The concept of Hierarchy is often misunderstood, and the mechanics of Hierarchy are even less understood. Simply put, Hierarchy is the First Law of human society. It defines how society is structured, almost entirely based on Male power dynamics.
From the first moment one Man dominated another Man, Hierarchy has been the driving force behind all Male interactions and human achievements. Men rule the world; every bridge, skyscraper, scientific discovery, mechanical advancement, medical breakthrough, and work of art has been imagined, designed, and built by Men. Every war won and every life created – all by the power of Men.
Hierarchy celebrates the power and glory of Men, while also honoring another basic truth: Men are NOT created equal.
To illustrate my current understanding of Hierarchical levels, I created the above diagram. Here’s an explanation:
I have been divorced for over 20 years now. My wife did not really play any role in bringing up our son. She pretty much packed up and left when he was 2 years old. I have been bringing him up since then. He is in his last year of high school now. I knew early on that he is going to become feminine and I have always been very supportive. I am strict with daily routine and discipline but very much for letting him discover who he is as I myself am Bisexual. A few months back I got on grindr and I saw his profile. He has a very provocative profile and his area of interest are older guys, dads, and bears. He mentions in his profile that he loves Dad-Son roleplaying. He also wrote that he is extremely submissive – I can attest to this as he listens to everything I say, and never argues back.
Out of curiosity, I messaged him anonymously on grindr when I was at work. I was just trying to make sure he isn’t up to some unsafe shit. But soon he started making the conversation very sexual and all his fantasies are about father dominating his fag son. It seems he considers it very natural – he even said in the conversation that he sniffed my underwear. He said that he really desires to be bitch wife for his dad and replace his mom. He has these incredible slutty pictures that he sent me that turned me on.
Now I am naturally domianant. Aftere these conversations, I am feeling a sense of ownership over my son, but a sexual one. I like younger guys and my son does strangely fit my taste. I am thinking of taking it to the next level, but not sure what to do. By next level I mean I want to prepare him to actually turn his dad-son fantasy into reality. How should I go about it?
Sir, thank you very much for writing to me!
I must commend you for how well you reacted to this discovery about your only son. No doubt that many Alphas would react pretty badly and probably unintentionally harm their sons. I guess your bisexuality really helped in this situation, and I’m so glad!
Your situation is far from typical, even in the really wild and choppy waters of pure hierarchical experience. Typically, Alpha fathers of faggot sons want their sons to be taught the truth about their purpose and even find them a Master to take them for training (I’ve encountered multiple such situations). What you’re proposing is more complicated.
I had one other situation like yours, one I declined to publish on the site out of respect for the complexity of their personal situation. However, I will share the story with you now in a general way to help you understand how to move forward. The father and son in this situation were really struggling in Venezuela and in danger thanks to the war. The father wrote to me because he suspected his son was a faggot, but didn’t know what to do. Then the father managed to get a job in Brazil, so the two of them moved to Brazil and were living in some sort of community housing with other refugees. In that encampment the father met a fellow Alpha (but a gay one) who was interested in his son, so he offered his son to this Alpha to be trained. However, the Alpha tried to rape the kid, and the father severely beat the rapist Alpha up. Then the father chose instead to make his son his own faggot, and subsequently had sex with his son to cement his ownership. I haven’t heard anything from them since then.
I don’t know if that story brings you much comfort, but it serves to show you that there are other fathers faced with the same situation as you and sometimes go the route you’re considering, if for no other reason than to protect their son from harm.
I’ll tell you what I told this father: take your son and have him kneel before you. Tell him that you know what he is, but that you need to hear him admit it. Make him admit that he is a faggot. When he does, stroke his hair and tell him he’s a “good boy”. Then allow him to deeply inhale the scent of your balls and dick through your pants/underwear. Keep asking him: “What are you?” and the answer needs to be “I’m a faggot, Sir.” Commend him every time.
