The following post is part of a thread chronicling the experiences of a French faggot named Fabien who has been claimed by his straight Alpha friend Anthony. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I’ve been the First Faggot to at least five straight Alphas, and each time it’s happened I’ve felt such a weight of responsibility. I always want to give Alphas good experiences, but with straight Alphas who have never known what’s it like to be serviced by a faggot, there’s more importance to get it right. I’ve always taken this responsibility seriously.

Fabien is a faggot after my own heart. He’s the little brother I never had, and we both see eye-to-eye on the importance of our purpose as faggots of straight Alphas. We also value and cherish every opportunity we have to be of service to these Kings!

Fabien’s latest update tickled me because it’s full of the joy as well as the scheming that we faggots do when dealing with straight Alphas who are oblivious to the purpose of faggots.

Read on to learn more:

My beloved big brother,

I definitely don’t want to make the same mistake of forgetting to tell you about an important moment in Anthony’s life (and mine), so I’m using the time while the Alphas are sleeping to write you a recap of the day!

My Master and I have been staying in a lovely little villa near the beach since yesterday. Today, while Anthony went to see some friends who were visiting nearby, I was supposed to pick up his older cousin Arthur at the train station. My Master told me that he thought his cousin was probably an Alpha (he’s very popular with girls, scores a string of conquests, and is generally very well-liked by everyone) but that, to his knowledge, he didn’t use any slaves. So I had the pleasure of meeting Arthur today and taking him to the beach, where he wanted to spend some time, and then at the villa, where he’s spending the week with us.

As soon as I saw him, I knew that my Master Anthony was right and that his cousin was an Alpha. Arthur is in his early thirties, about my age, and he exudes confidence and charm. You’ll probably think I’m obsessed with Spider-Man (and maybe I am!), but I think he has a bit of a resemblance to Andrew Garfield when he was younger and more muscular. In any case, my servile instinct kicked in immediately when I was with him!

When I met him, I took his luggage and asked him what he wanted and what I could do for him. I’ll try to transcribe as faithfully as possible (albeit maybe simplifying a bit) the conversation he and I had while we were walking to the beach and I was carrying his things.

“So you’re Tony’s roomate, hey?”

“Actually, I’m more his live-in servant. That’s why I am at your service as well, Sir! Tell me anything you want.”

He chuckled. “What do you mean? Does he pay you to clean his house and stuff like that?”

“No, he doesn’t pay me. Actually, I’m the one who gives him money! He deserves all I can give to him, and more.”

He looked at me with a mixture of amusement and puzzlement. Anthony hadn’t told me what I should or shouldn’t say to his cousin, but I felt it was my hierarchical duty to tell the truth to this Man who, clearly, wasn’t yet living the life he deserved to his full potential.”You see, Sir, there’s a Male Hierarchy, and the Alpha Males are at the top. They are the strongest, most confident and powerful Men who are natural leaders. The most superior Alphas are the ones who own and use slaves, especially male slaves.”

He wore an incredulous smile. “And so, men like you…”

“I’m not a Man. I don’t deserve that name, because I’m at the very bottom of the Hierarchy. I’m a slave. I was born for this.” He seemed more and more interested, though he was still skeptical. So I went on.

“Me and other males, we are natural slaves. We exist to serve Alphas and be used by them in any way they want. We serve them domestically, of course, financially, and we praise and worship them. And even sexually.”

He was surprised. “What? I thought Anthony’s was straight! We used to chase girls together, I practically trained him when he was a teen!”

“Then you did a wonderful job, Sir! Anthony is very popular with girls, I can tell you! He fucks them again and again! But even straight Alphas use inferior males sexually. They fuck us because that increases their power and their dominance. That doesn’t make them gay. Actually, they’re the straightest of straight Men.”

Arthur was silent for a moment, clearly deep in thought. When we were at the beach, and he was resting in the shade on a lounge chair after swimming, I sat in the sand, near him, practically at his feet.

“May I ask you a question, Sir? When you were in high school or college, or even now at work, do you have any bootlickers, any minions? People who do your every bidding? Don’t you see the people who bend over backward to please you?”

“Yeah, sure… In a way, I guess… I mean, I’ve always been popular…”

“That’s Hierarchy, Sir. You could certainly have slaves like me if you wanted. And you could fuck them whenever you want!”

