The following post is part of a series chronicling the life of a beta male named Quinn who was manipulated by his Father-in-law, a fat former frat brother named “Big Tony”. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
There are a lot of difficult, troubling stories involving abuse, confusion, isolation, and despair in Hierarchy. This is natural, I suppose, given the unsympathetic power plays, selfishness, and delusion involved in such sloppy human interactions. I hate when I see lifetimes of damages caused by bad actors and decisions made without truth, honesty, or perspective.
I received such a story from a guy named Quinn. He’s a married male who was essentially manipulated and “seduced” by his wife’s father, a fat, well-hung former frat guy named Antonio (but everyone called him “Big Tony”).
The story Quinn sent me about this is so well written that I became suspicious of its origins, so I searched for references of it across the internet. However, it appears to be original. In that case, I tip my cap to Quin for crafting the story of his personal experience so well, and I apologize for being suspicious. I just don’t like to publish fiction here.
Here’s what Quinn shared with me (after the jump, because it’s long):
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older straight Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I think most faggots become apprehensive when an Alpha suggests chastity. There’s this distinct and somewhat terrifying feeling of helplessness that washes over them, as if they’re about to be tossed off a cliff and into an abyss, lost forever.
But here’s the surprise: chastity actually does the opposite. Yes, the faggot’s sex organs are tossed off a cliff, so to speak, but instead of falling into an abyss, the faggot finally learns to FLY.
Chastity is such a useful tool to get a faggot to accept its truth and more deeply experience what it was born to know: that it was never meant to be a Man, never meant to use its penis like Men, and never meant to penetrate or reproduce like Men.
Titouan is a faggot who was definitely born a faggot and embraced that purpose from a young age. Chastity is a natural progression for him. Until now, Titouan hasn’t really been confronted by that as a permanent possibility, but now that he’s owned by a kinky, straight, married Alpha, that possibility is looking more like a reality:
Hello, I hope everything is ok on your side. Very hot in France these days. I went to pool, exciting for me as twink and young faggot, seeing other boys and men in speedos (only authorised swimwear in most french pools). Just moments of humiliation when some other boys have big bulges in their speedos and luv the girls to look at them, I have not the same and some call me petite bite (tiny dick) and make fun, but true they are in a different category and I admire them.
Fortunately my Alpha straight Daddy just sent me a message, he wants me tomorrow afternoon in his secret second apartment in Paris. I must bring the chastity cage he made me buy, he writes “demain je la fixe” which means tomorrow he’s going to lock it on my little dick. I suppose he may keep the key when he will send me back home. I know it won’t be seen under the boyish white briefs (as on the above title picture) I must wear, means no pb if my sisters at home or other boys in sport lockerroom see me in underwear (except they laugh at my whities but this not new).
My Alpha Daddy told me it’s fair rule a young faggot like me has to wear chastity and feel humiliation and frustration, pleasure being reserved for real men. I know he is right, big frustration yes, very jealous of other boys, but at same time I luv to feel so much his superiority as Alpha straight and mature Male, and my place as twink who has to serve superior men like him.
He also sends me other videos showing my duties , I luv them as I must do the same, do you think they are good examples ?
Here is the video Titouan’s Master sent him:
You can hear Titouan’s nervousness in his message, and I get it. But ultimately, the humiliation he already feels wearing his tighty-whiteys and his little boy pee-pee around other guys can’t be any worse by wearing a cage. In fact, I think Titouan wearing a chastity cage will only make straight males that see it better understand his purpose and use him more. There have been plenty of experiences just like that documented on this site.
So I encourage Titouan to be proud of his Master putting him in permanent chastity, and use it to his advantage. There’s so much education Titouan can provide these other straight Men and Alphas who are curious about why he wears his cage, and what it means to be a faggot!
It appears that @masterdiaz69 is no longer on X. I just now found him on your site and was hoping to reach out to him to see if I could be of service to him. I’m a senior faggot and it looks like that’s what he likes to use and I also happen to be in Orlando where I see his videos are filmed. Do you have any idea how a faggot could reach out to him to offer up their services??? Thank you in advance. Hope to hear from you.
Thanks for writing!
I honestly don’t know what happened to him, brother. He was a pretty extraordinary young straight Alpha, and it’s a shame to see him gone. I’m assuming he got cancelled along with a lot of similar accounts (including mine) during X’s recent round of indiscriminate axing.
I immediately returned to the platform under @Hierarchy4Ever.
I took your advice. I was being used by my alpha and he suddenly got up and said “I gotta piss” then I proceeded to kneel and suck his soft cock. No piss.
was that not clear? Another time I followed him to the bathroom and he said “I’ll stop you at piss kink” I jokingly responded “piss kink? I just like bothering you”
now what ?
Thanks for the follow-up (I guess?), although I couldn’t find the previous advice I gave you.
Frankly, I think you did the wrong thing with those to examples you provided me.
In the first example, your Alpha said he had to piss and you knelt to suck his soft cock. Is that necessarily supposed to tell him to piss in your mouth? It could simply be taken by him as you just wanting to suck his dick. Why wouldn’t you kneel and tell him you’re willing to swallow his piss?
