Hi Sam I’m Ray, recently turned 33 and I’m not super sure where I fit on your hierarchy.  I’d like to think I’m some kind of alpha since I have more than a few fags who seem to find me and beg to be used, maybe a somewhat passive alpha if such a thing exists. Anyway I’m writing to ask about a fag I haven’t met in person yet but his messages have me a bit worried.  The fag let’s call him Dan, claims to be dl and wants to be owned and abused and have everything taken from him. I’m a bit ashamed to admit that when he said he’d give me his money I immediately said yes but again it seems to go further than that. He truly wants to be used abused as horribly as I want without any way out, a massive turn on haha so we keep talking. He seems to bring up a lot that I should own his life and that he’ll die if I say so. He’s  fixated on getting fucked up by me, taking everything he owns, then tell him to end his life.  We haven’t met yet but I’m wondering if I should cut off contact. Truthfully all of that sounded great except the part where he basically wants me to end his life.  I hold the possibility that I’m being taken for a ride with this shit but he seems serious and I want to know your thoughts and some advice.


Sir, thank you for writing to me!

First of all, you’re probably an Alpha, but what I call a “Sigma Alpha”, which are essentially lone-wolf Alphas. That’s how you sound to me, anyway. Sigma Alphas are catnip for faggots because of the air of mystery that surrounds them.

As far as the faggot goes, I will just preface this with my stated belief that this fag is just a game-player. We see it all the time in findom: stupid, fetishy faggots who are really only trying to experience their extreme fantasies by baiting Alphas. I despise these selfish faggots. They are wastes of time, and even worse, they know nothing about what it really means to be a faggot. Their game-playing insults and turns away truly serious Alphas. They literally turn my stomach.

My recommendation is to take the fag’s money and then just cut it off. If it wants to be worthless and used, then use it and toss it away … but I wouldn’t touch it or be involved in any kind of stupid death fetish.

But my other recommendation is to cut the fag off. It’s really not worth your time.

Thank you, Sir!

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