I think I’ll stop there and let you try that, Sir. I’m interested in knowing how your son reacts before I advise anything else. Perhaps in the moment your Alpha instincts will tell you how you should proceed. You can send him to bed to think about whether or not he wants to be your faggot, and maybe even write a little essay about why he wants you to own him. Or perhaps you might sense it’s time to let him try sucking your cock. I just want to be respectful of the development of your son while also helping you achieve certain goals in his training.
What I’ve advised you is a template I’ve used multiple times with other Alphas, and it’s been successful with new fags. I hope you will give it a shot at then come back to tell me how it went.
Thank you very much for writing, Sir! I’m hoping for the best!
We fags love worshiping straight Alphas, and we often start our journeys by watching straight porn and fantasizing about the straight Alphas in school. Here are some hot amateur sex scenes featuring straight Alphas breeding their girlfriends!
This clip has been around forever, and it never fails to turn me on.
This straight Alpha waits naked on the couch for his fag to kneel and service i him. When it’s time to feed it, he stands and forces it to swallow everything.
The following post is part of a larger thread chronicling a single mother named Sophie who is raising a blossoming 16-year-old God Alpha named Master Lucas. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
One of my favorite threads on this site since my return from exile is the extraordinary true story of Master Lucas, a straight teen Alpha who owned multiple faggots. His mother, Queen Sophie, originally wrote to me to ask what was happening with her son after she witnessed Master Lucas having his feet rubbed and worshiped by a faggot classmate.
That alone was amazing, but what really blew my mind was how my explanation affected Sophie. She instantly realized the truth of hierarchy and how it had been shaping her entire life and her choices without her knowing it. She had something of an awakening, but instead of rejecting this truth or rebelling against it (like most “modern” women do), Sophie fully embraced hierarchical truth and her place in it.
And by doing so, she really set herself free!
Sophie became determined to save herself and her submission for a true Alpha who deserved that gift, and that Alpha manifested in the form of a God Alpha named Master Raphael. And then to the shock of almost everyone except me, it turned out that Master Raphael OWNED LIVE-IN FAGGOTS!!
Master Raphael was impressed by Sophie’s rapid and complete submission, as well as her unusual acceptance of his faggots, and so he claimed her as his property. Since then, it’s been a whirlwind of dominant power fucking and deeply passionate training and romance. Sophie’s breathless accounts speak to the profound fulfillment she’s experiencing under the reign of Master Raphael’s God Alpha power.
But one thing remained: Master Raphael needed to meet Sophie’s teen Alpha Master Lucas. Well, Master Lucas returned home recently and was able to spend some time with his mother’s new King.
Here’s how it went:
My very good sam,
I’ve been meaning to write to you for weeks, but my life is so hectic that I can never find the right moment… And yet, I have much more free time, thanks to my Men’s servants, who relieve me of practically all my household chores!
Just before Lucas went back for his second year at boarding high school, he and Raphael finally met! The three of us went to a fancy restaurant and then spent the evening at Raphael’s place, where we were served by his house slave.
I was so delighted to see how well the two of them clicked, as soon as they shook hands with a firm, manly grip.! I could immediately feel their mutual respect and their desire to get to know each other. Raphael said to my son, “I was looking forward to meeting you: a young man raised by such a wonderful lady must be exceptional.” And Lucas said to her, “I don’t know you yet, but I know you make my mom happy, so I already love you.” I felt both so humble and so proud to be the connecting point between these two remarkable men: the accomplished adult and the teenager on the path to glory!
We had a wonderful evening, as you can imagine. For most of the time, I didn’t say a word; I just sat back and watched my lover and my son get to know each other, bonding, sharing their life stories, their successes, and their struggles. It was so beautiful to see Raphael so appreciative of Lucas’s youthful and conquering enthusiasm, and to see Lucas so admiring and respectful of Raphael’s wise and powerful authority.