In the second example, you turned your “offer” into a joke. You should never do that. Kneeling beside the toilet and simply saying, “Sir, may I drink your piss?” would be direct and a vastly better approach.
Your Alpha is not a mind reader, nor does he understand the depth of our need to be of service to them. He’s not your buddy … he’s your Alpha. Treat him with serious respect, but also help him understand how to better own you. That requires honest, direct communication, not games.
Yoo sam, could you tell us about your highschool years as a faggot?
I’m straight, but I imagine that, being a faggot, your experience was probably quite different. I guess you wouldn’t have joined in on the conversations about rating the best girls’ asses in class hahaha. Also you could create a section about your own life experiences
Thank you for writing, Sir!
Well, this should be fun! I don’t write a lot of autobiographical stuff on here aside from specific examples of my past as a faggot, but I’m definitely willing to share, Sir!
I grew up in the Midwest of suburban America in the 80s and 90s, the firstborn son of religious, middle-class parents. My high school was straight out of a John Hughes film, and I was a near-carbon copy of the nerdy kid played by Anthony Michael Hall in those films (particularly in SIXTEEN CANDLES). Skinny, gangly, goofy, and cute. I had a thick brown mop of feathered hair, big, brown cow eyes with long eyelashes, and embarrassing dimples. I was well-known in school for bizarrely wearing an electric-blue bomber jacket every single day for all four years of high school (we symbolically burned it at a post-graduation bonfire).
I had a very tight group of misfit friends all four years that we called “The Group”. We’d known each other since kindergarten (and I’m still friends with some of them today!), and we knew each other very well. In the social hierarchy of our high school, we were somewhere between The Burnouts on the lower levels and The Jocks on the main levels.
I was very much then like I am today; intelligent, creative, sweethearted, but also armed with a blistering streak of sarcasm that earned me the title of “King Of The Put-Downs”. This combination of qualities served me well during my Freshman year when I found myself in an elective recreational sports class with a bunch of Seniors. They found me hilarious, and I became their funny little brother … so they served as my “protector Alphas” in dangerous areas like the lunchroom. The only time they didn’t protect me was in my history class, where a bully named Matt Sprenger tormented me every day.
My friends were all typically straight white guys, and I managed to blend in perfectly with them even though I was nothing like them inside. Ever since fifth or sixth grade I knew I felt something for boys. My first “crush” happened then with a boy named George Collins. Then in junior high I sort of fell in love with a guy named Bob who looked a little like a blonde version of Albert from “Little House on the Prairie”, and that continued into high school. Ugh … Bob used to wear this form-hugging gray corduroy pants that showed off his bulge and his perfect ass. While my friends were busy talking about cheerleader tits and asses, I was chasing Bob and this cute guy named Matt.
These crushes helped me understand that I was gay, and I knew I felt submissive (as a little kid I was already manifesting an interest in macrophilia), but I didn’t know what to do with those feelings. I certainly never told my friends, nor my parents. So instead I began to date and attempt to fuck girls like my friends were doing. This started between the ages of 15-16. I lost my virginity to a white girl named Rachelle, my second girlfriend. I had a threesome with two girls one night at a party.
And I hated it. Entering a vagina with my little pee-pee felt wrong, and my body didn’t seem to even understand thrusting and other mechanical aspects of straight male fucking. I tried eating vagina, and it was absolutely revolting. All-in-all it was an embarrassing disaster. I started to think I was doomed.
Then I got a job at an Italian restaurant, and there I met a straight Alpha named Roger. He was my age and same grade, but he went to a competing high school. He was everything I wasn’t: hot, sexy, confident, muscular, and extremely popular. I fell instantly in love with him. I wanted to be with him all the time, smell his scent, and hear his laughter. He’d playfully call me “faggot” – the first time anyone ever called me that, and it was like an electric charge raced through my body every time he said it. The word felt like a siren song leading me into deeper waters.
This was, of course, the same Roger who forced me to my knees and throat fucked me with his 8+ inch cock a few months after meeting me (we had been watching some schlocky “girls in prison” movie in his mother’s basement). After that, I was his personal cocksucker for our final year of high school, and I never looked back.
So yeah, those were my years of discovery as a faggot in high school, Sir! I’m not sure my development was typical of most faggots, and I certainly handled those years with a sense of wide-eyed wonder and excitement that definitely seems atypical now that I’ve spoken to so many other fags.
EPILOGUE: Before I get the inevitable follow-up question, yes my high school friends all know I’m a faggot these days. After I disappeared from them for several years (being owned by multiple Masters), I returned and told them the truth. Then, at a class reunion, I made sure everyone in the class knew I was a faggot. Needless to say, none of them were shocked! We all had a great laugh over it!
One more thing, Sir: There is a category specifically for me and my stories. It’s all in the category “Me”.
Where can I find true alpha men? I would prefer gay but BI would be okay too.
Thanks for writing!
It’s not that hard, brother. Go wherever Men like to congregate and socialize. Gyms, bars, sporting events, parks, hardware stores (there’s a reason why Home Depot is called “Homo Depot”), etc. If you’re in school, that’s even better because they’re literally everywhere and always horny.
