🚨Hierarchical positioning!

Notice how the Alpha takes the higher seat, looking down on the weaker male?

Ideally, all faqqots seeking to serve straight Alphas can trigger a response by taking the lower seat at their feet and looking up at them!

HierarchyIsTruth

Hi Sam –

Longtime fan of your site. I have been trying to figure out what to write to you for a while now (if you want to share any of this on your site please feel free to do so).

A little background: I’m a fag, 40 years old, former fraternity guy and athlete. I’ve been married to my Alpha military husband (Army Alpha) for 10 years.

Our relationship in brief: I’m obviously a total bottom, I’m into a lot of kinks and some kinda extreme stuff. I’ve experienced a few rapes over my lifetime, and it’s a big part of my desire to serve. I also tend to seek situations where I put myself at risk of that happening and recreating what I’ve gone through. My favorite experiences of service have been for sadistic, Destroyer Alphas (if those details are of interest I can share my experiences). I’m a masochistic fag and like to know that my pain brings pleasure for an Alpha.

My Alpha husband (I’d say he is in the Protector Alpha category) understands this and has been open to exploring some of these desires of mine but also says he loves me and couldn’t take it as far as I want. He is a total top, but is more vanilla sexually. I obviously don’t pressure or force him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with, but it has impacted our sex lives. He usually only uses my mouth and not my fag hole because of his size (8-8.5 inches and extremely thick). Although I am a total bottom and have taken many Alpha cocks, and I stretch myself frequently, I remain very tight – to the point that sometimes he says it’s too tight for him to fuck me and doesn’t feel good on him. I’ve told him he can force it into me, begged him to, but when I start to show I’m in pain it turns him off.

We’re fully open, he fucks other fags and likes to hear about me getting fucked by other guys. We rarely have threesomes for many reasons (mostly irrelevant but can share if you want to know). But I’ve heard a really hard time recently finding any other true Alphas that would be willing to fuck me hard and wreck my fag hole. He says if I have that done he thinks I’d be loser for him.

For the next year we are long distance (because of a deployment for him) but I’ll be able to visit him for a month or two every few months. I’ve been looking EVERYWHERE for an Alpha to own me while he’s gone (Grindr, X, BDSMLR, Reddit, etc) but have been unsuccessful.

My questions for you:

1. Where can I find an Alpha? Most guys I talk to are only seeking virtual roleplay, or are too far away to ever meet, or want a young fag (at 40 I’m still very conscious about my looks and body and make sure I stay attractive for Alphas). I’m mostly attracted to straight Alphas (all my friends are straight and they are 100% in the Alpha category). I’ve tried to show them I’d serve them but it’s never worked (a few brief moments with teammates or frat brothers or childhood friends but never long term).

2. I don’t want to pressure my Alpha husband into things and know it isn’t my place, but when he fucks other fags he is very rough and aggressive so I know he has that side to him as well. Is there a way I could respectfully encourage him to do the same to me? He recently told me about a fag he fucked wearing his uniform, one booted foot on the fags head while he fucked him using only a little spit for lube and the fag ripped and bled. I get hard knowing he did that and wish it were me. He knows that I’d like that but says he’d never want to hurt me. But he’s hurting me by not giving me that experience and it’s now becoming an overriding focus of my life. I’ll spend days seeking it out, and now that I live alone I have fewer responsibilities to my Alpha so I will ignore friends and family and work searching for an Alpha to use me (that’s incredibly embarrassing for me to admit, and I know it isn’t healthy but its been so long since I was able to feel of use and like I’m fully serving I am obsessed with it).

Sam – can you help me please?

Respectfully,

Frat Fag Alex

Thank you for writing to me, Alex! I apologize for the delay!

I’ve encountered this weird situation a couple of times in the past, and it always leaves me baffled. Protector Alphas are amazing, but when they’re GAY Protector Alphas it can almost become a barrier. Gay Protector Alphas are too careful with their faggot partners because they’re in love with their faggot partners.