Raphael was impressed by the kingdom Lucas is building around him and offered him plenty of advice. I remember in particular that he told him: “Don’t forget, son: true power is the kind that doesn’t even need to be displayed to be respected.” I also remember: “The wisdom that a man like you gains through experience is knowing when to be harsh and unforgiving and when to be patient and gentle with your inferiors. Don’t forget that it’s always difficult for the lesser people to accept that their destiny is to serve the likes of us. You must be without mercy toward those who forget their place, but encouraging and welcoming toward those who give their best for you, even if their best is not yet good enough.”
I can tell you that Lucas (and I!) loved hearing Raphael talk about how he was the boss at work. He explained “I’ve seen inferiors break down in tears right in front of me because I told them in a calm, stern voice that they disappointed me. And I’ve seen them practically have an orgasm just because I told them, “Job well done” and patted them on the cheek.”
When it came to girls, Raphael also gave Lucas a lot of advice, telling him that he needed to handle them differently than submissive boys, being demanding but also more sensitive and often softer. Sorry to bring myself up again, but he said “Have fun with all the girls falling at your feet. It’ll probably take you a while to find one as worthy as the one I found in your mother.”
When we finished the evening at Raphael’s place, his house slave called Lucas “Young Master” and massaged his feet. Raphael also had him serve as a footrest for the three of us while we lounged on the sofa like a little family.
Since then, Lucas has been spending his weeks at boarding school again, but he comes home some weekends, and the three of us get to see each other again! As for me, for the past two months, I’ve had nothing to do at home, since Raphael’s slave and my son’s servants take care of everything! But I spend my time serving Raphael and enjoying being with him. We go out a lot. For walks, cultural outings, and fancy dinners.
And of course, Raphael makes love to me! A lot! He made it clear to me that we do not make love, but that HE makes love TO me. And that’s more than fine to me! His cock has become one of the centers of my universe. It gives me so much pleasure, more than I ever thought possible. And you can be sure I know how to thank him properly for it, as I ought to!
Sometimes I feel like I have two personalities. The respectable woman of authority and power at work and in public life, who transforms into the submissive and lustful slut with my Master and lover. I feel this especially when the two of us are out in public. Raphael took me to a prestigious gala hosted by his company, where all eyes were on us. I could tell my Master was showing me off like a trophy, and I was thrilled and eager to do him proud. That same evening, in his bedroom, as he was taking off his suit, he told me that all his colleagues had been impressed by me, that he was proud of me, and that he was going to reward me… And let me tell you, he certainly did!
Shortly before Halloween, Raphael left again on a long business trip that I couldn’t go on with him. But I promised him I’d write to him every day to tell him I love him and send him some naughty photos! I shiver with joy every time I think of him, and I can’t wait to see him again! His body pressed against mine, his cock inside me, his deep voice whispering orders, compliments, and words of love to me… Oh my good sam! Submitting to a Man, a REAL Man, is such a amazing feeling!
I really wanted to tell you all this, my good Sam. You deserve to be updated, you who have shown me such loyalty and devotion! I hope you are happy and leading a joyful life at the feet of the great Men whom you and I respect so much!
Warm regards
Your Queen Sophie
This is such an astounding update for multiple reasons.
First of all, witness the Alpha wisdom Master Raphael shared with young Master Lucas! He mentored Master Lucas on all of the challenges Alphas face and how to properly address the needs inferiors have so that they continue to happily serve! As one straight Alpha teaching another, he carefully delineated the differences between faggots and females, how their needs are similar but not the same. And in doing so, Master Raphael conveyed verification to Master Lucas that his needs to own faggots is a natural impulse for very powerful Alphas. It’s a hierarchical need that does not need to be ignored simply because todays’ society makes it taboo. It’s actually NATURAL for Alphas to want to own faggots!
To underline that point, Master Raphael had his faggots serving them, and later, his faggots joined Master Lucas’s fags in serving! I can only imagine how Master Lucas’s pride and power grew as he shared his faggots with the God Alpha Owner of his mother!