I am a longtime Alpha worshipper. Unfortunately I’ve never served one properly. Whilst I respect all Alphas, I am particularly turned on by Destroyer Alphas, even though I am in full awareness of the toxic nature of them.
Why are some of us wired this way? I don’t understand why I derive pleasure from watching an Alpha belittle and hurt His inferiors. I particularly find myself in awe of Alpha bullies, and I enjoy amateur videos of Destroyer Alphas making Their inferior male counterparts perform non-consensual degrading acts, like kissing their shoes.
My heart always goes out to the victims, but at the same time I’m aroused by the cruel behaviour of the Alpha. It pleases me to know He enjoyed the high of His power.
It’s very conflicting, and I can’t make sense of it. I think given the choice I’d sooner be used by a Destroyer than a Protector. But I know this would be a poor life choice.
Any thoughts?
Thank you for writing in brother!
I honestly don’t know why so many faggots are drawn to serve Destroyer Alphas, other than the fact that faggots are broken creatures much the way many women are. And like faggots, women are more often than no attracted to the “bad boy” that treats them like shit, and keeps going back even if they’re abusive. There’s something about the submissive personality that is attracted by the abuse, because in their minds abuse = power, and it’s power than turns them on.
Honestly, it’s that dynamic that probably attracts Alphas to the Destroyer mentality, too.
I experimented with Destroyer Alphas mainly during my early, slutty years because my first straight Alpha used me for a year and threw me away and then I was raped, so that caused me to have low self-esteem. I felt it’s what I “deserved” for being a faggot. Fortunately I was eventually claimed by a series of very powerful Apex and God Alphas of the Protector Alpha variety, and they taught me that I had value, and they could be dominant without being cruel. It was not easy to overcome my sense of worthlessness, but I eventually did.
And so can you, brother. You just need to know that it’s okay to walk away when you find yourself serving a Destroyer Alpha, and remember there are Protector Alphas eager to own you … if you just allow yourself the chance!
Hey fag Sam. I don’t know if you’ve already covered this but I might be at my ropes end and looking for some advice.
I’m a faggot. I accept it. I live out hierarchy. However hierarchy to me is also includes big dick worship. It’s hard for me to see someone with a small or average dick as superior to me or others. I’ve served some average cocks with inflated egos but over time the urge to serve dies down on my part if they don’t keep that ego up. I can inflate it all I want to but an act is an act and I can’t help an Alpha if he’s acting.
I’m experiencing that currently. An Alpha I serve has been taking pictures of himself and his cock but never a full body one. Never one connected to his face. Recently he sent a photo and I can tell his dick is average or even my size.
Its a pattern I’ve been noticing of average dicked Alphas vs big dicked Alphas. A big dick Alpha won’t be afraid to show off their body, their cock, all of themselves to show their hierarchy status, no matter what they look like. However average dicked Alphas will hide or play camera tricks to give the illusion of a big cock. Its becoming self evident to me that if an Alpha has to lie about his cock, that’s not an Alpha. I know there can be different circumstances where they are average and Alpha, but insecurity to the point of fabrication doesn’t sit well with me.
The Alpha I serve has been on the life for over 20+ years. He can be very alluring but then sends cock pics and it just breaks the vibe/scene. Am I a bad faggot or am I not listening to my instincts? Thank you for your time.
Thank you for writing, my brother!
This issue is an ongoing one on this site and across my social media. As a faggot who has never focused on dick size as a defining Alpha characteristic, I think I’ve made my position clear enough.
However, I DO understand your frustration regarding Alphas and dick size.
Yes, huge, heavy dicks owned by aggressive, dominant Men are quite breathtaking and cause immediate awe and submission in most people, but especially faggots. There’s no argument here.
But I just don’t believe we can judge a Man’s Alphahood based on physical characteristics he can’t control. So much of what makes a Man an Alpha comes from what is inside him that pinning the essence of a Man on a genetic lottery at birth seems random and wrong.
This is why I’m more prone to question the Alphahood of a fat slob. Would any true Alpha not care about the physical attributes he CAN control? How can a Man simply dismiss the way his physicality reflects his Alphahood?
But here’s the part of your question I really agree with completely: no Man can be an Alpha if he’s misrepresenting himself or creating a fake persona online. There’s simply no way to accept such a person as Alpha, and every faggot should reject them completely. Not only is such behavior NOT Alpha, but it’s also NOT MANLY OR RESPECTABLE.
As a side note, I’d like to reiterate that this is why I don’t search for Masters online. If I encounter an Alpha I want to serve in real life, then I make my move. That way, I see his Alphahood in action socially and KNOW FOR SURE what he is … making his penis size a secondary or nonexistent issue. You see how that works?
So you don’t need to feel bad about rejecting some of these insecure pretenders bothering you. It doesn’t make you a bad fag, brother … but rather, a wise one!
Sam, can we get more of @HoldenMastersX? Video/podcast interview? He’s incredible,….
Thanks for writing!
I love Master Holden just as much as you do, brother! He’s a totally straight Alpha, but he has no fear AT ALL of faggots or being connected to them. In fact, he claims he hates us … something I don’t really believe given the fairly close relationship he seems to have developed with his primary faggot, an older male that Master Holden toys with.
