. It feels good, but it also humbles the faggot. It reminds them of their place. I know I get embarrassed when an Alpha licks me, because i feel like I don’t deserve that. 

Faggot pussies do develop slit-like contours after extended use. I wrote about it in a post titled “Boy Pussy.” You can read that here: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/boy-pussy/
 
Master, again i thank you for writing to me! I’d love to talk to you in more detail! You can write me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com!

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Master Brian here, thanks for the reply Sam. You’re right, my brother is the reason where I am where I am today. I love him because he is my role model and we’re each other’s confidante. And I do NOT want to lose or disrespect him. Owning our fags alongside him is out of question, because all I think about is owning him. So I guess then my only choice is to move out and keep a distance between I can rid of these urges. A question: do you know any older brother who’ve submitted to a younger brother?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.
 
Master Brian, thank you for responding thoughtfully to my reply! 
 
I’m sorry that this urge is driving a wedge between you and your Alpha brother! Alphas are so much more powerful when they work together as a pack. I really hope things can remain amicable between you both, and hopefully the storm of dominance inside of you can settle a bit. This is a fairly common urge with extremely dominant Alphas in close situations, although one breeding the other as a show of superiority is probably rare.
 
I don’t know of another situation involving Alpha brothers that resembles yours, Master. I’ve had multiple situations involving an Alpha brother and a faggot brother, but those are not quite the same as yours. I’m sorry, Master.
 
Again, please feel free to keep in touch! My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com. Thank you Master!

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hello Sam. i’m 20 years old and from Ukraine, so my apologies for any mistakes in the text. i’m not nearly as knowledgeable in the hierarchy as you are, so i’m here to get educated. i find many aspects of the hierarchy to be aligned with what i always felt naturally. i think that i’m supposed to worship the men i’m with, supposed to be selfless and take care of them (or rather, him) in more ways than sexually. the only problem is that i’m a transsexual man.

i’ve always been attracted to men in ways no females around me were. i knew something was off from a very young age. i was always more interested in being the one to gift things instead of receiving gifts, giving sexually instead of receiving sexually. i must also point out that i only have anal sex. i get fucked like a faggot, i look like one, and apparently i find that a lot of what you preach actually resonates with me a lot. so i was wondering… do i even belong here? i’ve seen trans women in your discord, but never others like me. so i wanted to make sure where exactly my place is in the hierarchy? i would assume it’s even lower than a male faggot because i obviously lack what gay Alphas desire anatomy-wise, and i also don’t use or even show the unfortunate part that straight Alphas desire anatomy-wise. so i’m the worst of both worlds, basically.

My friend, thank you for writing to me!

The trans community poses a tricky proposition for hierarchical thought, because their situations are often assessed by less obvious means (internal identity, emotional/mental outlooks, etc.). It’s hard for someone like me to assess you because I can’t read your mind or heart, of course.

I do commend you for your bravery ad honesty. Rest assured, you have a place in hierarchy just like everyone else!

From an initial reading of the biographical details you provided, I would easily classify you as a faggot. By every metric, you’re functioning as a faggot for Men and Alphas right now.

I wanted to add that your claim that gay Alphas wouldn’t want you because you’re “missing parts” simply isn’t true. Many, many gay Alphas want nothing to do with a penis unless they have a demanding fetish for locking up fags (which is rare). I think you’d be perfect for either straight or gay Alphas, though. Yes, I know you don’t want straight Alphas using your retired parts, but straight Alphas still like the LOOK of those things, giving you an advantage over genetically-male faggots.

My advice to you is to simply become the best faggot you can be, perfect the various aspects of your service, and ignore the worry about your gender. You’re as much of a faggot as anyone else born with a desire to serve!

BTW, I hope I didn’t offend you if I misused terminology incorrectly. I admit I’m not the best when it comes to transsexuality.

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Hi Sam, I’m curious what your thoughts on switches are. I am naturally an alpha male and it comes very easy for me. Just physically im a 25 year old 6’1” 270” bodybuilder so many guys present themselves in a submissive way to me anyways, and I love it. But there are some Men that even I acknowledge are more alpha than me and it also feels amazing sometimes to let go and submit to them. I don’t have any desire to completely submit to a full fledged faggot, I think I would know internally if that were true. But it can feel confusing sometimes the way I switch back and forth. If I had to break it down by percentages I would say I only get this submissive urge like 20% of the time. Please let me know what you think

Sir, I appreciate you writing to me! Thank you!

Alpha switches are quite a bit different than other types of switches. The mechanics of Alpha hierarchy allow for some amount of submission within the Alpha fraternity. After all, some Alphas are more powerful and higher-ranked than other Alphas, so when Alphas want to express dominance within that hierarchy, someone must submit.