A faggot is a very specific kind of creature. Our need to be used and serve overwhelms everything else. We surrender everything to fulfill this central need; our bodies, our minds, our self-respect, and even our hopes and dreams. Even extreme pain is not a real consideration for us fags, just as long as we are pleasing our Owners. All that truly matters to us is our Alpha’s complete satisfaction. I really don’t think it’s even possible for Alphas to comprehend this about their faggots, even extremely experienced Alphas like your husband.

I get that he loves you. You are his most prized possession. But that is what’s so confounding to me about this situation – he’s loving you so much that he’s preventing you from being the most complete version of yourself. By sparing you what he thinks is pain, he’s actually causing tremendous emotional damage to you instead. I’m sure you’d agree with me that a pussy hole delightfully damaged in service will recover, but slowly suffocating to death as years tick away is the kind of damage that is hard to recover. Does your husband really think it’s okay for you to watch him use other faggots the way you desperately want to be treated?? That idea is mind-boggling to me.

It’s amazing how much better straight Alphas are with their personal faggots when it comes to this issue, and I think that’s both a shame and a mystery.

Anyway, back on point. I want to deal with the second question first, because I think the real issue is what’s happening in the marriage.

First and foremost, I want you to have your husband read your ask and my reply. It’s very important that he comprehends the depth of your desperation and sadness over this. He needs to appreciate how much long-term damage this is causing within you. He also needs to understand that giving to other fags the most intrinsic thing you desire and are denied is absolutely wrong, cruel, and unconscionable.

Secondly, whenever you both are together, I want you to try Caged Jock’s ingenious hole-stretching method using chopsticks (SEE THE VIDEO HERE). This is an activity you can do together to stretch you more and prepare you for the fuck of your life. This is the kind of “upkeep” every Master should be doing with their faggots in order to customize them for proper service.

As for your Question #1:

Submitting to your straight Alpha friends is still a possibility, but it might be only in the domestic aspect unless you get them drunk. The problem faggots have when trying to seduce their straight Alpha friends is the “friends” part. When an Alpha sees a guy as his friend (and “equal”), he’s less likely to want to use the fag. Calling them “Sir”, being complimentary, and directing the conversations to them in upbuilding ways (particularly engaging them in conversations about their Alphahood) can and often does lead to some engagement. Take a couple of these straight Alpha friends out for dinner/drinks and employ a more submissive persona, utilize what I just told you, and you might be surprised. I wonder if they even really understand what a faggot is … so it might be good to educate them. They’d also need to understand that your Owner has no issue with you serving other Alphas.

You can employ these same techniques while out alone at a bar or restaurant/bar and you see a straight Alpha alone. Offer to pay for his meal/drinks, and when he asks, just be frank as to why. Is he really going to hit a submissive male who’s buying stuff for him and calling him an Alpha? Of course not! He might not be willing to do anything, but this is a game of repetition and averages. Keep trying, and you will find success.

The apps are a mess, but apps like TheBlowers.com will absolutely get you Alpha action. Try that in a pinch.

In conclusion, I honestly think this situation with your Alpha husband can be fixed. There needs to be more open, honest communication and some experimentation to make it work.

Thank you for the long-time readership, and for reaching out to me, my brother!

Love,

sam the faggot

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Whenever people ask me how I came up with the definitions of various levels of hierarchy I get a little nervous. Yes, there are certain criteria that define each level, but some of it is my instinct honed over the course of 30 years. I can just feel out a person’s status by the details of their stories and how they express themselves and determine their status.

But some levels of hierarchy are easier to read than others. From my vantage point as a faggot, I’ve learned to spot the Alpha levels of hierarchy so well that they are as clear as daylight. That’s why I was the first (and perhaps still the only) teacher of hierarchy to really isolate these subtle Alpha layers and clearly delineate them.

The most important of these Alpha layers is the top one, which I’ve named “God Alpha”. God Alphas lead the pack, so to speak, setting the pace for everyone else and receiving the greatest rewards for their vast superiority.