He thought for a moment, then shook his head. “Nah! That’s too weird!”

I shrugged. “Suit yourself, Sir. As an Alpha Male, as I gladly think you are, you are entitled to do what you want. If you don’t want to fuck males, just don’t. I would simply say that, in my humble opinion, you’re denying yourself a great power that should belong to you. And I’m saying that with all the respect I own to my superior, Sir!”

After another moment of silence, he asked me “Do you really think I could have a… a slave like you are to Tony?”

“At the very least, I think you should own some servants to do your chores, Sir. A real Man should never stoop to menial tasks unworthy of him. That’s what slaves like me are for. And yeah, I think you would remained stuck at a lower-level Alpha if you don’t use slaves sexually.”

Another silence. I’m almost certain I spotted an hard-on under his swimming trunks… And then, out of the blue. “Would you suck me off?”

I beamed. “Believe me, Sir, I would be very happy to do this for you. But I belong to my Master Anthony. I’m his property, and I cannot possibly submit to any other Man, however Alpha he is, without his explicit approval.”

When we got home to the villa, Anthony was already there. The two cousins shared a manly hug, and my Master motioned for me to unpack and set up Arthur’s things in the room assigned to him. (The two Men sleep upstairs, I sleep on a futon in the kitchen.) When I came back down, I brought them some glasses on a tray while they were chatting by the pool.

“See! I told you my boy would think to serve us drinks! Good boy! So you told Arthur everything about us?

“Does he really do everything you tell him to?” 

“Of course! He’s a slave! Look. Fab! Crawl on the floor!”

“Right away, Master!”

I did as I was told. I crawled on my belly, I kissed Anthony’s feet, Arthur’s feet. Anthony put his foot on me. I felt so honored and proud to be used as a trophy by Anthony to display his power in front of his latent Alpha cousin. I was ready to obey every single order at once.  Then I lay down on my back. Anthony cleaned his feet on my face.

“Do you like that, slave?”

“A lot, Master! The dirt on the bottom of your feet is worth more than me, Master. Thank you!”

They both laughed. I could tell Arthur was getting more and more comfortable. 

“Want to give it a try? Go ahead, he’s all yours! He has no dignity, he’ll do whatever you want!”

“I don’t know… Slave! Do ten push-ups in front of me and kiss my feet every time you go down!”

I obeyed. And I was glad I’d done some working out under Anthony’s orders to make it possible!

I made dinner while they were having fun in the pool. and I waited on them at the table. Later, I served them drinks and served as their footrest while they watched TV. I took the opportunity to lick Arthur’s foot that was resting in front of my face. I glanced at him to see if he was satisfied, and we shared a smile.

When they went to bed, Anthony said to his cousin, “If you wake up before I do, ask the slave for breakfast! And you can feed him your morning wood. He’s very good at blow jobs now.”

I’m exhausted, I’m going to bed, too! I have hard work to do tomorrow: two Alphas to serve and worship! It’s a lot for just one faggot, but I’m so happy to be helping my Master’s cousin awaken to his Alphahood!

Lots of love!

your loving little bro

fab the fag

Fabien does something here that I’ve emphasized countless times: be courageous, frank, and proud when speaking to straight Alphas about being a faggot or about hierarchy.

Why? Because it DISARMS straight Alphas, who are surprised you’re not ashamed. Also, when you speak plainly and frankly about your hierarchical purpose, it allows the Alpha to absorb and admit the truth of hierarchy through such reasoning.

Once you have straight Alphas on their heels, they become curious about why creatures like faggots exist, and what they can do with one.

An example of this: once Arthur learned of faggots, he asked, “would you suck me off?” That’s exactly what my first straight Alpha, Master Roger, said to me!!! It’s always where the straight Alpha brain goes once they learn they have a proud slave available to use!

All of this was possible only because Fabien was courageous from the start. He’d fixed in his mind that he was going to teach Arthur the truth about his service to Master Anthony, defend his own truth as a faggot, and be a teacher of hierarchy to this unknowing King.

Because of that mental/emotional work Fabien had done beforehand, he was ready with responses to questions he knew would eventually come. That casual frankness disarmed Arthur (as it does other straight Alphas), which allowed Fabien an opening to teach through words and actions!