One of the most important documentation I’ve done on this phenomenon involves the story of Master Jose of Mexico. He is a gay Alpha who owns faggots, but he is a close friend of Master Lorenzo, a God Alpha in Brazil. When They visit each other, Master Jose occasionally submits to Master Lorenzo. That doesn’t take anything away from Master Jose; in fact, Master Jose says he feels even more powerful sharing intimate moments as Master Lorenzo’s “bottom”. I’m sure that’s because they are both in their proper place hierarchically. You can read more about that experience right here: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/category/master-jose/?order=asc

Similarly, there is the story of Master Dean. He’s a gay God Alpha living on an island with his straight God Alpha brother Master Chad. While Master Dean handily owns and breeds multiple faggots, he occasionally battles his brother for dominance and will submit to him. You can read that here: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/category/master-dean/?order=asc

I hope I was able to explain what’s happening with you and assuage your concerns, Sir. Alpha switching doesn’t mean you’re not Alpha. It’s simply a natural reaction and acknowledgement of your place within Alpha hierarchy.

Thank you, Sir!

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Hey fellow fⲁggot! What ever happened to the young slave doctor who served his Master and his Master’s sub?

I can’t be sure of which thread you’re referring to, but it very much sounds like Master Maurice of Switzerland. He had taken possession of a disabled faggot, and eventually brought in a fag nurse that he eventually took ownership of as well.

Master Maurice’s story is one of the most beautiful accounts I’ve ever featured. He is a glorious God Alpha, an example all Alphas should consider and follow, I haven’t heard from him since July of 2026, but as far as I know he’s doing well.

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In this context, I’m not commending it, but it does seem like something an Alpha would do.

Your thoughts? I think your readers would find this situation interesting. Maybe it would prompt reader comments.

Thank you for the question!

In short, of course this is Alpha behavior. Most professional athletes are somewhere in the Alpha hierarchy, and we often see Alpha bravado manifest in the heat of competition. It seems like a really stupid thing to do in this case, but the penalty also seemed ridiculous.

Ultimately, polite and “proper” modern society will always fail to constrain or control natural Alpha instincts!

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Hi Sam

Its Javi Thank you for your advice the other day about Alpha latency, and yea lol your right. I dont see myself as a fag for a number of reasons which I probably list or attach. I would be unable to serve any/all men or be open to it. I do not respond to abuse/degradation, as I do praise. I’m not the biggest fan of bottoming, honestly hatted until I bought massagers and such since riding a dildo is just leg day with extra steps to me, on top of being a laborious process. A lot of “fag” situations/incidents (outside of sex) never happened to me cause I either retaliated or those who would sensed something in me. When I saw myself as a fag it was more based in submitting to a man without respect to him and his abilities that he was more capable and better than I; it was not admiration. I was raised to be better than my parent this was told to me from an early age, so I guess I apply that notion to submission. I tried being a fag for straight men and it sucked I was bored with them and often left or ended things since they wanted to make me feminine so they would be masculine they were very hasty as well with dominating another person. I also don’t like being told what do, as a child I struggled with apologizing, so being a fag isn’t me. However I see 2 lanes for myself after read more post and stories. Understanding the naturalness of dom and sub and how it shows up in nature I can say Im an Alpha but i have no desire to own faggots, control them, impose my will(I do this normally), and being their Alpha if presented the opportunity I would but I wouldn’t;t be seeking it. Lane 1 akin to something like Bruno or Jose a used to be master submitting to a “God” Alpha as you call it (I dislike calling another man God). Reading Bruno’s post & those related to him I see a lot of similarities namely his Master is/was bi, I have consistently attracted bi men also so I can expect any guy into me is bi so that stood out to me. Another similarities was reading Master Jose post and how there was submission to Lorenzo but as I stated mutual respect under full acknowledgment of roles and status etc. Certain aspects also got me hard like how Juan juggle his love for his fag with his desire for heirs, Juan’s acceptance of Lorenzo as his superior and what comes with that. Lane 2 would be that of Master Jase and his Alpha bf a pair of equal that playful compete with one another that is healthy fun and invigorating. Being able to take awe of my partner in their domain and exuding their power thats how you come to deeply respect a person. So yes I see my in lane or lane 2  the most; Submitting to men like Lorenzo, Juan, etc as either their lesser brother or their personal close, bf-like fag. being with an equal and owning fags together. Ideally I think it would be lane 1 since thats what I had envisioned for myself (the advisor of the king) but without having the correct knowledge and framework. Im still open to lane 2 and the possibility of owning a fag but it’s still not something I would hunt for. If any kingly Alphas have any suggests I’d love hearing your thoughts.