Watch this incredible video narrated by straight findom Master @HoldenMastersX in which he describes his life and how he came to accept and embrace the entirety of his God Alphahood. Afterward, I will break down the deciding factors of his status:

There are quite a few God Alpha signals in this video. Let’s pick them apart:

1. Submission of other Alphas – In the video, Master Holden describes how other Alphas followed him and looked to him for guidance. He was the captain and quarterback of the football team, a very natural position for a God Alpha.

2. Claiming of the property of other Alphas – Master Holden insinuates that he could (and did) take the women from fellow Alphas and other males.

3. The submission of older people in positions of societal power – Master Holden insinuates that even school faculty let him have his way, thereby unofficially acknowledging his natural authority over them.

4. Easy claiming of females – Master Holden admits that getting whatever he wants from girls is not even a challenge because women simply surrender to him and offer themselves to him.

5. Faggots submitted to him from a very early age – This is almost always a sign of burgeoning God Alphahood, because faggots in high school are typically too scared to offer themselves unless motivated by a truly and uniquely powerful force.

6. Master Holden accepted the worship/service of faggots – This is a critical step for God Alphahood, because it reveals in the Alpha an eagerness to embrace all of hierarchy as a natural extension of his truth as a God Alpha. Any true God Alpha must understand the very nature of hierarchy and accept it.

What did you notice about Master Holden’s extraordinary description of his God Alphahood?

Hierarchy 312 – True Alpha Qualities To Worship

A true Alpha is more than the size of his dick!

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When I say that Alpha cum reprograms the minds and bodies of faggots, I mean it.

Just listen to this:

This is how it starts.

An Alpha finds a faggot and wrestles with it, trying different submission holds on it, testing out why dominating the faggot makes him feel so good.

It almost always graduates to blowjobs after this! At least, it always has with me!

Hey fag Sam. I don’t know if you’ve already covered this but I might be at my ropes end and looking for some advice.

I’m a faggot. I accept it. I live out hierarchy. However hierarchy to me is also includes big dick worship. It’s hard for me to see someone with a small or average dick as superior to me or others. I’ve served some average cocks with inflated egos but over time the urge to serve dies down on my part if they don’t keep that ego up. I can inflate it all I want to but an act is an act and I can’t help an Alpha if he’s acting.

I’m experiencing that currently. An Alpha I serve has been taking pictures of himself and his cock but never a full body one. Never one connected to his face. Recently he sent a photo and I can tell his dick is average or even my size.

Its a pattern I’ve been noticing of average dicked Alphas vs big dicked Alphas. A big dick Alpha won’t be afraid to show off their body, their cock, all of themselves to show their hierarchy status, no matter what they look like. However average dicked Alphas will hide or play camera tricks to give the illusion of a big cock. Its becoming self evident to me that if an Alpha has to lie about his cock, that’s not an Alpha. I know there can be different circumstances where they are average and Alpha, but insecurity to the point of fabrication doesn’t sit well with me.

The Alpha I serve has been on the life for over 20+ years. He can be very alluring but then sends cock pics and it just breaks the vibe/scene. Am I a bad faggot or am I not listening to my instincts? Thank you for your time.

Thank you for writing, my brother!

This issue is an ongoing one on this site and across my social media. As a faggot who has never focused on dick size as a defining Alpha characteristic, I think I’ve made my position clear enough.

However, I DO understand your frustration regarding Alphas and dick size.

Yes, huge, heavy dicks owned by aggressive, dominant Men are quite breathtaking and cause immediate awe and submission in most people, but especially faggots. There’s no argument here.

But I just don’t believe we can judge a Man’s Alphahood based on physical characteristics he can’t control. So much of what makes a Man an Alpha comes from what is inside him that pinning the essence of a Man on a genetic lottery at birth seems random and wrong.

This is why I’m more prone to question the Alphahood of a fat slob. Would any true Alpha not care about the physical attributes he CAN control? How can a Man simply dismiss the way his physicality reflects his Alphahood?

