Hi Sam –

Longtime fan of your site. I have been trying to figure out what to write to you for a while now (if you want to share any of this on your site please feel free to do so).

A little background: I’m a fag, 40 years old, former fraternity guy and athlete. I’ve been married to my Alpha military husband (Army Alpha) for 10 years.

Our relationship in brief: I’m obviously a total bottom, I’m into a lot of kinks and some kinda extreme stuff. I’ve experienced a few rapes over my lifetime, and it’s a big part of my desire to serve. I also tend to seek situations where I put myself at risk of that happening and recreating what I’ve gone through. My favorite experiences of service have been for sadistic, Destroyer Alphas (if those details are of interest I can share my experiences). I’m a masochistic fag and like to know that my pain brings pleasure for an Alpha.

My Alpha husband (I’d say he is in the Protector Alpha category) understands this and has been open to exploring some of these desires of mine but also says he loves me and couldn’t take it as far as I want. He is a total top, but is more vanilla sexually. I obviously don’t pressure or force him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with, but it has impacted our sex lives. He usually only uses my mouth and not my fag hole because of his size (8-8.5 inches and extremely thick). Although I am a total bottom and have taken many Alpha cocks, and I stretch myself frequently, I remain very tight – to the point that sometimes he says it’s too tight for him to fuck me and doesn’t feel good on him. I’ve told him he can force it into me, begged him to, but when I start to show I’m in pain it turns him off.

We’re fully open, he fucks other fags and likes to hear about me getting fucked by other guys. We rarely have threesomes for many reasons (mostly irrelevant but can share if you want to know). But I’ve heard a really hard time recently finding any other true Alphas that would be willing to fuck me hard and wreck my fag hole. He says if I have that done he thinks I’d be loser for him.

For the next year we are long distance (because of a deployment for him) but I’ll be able to visit him for a month or two every few months. I’ve been looking EVERYWHERE for an Alpha to own me while he’s gone (Grindr, X, BDSMLR, Reddit, etc) but have been unsuccessful.

My questions for you:

1. Where can I find an Alpha? Most guys I talk to are only seeking virtual roleplay, or are too far away to ever meet, or want a young fag (at 40 I’m still very conscious about my looks and body and make sure I stay attractive for Alphas). I’m mostly attracted to straight Alphas (all my friends are straight and they are 100% in the Alpha category). I’ve tried to show them I’d serve them but it’s never worked (a few brief moments with teammates or frat brothers or childhood friends but never long term).

2. I don’t want to pressure my Alpha husband into things and know it isn’t my place, but when he fucks other fags he is very rough and aggressive so I know he has that side to him as well. Is there a way I could respectfully encourage him to do the same to me? He recently told me about a fag he fucked wearing his uniform, one booted foot on the fags head while he fucked him using only a little spit for lube and the fag ripped and bled. I get hard knowing he did that and wish it were me. He knows that I’d like that but says he’d never want to hurt me. But he’s hurting me by not giving me that experience and it’s now becoming an overriding focus of my life. I’ll spend days seeking it out, and now that I live alone I have fewer responsibilities to my Alpha so I will ignore friends and family and work searching for an Alpha to use me (that’s incredibly embarrassing for me to admit, and I know it isn’t healthy but its been so long since I was able to feel of use and like I’m fully serving I am obsessed with it).

Sam – can you help me please?

Respectfully,

Frat Fag Alex

Thank you for writing to me, Alex! I apologize for the delay!

I’ve encountered this weird situation a couple of times in the past, and it always leaves me baffled. Protector Alphas are amazing, but when they’re GAY Protector Alphas it can almost become a barrier. Gay Protector Alphas are too careful with their faggot partners because they’re in love with their faggot partners.

A faggot is a very specific kind of creature. Our need to be used and serve overwhelms everything else. We surrender everything to fulfill this central need; our bodies, our minds, our self-respect, and even our hopes and dreams. Even extreme pain is not a real consideration for us fags, just as long as we are pleasing our Owners. All that truly matters to us is our Alpha’s complete satisfaction. I really don’t think it’s even possible for Alphas to comprehend this about their faggots, even extremely experienced Alphas like your husband.

I get that he loves you. You are his most prized possession. But that is what’s so confounding to me about this situation – he’s loving you so much that he’s preventing you from being the most complete version of yourself. By sparing you what he thinks is pain, he’s actually causing tremendous emotional damage to you instead. I’m sure you’d agree with me that a pussy hole delightfully damaged in service will recover, but slowly suffocating to death as years tick away is the kind of damage that is hard to recover. Does your husband really think it’s okay for you to watch him use other faggots the way you desperately want to be treated?? That idea is mind-boggling to me.

It’s amazing how much better straight Alphas are with their personal faggots when it comes to this issue, and I think that’s both a shame and a mystery.

Anyway, back on point. I want to deal with the second question first, because I think the real issue is what’s happening in the marriage.

First and foremost, I want you to have your husband read your ask and my reply. It’s very important that he comprehends the depth of your desperation and sadness over this. He needs to appreciate how much long-term damage this is causing within you. He also needs to understand that giving to other fags the most intrinsic thing you desire and are denied is absolutely wrong, cruel, and unconscionable.

Secondly, whenever you both are together, I want you to try Caged Jock’s ingenious hole-stretching method using chopsticks (SEE THE VIDEO HERE). This is an activity you can do together to stretch you more and prepare you for the fuck of your life. This is the kind of “upkeep” every Master should be doing with their faggots in order to customize them for proper service.

As for your Question #1:

Submitting to your straight Alpha friends is still a possibility, but it might be only in the domestic aspect unless you get them drunk. The problem faggots have when trying to seduce their straight Alpha friends is the “friends” part. When an Alpha sees a guy as his friend (and “equal”), he’s less likely to want to use the fag. Calling them “Sir”, being complimentary, and directing the conversations to them in upbuilding ways (particularly engaging them in conversations about their Alphahood) can and often does lead to some engagement. Take a couple of these straight Alpha friends out for dinner/drinks and employ a more submissive persona, utilize what I just told you, and you might be surprised. I wonder if they even really understand what a faggot is … so it might be good to educate them. They’d also need to understand that your Owner has no issue with you serving other Alphas.