More about me (24, 5’10, 190 stocky. US)

I wasn’t  weak as a kid, but shy yes. And there were a few times I did get bullied but I genuinely didn’t see it that way I thought the guy was an asshole and ignored him until ppl told me what the was perception and I fought him the next day. Then kicked his ass when he wanted a rematch.  I also used to be a bit of bully in grade school, I teased a kid obviously weaker but only cause he was upsetting the class namely the girls. I also beat up a guy in MS cause he wouldn’t let his gf be friends with me & she was too in love to do something. If there is any trauma prob just the challenge that comes with being out/gay at an early age. I knew I was gay at 13 cause I had no love for my gf and had love for guys. I never had a I hate being gay phase it made my life easier in way cause I would have been abusive if I pursued women seriously. Being gay in youth comes with teasing and bullshit from other guys; looking back I never let them do shit to me I mean you can’t stop other’s actions but I always retaliated. I think having do so for such a long time made me view myself a bit lower since so much of my time was spent playing tit for tat that I probably lost a bit of my assertiveness.Im naturally strong its regularly praised of it at work, I have quite a lot of autonomy as person and as a worker I’ve always had leeway at the jobs I had. Also outside of sex I’m typically doing whats seen as alpha stuff. Like yes training and martial arts, self studies into diff subjects like chemistry, cybsec, physiotherapy, languages etc, but namely I do a lot of guiding, helping others move past their own boundaries and limitations, assisting with problems that others think are too big or hard to overcome. Typically for free since its ppl I know and are cool with but, maybe due to the law of transaction I end up getting free stuff or elevated treatment, which I’m grateful for, & often I’ve been  asked or begged to accept what is offered or allowed. I guess you could say I was popular since everyone knew me by name but I didn’t know them even in college this remained true. I have more success pulling bi men, than gay men as well, as with bi men i’ve typically submitted and with gay men I dominated or at least was the initiator for things. The gays I’ve been with were more into me than I them(prob something i should work on). I can be a lot for most people I don’t really get depressed or bogged down, Im known as optimistic and willing to try, I’ve had people tell me how I am a inspiration for them and I was just being me. I’m outgoing but reserved, I naturally disarm others. Lastly I think I’m intrigued by Lorenzo as a gay Alpha since I haven’t met any in my area or those who weren’t acting for dating sites and social media;  mainly I dealt with straight or bi Alphas and other gays encouraging me to fully embrace faghood.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Sir, thank you very much for following-up on your previous question!

I’m very happy that you’ve made this discovery about yourself! I’ll admit that I suspected you were a latent Alpha, but yours wasn’t a clear-cut case as others have been. I guess my intuition is more finely-tuned than I think! I should listen to my gut more!

It’s so odd to me how many Alphas blow off-course during their development. Your story strikes me as one of the more extreme examples of how gay Alphas get twisted up by gay cultural expectations. For whatever reason, the term “gay Alpha” is viewed as an oxymoron BY THE GAY COMMUNITY. It’s almost like self-sabotage, a sort of self-hating prejudice in the community that I really hate. All it does is cause damage to gay Alphas like you, Sir, and prevents you from truly finding fulfillment.

I love that you went through the archives here and started identifying examples of latent Alphas as well as gay Alphas with whom you identify. This is so important, because you need to reinforce such positive examples in your mind in order to deprogram what others have implanted in your mind. You’ve picked some fine Alpha models, particularly Master Lorenzo. Master Lorenzo and Master Dean are gay Alphas who will never bend a knee to another Man, and to whom all others submit.

Of course, you mostly seem to identify with Master Jose, lower-level Alphas who benefit from some amount of submission to higher powers. There’s nothing wrong with that at all. The Alpha hierarchy is a very real thing, and it exists for a reason. Just keep in mind that it is not faggot behavior for an Alpha to submit to another Alpha. Instead, it’s a rejuvenation, a respectful acknowledgement of power between brothers.

I’m really proud of you, Sir. I’m glad you’re on the road to recovery!

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Hi, I’m in mid 30s. Year ago I took a tenant: a student in his early 20s. He’s cute, kind, smart. We got along well. Recently I was tempted to sniff his used boxers, then socks, shoes… I don’t like the smell, it’s smelly, but gets me hard. I started jerking off to them. What do you think about it and how to develop it?

Thank you for the question!

Well, it looks like you’re having an awakening of faggot tendencies! You don’t mention your life/sexuality before this, but I’m guessing you are gay and were living a typical gay life. Many gays try to live traditionally when they are, in fact, undeveloped faggots. You might be in that category.