I’m so impressed by Fabien! He’s learned so much about how to teach with purpose while also serving at the highest level. Master Anthony must be SO PROUD to own a great faggot like Fabien, who only ever honors his Master with exceptional service and obedience!

I know I’m proud to call him my brother and friend!

I love you, Fabien!

sam the faggot

The following post is part of a thread following Kamal, a faggot who has a desire to serve his Alpha professor uncle Farid. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When Kamal initially asked for me help to approach his Alpha uncle Farid, I was almost as nervous as Kamal for multiple reasons. First of all, I’m always uncomfortable about service arrangements among members of a family given the risk of fallout. I was also nervous about the potential culture issues involved with this arrangement. All of that anxiety was piled on top of the typical concerns we fags have about offering ourselves to straight Alphas.

Kamal followed my recommendations, and quite frankly his uncle Farid responded in such a surprising way that even I was taken aback (it takes a lot to shock me).

Ever since I published that last post, I’ve been waiting anxiously for a follow-up. Last night that response arrived, and it couldn’t be any better!

READ THIS:

Sam,

You thought me insane for not surrendering immediately, but you misunderstand—I was ready to collapse at his feet that very night. It was Farid who imposed the delay. He wanted me to sit with his offer, to be certain I understood the weight of what I was choosing. He would not let me rush into his possession until he was satisfied I had truly considered the cost.

I waited. I thought. And when I knew—when I was certain—I went to him.

I knocked timidly on his study door. He called for me to enter, and when I stepped inside, he did not gesture toward the couch where we have had so many proper conversations. Instead, he turned in his chair to face me fully, and he spread his legs wide, and he gestured to the floor between his sinfully inviting thighs.

I went to him. I knelt there, looking down at the carpet, but he said, “Put your hands on my thighs and look at me.”

I moved further in between his legs, close enough that the air I breathed off his crotch was not only scented but warm. I placed my trembling hands on his thighs and looked up into his eyes. I held his gaze for a few seconds, but the intensity of it—of him looking down at me from that position, of what I was agreeing to become—overwhelmed me, and I placed my head on his left thigh, my nose almost touching the middle seam of his trousers, and I breathed deep.

I heard my uncle’s breath hitch in response. His hand came to rest on my forehead, but instead of the paternal love that gesture usually signifies, his hand crushed my face into his crotch, and I was grateful—so grateful—that the choice was taken from me, that I did not have to act on the desire to do just that but that he made me, and that made it somehow more beautiful.

But just as quickly as his hand had crushed my face into his body, it left, and his voice said, “Kamal, I want you to know that whatever you say to me tonight, all we will do is speak. I will not take you even if you have come to tell me you want it. I will not have you look back on this night and think I guided your responses somehow because I wanted you. Don’t mistake me; I want you. I want you desperately. But tonight I will hear your answer, nothing more. My darling boy, don’t be afraid. Whatever you have to say to me, I will love you like I always have. My love is not on the table. It is not part of any deal. It is there for you always.”

I looked up at him and said, “Uncle, everything you say to me, every memory I have of loving you and you loving me, convinces me that this is the right thing for me. To belong to you. I have come to tell you that I accept your terms. You fill me with joy, uncle. You always have. And I can’t wait for you to fill me with a more selfish love. With your need and your desire. I am made for you. I am the luckiest faggot in the world that you not only want me but refuse to stop loving me. I have thought this through like you commanded, and I am yours.”

My uncle smiled at me and said, “Kamal…”. His voice broke a little as he said my name. “Kamal, go to your room and sleep. You have made your choice and I respect that. Go and sleep your last night as your own man. Tomorrow when you wake you will be mine.” 

I came to my room, and wrote this email. 

And I am going to sleep now to dream of what tomorrow’s Sun will look like. 

Kamal. 

ASTOUNDING!!

I cannot express my joy and pride properly in the face of Kamal’s open-hearted courage! Just speechless!

This is what can happen when a faggot’s need to be useful in service to an Alpha overcomes fear! A faggot must want the fulfillment more than it fears punishment or anger!

Now, I didn’t think Master Farid was going to hurt Kamal. However, there could’ve been emotional rejection that in many ways is much worse than being beaten or punished!

I just cannot believe that Master Farid admitted that he’s wanted to own his faggot nephew for a long time! Once again, you do not know what it going through the minds of Alphas around us, regardless of whether they’re straight or not!