You can employ these same techniques while out alone at a bar or restaurant/bar and you see a straight Alpha alone. Offer to pay for his meal/drinks, and when he asks, just be frank as to why. Is he really going to hit a submissive male who’s buying stuff for him and calling him an Alpha? Of course not! He might not be willing to do anything, but this is a game of repetition and averages. Keep trying, and you will find success.

The apps are a mess, but apps like TheBlowers.com will absolutely get you Alpha action. Try that in a pinch.

In conclusion, I honestly think this situation with your Alpha husband can be fixed. There needs to be more open, honest communication and some experimentation to make it work.

Thank you for the long-time readership, and for reaching out to me, my brother!

Love,

sam the faggot

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

The following post is part of a thread detailing the admission and submission of a new faggot named Ben to a teen Destroyer Alpha named Grayson. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I was a little surprised to look back into the archives and find that it’s only been a little bit more than a month ago since Ben last updated me. It felt like it had been months. I guess my life has been a little too hectic!

Ben’s situation is extraordinarily frustrating because he keeps ping-ponging between two straight Masters, Master Grayson and Master Ethan. In the past, I harshly labelled Master Grayson as a Destroyer Alpha based on his rather cruel treatment of Ben as well as the Orwellian insistence on surveilling Ben’s every waking moment. On the other hand, Master Ethan seemed to be more of a Protector type, warmer and more comforting. I very much preferred that Ben stick to serving Master Ethan and leaving Master Grayson in the past.

Well, as usual with Ben, things have taken another sharp left turn:

I wanted to write again for an update so you know what’s happening and if you have any advice for me. For better or worse, I am unable to serve Ethan anymore as he has recently found a partner who he devotes his time to. I want to say I was okay with it and I listened to your advice  and stopped trying but when I found out, I made a slightly rash decision and confronted him in person why he was dating someone and in a way confessed I had feelings for him. He told me to get on my knees and crawl to him to suck him off, which I did and I thought something would happen but he simply said “you’re such an obedient boy but you’re just a hole” and “you’re just so desperate to serve me as a slave but not as a boyfriend”. After that I haven’t seen him besides the ocassional run-in but he won’t text to meet up anymore.

Since then it’s stupid but I have spiraled a bit since I didn’t really have anyone to lean on besides Grayson. He has been helpful in keeping me motivated to work out and keep going to fulfill my work and also tasks as an apartment slave. However, he has also been more brutal with me lately not sure if he’s taking advantage of me by making me cook more for him and his gf, give him more money to sustain his lifestyle, and lately even loaning me out to his friends to use as a cumdump. It feels so humiliating because with the spiral I’ve thought all I can do now is serve Grayson and that’s all my mind has been on but since he’s mostly satisfied now with a gf it feels even worse that when I give head or am a hole now it’s just for his friends not even him.

The last thing that has really cemented things has been last week Grayson allowed me to take off my chastity for the first time in over 2.5 months and told me to invite someone over to let me top for the first time in a while. I was excited to finally take off the chastity and do something but when the time came, I couldn’t perform at all and couldn’t get it up and because of the chastity the guy I was supposed to hook up with said I was too small. To make things worse Grayson was in the apartment for this as he said he wanted to show me how pathetic I had become and he ended up locking me in a smaller cage and facefucking the guy I was supposed to top in front of me. I’m ashamed to admit that watching that made me harder but I couldn’t really do anything restrained by the cage. He ended up telling me that he is now locking me in chastity forever and to always remember this day as the reason why I don’t deserve to be free.

These events have me really spiraling as I accepted I was a slave of sorts, but this has really cemented how lowly I am. I wasn’t enough to be a bf, not enough to be my master’s hole, and also not good enough to be a top anymore. I am trying to accept all this but it’s hard and I’ve been trying to win back Grayson after all this as being unable to be used by him has made me realize a lot how much I want it. It has been a lot, but I promise I am alright, it’s just good to write this out as this space has been helpful in navigating everything.

I didn’t see that coming!

First of all, what a shame that Master Ethan did that to Ben. So much for the “Protector Alpha” label! In fact, he dismissed Ben in the ugliest way possible, something Ben didn’t deserve given how faithfully he served Master Ethan.

That dismissal brought Ben back into the clutches of Master Grayson.

I can easily see why Ben ended up here. He’s a good faggot who simply wants to serve. I wish Master Grayson had even a semblance of a clue about that, because maybe then he’d appreciate what he owns. Good faggots are hard to find, and clearly Master Grayson loves owning a faggot. It seems to me he should start to value his possessions more.

But I can say that Master Grayson has some incredible natural instincts for a straight Alpha. That move he pulled with Ben, letting Ben out of his chastity cage in order to humiliate his ineffectiveness by forcing Ben to watch him do the very thing Ben couldn’t do is a brutal twist on The Nuclear Option I’ve spoken about so many times before. It actually took my breath away. You can’t find that technique in a “Alpha domination manual” or in a film. That is PURE ALPHA INSTINCT in action! I’ve experienced it, and I’ve seen so many Alphas use variations of this technique so many times that it simply cannot be coincidence. It must be something inborn into them!

We can hear Ben’s growth from that experience. He feels more submissive, more fulfilled, more resigned to his true hierarchical place.

But that doesn’t mean I don’t want something kinder for my sincere little brother!

I’m reposting this to highlight the worshipful and skillful technique of this cocksucker.

Excellent attention to detail. Good eye contact. Great use of the tongue. Nice focus on ball service.