The sniffing of socks and underwear of Men and Alphas is a pretty typical early symptom of this. We’ve all probably had some variation of this. So don’t be nervous or uncomfortable … what you’re experiencing is perfectly normal.

Developing it involves learning more about being a faggot. You can read my book “Are You A Faggot?” in the bookstore link at the top of this site. There is also a lot of information and video here as well.

I’m not sure what your visitor is like, if he’s straight/gay, Alpha/beta, or your relationship with him. I wouldn’t necessarily attempt to offer him service, but you could offer a foot massage and see how he reacts, I suppose. But more than anything, you really just need to study and meditate.

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Hi Sam,

My name is Jack I live in the UK and I am at this current time a complete failure as a faggot.

I feel like I am not living life correctly. I don’t wear my cage, I don’t serve Men sexually or otherwise anymore and I am basically just a normie now.

However the pull to correct this is ever present. I feel like I was always a better person in chastity than out of it. If I served a man sexually or even in small every day ways it used to bring me a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment that would have me smiling for days.

I’m writing not because I need advice on how to fix this. Deep down I know the answers, I am just in a rut. However I feel surrounded by opportunities to correct it. For example I am in my thirties, I am working with a 21 year old Alpha Male who is feral, he hugs me, humps me, slaps my arse all in the workplace and finds it funny. I’m not sure he finds it anything more than a joke but the idea of just swallowing his load and thanking him and him finding that funny makes me think about him more than I should do.

So I guess the real question I have is have you or any of the faggots reading ever found yourselves stuck in a rut? Like when you break the habit of eating healthy or going to gym for a long time. And if so what broke it? Was it the old Just Do It approach?

Thank you for writing, brother!

First of all, you’re NOT a failure as a faggot! You’ve had the right mentality in the past, so it’s not like you can’t do it.

I think what you’re describing is quite a common problem, and I bet more than a few fags reading this are nodding their heads in recognition of what you’re saying. Look, being a faggot is not easy. People think we CHOOSE to be faggots just like they think we choose to be gay. The same rebuttal applies: why would we ever choose something that makes our lives demonstrably more difficult?? Of course we wouldn’t … and we didn’t. We are simply wired to be faggots, and our path to fulfillment is littered with pain and complications and necessary inconveniences. That’s simply the truth of it.

The question becomes: how bad do you want to feel that fulfillment, and do you want it more than settling into this rut for the rest of your life?

You’re a young faggot with plenty of life and energy left to offer Alphas. I see no need for you to surrender and be miserable in that rut, do you? It’s especially ridiculous to consider given the fact that you have a 21-year-old Alpha giving every signal that he’s ready to learn about his real purpose and discover the truth about faggots! You’ve got this huge opportunity to do something special with this Alpha, and you’re wasting it by talking yourself out of it (“makes me think more of it than I should do”). TAKE ACTION! Ask him if he considers himself an Alpha, lead him into a discussion of hierarchy, and even show him the site and the pyramid of hierarchy. Ask leading questions about what he finds there. Hell, use my “Letter To An Alpha” to strike up a more direct conversation.

There’s simply no reason to be like this, brother. This doesn’t need to be the end for your purpose. Get up and get started!

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Hello Sam

I would like to pick your brain some, I know I love men and would like to submit to one. The issue is the levels or fag and alpha. when reading your post and stories I would not behave as most fags would. As in the interest and willingness to please is low or more so I dont feel the desperation others do. In terms of request and demands from Alphas thats no issue but in terms of how fags act behave or expected to be just isnt me. I know I could be an Alpha, I’ve had an older man worship me but was disgusted by him and his desperation. So im wondering are there levels to being a fag or some outlier? I dont view myself as lowly and struggle too even try, but I know its best that I am submissive vs being the Alpha since I would be abusive and uncaring in that position.

Thank you for writing to me!

I have a sneaking suspicion that you might be a latent Alpha, even though I don’t see the intensity in you that I often find in other latent Alphas who are truly suffering.

I would really like it if you’d go through the material I’ve written on the subject of Alpha latency and see if any of it speaks to you. Here’s the link: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/category/alpha-latency/

Aside from that, it’s important to remember that not everybody falls neatly into the “Alpha” and “faggot” categories. For instance, there are “beta-subs” who are submissive in general but not faggots. You could very well be one of these other types.

But I want you to deeply consider the Alpha latency material I’ve assigned. There’s something in there that hasn’t been explored yet.

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Hi Sam,

I’m a fag from Italy and  Im noticing some strange behaviour in my alpha bf.