As for coming on the podcast, I’ve spoken to him about it in the past, and he waved it off. I don’t think he’s going to change his mind, but I’ll let him know you asked!
Before social media and the broader internet, Alphas were simply genetically-superior Men with finely-sculpted bodies, razor-sharp intellects, or indomitable wills that led armies and bred thousands.
Sadly, social media is rapidly diluting our stock of true Alphas, replacing these superior Men with dumb, navel-gazing Instagram models who measure their so-called Alphahood by their follows, likes, and retweets.
Alphahood is no longer a calling … it’s a brand.
Sadly, this degeneration of the Alpha in our society has merged (inevitably, I suppose) with the rise of dickless, INCEL-like narcissists plaguing social media with hateful rhetoric and amplified aesthetics masquerading as Alpha. Guys like Andrew Tate and, most recently, some test tube robot named “Clavicular” have spearheaded this (bowel) movement.
Clavicular is particularly problematic. He came out of nowhere, his claim to “fame” being some extreme body-modification shit called “looksmaxxing”. In theory, Clavicular beat on the bones of his face with a hammer to accentuate his cheekbones, etc. (too bad he didn’t use the claw end). He’s also known to take lots of peptides and other formulations to boost testosterone and transform him into an ultimate male.
Sadly, hammers and peptides can’t fix a lack of personality.
Here are a few clips of the awkward, autistic bastard interacting with other worthless social media garbage like an alien life form newly hatched from a pod.
There is nothing appealing about this socially-awkward wannabe. He’s arrogant for no reason, having not accomplishing a single damned thing in life except getting attention on Kick for hitting himself in the face with a hammer. THINK ABOUT THAT.
Clavicular was recently on the podcast of another social media cancer, Jake Paul. Now, some might make the point that Paul is Alpha (I might even begrudgingly agree), but watch this excruciating moment when Paul asks Clavicular to rank him on “masculinity” or “hotness” or whatever:
Clavicular says Paul is a “6.5” out of 10, and Paul looks crushed! WHAT THE FUCK?!? No true Alpha would give ANY fucks what RealDoll Clavicular thinks about them, especially not one as wealthy as Paul!
And that’s certainly true once Clavicular reveals how he’s trying to “looksmaxx” his tiny penis by pulling on it constantly:
HAHA what a fucking joke!
Ultimately, Clavicular’s influence will be short-lived, as will most of the other bad actors in this most recent affront to hierarchical order and true Alphahood. The angry, violent ones (like Tate or ChudTheBuilder) will end up in prison, and Clavicular is simply too boring to last.
But my concern is with all of the young Alphas out there watching these examples getting way too much attention and thinking that’s how they should act.
Honestly, this site and its message can only do so much to help Alphas. It’s really incumbent upon true Alphas everywhere to mentor the next generation, teaching them values that define true leaders of lesser Men.
I only hope it happens before true Alphahood is lost!””
Hi I think this site is perfect to what this site stands for but it isn’t easy. I’m in my 20s but seem to be attracted to these young muscular frat guys, pretty much only str8 guys thought. Any suggestions, should I become a sissy to seduce them to use me. Any approaches, apps are not my superpower as they are full of older gays, bottoms, and others fems.
*Maybe becoming a cumdump, but it’s not 100% my goal if I service horny guys that are my type,
Thank you for the question!
You can definitely serve younger Alphas! Typically, Alphas discover the service of faggots during one of two phases in their lives: ages 18-22, when they’re young and horny and only care about getting serviced/worshiped …. and in their early thirties, when they finally realize they are not meant to be tied down to one female. So you have two primary targets.
You DON’T seduce straight Alphas by dressing up as a female to fool them. That’s a great way to get your ass kicked completely in.
You seduce them by being submissive, plain-spoken about your purpose (and, alternately, theirs), and making yourself useful in some way. How that happens depends on the circumstances or level of involvement.
Go where these Alphas are. Bars, sporting events, GYMS, etc. And start making yourself useful to them.
I have a book coming that goes into greater detail entitled “How To Seduce Straight Alphas”. It’s currently on pre-order. But regardless, the above outlines the general plan.
Watch the above video. See the reaction of both females and males as he enters and walks through the cafe?
Ask any Alpha, and he will tell you he sees that reaction from females and faggots everywhere he goes.
Mysteriously, guys often dismiss the idea of Alphahood today. I’ve been running a little experiment on TikTok live where I enter these live spaces of Alphas and ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. The vast majority deny it, with some even calling it “gay” and brush it off.
But here’s the thing: the natural human reaction to the presence of an Alpha is immediate and undeniable. You can put on a front and try to run away from the question, but in the moment the truth is known.
Alphahood is most certainly real.
Rather than living in denial, it would be better to learn more about it, cultivate it, and discover how to harness that raw power!
It scares me that Men are denying Alphahood as more and more males shrink back behind screens and video games and become less engaged in life. Alphas need to ascend and lead, not disappear behind a façade of detached coolness. The world is at risk without true Alphas to lead it.
So Alphas, unite! By denying your birthright and purpose, you leave civilization at the mercy of bad actors.