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Many younger faggots have Daddy complexes (which older Alphas are quite grateful for!) for whatever reason. It’s common, and I think a lot of these faggots tend to be better disciplined and devoted fags. They really embrace the truth of hierarchy and their place in it as embodied by older, stronger Alphas.

Ever since I first met Titouan he’s had a predilection to serve older straight Alphas. He’s always been very obedient to all Alphas, but these straight Alphas in particular responded to Titouan’s gentle obedience.

He’s currently owned by a straight Alpha, and it seems to be a more involved Master/fag relationship than any he’s had before. Titouan gave me a little update on his service relationship:

Hi from Titouan french boy. As I told you, for a few weeks I am the young fag of a straight Daddy who loves twinks like me. He wants to keep it secret to preserve his family man image, makes me come  not to his main apartment but in a smaller one he has in another area of Paris. I feel it’s really my place to serve such a straight Alpha. Few days ago he shows me a video, says he wants to do same way as the Daddy and the boy in this video.

Well yesterday we did the same, had to wait for him on my knees,  he arrived, undressed, then some little slaps, calling me jeune pédale (young faggot) and petit suceur (little cocksucker). He has such a big bulge in his manly underwear, I feel so inferior with my small dick he laughs at, he loves and I love how much this shows and makes feel the hierarchy.  He made me worship his cock and lick his balls, not authorised to touch me. At moment as in the video he ordered me to lick his ass, he loved it so much, then again suck until he came on my tongue. Ordered me to swallow, then had to say Merci Monsieur (thank you Sir). I know next time I must bring chastity cage and he’ll want us to do more. This week I loved the way he used my mouth and tongue to get the maximum pleasure he deserves as Alpha straight Man.

I feel such a twink/Daddy relationship is what I need and is so good for both, hope you agree.  And oh yes I feel I should buy some gift for my Alpha Daddy… He demands that as twink and young fag I wear only boyish traditional white briefs, humiliating but seems fair and I obey, then I wonder, wouldn’t buy for him other sexy very virile underwear be a good idea?

First of all, it’s revealing that Titouan’s Master owns a second, “secret” apartment in Paris in order to use Titouan (and presumably others) away from his family. This is a very common trait of straight Alphas who have been exposed to the use of faggots. Once they’ve used fags, they don’t typically want to stop, so a secret apartment or house is usually he answer. It just shows the lengths to which his Master will go to be serviced and worshiped, and it also shows the importance of this for Alphas in general.

As for sweet Titouan, his loyalty and desire for fulfillment in service is so admirable. He wants to find underwear for his Master so he can be as hot as possible and make him feel like even more of a Man. His desire to glorify his Master is a chief function of a faggot. We should always do this for Men, because they face a lot of challenges to their throne. Giving them such esteem and power makes them even more formidable warriors and conquerors!

Such a good boy! I love you, Titouan!

Hierarchy 311 – Proper Fag Mentality

A proper faqqot mentality is developed before it’s needed!

SITE: https://hierarchypodcast.com/hierarchy-311-proper-fag-mentality/

SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/2TqhwaNl7kdcyZXK7YL5FV?si=1Trk3AbJTH6UWx1UVRYMrw

AMAZON: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b09c451b-5400-481c-b69e-85463cf2e84c/the-hierarchy-podcast

APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hierarchy-podcast/id1778739988/

The following post is part of a larger thread chronicling the awakening of a straight Brazilian Alpha named Vinicius who has taken ownership of his former friend and faggot Felipe while trying to raise his teenage Alpha son in hierarchical truth. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When Felipe first contacted me last year, I was excited for him find a straight Alpha to serve. This straight Alpha, a husband named Vinicius, seemed like he loved owning a faggot and was developing Felipe nicely. I was pretty astounded how insightful Master Vinicius seemed to be with his training of Felipe.

Then I got to talk to Master Vinicius personally, and my respect went off the charts.

In speaking with him, it was clear that Master Vinicius had great natural insights into the basic nature of hierarchy and the truth of faggots. It almost seemed impossible that a straight Alpha would understand and accept the worship and service of a faggot, let alone understand how to train an inexperienced fag like Felipe. It was a wonderful surprise!

It’s been a little while since I last heard from Master Vinicius, and there have been some major changes since then!

Hey, it’s master Vinicius here. How’s my adorable fag been doing lately? Long time no see… Lots to catch up to.

I’ve been very busy lately… I had a vasectomy and spent some time training my wife into becoming more submissive to me. So far it’s been working great! 

I haven’t used Felipe sexually anymore. But I hear he’s been a very good boy to Flavio, though his older son (a 20 yo guy) didn’t care too much about Felipe because of his figure. But Flavio told me all about it and asked me if I could get him into a better shape… And I think it’s fair, specially for my former friend’s health, you know? Now he’s paying me to train him and, gotta say… The fag is improving by the day. I’m very proud of him. Don’t know if the two of you have been talking lately.

As you might imagine, I was instantly concerned both about the welfare of my baby brother Felipe going to another straight Master (and his son??) AND the state of Master Vinicius’s balls after having a vasectomy (I’m as much of a cum-hungry faggot as the rest of you!). So I followed up on both of these things, and Mastere Vinicius kindly replied:

Let me answer you point by point.

No, the vasectomy doesn’t affect my cum. The juice is still the same only without my little boys swimming on it lol. When I had my kid I decided I didn’t wanna have another child. I didn’t have it done right away for the same concern you had, but once I learned it doesn’t change a thing, I decided it was the best thing to do. My wife suffers a lot with the pills and stuff. It’s a hormonal bomb that gets her moody and stressed… As a matter of fact she’s becoming more and more submissive since she stopped taking them. So it’s a win-win for me.

It’s weird you haven’t heard from Felipe. I’m having him reach out to you. By which means did you two used to talk? Was it email, Twitter…? Please, let me know.