So now Kamal gets to wake up to a new existence as the property of Master Farid! He’s an OWNED FAGGOT!

That’s a destiny worth waking to!

Congratulations, my brother Kamal!

Love,

sam the faggot

Hey bro.   Long time sub fag here. Was never really close with my younger brother growing up, but now that we are both grown, we have been reconnecting.  He knows i am gay and into fetish, and has told me that he and his wife are into kink.  He is moving soon and will be about an hour away.  i woke up this morning with my nub straining in its cage, was thinking about what if he knew i was a faggot and decided to make me serve Him.   Not sure how to fully admit to him that i am a fag and ask if he is an alpha and i would be ok if he decided to follow the hierarchy.

Thank you for writing!

I would start with asking him if he considers himself to be Alpha. It’s likely he does (unless the “kink” they’re into is beta-sub/Domme nonsense). That’ll open him up to a discussion about hierarchy and your place in it.

Remember: he’s your brother, and he’s open-minded. You’re safe.

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The following post is part of a thread chronicling the submission of a faggot named Chris who met and submitted to a 75-year-old straight Alpha named Mark. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I need to start this post off with a (likely) unpopular declaration: ageism has no place in hierarchy. I can’t tell you the number of FAGS who tell me they want nothing to do with older Men and Alphas. I just want to shake them and scream in their faces: “You’re judging this powerful older Man while you’re just a FAGGOT?!?”

It makes no sense at all.

I bring this up because so many fags complain to me that they have no Alphas to serve, yet will walk right past these older Alphas. They are passing over veritable goldmines of experienced power and earned confidence!

But some faggots get it. Take this incredible experience from a mid-twenties faggot named Chris. He encountered a straight, 75-year-old muscle Daddy named Mark and bravely submitted to him!

Read on:

Hello my fellow fag Sam! I hope you are well and thank you for always sharing your wisdom and guidance with us-I truly appreciate it and you have helped me accept my faghood and place within HIERARCHY. I guess I should introduce myself, my name is Chris and I am a 25 year old faggot in Florida . I work as a teacher to 3rd grade elementary school students, school has recently started back after Summer last Friday and I have had an intense , hot and charged  meetings   with one of my students Alpha Grandfather. His name is Mark he’s 75 years old (but doesn’t look a day over 49/50 max) and the dude is JACKED! I’m talking bulging bronzed muscles which he always shows off in low cut tank tops and shorts when he picks and drops his grandson who is in my class off every day (as the kids parents are working before school starts and when school ends his grandfather is on school run duty which is how I’ve gotten to know him this past few weeks). he’s got these  dark deep blue eyes and silver hair and sexy mustache, the guy is a real silver fox bronzed muscle God!

safe to say the first time I met him I was speechless and instantly getting a hard on in my pants and trying to hide it, I greeted him and welcomed his grandson to school after introducing myself to him, after his grandson went inside and before the other kids arrived we got chatting, he had on dark brown aviators and he just stared right through me and my knees were weak and he has this alpha voice that just travels right through me, loud, assertive and dominant, after introducing myself he told me his name was Mark and he was the kids grandfather and would be doing pick up all year long, we got talking and I complimented his physique and muscles and told him he looked incredible like a true alpha, he smirked and flexed for me and thanked me for noticing, he said I could feel his bicep if I wanted to, Oh Sam I nearly keeled over with excitment,I thought for sure my boner was gonna bust from my bxers right then and there, I Felt up his biceps and loved every second of it, I told him how big he was and that they felt amazing and once again said he was a total Alpha and putting all the other dads in the school to shame. he asked me what I meant by Alpha and I explained that he was the living personification of an Alpha – dominant, confident, masculine and godly, he smirked and nodded along with me and agreed, he said ”Kid I’m the mother fucking Original Alpha, ain’t nobody got anything on me” I said 100% Sir, you are THE Alpha male God, he nodded and said thats fucking right and seemed to notice my growing bulge and asked if i was okay. I tried to cover it up with my hands but ended up making it worse and flat out said to him that my fag tendancies had got the better of me and I Couldn’t control myself, he burst out laughing so loud we got a few stares from other parents nearby and he said deep and rough in his voice, I thought you were a fucking faggot all right, you have that look about you and you cant keep your eyes off my fucking cock” I turned bright red and nodded and apologised , he said dont apologise boy I dont give a fuck, I know I look good and I’ like to be admired, I ‘m not a fag but I like attention. I then told him he deserves to be admired and worshipped every day like the god he is and that as a fag I Would happily do anything for him and said its my role as a fag to serve Alpha men like him and make their lives better, he nodded along intrigued and agreed, time was running out and the next parent was approaching with her daughter, I gave him my number and said it was in case I needed to contact him about his grandson or he needed to contact me about his grandson on it, he thanked me and said he’d talk to me later and he left. I barely got through the school day he was on my mind non stop and I just wanted to jerk off to him, suck him and found myself fantasing about him breeding my fag hole, around 1:50  I got a text and I sneaked a peek at it thinking it was my boss or some parent talking about a food allergy or some such basic shit but it was Marc he said he wanted to talk to me after school while picking up his grandson and to make sure I stayed after his son got in the car. I was so excited. eventually the school day was over, it was agonising waiting for Mark, he was one of the last guaridans toarrive to pick u p his grandson/