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Many younger faggots have Daddy complexes (which older Alphas are quite grateful for!) for whatever reason. It’s common, and I think a lot of these faggots tend to be better disciplined and devoted fags. They really embrace the truth of hierarchy and their place in it as embodied by older, stronger Alphas.
Ever since I first met Titouan he’s had a predilection to serve older straight Alphas. He’s always been very obedient to all Alphas, but these straight Alphas in particular responded to Titouan’s gentle obedience.
He’s currently owned by a straight Alpha, and it seems to be a more involved Master/fag relationship than any he’s had before. Titouan gave me a little update on his service relationship:
Hi from Titouan french boy. As I told you, for a few weeks I am the young fag of a straight Daddy who loves twinks like me. He wants to keep it secret to preserve his family man image, makes me come not to his main apartment but in a smaller one he has in another area of Paris. I feel it’s really my place to serve such a straight Alpha. Few days ago he shows me a video, says he wants to do same way as the Daddy and the boy in this video.
Well yesterday we did the same, had to wait for him on my knees, he arrived, undressed, then some little slaps, calling me jeune pédale (young faggot) and petit suceur (little cocksucker). He has such a big bulge in his manly underwear, I feel so inferior with my small dick he laughs at, he loves and I love how much this shows and makes feel the hierarchy. He made me worship his cock and lick his balls, not authorised to touch me. At moment as in the video he ordered me to lick his ass, he loved it so much, then again suck until he came on my tongue. Ordered me to swallow, then had to say Merci Monsieur (thank you Sir). I know next time I must bring chastity cage and he’ll want us to do more. This week I loved the way he used my mouth and tongue to get the maximum pleasure he deserves as Alpha straight Man.
I feel such a twink/Daddy relationship is what I need and is so good for both, hope you agree. And oh yes I feel I should buy some gift for my Alpha Daddy… He demands that as twink and young fag I wear only boyish traditional white briefs, humiliating but seems fair and I obey, then I wonder, wouldn’t buy for him other sexy very virile underwear be a good idea?
First of all, it’s revealing that Titouan’s Master owns a second, “secret” apartment in Paris in order to use Titouan (and presumably others) away from his family. This is a very common trait of straight Alphas who have been exposed to the use of faggots. Once they’ve used fags, they don’t typically want to stop, so a secret apartment or house is usually he answer. It just shows the lengths to which his Master will go to be serviced and worshiped, and it also shows the importance of this for Alphas in general.
As for sweet Titouan, his loyalty and desire for fulfillment in service is so admirable. He wants to find underwear for his Master so he can be as hot as possible and make him feel like even more of a Man. His desire to glorify his Master is a chief function of a faggot. We should always do this for Men, because they face a lot of challenges to their throne. Giving them such esteem and power makes them even more formidable warriors and conquerors!
Collaring faggots isn’t something that comes up often here on the site. I remember covering straight Masters Nick and Matt when they collared their faggots back in the days of FWA. More recently, Master Anthony collared his special faggot Fabien with a pendant that read “Anthony” to clearly mark Fabien as his property. It’s simply not something that is done as often as you’d think.
Whenever a Master asks me about presenting a faggot with either a chastity cage or a collar, I always advise them to turn it into a ceremony. Make it a special, solemn moment between a Man and his faggot. These are, after all, the “wedding rings” of hierarchy. Masters Nick and Matt loved to make caging and collaring their faggots into a day-long event that led up to the moment when they were locked in place. I loved that so much, and so did their faggots!
The subject of collaring came up on the Hierarchy University Discord (JOIN NOW) recently, and one of the older Alphas on the server, a wise, no-nonsense Alpha named Master V, chimed in with some terrific information that I wanted to share.
To set it up, a faggot named @joshfaglondon asked: “Just wondering if anyone has had, or been to, a formalized collaring ceremony? As a worshipful faggot who dreams about being a full-time boy wife, I fantasize a lot about professing my love and loyalty, making lasting promises, and handing over my rights to Sir in front of a supportive congregation. Do these events really happen? Do any Alphas share this fantasy, or is it just wannabe fagbrides like me?”
Here’s what Master V said in response:
Yes, they happen. They are a semi-formal affair, considering the topic. It’s not really a wedding ceremony thing where you declare vows and some Entity standing between you now declares you connected. It’s more intimate, or inter-personal, where the dominant and the submissive acknowledge the collar and commitment between themselves in front of a couple witnesses.
There can also be the confusing situation where this same process is split in to two or three parts/stages and goes deeper into the formalities and protocols. (Think of “the old days” when you started with the courtship, then ask dad for permission followed by the engagement, and finally the wedding.)
To make it even more confusing the order they happen can be reversed.
Basically you have the ‘collaring’ ceremony, and a ‘signing’ ceremony. (Usually in that order. And if 3 staged, the middle one a mix of the two.)
The collar represents the bonding ring .. In the first, more common usage, it is the wedding ring. Once it’s on , you’re part and parcel with the owner’s household.
In the split format, you get the probationary collar. (Or household collar or temp…or whatever collar. [It comes with an adjective.]) Think of that like an engagement ring. And to make matters even more confusing, this might be the promissory ring if you live in separate towns for example. Until one moves to the other’s town, then it might work up to be an engagement.