But here’s the part of your question I really agree with completely: no Man can be an Alpha if he’s misrepresenting himself or creating a fake persona online. There’s simply no way to accept such a person as Alpha, and every faggot should reject them completely. Not only is such behavior NOT Alpha, but it’s also NOT MANLY OR RESPECTABLE.

As a side note, I’d like to reiterate that this is why I don’t search for Masters online. If I encounter an Alpha I want to serve in real life, then I make my move. That way, I see his Alphahood in action socially and KNOW FOR SURE what he is … making his penis size a secondary or nonexistent issue. You see how that works?

So you don’t need to feel bad about rejecting some of these insecure pretenders bothering you. It doesn’t make you a bad fag, brother … but rather, a wise one!

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Notice how these two obvious Alphas use their words and commands to brainwash this defenseless faggot! Having the fag repeat “I’m nothing but a hole” or “I’m your hole” is a terrific way to force it to admit it purpose and accept it!

Before social media and the broader internet, Alphas were simply genetically-superior Men with finely-sculpted bodies, razor-sharp intellects, or indomitable wills that led armies and bred thousands.

Sadly, social media is rapidly diluting our stock of true Alphas, replacing these superior Men with dumb, navel-gazing Instagram models who measure their so-called Alphahood by their follows, likes, and retweets.

Alphahood is no longer a calling … it’s a brand.

Sadly, this degeneration of the Alpha in our society has merged (inevitably, I suppose) with the rise of dickless, INCEL-like narcissists plaguing social media with hateful rhetoric and amplified aesthetics masquerading as Alpha. Guys like Andrew Tate and, most recently, some test tube robot named “Clavicular” have spearheaded this (bowel) movement.

Clavicular is particularly problematic. He came out of nowhere, his claim to “fame” being some extreme body-modification shit called “looksmaxxing”. In theory, Clavicular beat on the bones of his face with a hammer to accentuate his cheekbones, etc. (too bad he didn’t use the claw end). He’s also known to take lots of peptides and other formulations to boost testosterone and transform him into an ultimate male.

Sadly, hammers and peptides can’t fix a lack of personality.

Here are a few clips of the awkward, autistic bastard interacting with other worthless social media garbage like an alien life form newly hatched from a pod.

There is nothing appealing about this socially-awkward wannabe. He’s arrogant for no reason, having not accomplishing a single damned thing in life except getting attention on Kick for hitting himself in the face with a hammer. THINK ABOUT THAT.

Clavicular was recently on the podcast of another social media cancer, Jake Paul. Now, some might make the point that Paul is Alpha (I might even begrudgingly agree), but watch this excruciating moment when Paul asks Clavicular to rank him on “masculinity” or “hotness” or whatever:

Clavicular says Paul is a “6.5” out of 10, and Paul looks crushed! WHAT THE FUCK?!? No true Alpha would give ANY fucks what RealDoll Clavicular thinks about them, especially not one as wealthy as Paul!

And that’s certainly true once Clavicular reveals how he’s trying to “looksmaxx” his tiny penis by pulling on it constantly:

HAHA what a fucking joke!

Ultimately, Clavicular’s influence will be short-lived, as will most of the other bad actors in this most recent affront to hierarchical order and true Alphahood. The angry, violent ones (like Tate or ChudTheBuilder) will end up in prison, and Clavicular is simply too boring to last.

But my concern is with all of the young Alphas out there watching these examples getting way too much attention and thinking that’s how they should act.

Honestly, this site and its message can only do so much to help Alphas. It’s really incumbent upon true Alphas everywhere to mentor the next generation, teaching them values that define true leaders of lesser Men.

I only hope it happens before true Alphahood is lost!””

“You’re making Daddy feel good!”

God Alpha @itslynnox understands this critical difference between faggots and others: for a faggot, all that matters is the pleasure it gives the Alpha.