Finally he arrrived, he buckled his grandson in the car and we got talking again. he asked me If I was serious about making his life better and that being my duty as a fag, I said 100% sir, it;s my duty as a fag and I would be honoured to serve you, he said he wanted me to do his grocery shopping for him (he sent me a list) and drop it off at his an dhis wifes house that weekend and he also told me he wants me to meet him for a drink this saturday after dropping off his shopping so we can discuss terms of service and that he wants me to give him a foot rub, I said absolutley Sir no problem at all, he said good fag and walked away, we exchanged details about when and where and in 24 hours I am meeting Alpha Mark to discuss the terms of my service and worship his feet, Sam I feel like I’m living on cloud 9 this is insane and I cant believe this is my life, Ive been dreaming fof worshiping a beefy dominant alpha all my life and now one has randomley fallen in to my lap at work no less WTF! I’m so excited, I want to make a good impression on Mark tomorrow, doyou have any tips or advice about what to wear or what to say to make him go all in on this, I want to eventully be his fag to breed and human urinal and I want him to cage my cock but I dont want to overwhelm him, I want this to work, so any and all tips would be appreciated Sam, I’d love any and all advice and tips and tricks you may have to help me land the plane with this alpha, I wanna be his fag so bad and have m y ass breed by him eventually, I dream of having my cock locked up by him, thank you sam! x

I’m so impressed by Chris’s spontaneous bravery in the moment! How was he able to do that? Obviously, he’s been preparing himself by practicing ways to approach Alphas and/or introduce hierarchy. You must understand that the subject of hierarchy is almost like catnip for Alphas. It makes them feel special and powerful. When they hear hierarchy explained, it’s almost like they’re hearing ancient truths (which they are) and it fascinates them.

I loved the way Chris approached Master Mark and made him feel powerful once more! Master Mark might be 75, but he’s still a vibrant and virile Alpha. Chris’s submission gives that back to him!

Chris asked for tips to impress Master Mark. Right now it’s pretty simple, because we aren’t exactly sure what Master Mark wants. However, he clearly loved seeing Chris kneel. I think that should be how Master Mark is always greeted, as well as kissing his feet.

Aside from that, Chris needs to pay close attention to every command (or hint of one). Being respectful and responsive shows Alphas that their every wish is a command to a faggot.

I’m so proud to get to know my brother Chris! His real-life example shows just how easy this can be if we just try!

Keep me posted, Chris!

Love,

sam the faggot

The other day I mentioned my experience picking up an Alpha Lyft driver, and I figured I would receive at least one question about it. Sure enough, it arrived like clockwork:

Hi Brother Sam, Thank you for running this site as a just turned 18 year old fag I have found it very helpful and informative, I was scrolling through your page about to ask a question myself when a recent reply caught my attention from one of your stories, you mentioned you approached a Lyft driver and Managed to serve him in 2021, could you please share the story with me and inspire me? I only ask as I use an Uber to and from work every day the last month and it’s always this stunning married mid 40’s muscle gym bro who drives me to work and home, we have built up a relationship since the start of July (when I first started using him) and he is very Alpha. masculine, confident and gives off incredible energy, I find myself with the urge to serve him as a fag and was writing to you today for advice/how to approach it as I’m still so new to this world and want to serve him and embrace my duty as a fag and then I saw you mention a lyft driver which is so similar to my story, could you please provide tips/advice and share your story of how you convinced your lyft driver to let you serve him ? thank you brother Sam! much love and respect – Ryan the Fag xo

I wrote about the experience on the previous version of this site, but for some reason I couldn’t find it in my archives (I did find my post about the Alpha I drove home and serviced him after, which I might repost). So I’ll tell the story again, because it really illustrates the power of fearlessly speaking hierarchical truth!