Then there’s the signing ceremony — this is that indenture contract, the BDSM or Slave contract you hear about. This ceremony is the one with the more formal pomp and circumstance, for good reason. That document is the prenup, the wedding vows, the license and certificate all rolled into one. Treat it with that respect and be serious with the terms.
And for the collars themselves… Each ceremony may come with a new collar… or maybe the first is the one you’ll always wear….. with adjustments.
Ever noticed how some are small thin things with one ring, while others are heavy things with rings all around and usually come with some specialized locking mechanism? There’s your different levels of the collaring ceremony on full display.
** for some of you, you’re not going to be able to see your elders in the same light here…
That small thin, no rings collar used to be called a choker. A tight leather ribbon necklace. Back before the 70s that was free and unowned, but looking to settle down. In the late 60s it became a fashion statement, much like how the leather jacket went from something you earned to something you bought at Walmart.
Then you have the more sturdy, buckled collar – usually with a single D-ring on the front. There’s that promissory collar. Sometimes you’ll even here of a Notice of Intent being put out by the dominant, which is basically a formal notice to other dominants you’re looking at – or courting – this submissive, so hands off. (Just remember, it also lets those others know to report issues they may see or know of to him as well.)
This is followed by the more heavy leather collar versions, with an odd number of rings. Still buckled, but maybe able to take a paddle lock to show more permanence, to represent that engagement. If the dominant puts out a Letter of Intent here, it may come with terms for the submissive like a “starter” contract which would require the submissive to agree and sign. At this point, whether living in the dominant’s home or not, you are to be his and his alone.
And finally comes the signing ceremony. That pseudo-formal contract protocol. The wedding, where your collar stops being symbolic. The buckles might be removed and it riveted on. Or maybe the leather band is replaced for a solid metal one. Or the chain collar went from a small key lock, to a medium combo lock, to now welded closed.
I must admit there was a lot here I’d never heard expressed in such linear terms before, but much of it makes sense. These sequential steps Master V outlines here really highlights the layers of depth that exists in the Master/faggot dynamic!
I do wonder why Alphas have gotten away from collaring their faggots. Part of me thinks it has to do with the new freedom gays enjoy in the Western world, where many feel collaring faggots “dehumanizes” them.
But every faggot I’ve ever known who has been collared was deeply moved by the experience and cherish their collar. So the act and ceremony of collaring isn’t dehumanizing, but rather empowering. Wearing it honors both the faggot and its Owner. It’s something deserving of ceremony and celebration!
I thank Master V for describing these traditional collaring ceremonies, acts that deepen the commitment between Masters and their faggots and emphasize the purpose of each!
The following post is part of a column written by a 40-something experienced faggot who calls himself “Mr. Fag”. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Hi Sam,
This is Mister Fag. I saw your response regarding the limp dick and just wanted to point out that a cage may not be practical for various reasons (hello, TSA!). However, a faggot should know that being limp—whether naturally or educated by a cage—is essential to understanding our biology.
I have been traveling a lot recently for business. I wanted to share a little story that occurred during one of those trips. After a full day of meetings, I decided to get a couple of drinks at the hotel bar. Curiously, the only seat available was next to a man who was clearly good-looking and whom I initially thought was straight.
Maybe it was the loneliness, or maybe the vibe, but I started making small talk. I must admit, he was charming. At our second round, he whispered, “So, tell me, are you a fag?” I felt scared for an instant, but after I said “yes,” he replied, “I knew it.” That felt safe.
Later that night, after paying for his drinks, I followed him to his room where I obeyed and let him decide how I should please him.
During the week, I met him a couple more times. I always took care of him (paid for his dinner and serviced his needs). On the last night, he told me he wanted to try ball torture because “you have no real use.” I let him do it—and yes, it is painful during and after.
I don’t want to dwell on the physical specifics, but the experience forced me to realize how vital the bridge of trust is between a fag and an alpha. In the vacuum of a hotel room, far from the social scripts of the daytime world, the hierarchy becomes a living thing that requires communication to function. Over the years, I have learned that a true fag doesn’t just obey orders; he finds his purpose in them. Yet, there is a recurring shadow: fear. It is a specific, sharp kind of fear—not necessarily of the act itself, but of the sheer, uncompromising scale of the alpha’s power. It is the vertigo one feels standing at the edge of a cliff; it’s not that the cliff is “mean,” it’s simply that its nature is absolute and yours is fragile.
And that fear is okay. In fact, it is necessary. It is the recognition of the weight of the man standing above fags. The key, I’ve found, is to communicate that feeling to the alpha. You aren’t “complaining” or “safe-wording” out of the experience; you are clarifying your position within it. You are telling him that your hesitation isn’t a sign of disrespect toward the natural order, nor is it a rejection of his nature. Rather, it is an admission that you are being moved—truly, deeply moved—by the gravity of his power. When an alpha understands that your fear is actually a form of worship, the dynamic reaches its most honest state.
Maybe I am romanticizing, but I thought it was worth sharing.
Respectfully,
Mister Fag
Well done, brother!
My first question: why do you think the Alpha at bar was not straight? Did he say he wasn’t? Straight Alphas are quite clued in to the use of fags sexually, and when they sense a wild fag in an appropriate moment, they will often make a move. In fact, the ball torture makes me think he was straighter than you imagine.