The reason why I’m training Felipe if because I’m a personal trainer. Even if Flavio had told me he was gonna train him I wouldn’t let him do it… He knows nothing about physical training and I don’t want Felipe to get injured by a bad training routine. Plus, I’m having Felipe pay me for it, so it’s good for me anyway. And he’s not paying the same fee my other clients pay lol. Oh, and he’s not my former faggot. He’s still mine. He’s only being used by Flavio because I said it was ok for him to use his holes.

I don’t think I’m gonna use him sexually anytime soon. I mean… He took it like a champ, I told you all about it. But my wife is getting better and better. I feel more satisfied by being serviced by her in general (maybe because we live together and it’s like having someone ready to serve from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep? Idk), but I won’t rule him out completely. If one day I feel like it, when my wife goes out of town on business for exemple… Why not? I know he’s there and won’t question. He’ll be more than happy, actually. I know all I have to do is snap my fingers. But I’ve been using him in other ways actually. All of my errands and mundane tasks are done by him and he’s a great boy in this regard!

As of master Flavio’s older son… I don’t know him very well. Flavio had him with a girlfriend in highschool before he met his wife, the boy lives with his mother and comes by occasionally. I think we’ve met like 2 or 3 times. But it looks like he might be an alpha. I really can’t tell. All I know is that he went on to fuck Felipe as recommended by his dad but came back complaining that Felipe is too fat and that it turns him off. I kinda get it. Though I don’t think it should matter. Maybe he’s too young to appreciate VERY GOOD service and is too much into looks. He’s 20 yo after all.

I’m so glad that Master Vinicius’s balls and semen output turned out okay! I know how much Alphas cherish their power to cum, and as a faggot I never want to see an Alpha lose any part of that!

It’s a very interesting situation for Felipe. He’s being trained and used by Master Flavio, but also being developed physically by Master Vinicius! Felipe is sure to succeed under the care and guidance of these two straight Brazilian Alphas!

Even more interesting is how Master Flavio offered his faggot for use by his 20-year-old Alpha son! Sadly, the son found Flavio unappealing in his current condition, but bodies can be quickly improved! This idea of Alpha fathers sharing their faggots with their Alpha sons is a common behavior I’ve covered multiple times here. I find it fascinating that Alpha fathers like to share faggots with their sons this way. I liken it to a lion teaching its offspring how to hunt. Felipe is very lucky to be used this way by these powerful Men!

Master Vinicius has continued to do the right thing with his good faggot, and I cherish him for it. Protector Alphas like him are rare, especially straight Alphas who don’t need to treat a faggot as worth any investment.

But Master Vinicius is gloriously different from the rest, and I’m grateful!

Collaring faggots isn’t something that comes up often here on the site. I remember covering straight Masters Nick and Matt when they collared their faggots back in the days of FWA. More recently, Master Anthony collared his special faggot Fabien with a pendant that read “Anthony” to clearly mark Fabien as his property. It’s simply not something that is done as often as you’d think.

Whenever a Master asks me about presenting a faggot with either a chastity cage or a collar, I always advise them to turn it into a ceremony. Make it a special, solemn moment between a Man and his faggot. These are, after all, the “wedding rings” of hierarchy. Masters Nick and Matt loved to make caging and collaring their faggots into a day-long event that led up to the moment when they were locked in place. I loved that so much, and so did their faggots!

The subject of collaring came up on the Hierarchy University Discord (JOIN NOW) recently, and one of the older Alphas on the server, a wise, no-nonsense Alpha named Master V, chimed in with some terrific information that I wanted to share.

To set it up, a faggot named @joshfaglondon asked: “Just wondering if anyone has had, or been to, a formalized collaring ceremony? As a worshipful faggot who dreams about being a full-time boy wife, I fantasize a lot about professing my love and loyalty, making lasting promises, and handing over my rights to Sir in front of a supportive congregation. Do these events really happen? Do any Alphas share this fantasy, or is it just wannabe fagbrides like me?”

Here’s what Master V said in response:

Yes, they happen. They are a semi-formal affair, considering the topic. It’s not really a wedding ceremony thing where you declare vows and some Entity standing between you now declares you connected. It’s more intimate, or inter-personal, where the dominant and the submissive acknowledge the collar and commitment between themselves in front of a couple witnesses.

There can also be the confusing situation where this same process is split in to two or three parts/stages and goes deeper into the formalities and protocols. (Think of “the old days” when you started with the courtship, then ask dad for permission followed by the engagement, and finally the wedding.)

To make it even more confusing the order they happen can be reversed.

Basically you have the ‘collaring’ ceremony, and a ‘signing’ ceremony. (Usually in that order. And if 3 staged, the middle one a mix of the two.)

The collar represents the bonding ring .. In the first, more common usage, it is the wedding ring. Once it’s on , you’re part and parcel with the owner’s household.

In the split format, you get the probationary collar. (Or household collar or temp…or whatever collar. [It comes with an adjective.]) Think of that like an engagement ring. And to make matters even more confusing, this might be the promissory ring if you live in separate towns for example. Until one moves to the other’s town, then it might work up to be an engagement.

Then there’s the signing ceremony — this is that indenture contract, the BDSM or Slave contract you hear about. This ceremony is the one with the more formal pomp and circumstance, for good reason. That document is the prenup, the wedding vows, the license and certificate all rolled into one. Treat it with that respect and be serious with the terms.

And for the collars themselves… Each ceremony may come with a new collar… or maybe the first is the one you’ll always wear….. with adjustments.

Ever noticed how some are small thin things with one ring, while others are heavy things with rings all around and usually come with some specialized locking mechanism? There’s your different levels of the collaring ceremony on full display.

** for some of you, you’re not going to be able to see your elders in the same light here…

That small thin, no rings collar used to be called a choker. A tight leather ribbon necklace. Back before the 70s that was free and unowned, but looking to settle down. In the late 60s it became a fashion statement, much like how the leather jacket went from something you earned to something you bought at Walmart.