We’ve been dating for 5 months and everything is perfect he is so dominant yet caring, and I always try to serve him in the best way possible… But recently I’ve started noticing how strange he acts around straight guys, he looks diminished around them physically speaking even tho they are objectively even smaller than him sometimes. It feels like he can’t be the top dog around straight men and I gotta be honest… Its really starting to affect my opinion of him, makes me seem him as less of man. I’ve talked about this already with a very close friend of mine, he’s a fag too and he’s the one who made me realize a year ago that I wasnt just “submissive” so I’ve always gone to him for Alpha/fags matter but his response surprised me quite bit. He said that it was normal that even if he’s an alpha he’s a gay one and superior men will always have power over him no matter how alpha he is… Didn’t really sit right with me so after a couple of days later  I asked him more questions, like “if he’s an Alpha how can other men be superior to him?” and he said “real men” kinda laughing like it was some obvious shit to which I said that my bf is a real man and he bursted out laughing saying that he was not… I was super confused cause he is generally super respectful of my bf, as a man and as an Alpha and seeing… that I was super confused he continued saying “straight men, real men are straight men. I thought it was obvious to you” and explained that being a gay Alpha makes not difference around real men, that straight guys are our superiors and my bf wasn’t acting weird around them it’s simply how inferiors act around straight men. Even urged me to be more respectful to straight men since I wasn’t aware of this thing (sounded disappointed af lol) and we continued talking about this via message saying that most gays don’t accept this truth that he was disappointed in me, continued saying that the most Alpha gay is inferior to the least alpha straight man, that Straight alphas are on top, then average straight men then gay “alphas”, yeah with quotation marks cause “gay alphas are alphas only to gays, so not real alphas” and even suggested me to write Straight with capital S as a sign of respect from now on which I find exaggerated but I’m doing it when messaging with him. In a way I can understand what he said, my bf actually does look “weaker” than his normal self when he’s around straight men, and I have to admit that I’ve considered straight men real men for years but superiors?! Talking about gays being interior to Straight men like it’s normal?… In really value his guidance, he’s kind of a “senpai” to me(lol), and I have to admit his points are really valid and I’m 80% sure he’s right but I still have doubts and wanted to ask you.

Is it normal that my bf acts this way around straight men? Is my friend actually right or right to some extent?

Thank you for writing! This is actually an important topic!

I understand your feelings, and, as a faggot who has served mostly straight Alphas, I can understand the perspective from a fetish standpoint. All gays have a fetish for straights because of early development attachments we had to straights growing up. We see straights as “ideal” and ourselves as “defective” because SOCIETY views it this way. I refer to this as “gay inferiority syndrome”.

However, it’s really that attitude that is the defect, and not we ourselves.

Your cock-sure fag friend is absolutely fucking wrong. Your boyfriend isn’t diminished or “lesser” because he’s gay. What a stupid thing to say about any Alpha! Master Lorenzo is a gay Alpha, and I’d venture to say he would fuck anyone into oblivion and better than any straight Alpha. Same with Master Dean, another gay Alpha who holds his own with some of the straightest and most powerful Alphas on the planet. The gay Alphas I’ve featured on this site over the years have been incredible Men who could lead armies. They are not diminished in any way … unless they are naturally lower within Alpha hierarchy OR they diminish themselves with thinking like yours.

And here’s what I mean by that: you and your friend are forgetting that Alphas have an internal hierarchy within their fraternity. Your boyfriend might simply be a lower-tiered Alpha among other, more naturally powerful Alphas. Should you respect him less because nature made him to be what he is? So because he’s not an Apex or God-level Alpha, you should suddenly find him less appealing or question his virility?? Do you see how stupid that starts to sound?

But what concerns me most from your question pertains to your Alpha’s own view of himself. Does HE carry that “gay inferiority syndrome” within himself?? Maybe somewhere inside himself he feels lesser than straight Men and Alphas. I sincerely hope not, because he shouldn’t EVER have to suffer from those awful and negative stereotypes! However, that diminishment you describe could very well be an outwardly manifestation of his own feelings of unworthiness! How sad to hear if that is true. The world desperately needs Alpha power, and when it is revealed, it should be adored and encouraged!

Which leads me back to you and your stupid-ass faggot friend. You both should be ashamed of yourselves for disparaging this Alpha. Rather than showing him respect, you went off to cattily bitch about his supposed shortcomings behind his back with your friend. I cannot tell you how disgustingly disloyal that is.

Rather than disparaging his “flaws” as an Alpha, examine your own flaws as his supposed faggot.

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hi! i want to know your thoughts on incest. is it acceptable if a father claims his son as a faggot? if so what age is acceptable to start.

Thank you for your question!

Let me preface this response by saying that, in general, it’s illegal in most countries and definitely considered to be morally wrong by most people. But I think you probably know this already.