That aside, I thought this was an exceptional entry in your series, Mister Fag! Your central thesis that Alphas carry a weight that inspires respect, awe, and fear in inferiors like fags is spot-on. I’ve actually heard Alphas say how much it turns them on to see how intimidated faggots and females are in their presence!
The Alpha in the bar probably sensed your nervousness right away and read it correctly. As I’ve said many times, Alphas are extraordinary hunters and possess the ability to read their prey. They see nervous eye contact and instinctively know the person can be controlled and used by them.
But your point about how “fear is a form of worship” is particularly fascinating to me. Even when we aren’t intentionally worshiping an Alpha, our natural instinct of fearful respect is also registered as worship in the eyes of Alphas!
Again, that is why I always encourage faggots to TRY to talk to Alphas and offer service. Yes, I know it can be intimidating, but Alphas read it correctly and hierarchically.
Thank you so much for such an insightful post, brother!
I’m an asian faggot who’s new to serving alphas. I started serving this white alpha every few days who really enjoys raceplay. Some of the basic things he’ll make me do include:
Calling me a chinky fag, both during service and while texting
Write humiliating things on my body with marker
Make me verbally proclaim why white men are superior
Now I don’t accept racism, but raceplay with him has been so hot and has made me feel even less important as a faggot, that I feel like I’m better at serving him. I’m thinking of only his wants and needs. He’s told me how both asian girls and fags alike are always so submissive to white men and I just wanted to know what you think about alphas using raceplay to train faggots and why asians are so drawn to raceplay from white men. Thanks Sam!
Thank you for writing, brother!
First of all, I’m very much like you. I’m not racist at all (in fact, I pretty much trend quite anti-racist), but when black Alphas first got me into race play I found it to be exhilarating. I think that feeling comes from both the taboo nature of it, as well as the fact that those black Alphas made me do something against my natural will. I suspect it’s the same for you.
That’s also why I think race play can be an effective tool to train faggots. It forces the faggot to think of itself in relation to other degraded or dismissive minorities, and also forces the faggot to do/say despicable things to further shame it. That said, I really have a love/hate relationship with race play. It just reduces all people to stereotypes that often don’t fit at all.
As far as the attitude of Asians for race play, I probably can’t adequately answer that given I am not Asian. My guess is that Asians do tend to be submissive because of their naturally short, skinny, hairless frames and their falsely-stereotyped tiny penises. There is an insecurity bred into Asians for that reason, and race play pings those insecurities they have.
Ultimately, it’s nonsense. There’s nobody who can make Asian race play jokes around a powerful Asian God Alpha like Master Jace and live to tell about it. Sadly, we humans are broken in myriads of ways.
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I’ve been self-caged since 2021 (minus my imprisonment, obviously), and it’s wonderful. But still, if I need to become freed from the cage at any point, I can do that. I have the key.
But it’s an entirely different equation when a faggot is caged by a Master who will also be the keyholder. The faggot often (understandably) becomes anxious because it truly no longer has a choice except to obey. Locked up permanently for the foreseeable future. Can be scary, especially for younger faggots like sweet little Titouan!
Speaking of which, Titouan returns with an update about his straight, married Master and his new designs for his new faggot.
I’m Titouan french boy, in a recent relationship with a straight mature Daddy, he loves twinks like me (secretly to preserve his straight and family life) and loves a lot to use me, make me lick him everywhere, suck his big dick, offer him all my body. I feel lucky to be his young faggot with duty to serve a dominant straight male like him.
This week he says he wants me to buy a chastity cage and bring it next time, so he can fix it on me and keep the key. It already happened I had to wear one but not with him and was only for very short time. He tells me reasons why he demands this, I try to translate his words from French: says for a boy like me respect to my Alpha includes chastity rule, having not any sort of sex relationship with anybody and not being able to touch myself. And knowing his boy has chastity cage when not with him makes him sure of my strict fidelity. Of course as Alpha male he remains free and fidelity obligation is only for me as jeune pédale (young faggot). Seems a fair rule. He adds I must buy small size as I have a little boyish dick, only there to be laughed at by real men or other boys.
I understand Alpha males have unlimited right to pleasure, and at same time chastity is fair rule for faggots. I was asked if I ever had my dick sucked, I answered the truth, yes Sir it happened, last time was some weeks ago a girl wanted to suck me and did it, and yes it was great. I understand with chastity rule it’s going to be forbidden now. Big frustration yes, but I like the idea it pleases my Daddy so much. I feel the superior men and boys have right to maximum pleasure as often as they want, and I must only think of serving them. Isn’t it correct ?
This is an exciting step for Titouan in his service to his new Master! I love it when straight Alphas take ownership of a faggot and their instincts kick in to lock up their fag in chastity (among other things). It’s just so natural. Men have a drive to transform everything they own to meet their own needs, whether it’s jerry-rigging highchairs to make caring for infants easier or building a treehouse in the backyard to keep the kids occupied or adding parts to their cars to make them louder, cooler, and faster. It’s just the nature of Men, and especially Alphas.
A faggot is simply another thing they own and build to satisfy their needs.
