The concept of Hierarchy is often misunderstood, and the mechanics of Hierarchy are even less understood. Simply put, Hierarchy is the First Law of human society. It defines how society is structured, almost entirely based on Male power dynamics.
From the first moment one Man dominated another Man, Hierarchy has been the driving force behind all Male interactions and human achievements. Men rule the world; every bridge, skyscraper, scientific discovery, mechanical advancement, medical breakthrough, and work of art has been imagined, designed, and built by Men. Every war won and every life created – all by the power of Men.
Hierarchy celebrates the power and glory of Men, while also honoring another basic truth: Men are NOT created equal.
To illustrate my current understanding of Hierarchical levels, I created the above diagram. Here’s an explanation:
I got scammed by a fake alpha. He’s hot , lots of followers but he just scams you
what do we do
Thanks for writing!
If you’re asking me what YOU should do, I advise you to get out of findom. If you’re unable to distinguish real Alphahood from the rest, then you are nothing but a sitting target.
I’m not judging you, either. When I started this site in 2015, I found out about online findom and was mostly horrified by it. However, I wanted to understand it, so I experimented with a few cashmasters. One cashmaster talked a good game, and I ended up quickly tributing $1000 to him. But then I found his real pics, and he was FAR from being an Alpha. So in retaliation I dressed him down so thoroughly that he will never surface again in the scene.
So if a fag with my experience can get fooled, you won’t stand a chance.
I wish there was a way to make findom safer, and fill it with real Alphas and faggots. Alas, it’ll probably never get better.
Hey Sam, what do you make of @jockbrolifts. He’s so sweet and thankful to his followers — it’s kind of strange how innocent and young he seems but also hot. The flip side of this is all those so called alpha’s badly acting tough, saying the same stuff over and over ” fuk you faggot etc” which is eye rolling its so phony bad.
Thank you for writing!
As you may have noticed, I recently made a tribute post to this young Protector Alpha @j0ckbr0lifts who has emerged from the findom scene.
Like you said, the findom scene is quite toxic, and frankly, embarrassing. Way too many good looking straight “Alphas” are there just looking for easy cash by acting-out their misguided impressions of dominance.
But this young Alpha’s dominance is real, and his great joy is deserved. He seems to really love the worship and devotion of his faggots. I could see him owning live-in fags and reveling in their constant service to him.
Just for context, here’s a clip of him:
He’s just a pure Protector Alpha who realizes that a faggot can be made to serve through humiliation and hate, but it’s so much sweeter when they surrender themselves to him out of loving devotion.
It’s my hope to interview him on the podcast once it’s back.
Hi, I just recently moved into a new apartment, the Roomate selection is blind. I’m m22, and my Roomate is male 30~ he’s an ex military guy who’s super hot, he doesn’t seem to have any friends or anything. How can I go about serving him? Or offering myself as a faggot
Thank you for the question, brother!
Well, first of all congratulations on the perfect opportunity to serve an Alpha personally! This is a great chance to at least hone your skills, if nothing else!
You’re really in luck because he’s ex-military. Why do I say that? Because military Alphas understand and appreciate hierarchy at a primal level even deeper than other Alphas. They’ve seen hierarchy in action among the troops every day, and often they’ve even experienced the use of faggots while in the military.
You should start with simple domestic chores around your shared place, and start calling him “Sir” as well. You’d be surprised how quickly Alphas hone in on subtle acts like that. Start cooking meals for him, and if he’s doing meal prep, offer to take over that tedious duty.
Then start incorporating acts of service like making and serving him drinks when he relaxes. You could also add in car detailing.
Then comes a big one: laundry service. Offer to take care of that, and then go above and beyond by ironing everything as well.
After that, follow with more intimate forms of service like foot and/or back massage.
At this point, if he isn’t asking important questions about why you’re serving him OR claiming you as his fag, then I would question his awareness.
If he hasn’t gotten the hint by then, ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. This moves easily into a discussion of hierarchy, at which point you can reveal your true nature.
This is practically a foolproof method for attracting the attention of a live-in Alpha. Try it and let me know if it works!