Then you have the more sturdy, buckled collar – usually with a single D-ring on the front. There’s that promissory collar. Sometimes you’ll even here of a Notice of Intent being put out by the dominant, which is basically a formal notice to other dominants you’re looking at – or courting – this submissive, so hands off. (Just remember, it also lets those others know to report issues they may see or know of to him as well.)

This is followed by the more heavy leather collar versions, with an odd number of rings. Still buckled, but maybe able to take a paddle lock to show more permanence, to represent that engagement. If the dominant puts out a Letter of Intent here, it may come with terms for the submissive like a “starter” contract which would require the submissive to agree and sign. At this point, whether living in the dominant’s home or not, you are to be his and his alone.

And finally comes the signing ceremony. That pseudo-formal contract protocol. The wedding, where your collar stops being symbolic. The buckles might be removed and it riveted on. Or maybe the leather band is replaced for a solid metal one. Or the chain collar went from a small key lock, to a medium combo lock, to now welded closed.

I must admit there was a lot here I’d never heard expressed in such linear terms before, but much of it makes sense. These sequential steps Master V outlines here really highlights the layers of depth that exists in the Master/faggot dynamic!

I do wonder why Alphas have gotten away from collaring their faggots. Part of me thinks it has to do with the new freedom gays enjoy in the Western world, where many feel collaring faggots “dehumanizes” them.

But every faggot I’ve ever known who has been collared was deeply moved by the experience and cherish their collar. So the act and ceremony of collaring isn’t dehumanizing, but rather empowering. Wearing it honors both the faggot and its Owner. It’s something deserving of ceremony and celebration!

I thank Master V for describing these traditional collaring ceremonies, acts that deepen the commitment between Masters and their faggots and emphasize the purpose of each!

The following post is part of a column written by a 40-something experienced faggot who calls himself “Mr. Fag”. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Hi Sam,

This is Mister Fag. I saw your response regarding the limp dick and just wanted to point out that a cage may not be practical for various reasons (hello, TSA!). However, a faggot should know that being limp—whether naturally or educated by a cage—is essential to understanding our biology.

I have been traveling a lot recently for business. I wanted to share a little story that occurred during one of those trips. After a full day of meetings, I decided to get a couple of drinks at the hotel bar. Curiously, the only seat available was next to a man who was clearly good-looking and whom I initially thought was straight.

Maybe it was the loneliness, or maybe the vibe, but I started making small talk. I must admit, he was charming. At our second round, he whispered, “So, tell me, are you a fag?” I felt scared for an instant, but after I said “yes,” he replied, “I knew it.” That felt safe.

Later that night, after paying for his drinks, I followed him to his room where I obeyed and let him decide how I should please him.

During the week, I met him a couple more times. I always took care of him (paid for his dinner and serviced his needs). On the last night, he told me he wanted to try ball torture because “you have no real use.” I let him do it—and yes, it is painful during and after.

I don’t want to dwell on the physical specifics, but the experience forced me to realize how vital the bridge of trust is between a fag and an alpha. In the vacuum of a hotel room, far from the social scripts of the daytime world, the hierarchy becomes a living thing that requires communication to function. Over the years, I have learned that a true fag doesn’t just obey orders; he finds his purpose in them. Yet, there is a recurring shadow: fear. It is a specific, sharp kind of fear—not necessarily of the act itself, but of the sheer, uncompromising scale of the alpha’s power. It is the vertigo one feels standing at the edge of a cliff; it’s not that the cliff is “mean,” it’s simply that its nature is absolute and yours is fragile.

And that fear is okay. In fact, it is necessary. It is the recognition of the weight of the man standing above fags. The key, I’ve found, is to communicate that feeling to the alpha. You aren’t “complaining” or “safe-wording” out of the experience; you are clarifying your position within it. You are telling him that your hesitation isn’t a sign of disrespect toward the natural order, nor is it a rejection of his nature. Rather, it is an admission that you are being moved—truly, deeply moved—by the gravity of his power. When an alpha understands that your fear is actually a form of worship, the dynamic reaches its most honest state.

Maybe I am romanticizing, but I thought it was worth sharing.

Respectfully,

Mister Fag

Well done, brother!

My first question: why do you think the Alpha at bar was not straight? Did he say he wasn’t? Straight Alphas are quite clued in to the use of fags sexually, and when they sense a wild fag in an appropriate moment, they will often make a move. In fact, the ball torture makes me think he was straighter than you imagine.

That aside, I thought this was an exceptional entry in your series, Mister Fag! Your central thesis that Alphas carry a weight that inspires respect, awe, and fear in inferiors like fags is spot-on. I’ve actually heard Alphas say how much it turns them on to see how intimidated faggots and females are in their presence!

The Alpha in the bar probably sensed your nervousness right away and read it correctly. As I’ve said many times, Alphas are extraordinary hunters and possess the ability to read their prey. They see nervous eye contact and instinctively know the person can be controlled and used by them.

But your point about how “fear is a form of worship” is particularly fascinating to me. Even when we aren’t intentionally worshiping an Alpha, our natural instinct of fearful respect is also registered as worship in the eyes of Alphas!

Again, that is why I always encourage faggots to TRY to talk to Alphas and offer service. Yes, I know it can be intimidating, but Alphas read it correctly and hierarchically.

Thank you so much for such an insightful post, brother!

~ sam the faggot

The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I’ve been self-caged since 2021 (minus my imprisonment, obviously), and it’s wonderful. But still, if I need to become freed from the cage at any point, I can do that. I have the key.

But it’s an entirely different equation when a faggot is caged by a Master who will also be the keyholder. The faggot often (understandably) becomes anxious because it truly no longer has a choice except to obey. Locked up permanently for the foreseeable future. Can be scary, especially for younger faggots like sweet little Titouan!