Titouan’s Master sounds like he’s enjoying Titouan’s service enough that he wants to make modifications in Titouan so that his new faggot will be even more pleasurable! I love it!
But I really love Titouan’s submissive, willing attitude when it comes to these demands from his Master! He’s much like Fabien, Jimmy, or Giovanni in that respect! They’re all exemplary faggots who typify the proper attitude toward service at any cost … even their useless penises!
Sam, I sent you a message a month ago about my Jamaican Alpha… do u remember me??
I respectfully asked him if he could prepare my hole and he was very nice to me. He told me to buy three dildos (small, medium, and large). The biggest one had 18 cm, but his cock is 22 cm. He said that he did that on purpose because he wanted me nice and tight for him. I trained for around 10 days, following step by step what he told me. Then I went to his apartment, wearing a big plug, and I was really scared, brother. I sucked him for a long time, and when he said “I’m gonna fuck you now”, I almost tried to run away, but I remained there to fulfill my destiny. He has so much experience, it was really great to be manhandled by such an experienced Alpha. He held me with his hands positioned me on his lap and told me to go down as much as I could. I only took one third of his cock. But he was really good to me when I said I couldn’t go deeper than that. He just held my hips and banged me with the tip of his cock (which is already a lot lol). He came, bred me, and I relaxed my hole for two days before he banged me again. And what matters the most: he said that I am really good boy and he’s proud of me!
I also want to say that I read the message of the Alpha with a 5-inch girthy dick and I want to say to him: MASTER, I DON’T KNOW YOU BUT YOU ARE A LUCKY MAN!! Really, I wish my Alpha had a 5-inch dick, my life would be soooo much easier. Specially if he wants to fuck and breed virgin faggots, this cock size is just great. But that’s alright, I am a fag, and my duty is to accept whatever my Man has to me, I just wanna say that my poor virgin ass would’ve suffered so much less if my master had a dick this size. And by the way, I have just seen one cock my whole life, but 5 inches with 6 inches of girth is huge! I couldn’t be able to close my right hand holding his cock. I know you already said that my brother Sam, but I just wanted to give my opinion as a young faggot who has just been fucked and bred by a enormous cock.
I love you brother!! <3 I am happy with my Man and thanks to you I am working hard to become a better fag for him.
I’m glad that your giant-dicked Master had some mercy on you and helped you to develop your ability to please him! It really speaks to the quality of your Master as well as your true desire to be a successful faggot! An Alpha’s reaction to challenging circumstances reveals what’s in his heart, so when your Master didn’t just shove his dick into you and force you to take it all, it demonstrates a wisdom and benevolence on his part! He is definitely an Alpha worth serving!
But your dedication to training in order to please him to the best of your ability reveals what a good faggot you are, too! Your Master sees that, and that’s why he reassured you with commendation by calling you a “good boy”. He’s pleased by what he sees in you as a prized, valuable possession. He sees the desperation in your face as you struggle to please him, and that satisfies him in a way that can’t be measured in orgasms, if you understand what I mean.
I’m really proud of you, little brother! Keep up the good work! Love you!
I’ve been lurking for a few years, but I thought I’d finally send something in. The link (below) from The New York Times made me think of what you’ve been preaching: The bird Bruce overcoming his “disability” and taking his rightful place as the alpha among his fellow keas: getting to eat first, for example. No matter what, an alpha will show his true colors, I guess!
I was struck by this passage:
After enjoying a meal, Bruce permits lower-ranked males to preen his feathers and clean his bottom beak. “And when Bruce is done, he’ll give a kick or a little joust to say, ‘Right, that’s it, I’m done,’”
I know I’m certainly not an alpha, and seeing the description of even a bird’s alpha-ness aroused me.
Keep up the good work,
Tony
Thank you for writing to me!
Tony is referring to THIS ARTICLE about Bruce the parrot that appeared in The New York Times. It’s a pretty fascinating article, honestly, and it really demonstrates a truth about hierarchy that encompasses all of nature.
One thing we can say about nature, it is incredibly organized. We humans are often too arrogant or too idiotic to notice, but from the microscopic to the macroscopic, everything has order. One only has to look at the building-block constructions of RNA molecules to the tireless, scent-controlled activities of ant colonies to the graceful wheeling of distant galaxies to appreciate that harmonious order.
Hierarchy is the ultimate form of order, the First Law of all natural societies.
The story of Bruce the parrot exerting his natural Alphahood despite his disability demonstrates how ingrained these roles are in our DNA. Bruce has a brain the size of a sunflower kernel, but he still recognizes that he rules the roost – and so do the other parrot challengers to his throne (perch?).
I laughed a little when the article discusses how the other parrots groomed Bruce and served his needs until he dismissed them, much like faggots serving their Alphas or beta males attempting to curry favors from their superiors. These roles are ingrained in them, and cannot ever be changed.
But the hierarchy the story describes is more important than individual roles. It defines our society. It provides a framework for purpose, just the way a worker bee ceaselessly toils at his gifted role until he finally collapses. It’s all part of a machinery much larger and more complex than our minds – caught within its Matrix – can ever comprehend!
Thank you, Tony, for sharing such a wonderful article with me!