Listen to the way Master @DadiGorillabull talks to his faggot as he fucks it. Sure, he’s “degrading” it, but this is something the fag needs to make it fulfill its purpose.
Let’s say this upfront: Alphas should be extremely attractive Men. After all, these Men are supposed to be our most superior examples of Manhood, and physical attractiveness is absolutely part of it.
If a guy claims to be Alpha but he looks like Paul Giamatti or Woody Allen, then you’d be right to question his claim.
Looks have more to do with Alphahood than simply as a marker of superiority; looks also can affect HOW an Alpha develops, or if he does at all.
I had a wonderful comment from a brother regarding a phrase I tossed off casually – “pretty privilege” – that illuminates some of what I’m talking about:
Your comments on this post seem like a good opportunity to comment about Alphas and “Alphas” who rest too much on their Pretty Privilege. Pretty Privilege is a real thing and yes it can be a key component of an Alpha male’s dominance, and in a visual space like the on line world, it makes Findom easy. Too easy. Especially for pretty boys who are not really Alpha, hence the “Alphas” with air quotes. If you’re only pretty and not Alpha, go do pose per view. Don’t pretend to be something you’re not.
Sam, I just saw your comment about J0ckBroLifts – and was thinking the same thing – he’s an amazing Protector Alpha, who is also having a lot of success because of his Pretty Privilege. Pretty Privilege isn’t a crime, except when it’s passed off as equaling dominance.
This reader gets the idea. Findom (in particular) is filled with “pretty” straight guys with attractive faces and toned/muscular bodies. They make plenty of money from those genetic advantages, benefiting from the “pretty privilege”.
But are they really Alpha? In many cases, I’d say “no” they aren’t. Much the same way that lifting routines might give you muscle, but not the strength of Men who work on railroads or construction, so too does the “pretty privilege” gives Men the illusion of Alphahood without any of the real-world experience of true dominance.
Alphahood isn’t about getting inferiors to fawn over Planet Fitness Instagram pics. It’s about becoming a leader, gaining respect of other Alphas through courage, loyalty, and vision. It’s about having a natural charisma seasoned like valuable leather through experience.
Dominance isn’t about how often you show your feet or how loudly you demand money. It’s about embracing the confident stillness at the center of the storm and becoming it.
The “pretty privilege” ruins potential Alphas because it doesn’t teach them anything except the surface levels of Alphahood. Like children given everything for free in life, these pretty privilege Alphas become “spoiled”, and eventually worthless.
That’s not what we need from Alphas. Pretty faces won’t lead nations of Men, shape our world, or conquer obstacles. Just imagine one of these pretty Alphas actually fighting an enemy! It’s impossible to keep from snickering at the thought.
A true Alpha isn’t a flawless sculpture, but rather is a superior Man tested in all things and was proved victorious. His steel has been tempered by flame and hammered solid by battle. When he speaks, he does so with the authority of the generations of Alphas before him.
And in his shadow, lesser males kneel and gladly submit.
They may not always be pretty, but their deserved power is beyond beautiful!
I love Alphas who really revel in the glories of being MEN. Alphas who intimately understand how their bodies are made for dominance; even their scented pubes are made to hypnotize inferiors.
My Alpha Master allows me to serve other Males. But He deliberately keeps the rules unclear in order for me to learn how to please Him. He just told me that my liberty should be dedicated to improve my skills and fulfill His aims. As far as I understand, His aims are to make me totally aware that my destiny as His faggot and slave is to serve and honor Him as an Alpha. I guess, that He wants me to explore submission and service to Alpha, but not to sexually satisfy other men. I think I’m not allowed to suck or be fucked by any man if He us not a dominant Alpha. I’m so scared to make a mistake and disappoint Him.
Do you think a faggot should only serve dominant Alpha? Do you think that if i suck a random man and make him happy it could be disrespectful for my Master?
Let me just finish by congratulating you for your wonderful contribution to the community and help so many faggot and Alpha to learn their place in the hierarchy.
Thanks a lot, brother
Vincent
Thank you for writing, brother, and for your encouraging words!
Your Master has given you an interesting assignment, if not a bit unusual. He’s given you few parameters to help you make decisions, which always feels like a trap. He’s definitely testing you.