But Hierarchy is Natural Law, so it doesn’t always conform to every man-made law of modern society.

Hierarchically-speaking, “incest” of the kind you mention is not necessarily wrong. Of course, the son should have some agency over himself and be old enough to understand and consent.

But once those conditions are met, the act of a father taking his faggot son as his own servant is an act of deep love and concern. No father wants his faggot son out in the world being bullied and harmed by careless Alphas. Better to take full ownership of him, train him, and prepare him to fulfill his purpose himself.

And I’m not speaking from an irresponsible or uninformed perspective. I’ve known multiple faggots who are owned (or have been owned) by their fathers, and in each case both the fathers and the sons were deeply fulfilled by embracing their roles with each other.

It may not suit me or most of my readers, but I’ve seen enough joy and fulfillment from these ones to know that this “taboo” element of hierarchy is valid. I’ll never disparage them or their choices.

I hope this helps!

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Yo Sam, I’m Brian, a 19 year old Alpha. Came across this site only recently and then I saw your post about Master Chad and his situation resembles mine (partially).   Let me start from the beginning. So me and my brother (we’re both alphas, his name is Jason) are about 11 years old apart, so he’s currently 29. He was the one who introduced me to the hierarchy when I was 15. He brought home one of the guys he works with (he lives a separate city than our parents and I moved with him to continue my studies as the schools here are better). And to my surprise, he made the guy worship his feet and cock right there in the living room and told the guy to do the same to me. I’ll tell you, during the whole time he did not use the guy’s name and instead called him ”fag” and told me to do the same because ”fags” only purpose is to worship alphas like us. It felt amazing. That was the start of my interest in hierarchy and since then, me and my brother have had 2 live-in faggots (we had another one, but he moved away due to family problems) whom we use and enjoy whenever we want.   That brings me to my problem, for some time now I keep having these thoughts of fucking my brother and turning him into one of the fags as well. He\’s older than me, but we’re pretty much similar in height. I’m more on the wiry side whereas he’s more stocky and he has an amazing ass (like imagine two perfectly shaped butt cheeks). I could prolly control these urges if not for the fact that he’s naked almost the whole time he’s home. I use the fags we have almost all the time when I’m home, but when fucking them I imagine my brother. Is that weird? Like I know you’ve said before that you don’t agree with incest due to how destructive they can be but how do you get over it? You have had this site up for a long time now so you must’ve come across similar situation?

Master, thank you for writing to me! 
 
First of all, congratulations on your situation! You’re lucky to have had an Alpha brother who was so generous and considerate of you, someone who was wise enough to fully understand Hierarchy at a young age! The fact that you own live-in faggots together is truly a testament to your power and the truth of Hierarchy!
 
Yes, I definitely have come across similar situations as yours, Master. Whenever the power dynamics within families are combined with the natural power dynamics in Hierarchy, the results are often combustible. This is especially so when it involves Alphas, who are Kings in Hierarchy and are keenly aware of position.
 
I suppose you can try to get your brother to submit to you, Master, but it’s likely to be one hell of a fight. And if you lose … Well, you might not like how that turns out. You really need to decide how important it is that you dominate him, as opposed to ruling alongside him. 
 
As a faggot, submitting is natural for me. But for Alphas, it’s nearly unthinkable. In the case of your older brother, he’s the one who guided you to your own Alphahood. Do you really want to disrespect him that way? Do you really need to?
 
I hope you think hard about those questions, Master. You sound like a good Alpha, and I’m sure you’ll come to the right conclusions!

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Hi, hope you’re well. I don’t really know where to start, for a few years now I’ve been absorbing media surrounding the ideas of hierarchy and what being a fag entails. Something about it feels so comforting, and I recently started a self-locked journey getting my first chastity cage just this past weekend. That being said, I don’t really know how to feel. Part of me thinks that I am a fag, but another part of me is resistant.  When it comes to being around my friends, I’m usually the one who just agrees with whatever is said and I rarely voice my own opinions when it comes to where we should go to eat, hang, whatever. However, when it comes to school projects with random groups, or taking on a leadership position (like my university’s student council), that comes to me just as naturally and I have no problem taking charge. I guess the question here is can there be a balance between servitude as a fag, and fulfilling aspirational goals and having a successful career? I’m really new to this whole world and just don’t know where I stand yet, or if what I am picturing is even possible. Any advice helps, thanks a lot!

Thank you for writing, brother!

This is a pretty common dilemma for faggots, especially newer ones. If your information comes only from porn or Dom/sub fetish sites, it would very easy to think a faggot is nothing but garbage to be used and discarded, a useless, popper-addicted pig with no value to society.