I love how Sophie’s love of hierarchical truth has rewarded her in multiple ways. He now serves an incredibly powerful Alpha who showers her with the blessed life of a Queen … her son, already a powerful Alpha in his own right, now has a truly powerful and experienced mentor as he continues to build his own Kingdom … and for Sophie herself, a sense of peace from knowing and fulfilling her purpose!
Some readers think I’m militant in my views about hierarchy, but I’m not. I’m simply emphasizing that hierarchy is THE TRUTH and THE ONLY PATH in our world today. Knowing, embracing, and fulfilling our hierarchical purpose is the ONLY way we can ever know true satisfaction, pleasure, purpose, and peace. It’s just that simple, yet so many people dismiss this site and my message as a “fetish”. How wrong they are!
Imagine a world in which it was socially acceptable for straight and gay Alphas to own and use their faggots publicly. Imagine a world where all women readily embraced their true purpose as submissive and cooperative partners of Men! Do you see how much better that world would be??
My dear Queen Sophie’s example (also Master Josh and Ashley) points toward that better future of hierarchical acceptance! Maybe Master Lucas will take the lead in that future of acceptance, who knows?
But I’m so grateful that Queen Sophie reached out to me so long ago, and that she continues to share her story here! Thank you, Mistress!
I’m so happy about today’s election results in America! Fuck Donald Trump, fuck MAGA, fuck Elon Musk, and fuck the unwashed hillbilly dipshits supporting the worst criminal in United States history!
I got scammed by a fake alpha. He’s hot , lots of followers but he just scams you
what do we do
Thanks for writing!
If you’re asking me what YOU should do, I advise you to get out of findom. If you’re unable to distinguish real Alphahood from the rest, then you are nothing but a sitting target.
I’m not judging you, either. When I started this site in 2015, I found out about online findom and was mostly horrified by it. However, I wanted to understand it, so I experimented with a few cashmasters. One cashmaster talked a good game, and I ended up quickly tributing $1000 to him. But then I found his real pics, and he was FAR from being an Alpha. So in retaliation I dressed him down so thoroughly that he will never surface again in the scene.
So if a fag with my experience can get fooled, you won’t stand a chance.
I wish there was a way to make findom safer, and fill it with real Alphas and faggots. Alas, it’ll probably never get better.
Hey Sam, what do you make of @jockbrolifts. He’s so sweet and thankful to his followers — it’s kind of strange how innocent and young he seems but also hot. The flip side of this is all those so called alpha’s badly acting tough, saying the same stuff over and over ” fuk you faggot etc” which is eye rolling its so phony bad.
Thank you for writing!
As you may have noticed, I recently made a tribute post to this young Protector Alpha @j0ckbr0lifts who has emerged from the findom scene.
Like you said, the findom scene is quite toxic, and frankly, embarrassing. Way too many good looking straight “Alphas” are there just looking for easy cash by acting-out their misguided impressions of dominance.
But this young Alpha’s dominance is real, and his great joy is deserved. He seems to really love the worship and devotion of his faggots. I could see him owning live-in fags and reveling in their constant service to him.
Just for context, here’s a clip of him:
He’s just a pure Protector Alpha who realizes that a faggot can be made to serve through humiliation and hate, but it’s so much sweeter when they surrender themselves to him out of loving devotion.
It’s my hope to interview him on the podcast once it’s back.
Hi, I just recently moved into a new apartment, the Roomate selection is blind. I’m m22, and my Roomate is male 30~ he’s an ex military guy who’s super hot, he doesn’t seem to have any friends or anything. How can I go about serving him? Or offering myself as a faggot
Thank you for the question, brother!
Well, first of all congratulations on the perfect opportunity to serve an Alpha personally! This is a great chance to at least hone your skills, if nothing else!
You’re really in luck because he’s ex-military. Why do I say that? Because military Alphas understand and appreciate hierarchy at a primal level even deeper than other Alphas. They’ve seen hierarchy in action among the troops every day, and often they’ve even experienced the use of faggots while in the military.