Speaking of which, Titouan returns with an update about his straight, married Master and his new designs for his new faggot.

I’m Titouan french boy, in a recent relationship with a straight mature Daddy, he loves twinks like me (secretly to preserve his straight and family life) and loves a lot to use me, make me lick him everywhere, suck his big dick, offer him all my body. I feel lucky to be his young faggot with duty to serve a dominant straight male like him.

This week he says he wants me to buy a chastity cage and bring it next time, so he can fix it on me and keep the key. It already happened I had to wear one but not with him and was only for very short time. He tells me reasons why he demands this, I try to translate his words from French:  says for a boy like me respect to my Alpha includes chastity rule, having not any sort of sex relationship with anybody and not being able to touch myself. And knowing his boy has chastity cage when not with him makes him sure of my strict fidelity. Of course as Alpha male he remains free and fidelity obligation is only for me as jeune pédale (young faggot). Seems a fair rule. He adds I must buy small size as I have a little boyish dick, only there to be laughed at by real men or other boys.

I understand Alpha males have unlimited right to pleasure, and at same time chastity is fair rule for faggots. I was asked if I ever had my dick sucked, I answered the truth, yes Sir it happened, last time was some weeks ago a girl wanted to suck me and did it, and yes it was great. I understand with chastity rule it’s going to be forbidden now. Big frustration yes, but I like the idea it pleases my Daddy so much. I feel the superior men and boys have right to maximum pleasure as often as they want, and I must only think of serving them. Isn’t it correct ?

This is an exciting step for Titouan in his service to his new Master! I love it when straight Alphas take ownership of a faggot and their instincts kick in to lock up their fag in chastity (among other things). It’s just so natural. Men have a drive to transform everything they own to meet their own needs, whether it’s jerry-rigging highchairs to make caring for infants easier or building a treehouse in the backyard to keep the kids occupied or adding parts to their cars to make them louder, cooler, and faster. It’s just the nature of Men, and especially Alphas.

A faggot is simply another thing they own and build to satisfy their needs.

Titouan’s Master sounds like he’s enjoying Titouan’s service enough that he wants to make modifications in Titouan so that his new faggot will be even more pleasurable! I love it!

But I really love Titouan’s submissive, willing attitude when it comes to these demands from his Master! He’s much like Fabien, Jimmy, or Giovanni in that respect! They’re all exemplary faggots who typify the proper attitude toward service at any cost … even their useless penises!

Love you, Titouan!

Sam, I sent you a message a month ago about my Jamaican Alpha… do u remember me??

I respectfully asked him if he could prepare my hole and he was very nice to me. He told me to buy three dildos (small, medium, and large). The biggest one had 18 cm, but his cock is 22 cm. He said that he did that on purpose because he wanted me nice and tight for him. I trained for around 10 days, following step by step what he told me. Then I went to his apartment, wearing a big plug, and I was really scared, brother. I sucked him for a long time, and when he said “I’m gonna fuck you now”, I almost tried to run away, but I remained there to fulfill my destiny. He has so much experience, it was really great to be manhandled by such an experienced Alpha. He held me with his hands positioned me on his lap and told me to go down as much as I could. I only took one third of his cock. But he was really good to me when I said I couldn’t go deeper than that. He just held my hips and banged me with the tip of his cock (which is already a lot lol). He came, bred me, and I relaxed my hole for two days before he banged me again. And what matters the most: he said that I am really good boy and he’s proud of me!

I also want to say that I read the message of the Alpha with a 5-inch girthy dick and I want to say to him: MASTER, I DON’T KNOW YOU BUT YOU ARE A LUCKY MAN!! Really, I wish my Alpha had a 5-inch dick, my life would be soooo much easier. Specially if he wants to fuck and breed virgin faggots, this cock size is just great. But that’s alright, I am a fag, and my duty is to accept whatever my Man has to me, I just wanna say that my poor virgin ass would’ve suffered so much less if my master had a dick this size. And by the way, I have just seen one cock my whole life, but 5 inches with 6 inches of girth is huge! I couldn’t be able to close my right hand holding his cock. I know you already said that my brother Sam, but I just wanted to give my opinion as a young faggot who has just been fucked and bred by a enormous cock.

I love you brother!! <3 I am happy with my Man and thanks to you I am working hard to become a better fag for him.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Yes, little brother … of course I remember you!

I’m glad that your giant-dicked Master had some mercy on you and helped you to develop your ability to please him! It really speaks to the quality of your Master as well as your true desire to be a successful faggot! An Alpha’s reaction to challenging circumstances reveals what’s in his heart, so when your Master didn’t just shove his dick into you and force you to take it all, it demonstrates a wisdom and benevolence on his part! He is definitely an Alpha worth serving!

But your dedication to training in order to please him to the best of your ability reveals what a good faggot you are, too! Your Master sees that, and that’s why he reassured you with commendation by calling you a “good boy”. He’s pleased by what he sees in you as a prized, valuable possession. He sees the desperation in your face as you struggle to please him, and that satisfies him in a way that can’t be measured in orgasms, if you understand what I mean.

I’m really proud of you, little brother! Keep up the good work! Love you!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

I cannot tell you how overjoyed I was today when I FINALLY found the video above! I used to have it bookmarked somewhere and lost it, and I’ve been hunting for it ever since!

On the surface, it’s simply a straight black Alpha (Jamaican?) getting his huge, fat dick professionally serviced by a talented faggot.

But the VERBAL in it as the Alpha starts enjoying himself is hypnotic, and when he cums … woooo boy it it volcanic! He shakes and cusses and and doesn’t hold back! I also love how focused the faggot is on simply providing expert head for his superior!

It’s the best! Enjoy!

Hey Sam,

I saw the recent post an Alpha made about domestic service and I wanted to share my own experiences. I don’t know how much of this is fully applicable, but when I was in college I was doing homework for some Alphas– one of them even let me do his laundry sometimes.