So when our Alpha says things like that to us, we feel fulfilled!

Watch and listen how God Alpha @evanpitcher uses this faggot.

Straight Alphas often adopt a “prison mentality” when they start using faggots. It’s something I experienced while in prison. It comes out with fags because straight Alphas are eager to completely differentiate themselves from fags, thereby distinguishing any sex acts as purely acts of aggression rather than sexual lust.

In prison, Alphas adopt this mentality most of the time (and not just during sex) for the same reason. It helps to further define hierarchy in close-quarters situations.

Young straight frat Alphas need faggot cocksuckers to keep their balls emptied and their dominance fueled and focused.

Females simply can’t keep up with the needs of young Alphas, nor do they worship properly.

College Alphas who own/use faggots just do better!

This is what total acceptance of purpose looks like!

In the end, faggots are simply service animals born to please Alpha cocks and Alpha needs.

Embracing that allows a faggot to forget itself and fully submit!

Here’s Master @DorianKrossXXX patiently training his faggot to handle getting throat fucked.

Good Masters understand that their patience will lead to long-lasting quality service!

“Don’t play with yourself. Tonight you only have one sex organ and I’m fucking it!”

FINALLY an Alpha demands that his faqqot stop touching itself!

I can’t understand why Men allow faqqots to play with themselves in their presence!

It’s disrespectful!

Watch the above video. See the reaction of both females and males as he enters and walks through the cafe?

Ask any Alpha, and he will tell you he sees that reaction from females and faggots everywhere he goes.

Mysteriously, guys often dismiss the idea of Alphahood today. I’ve been running a little experiment on TikTok live where I enter these live spaces of Alphas and ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. The vast majority deny it, with some even calling it “gay” and brush it off.

But here’s the thing: the natural human reaction to the presence of an Alpha is immediate and undeniable. You can put on a front and try to run away from the question, but in the moment the truth is known.

Alphahood is most certainly real.

Rather than living in denial, it would be better to learn more about it, cultivate it, and discover how to harness that raw power!

It scares me that Men are denying Alphahood as more and more males shrink back behind screens and video games and become less engaged in life. Alphas need to ascend and lead, not disappear behind a façade of detached coolness. The world is at risk without true Alphas to lead it.

So Alphas, unite! By denying your birthright and purpose, you leave civilization at the mercy of bad actors.

Nature gave you a gift. A commission. A purpose.

Use it!

These frat Alphas cheering each other on as they rape these fags is quite primal and demonstrate how Men push each other into deeper acts of aggression.

Look at the way this Alpha pounds his faggot. This is the way Alphas are supposed to fuck, selfishly and with purpose!

Collaring faggots isn’t something that comes up often here on the site. I remember covering straight Masters Nick and Matt when they collared their faggots back in the days of FWA. More recently, Master Anthony collared his special faggot Fabien with a pendant that read “Anthony” to clearly mark Fabien as his property. It’s simply not something that is done as often as you’d think.

Whenever a Master asks me about presenting a faggot with either a chastity cage or a collar, I always advise them to turn it into a ceremony. Make it a special, solemn moment between a Man and his faggot. These are, after all, the “wedding rings” of hierarchy. Masters Nick and Matt loved to make caging and collaring their faggots into a day-long event that led up to the moment when they were locked in place. I loved that so much, and so did their faggots!

The subject of collaring came up on the Hierarchy University Discord (JOIN NOW) recently, and one of the older Alphas on the server, a wise, no-nonsense Alpha named Master V, chimed in with some terrific information that I wanted to share.

To set it up, a faggot named @joshfaglondon asked: “Just wondering if anyone has had, or been to, a formalized collaring ceremony? As a worshipful faggot who dreams about being a full-time boy wife, I fantasize a lot about professing my love and loyalty, making lasting promises, and handing over my rights to Sir in front of a supportive congregation. Do these events really happen? Do any Alphas share this fantasy, or is it just wannabe fagbrides like me?”