Now, there ARE some fags like that, of course. But these ones are outliers, truly debased creatures who live only from one degradation to another.

But most faggots are like you and I, real males with hopes and dreams and talents and personalities. Some of us are wildly talented and hugely successful. Hell, Sean the faggot built a multi-million dollar company that made him extremely wealthy before it was taken over by his young Master!

However, there is something within us that makes us need to serve Alphas. It drives us, and when we do even the slightest act of service for a Man we feel a fulfillment that is hard to replicate any other way. It’s like a drug, this fulfillment. Hearing “good boy” from a Man makes our lives of sacrifice and submission worth it.

It is not easy to balance those two seemingly disparate aspects of our lives as faggots, but it can be done. Some of this involves serving the right Alphas, ones who are Protector Alphas and who recognize that guiding their faggots toward good, useful, and fulfilling goals makes their service that much better. I’ve been blessed in that regard throughout my life, but part of that has to do with my own self-respect. I view my service as a gift I offer my Owner, so I don’t want it abused, unappreciated, or misused.

So go on a build a life you can find fulfilling. Find success and joy. Build something valuable within yourself so you can submissively offer it as tribute to a truly great Alpha!

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I’ve been checking on this blog for A LONG while. Just found you again after years I feel like.

Anyways, I might be a faggot. I’m not really sure tbh. Maybe it’s my past relationships or maybe just kind of my style, but while really submissive in the bedroom & like taking care of my man, outside I’m dominant//wear the pants.

It’s always been this way & I guess… Idk Sam!! I’m thin. I shave my legs. I’m pretty femme. Like I love the concept or fantasy of serving a true alpha, but maybe the reality of it would hurt my feelings too much. IDK.

A bit about me: I’m married now. Have been for 3 years. My husband is really great. But he recently told me i’ve made him into my bitch so the bedroom has become hard for him. I make more money. I’m the provider. And yeah, I think I can be a bit bitchy. I do wish I could you know… Hype him up in a way. I read these testimonials on here & really wish… like my husband is fit. traditionally masculine. I wish he would talk back, put me in my place, etc. He does have that “alpha” appearance like he’s fit muscular etc, but— idk. He is gay like me & he does have a sensitive/anxious side, so maybe he’s just a soft top.

I just wish he would just… grab me and throw me down and fuck me. like really dick me down. but it’s hard for him because apparently i’m too bossy outside of it. IDK. this is probably stupid, i’m sorry.

1. Basically! hi! not sure. Do you have any advice on what I should do maybe, show him. hey. this is ok? or how do i know hierarchy is for me?

Thank you for writing in after such a long time!

This question – “Am I a faggot?” – hangs over the head of every sub male, especially ones who feel unfulfilled in some way. I’ve been asked it every which way, which is why I finally wrote a book to help unsure subs come to their own answer. It’s entitled “Are You A Faggot?” Most of it discusses the purpose and functions of faggots in hierarchy. However, the book ends with test that will help you understand yourself and your true needs much better.

You can buy that book on instant download RIGHT HERE.

Aside from that, it might do some good for you to show him some of this website. It might open up conversation with him just showing him your question and my response.

If you are indeed a faggot, he needs to understand what you need from him. Many times Men hold back in order to be “respectful” of their partner, but that approach is completely wrong for true fags. He can’t possibly know this unless he becomes informed.

As for you, I think you should check out the book and also work on being more generally submissive. Being “femme” is about more than shaving your legs and wearing panties. It’s about embodying the essence of that persona, namely a service-oriented, submissive mindset. Work on cultivating that.

I hope that helps!

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Hi Sam its Javi again

Thanks for the response I didn’t think you would reply so fast. I’ve been digging through the site and had some follow up questions. Mainly about how to be a ‘good’ fag or how some black fags can fulfill their role better? After reading a few stories specifically Master Girad and fag Kamal I left with wanting to know more about service & desirability as a black fag and to learn from fag kamal in regards to gender studies and the hierarchy. I have taken you up on your last message and been wearing a cage, more frequently, however I am a little hesitant to wear it out as you suggested given how small/connected my city is.

Thanks for the follow-up, Javi!

Because of black culture, I think most black males fall into one of two very distinct groups: (1) hyper-dominant Alphas, or (2) hyper-effeminate, “flaming” gay stereotypical subs.

I usually don’t refer to these subs as faggots because, while they take on the faggot role sexually, they are anything but submissive outside the bedroom. Despite the fact that they’re some of the best cocksuckers on earth, they’re typically more trouble than they’re worth for Alphas because they’re so hard to train.

I know I’m painting with a wide brush here, but hopefully you get my point.