I’ve since had to find some online Alphas to help with work. I’ve taken notes on lectures, written essays, made presentations, and just generally have made myself available to Alphas who need a break from work or maybe a free tutor to help with some assignments. I try to help them learn too, so they can still get something out of the assignment beyond the grade, but it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.

Sure it can be kind of boring sometimes, especially when they just drop an assignment on me and move on, but it feels good to work on something, especially for my betters.

Thank you for writing!

I love how my audience immediately responded after that Master wrote in about the lack of domestic fag content here! I’ve been approached by multiple fags about their experiences since just last night!

Whenever fags tell me they can’t find any Alphas to serve, there’s a part of me that rolls my eyes and I think, “You’re either not trying, or you have the wrong attitude about your purpose.” Fags that complain about that simply mean they couldn’t find an Alpha to serve SEXUALLY, but there are other, possibly less glamorous ways to serve.

Domestic service is a primary one fags overlook. Look, cleaning floors and toilets might not be as thrilling as getting throat fucked or bred, but the sense of accomplishment can be similarly orgasmic! I really love the way you stated it, brother: “it feels really good to just make a man’s life easier.” EXACTLY!

True submission requires us to place our own comforts, hopes, desires, and even needs aside in favor of serving those of a superior Man. You epitomize that ethos, my brother! I’m proud of you!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

God Alpha @TheOMGBoss calls this faggot’s service an “indignity” … but a faggot doesn’t exist to be dignified, we exist to find fulfillment in service.

It’s our purpose.

HierarchyIsTruth

Hello Sam,

I hope you are doing well! After being a cocksucker for an alpha throughout my Senior Year, I’ve accepted I’m a faggot now at 18. However, I’m really sad. My alpha, Adam, has basically thrown me away after getting a new girlfriend. He was the first guy I ever sent to, and the only guy I ever sucked too. I’m really depressed now cause I really liked him, and none of the other guys at my high school know I’m a faggot. I’m wondering should I try to convince him to let me his faggot again, or should look for a new guy to serve? I don’t want to be disloyal to him, but I don’t think he wants me anymore. I really don’t know what to do anymore.

Sincerely,
Mark

Brother, thank you for writing!

I’m so sorry to hear about what happened with you and your first Alpha! I know exactly what you’re going through, because your story is EXACTLY what happened between me and my first Alpha, Roger. He turned me into his cocksucker for our final year of high school, but then he fell in love with the girl he would eventually marry, so he dismissed me.

I didn’t handle it well at all. I embarrassed myself a couple of times after my dismissal. I remember one humiliating night when I tracked him down at his girlfriend’s family’s BBQ to confront him and tearfully begged to speak with him, completely confusing everyone except Master Roger, who was enraged.

I’m sure that kind of behavior sounds unbelievable from me now given what you know about me and my principled approach to my faghood these days, but I was just a fresh new faggot suddenly alone with a fresh new purpose that I didn’t know how to apply in my life. I was scared, deeply sad, and hopelessly adrift.

You might recognize your own feelings in what I wrote above, baby brother. If so, then you’re on the right track.

It’s okay to feel panicked, run over, and crumpled up like trash. As faggots, we have those kinds of moments as we fulfill our purpose. The sad emptiness you’re experiencing now steels you and trains your heart so you can become stronger and more purposeful.

I resented Master Roger for years after it happened, but I was wrong. As a straight Alpha, he was merely following instinct. Owning a faggot was simply too much to handle while trying to navigate a serious other relationship with his future wife. It’s the same with your former Master, too.

My lowest point in this entire episode of my life came when I tearfully confronted him outside his house late one night. He was trying to explain that he loved her and wanted to be with her. “But what about ME??” I cried.

Then came a response I didn’t expect from him: “What about you?”

In that moment, my entire purpose as a faggot crystallized. I realized that faggots are ultimately expendable and replaceable. We don’t fit neatly or cleanly into the lives of straight Alphas. And if we are going to serve them, then we must be prepared to have our hearts torn apart, too.

In other words, the pain you feel is justified and real, but it’s serving a purpose within your heart.

After my dismissal, I went on a wild 3/4 year tear of hard partying and lots and lots of random cocksucking. I don’t recommend that path, brother, but I understand it if you do. We all react to pain in different ways. I chose to numb it with alcohol/drugs/casual sex. I hope you choose a different, kinder path for yourself, because you deserve it, sweetheart.

In the end, everybody gets their heart broken at some point. Eventually, we get back up and go find new adventures. As a faggot, you get to have wilder adventures than others, a life enriched by living entirely with purpose as a guiding light!

Don’t be afraid. Be excited by what can happen now!

But most of all, be grateful to your first Master, Adam. He taught you about your purpose … and by saying goodbye he’s giving you a chance to live it.

I love you, little brother!

Always,

sam the faggot

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

The following opinion was published today on the godforsaken right-wing wasteland known as X:

I get it. For brain-dead zombies raised inside the conformity Matrix, these kinds of opinions are common. Wouldn’t it be nice if all straight Men just remained blind in their cages?

So I quoted this above and replied with this defense:

Let me take this one.

Lots of straight Men and Alphas have sex with males (mostly sub males) because of the POWER and the EASY, UNINHIBITED NATURE OF BREEDING A MALE.

The governing principle at work here is a fundamental and instinctual structure within society known as HIERARCHY.

Everyone on Earth subconsciously obeys hierarchy and plays the role for which they were born.

Straight Alphas like Malik Delgaty are hierarchically above and beyond society’s “rules” for “proper” behavior for straight Men. Those rules might govern inferior males, but straight Alphas do not conform, they lead.

A straight Alpha can use sub males (known as fggots) or he can own them as personal slaves.

And before anyone objects, keep in mind that this hierarchical paradigm has been in effect since the beginning of human society, and has blatantly governed massive civilizations like Ancient Greece and Rome.