Here’s the problem: faggots are programmed to serve all Men, Alpha or not. Here’s another problem: opinions often vary on which Men are Alpha, and your Master’s opinion is likely different from yours. All you can really do is try your best to fulfill this task, and if he disagrees with you then perhaps that could be a teaching moment.
But to generally answer your overarching question, I don’t think you’d be disrespecting your Master by servicing Men in a general way as long as he’s aware of it. After all, he wants you to fulfill your purpose (hence the test), and this is a big part of a faggot’s purpose.
Hi again Sam. I tried follow your advice. I was secretly sniffing my younger flatmate’s boxers and socks. I was even doing it on my knees. The smell is very repulsive to me, but it was hot and quite addictive. However, after a few times, the tension is lower. It’s over 2 days since last time and I don’t really feel like doing it again, just don’t feel the urge. Your thoughts and recommendations?
I’m sorry the scent training wasn’t positively stimulating to you. Not every faggot has the desire to sniff socks and underwear (although the vast majority do). I think you should stop doing it, obviously, and focus instead on the small acts of soft service to establish the hierarchical differences between you. We’ve discussed those already. Give that a shot instead.
I’m quite a new faggot and I’ve found that my gag reflex often gets in the way of sucking cock, and I’m wondering how I’m meant to “remove” my gag reflex. Even with some tricks that I’ve found like placing a toothbrush at the back of your mouth, hasn’t helped that much and those Men who I serve often get upset at my lack of cocksucking abilities.
What should I do to prepare my throat and train?
Thank you for the question, brother!
This is a pretty common concern/question for new faggots. I’m glad to hear that you’re trying to use a toothbrush to work on your gag reflex. However, the toothbrush is mostly just triggering your gag reflex, not really training it.
To do this, you need something more dick-like, like a carrot or, better yet, a silicone dildo around 7” in length.
The trick is to hold it as far back in your throat for as long as you can while swallowing. The swallowing causes your throat to get accustomed to the object. You will notice that as you keep doing this, you’ll be able to take more and more.
Here’s another critical thing: cocksucking is as much mental as it is physical. If you’re scared of choking, you’re more likely to choke. But if you’re absolutely hungry to swallow a dick and cum, you’ll start naturally swallowing as you’re sucking because you’re trying to get it inside you. This will take your mind off of fears and onto satisfying your hunger for dick.
I also think this video is a terrific tutorial on proper cocksucking technique. Notice the multi-directional stimulation the faggot is providing:
These are the things that helped me become a successful cocksucker. Hopefully they help you, too!
Here is Master @AlphaJockChi, a cashmaster and more dominating the X platform, getting head from one of his many faggots.
When I use the term “cashmaster”, it almost feels like a slur. There are so many fake Alphas in findom, pretty straight boys looking for easy cash. To me, they’ve always demeaned what it means to be Alpha. In fact, if you asked them to define the term, they’d probably struggle before finally saying “dominant” and then routinely flexing.
But Master @AlphaJockChi is different. First of all, he unapologetically uses fags sexually as well as cash raping them.
But he also has another attribute even sexier and more dangerous than his big dick and sexy body: he has a brain.
He thinks deeply about what it means to be Alpha, why nature commissioned him to be a leader, and how his natural power affects the world.
Notice something he said regarding his so-called “peers” in findom:
I was overwhelmed with joy to read these words from a true King like him!
So any cash fags reading this, please seek out REAL ALPHAS to submit to! Your faghood is a gift, and should be surrendered to Alphas who appreciate it!
And any Alphas reading this: ponder over Master’s words above, and how it relates to your place in hierarchy! Grow your power, but understand it as well!
Thank you Master @AlphaJockChi for today’s inspiration!
I don’t really understand the benefits of a mouth brace like this. I mean, I get that it allows the Man to fuck our throats without teeth, but lips and tongue are very important for great blowjobs, too.
Not every Alpha wants their ass played with or fingered while getting serviced, which is a shame (it leads to some intense orgasms), so every cocksucker must approach this with a respect for the Alpha’s boundaries!