Here’s what Master V said in response:

Yes, they happen. They are a semi-formal affair, considering the topic. It’s not really a wedding ceremony thing where you declare vows and some Entity standing between you now declares you connected. It’s more intimate, or inter-personal, where the dominant and the submissive acknowledge the collar and commitment between themselves in front of a couple witnesses.

There can also be the confusing situation where this same process is split in to two or three parts/stages and goes deeper into the formalities and protocols. (Think of “the old days” when you started with the courtship, then ask dad for permission followed by the engagement, and finally the wedding.)

To make it even more confusing the order they happen can be reversed.

Basically you have the ‘collaring’ ceremony, and a ‘signing’ ceremony. (Usually in that order. And if 3 staged, the middle one a mix of the two.)

The collar represents the bonding ring .. In the first, more common usage, it is the wedding ring. Once it’s on , you’re part and parcel with the owner’s household.

In the split format, you get the probationary collar. (Or household collar or temp…or whatever collar. [It comes with an adjective.]) Think of that like an engagement ring. And to make matters even more confusing, this might be the promissory ring if you live in separate towns for example. Until one moves to the other’s town, then it might work up to be an engagement.

Then there’s the signing ceremony — this is that indenture contract, the BDSM or Slave contract you hear about. This ceremony is the one with the more formal pomp and circumstance, for good reason. That document is the prenup, the wedding vows, the license and certificate all rolled into one. Treat it with that respect and be serious with the terms.

And for the collars themselves… Each ceremony may come with a new collar… or maybe the first is the one you’ll always wear….. with adjustments.

Ever noticed how some are small thin things with one ring, while others are heavy things with rings all around and usually come with some specialized locking mechanism? There’s your different levels of the collaring ceremony on full display.

** for some of you, you’re not going to be able to see your elders in the same light here…

That small thin, no rings collar used to be called a choker. A tight leather ribbon necklace. Back before the 70s that was free and unowned, but looking to settle down. In the late 60s it became a fashion statement, much like how the leather jacket went from something you earned to something you bought at Walmart.

Then you have the more sturdy, buckled collar – usually with a single D-ring on the front. There’s that promissory collar. Sometimes you’ll even here of a Notice of Intent being put out by the dominant, which is basically a formal notice to other dominants you’re looking at – or courting – this submissive, so hands off. (Just remember, it also lets those others know to report issues they may see or know of to him as well.)

This is followed by the more heavy leather collar versions, with an odd number of rings. Still buckled, but maybe able to take a paddle lock to show more permanence, to represent that engagement. If the dominant puts out a Letter of Intent here, it may come with terms for the submissive like a “starter” contract which would require the submissive to agree and sign. At this point, whether living in the dominant’s home or not, you are to be his and his alone.

And finally comes the signing ceremony. That pseudo-formal contract protocol. The wedding, where your collar stops being symbolic. The buckles might be removed and it riveted on. Or maybe the leather band is replaced for a solid metal one. Or the chain collar went from a small key lock, to a medium combo lock, to now welded closed.

I must admit there was a lot here I’d never heard expressed in such linear terms before, but much of it makes sense. These sequential steps Master V outlines here really highlights the layers of depth that exists in the Master/faggot dynamic!

I do wonder why Alphas have gotten away from collaring their faggots. Part of me thinks it has to do with the new freedom gays enjoy in the Western world, where many feel collaring faggots “dehumanizes” them.

But every faggot I’ve ever known who has been collared was deeply moved by the experience and cherish their collar. So the act and ceremony of collaring isn’t dehumanizing, but rather empowering. Wearing it honors both the faggot and its Owner. It’s something deserving of ceremony and celebration!

I thank Master V for describing these traditional collaring ceremonies, acts that deepen the commitment between Masters and their faggots and emphasize the purpose of each!

A true Alpha sees lesser males for what they are, either betas or faggots, and then takes what he wants from them.

Even their wife or girlfriend.

The inferior can only watch with respectful awe at the Alpha’s confident power!