This is the way it has always been, and the way it will always be.

HierarchyIsTruth

Digest those words. Turn them in your mind. There is no question that what I speak and teach is the ultimate truth.

It’s undeniable.

Straight Alphas have no reason to take only a portion of the great bounty laid before them.

They deserve ALL the treasure,

They deserve ALL the service,

They deserve ALL the worship,

They deserve the ENTIRE WORLD.

Hierarchical truth will never be stopped, restrained, labeled, or twisted!

Hi, I love your blog and reading about all of the masters and fags in the world.
I am a 35 year old gay man who is happily married to a 35 year old gay man. We are monogamous and have been married for 10 years, together for 15.
I want your advice. I am naturally submissive in the bedroom and want to serve my husband more sexually. He is very reluctant and is very focussed on mutual sexual satisfaction whereas I want him to not care about me and just focus on him getting off.
he is a bit of a prude and won’t really talk about sex stuff so I am hoping that you have some advice on how I can start to subtly support him to become more of a master than a husband.
any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Daniel

Daniel, my brother … thank you for the question!

I’ve had some success helping faggots with this very issue, but there are usually only three solutions:

1. You follow my advice and it eventually works to bring out an inner dominance in the partner, or

2. The fag partner is allowed to find a Master outside the relationship to serve, or

3. The fag partner just accepts that his partner is not dominant and this is the life it must lead.

From what you described about your partner, I don’t have much confidence that my advice will work. He sounds quite beta to me, but even worse is the fact that he’s fallen for the false, politically-correct doctrine of equality. He seems like he’s comfortable having a polite little gay relationship with you.

Regardless, my advice for this is the same. Start calling him “Sir”. Start serving him like a faggot, taking care of the house, the meals, serving him the meals, bringing him drinks and snacks, and generally being very submissive. Rub his feet. Kiss his feet. Sit at his feet. Compliment him often. During sex, it must be altered to cater only to his pleasure. Beg him not to suck your penis. Become a ravenous, submissive slut for him.

You need a quantum shift in the current dynamics, and this is what I’m suggesting. You need to crack open that safe cocoon he’s wrapped himself in, and find out if there’s anything else inside.

If there isn’t, then I’m afraid you’re essentially left with the other two options.

The sad truth is that most Men are not Alphas, and getting bogged down in a relationship with a beta male is suffocating for faggots.

I really hope there’s a better outcome here, brother!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Sam!

thank for all that you do for the hierarchy and helping us fellow faggots be at our best in service to the incredible Men in the world.

To that point, I’ve recently been serving this very beefy and strong Alpha from the gym. He, of course, noticed my clit cage (thanks for the recommendation to shamelessly put it on display in the locker room!) and has been fucking my pussy about twice a week. It’s all a faggot could ask for except he refuses to use any lube other than what I coat his dick with from him face fucking me or the spit he adds along the way (very little). He does have me suck his dick multiple times while breeding my pussy (gladly!) but it really leaves my cunt sore for days after.

I basically never feel like it fully recovers before he’s balls deep in my pussy again with just a bit of spit to pound away almost instantly (he pistons in and out so hard and fast that the spit seemingly disappears in seconds).

I’ve asked, even begged for him to use some lube but the only thing accepts is more spit and throat slime from me gagging on his 8-9” cock.

Am I being too demanding or selfish, Sam? Or should I try another approach like pre-lubing? Think he might get pissed if he finds out though.

all thoughts appreciated!

thanks,

houston

Thank you for the question!

I just had a very similar question recently … what’s the deal with these Alphas not using lube? I mean, I get not liking condoms, but lube just makes things easier.

But I think that’s really the point. These Alphas (like yours) WANT it to hurt you. It makes them feel more powerful when your pussy is stretched and fucked raw. They like the screams and the writhing.

This is just a reality we faggots must handle if we are to fulfill our duties.

However, I think you should try pre-lubing in the hope that he will not mind too much. Do whatever you can to deal with it, unless you think you can approach him and beg him to allow the use of lube. There just aren’t many easy solutions to this issue, brother.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

BRAVO!!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Introducing straight Alphas to rimming opens doors to power levels they never knew existed!

Once they realize that even their asshole deserves worship, everything unlocks. They then know FOR SURE they are Kings!

Also, it feels FANTASTIC!

This straight black Alpha somehow thought it was a female behind the gloryhole curtain, but the head was so good he knew it couldn’t be.

So he had to peek behind the curtain. SURPRISE! It was (of course) a faggot!

This causes the Alpha to go back there and rape the faggot, exclaiming multiple times how good it feels before breeding it!

Yet again, a straight Alpha discovers how fucking faggots is just as awesome as fucking females!

Maybe even better! 😜

I’m not a huge fan of most findom Masters. They’re an unscrupulous bunch with few guiding principles, and most of them wouldn’t have the first clue how to own a faggot.

But Master @theOMGBoss definitely does!

I’ve known this gay God Alpha for a long time, since the early days of my “Fags Worship Straights” site on Tumblr. His instructional videos and calm, measured advice helped to shape the tone and purpose of that rough early template that eventually became this monstrosity.

Master treats his cash fags just like he does his personal fags, and he approaches cash sex the same as literal sex.

For instance, consider the radical concept he discusses here about foreplay leading up to a wallet fuck, followed by aftercare! Ordinarily a brutal cash fuck leaves a faggot devastated and alone, and the cashmaster who took the money is busy blocking the fag and forgetting it.

But not Master! He nurtures and guides the faggot through a cash rape, helping it appreciate the rape and feel fulfilled by it.

You see, Master deeply understands that faggots need to be used because that’s their purpose. They’re like mammary glands producing milk that must occasionally be expressed in order to function properly.

That kind of depth cannot be found in almost all other cashmasters. It’s honestly breathtaking to hear such wisdom in a scene as wretched as findom!