You should start with simple domestic chores around your shared place, and start calling him “Sir” as well. You’d be surprised how quickly Alphas hone in on subtle acts like that. Start cooking meals for him, and if he’s doing meal prep, offer to take over that tedious duty.
Then start incorporating acts of service like making and serving him drinks when he relaxes. You could also add in car detailing.
Then comes a big one: laundry service. Offer to take care of that, and then go above and beyond by ironing everything as well.
After that, follow with more intimate forms of service like foot and/or back massage.
At this point, if he isn’t asking important questions about why you’re serving him OR claiming you as his fag, then I would question his awareness.
If he hasn’t gotten the hint by then, ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. This moves easily into a discussion of hierarchy, at which point you can reveal your true nature.
This is practically a foolproof method for attracting the attention of a live-in Alpha. Try it and let me know if it works!
Listen to the way Master @DadiGorillabull talks to his faggot as he fucks it. Sure, he’s “degrading” it, but this is something the fag needs to make it fulfill its purpose.
Let’s say this upfront: Alphas should be extremely attractive Men. After all, these Men are supposed to be our most superior examples of Manhood, and physical attractiveness is absolutely part of it.
If a guy claims to be Alpha but he looks like Paul Giamatti or Woody Allen, then you’d be right to question his claim.
Looks have more to do with Alphahood than simply as a marker of superiority; looks also can affect HOW an Alpha develops, or if he does at all.
I had a wonderful comment from a brother regarding a phrase I tossed off casually – “pretty privilege” – that illuminates some of what I’m talking about:
Your comments on this post seem like a good opportunity to comment about Alphas and “Alphas” who rest too much on their Pretty Privilege. Pretty Privilege is a real thing and yes it can be a key component of an Alpha male’s dominance, and in a visual space like the on line world, it makes Findom easy. Too easy. Especially for pretty boys who are not really Alpha, hence the “Alphas” with air quotes. If you’re only pretty and not Alpha, go do pose per view. Don’t pretend to be something you’re not.
Sam, I just saw your comment about J0ckBroLifts – and was thinking the same thing – he’s an amazing Protector Alpha, who is also having a lot of success because of his Pretty Privilege. Pretty Privilege isn’t a crime, except when it’s passed off as equaling dominance.
This reader gets the idea. Findom (in particular) is filled with “pretty” straight guys with attractive faces and toned/muscular bodies. They make plenty of money from those genetic advantages, benefiting from the “pretty privilege”.
But are they really Alpha? In many cases, I’d say “no” they aren’t. Much the same way that lifting routines might give you muscle, but not the strength of Men who work on railroads or construction, so too does the “pretty privilege” gives Men the illusion of Alphahood without any of the real-world experience of true dominance.
Alphahood isn’t about getting inferiors to fawn over Planet Fitness Instagram pics. It’s about becoming a leader, gaining respect of other Alphas through courage, loyalty, and vision. It’s about having a natural charisma seasoned like valuable leather through experience.
Dominance isn’t about how often you show your feet or how loudly you demand money. It’s about embracing the confident stillness at the center of the storm and becoming it.
The “pretty privilege” ruins potential Alphas because it doesn’t teach them anything except the surface levels of Alphahood. Like children given everything for free in life, these pretty privilege Alphas become “spoiled”, and eventually worthless.
That’s not what we need from Alphas. Pretty faces won’t lead nations of Men, shape our world, or conquer obstacles. Just imagine one of these pretty Alphas actually fighting an enemy! It’s impossible to keep from snickering at the thought.
A true Alpha isn’t a flawless sculpture, but rather is a superior Man tested in all things and was proved victorious. His steel has been tempered by flame and hammered solid by battle. When he speaks, he does so with the authority of the generations of Alphas before him.
And in his shadow, lesser males kneel and gladly submit.
They may not always be pretty, but their deserved power is beyond beautiful!