Questions From Readers
Hi, my name is Jorge, and I wanted to ask you something about hierarchy.
I am 40, have always been dominant, but finding your site gave me language to understand what I am. Thanks for that. After reading some of the posts here, I understand that I am a protector Alpha. I have been using fags for more than 20 years now, since high school, today I am happily married to a very submissive 31 year-old guy, and now I understand that he is my faggot. He cooks and cleans for me, and I make sure to breed him many times a week.
But enough about me. I really wanna know your opinion about something else. I am a college professor, and I teach multiple first-year classes every year, which means that I am constantly dealing with 18 and 19-year-old young men recently arrived from high school. I don’t know how old you are, Sam, but when I was in college in the early 2000s, there were only two possible outcomes for when a faggot entered college: the Alphas would fuck the fag (as I did), or the Alphas would bully him (as sadly many guys used to do). Nowadays, however, I have seen a very different dynamic in this younger generation. Many straight Alphas treat the fags with a lot of respect, really taking care of them. I don’t know if they fuck the fags in their parties when their girlfriends are not around. They probably do, but that’s not the point. What I mean is that there seem to be a whole generation of Alphas who understand their role and responsibility. I constantly see straight guys from the soccer team, in a context that has everything to be hyper masculine and homophobic, writing supportive comments in the posts of some faggots and femboys. Last semester we had a student (a very delicate and feminine gay) who broke his leg and wore a cast for months, and I saw straight students with Alpha energy helping him to go upstairs countless times, there were four or five guys, all of them straight and hypermasculine, who basically adopted the fag while he was recovering.
Do you think something is changing? Do you have the same impression that Alphas born from 2006 on tend to respect fags much more than 20 or 30 years ago? I mean, Alphas have used fags since the beginning of times, but I think that straight Alphas are more and more aware of how to take of the weak, even if they don’t use the fags sexually.
Master Jorge, thank you for writing to me!
First of all, I’m so glad you found this site and discovered the words and meanings behind your natural behaviors throughout your life! It’s always amazing to meet Alphas like you who just acted naturally and did what instinct told them to do without any influence, yet you epitomize Alphahood in its purest form! Thank you for sharing those details about your life, Master!
I love that you are in the PERFECT place to really witness the hierarchical changes in both Alphas and faggots (and their interactions) at that age! And you’re an intelligent Alpha, so you can really see it clearly and even address it!
I absolutely agree that there has been a sea-change in how Alphas and faggots interact these days. It’s essentially due to the internet and the proliferation of truth. I’ve always lived by a saying I made up years ago: “Where there is more knowledge, there is less hate.” The fact that particularly straight Alphas have access to knowledge about the truth of homosexuality and the vital resource fags can be has changed everything. This understanding has come not just from the internet, but also the large number of TV shows and movies demonstrating how hot gay romance can be. And let’s not forget about hierarchical porn, which has finally broken from the reciprocal-sex bullshit that studio porn forced on everyone for decades. Amateur porn has shown that Alphas exist and they roughly use faggots, even abusively. It’s a realistic portrait of what the hierarchical dynamic looks like, and Men are finding it incredibly hot!
And while I’m at it, I’ll give a shout-out to findom as well. There’s no doubt that many young straight Alphas have been come to know hierarchy through findom, and once they experience the high of being tributed vast sums of money simply for being superior, they are addicted. Many straight Alphas jack off to their faggots worshiping them!
For young straight Alphas in many parts of the world, the ownership of a faggot is like a status symbol. It shows off an Alpha’s power and lordship. But even more than that, I think straight Alphas now realize that they are entitled to whatever kinds of pleasures or forms of worship offered to them. They want an unlimited kingdom serving them!
Just like you, Master, my site sits in the confluence of all of these tidal forces that are changing Alphas and faggots. I see the same effects that you do, Master. Honestly, when I first started this site in 2015, one of my stated goals was to get more straight Alphas to see the hierarchical truth about their own existence and everything that is available to them by owning/using faggots. I am not claiming I’ve been that agent of such a massive perspective shift, but there’s no doubt my site has been a meditation spot on the road to that understanding. In the end, I think I’ve exceeded my stated goal.
In fact, it’s a joyful miracle that, 11 years later, you were able to come here and learn more about yourself and your faggot partner and that I was able to meet such an incredible Alpha as you, Master! Thank you very much for writing to me! Hopefully you will have more to share!
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Sam, this post and your response brings forward something that I’ve been pondering for the past few months regarding Findom. (Sorry, it appears this turned into an essay.)
Yes, many of the findoms we see aren’t doms, and of course all of them are doing it for the money, but nowadays many of these Findoms are launching their sites the day they turn 18. That means there are many 17, 16, and 15 year old teens who are learning about, and thinking about hierarchy and their place in it – and of course how hierarchy can be used to fill their wallets. I’m not naive.
After we exclude the findoms who aren’t dom, this is both a hopeful and sad thought. Hopeful, in that many teen boys are understanding that they are dominant, and may seriously look to exploit faggots in their real lives, and sad, in that there are probably far more dominant boys who believe that the rules of equality limit their right to exploit faggots to online situations only, only for money, and only after they are older than 17. They aren’t looking at the potential faggots among their classmates who would gladly submit to them if both of them understood the most conducive process to make that happen. We could call this having a proper understanding of the Alpha-faggot courtship ritual.
I know that you have suggested the direct approach, or as an alternative, your Letter to an Alpha, but for most faggots that is much too bold for a first act. Better are your suggestions to offer to be of direct use to an Alpha where a connection of some sort may already exist. In school situations, homework fag is a great start. Car wash fag is another idea that isn’t too invasive of an Alpha’s personal space (make sure the car wash ends with the faggot saying, “Please tell me when it’s time for another wash!” Lunch buying fag is good second step, where as a more public act of dominance and submission the fag is taking the Alpha’s lunch order, paying for the lunch, and serving it to him at his table. But don’t expect to eat at the same table as the Alpha until that is offered – if ever.
I’ve often thought that within the background of this site, is a plea for a small change in behavior from our Teen Bullies and future Destroyer Alphas. Rather than just bullying and destroying faggots, Destroyer Alphas should consider toning it down and taking a quieter approach. Don’t go for the quick and easy status victory of a public humiliation of your target faggot – A “hit it” and “quit it” strategy. Instead, Alphas, and in particular Alphas with destroyer tendencies should bully faggots more privately, one-on-one, as a way to condition the faggot to become particularly deferential to their bullying Alpha. And don’t forget, many Protector Alphas, will enjoy modest bullying with direct, hands on training from time-to-time too. Alphas give orders; they don’t take them. This drawn out technique will cook the faggot frog much more slowly, and should lead to a relationship of much longer term use, which is the goal.
Sam has stated this many times if not quite this way, every faggot should understand that they are primarily a resource to be used, EVEN BY PROTECTOR ALPHAS. If they are lucky, a faggot may be used in a tangible way that includes direct, hands on service as chore fags, homework fags, meal fags, maybe even at the pinnacle, sexual service fags. Remember faggots, the privilege of serving an Alpha has to be earned.
Such an excellent comment! I think I’d like to use it in a post!