To be a “good” black fag you need to be submissive in all things. Be obedient. Be genuinely grateful to serve. Be clean. In other words, be like every “good” fag of any race!

I’m proud of you for trying chastity! I think you’ll notice changes within yourself as you go deeper into using it. I do understand your concerns about small-town life, but I also think nobody’s going to say anything to you about it except for the guys who might want to use you.

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Hello Sam,

Im Javi and in 24. Im kinda torn on things, I come off very masculine hairy, strong, assertive etc. But I know I’m not an Alpha, while growing up I naturally preferred doing feminine chores with no resistance while I hated doing the manly stuff cutting grass, trimming trees, etc i prefer doing feminine deemed like making perfume. I know that id like to be a fagwife but can’t seem to meet men who make me want to submit or ig I can respect as I dont get the “Alpha” aspect from them. I can respect their ability to be men but not in a way where I can submit without feeling like I settled. Most times its been men who had bravado but I am more endowed than, or men that couldn’t lead. Part of me feels like I should try to dom those under me but I also know my place is serving a real man

I know I shouldn’t hunt for a Man but I am tired of wasting time by dealing with men that can’t own me and would like some insight from an experienced fag.

Hi Javi! Thank you writing!

The issue you’re having definitely occurs with a fair amount of bottoms and faggots. It really speaks to something I’m always emphasizing: the body size, dick size, or body fitness does NOT determine our place in hierarchy! As you so aptly described, our place is determined by the person we are within!

I’ve encountered plenty of tall, beefy, hairy, hung, and/or muscular fags over the years, and it can be difficult to handle given the general expectations of most Alphas.

But I said “MOST” for a reason. I’ve met plenty of very powerful Alphas who love to own/use faggots like you. I think there is some conquering instinct at work in these situations. I distinctly remember Master G (a smaller, straight Alpha) who took ownership of his much larger fag friend Jamie … and he ended us marrying Jamie eventually!

Finding those kinds of Alphas could be a challenge, but it’s not impossible. You really need to emphasize your submission and desire to be useful. Be deferential and complimentary to the Alphas with whom you interact. Be useful to them.

Here’s another, more radical suggestion: put yourself into chastity and parade around the locker room/showers with it on. You’ll be surprised how Men and Alphas react to it, their curiosity piqued and imaginations running. Wearing a chastity cage will instantly eliminate your size issues and diminish you in their eyes.

I hope this helps, brother!

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I published this video a day or so ago about rimming, and in it I made mention of how the tips contained in it, despite being directed at pleasuring bottoms, can also be applied to pleasuring Alphas. However, I added a caveat: “Use discernment”.

Some unidentified reader (who sounds Alpha) picked up on this and wrote the following comment that I wanted to highlight:

When it comes to rimming, Sam said used discernment, so use it.

If you’re an Alpha and getting rimmed, the first thing to know is that you would not be positioned like the faggot in the video. Instead, consider standing in front of a floor length mirror, so that you can see your faggot as he KNEELS behind you. That’s right. Your faggot lowers himself to his knees, and KISSES YOUR ASS (because you’re the boss). Don’t just pass over what I’ve written; take time to really think about it. There’s a faggot on his knees kissing your ass. That’s the reason an Alpha has a faggot rim him. And while it’s occurring, that’s the perfect time for any verbal reinforcement or training. Your words will penetrate deeply during this moment of union.

As for the actual mechanics, the video gives great advice. Start light, and end with full tongue penetration of your Alpha ass. You’re thinking “Huh? I won’t do that. My ass is sacrosanct.” The problem with that is you’re thinking like a man, and how your ass doesn’t get fucked. You need to flip your mindset for better understanding. Your ass is not, never will get fucked. Dicks do fucking. What is happening with tongue penetration is that you are being RESPECTED. Your status, your authority, your dominance are being given proper, full respect. The only question is whether you want to be lightly respected, or deeply respected. As an Alpha and as a Master, you should want to be deeply respected.

That’s when you reach behind, grab the back of your faggot’s head, and push his face completely into your ass. Rub your ass up and down. Make sure your faggot gets his tongue firmly implanted into your ass. Further than either he or you think is possible. This is the full Omega position to your Alpha status. When we look up “Alpha and the omega”, this is the picture the dictionary should use to illustrate it.

This is exactly what I meant by “use discernment”. Rimming an Alpha is (and should be) a completely different experience with a different set of intentions and approach. Rimming an Alpha should be a profound act of worship, not a way to emasculate him.

Something like this:

Like I’ve said elsewhere, more and more straight Men and Alphas are exploring this option for the immensely-satisfying power they feel when its’ done correctly!

Thanks to this anonymous reader for the added perspective!

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