As many of you know, I was arrested in late August of 2020 when a friend of mine asked me to drive a car to him in another state, and that car had meth inside the doors (of which fact I was naively unaware). I spent three weeks in jail before being released on my own recognizance. Three days after my release I came down with a paralyzing staph infection of the blood and pneumonia arising from the chemo port still in my chest from my bout with cancer two years prior. I nearly died from that while laboring in the COVID wing of the hospital, but I eventually overcame it after two months of antibiotics.

I was in rough shape!

I had sold my car to pay bills, so I was immobile for the first time since I was 16 years old. One day I needed to go to an Office Max store for some supplies, so I called a Lyft ride to drive me 15 minutes away. My driver was “Antoine”. I would later find out everybody called him “Twan”.

I was pleasantly surprised when I saw Twan in the driver’s seat. He looked young (turned out he was 24 years old) and wearing a Cardinals jersey. He had a neatly trimmed goatee and his short hair was twisted in little braids. He grunted at me when I greeted him with that indifferent black Alpha attitude I learned to overcome long ago. And so we started off.

I started by asking him how long he had been driving Lyft. “A coupla months,” was the blunt reply. So I quickly pivoted to my own previous experience driving Uber and Lyft for a year, and I mentioned how weird some of the rides had been. No real response. Then I said, “I’m sure you get a lot of people flirting with you since you’re Alpha.” He chuckled a little bit and agreed. “My girl don’t like that part.”

So then I said, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” He quickly agreed that he was. So then I said, “Some people don’t think Alphas are real, but I know they are.” I began to describe some of the qualities of Alphas and what sets them apart. I had his attention.

Then I said, “I’m a firm believer in hierarchy.” He replied, “What do you mean?” So I explained how males are different, and how Alphas like him are at the top of the hierarchy pyramid and other males are below and serve the Alphas on top.

Then came the magic question: “So what are you?” I smiled, and without hesitation said, “I’m a faggot, Sir.”

Twan laughed in knowing surprise. “Yeah, I thought you were.”

By this point we were almost there. Time to wrap it up: “I’ve accepted that my role is to serve superior Men and Alphas like you. It’s just the way the world is.” Twan pulled his SUV up in front of the store.

Before getting out, I ended this way: “Sir, if you want to take my number, you can call if you ever need anything.” He took my number. “Thank you, Sir,” I said respectfully as I left his vehicle.

I went inside the store and, after looking around unsuccessfully for a bit, asked a clerk to help me. Suddenly, my phone dings. I have a message from Twan:

“Come out to the truck now.”

I immediately excused myself and left the store. In front of the store was Twan’s SUV. I climbed into the back seat, asking coyly, “Are you in need, Sir?”

“Yeah.”

We drove around until we found a bank that was closed (it was COVID, and many places were closed during the weekdays). He pulled to a discreet back corner of the lot, parked, and then hurried into the back seat with me. He pulled down his sweat pants and underwear in one smooth motion and said, “suck my dick, fag!”

One thing I love about black Alphas is the length and weight of their limp dicks. Even when they’re not hard, they’re still impressive when you manipulate them or suck them. Twan was not totally hard when I started, so I got to enjoy the pleasure of it rapidly growing in my mouth. He grabbed my head and fucked my mouth for a bit, and he barked commands like “moan more!” when he wanted some vibration.

When he was getting close, I was starving for his load, but Twan loves shooting his loads on his cocksucker’s mouths/faces. He did that to me, and I pushed what I could into my mouth and swallowed it after.

Then he drive me home.

Since he had a girlfriend, he couldn’t use me all the time, but I was one of his regular cocksuckers for about a year or so until I was finally sentenced and sent to prison in July of 2022. When I was released two years later Twan had changed his phone number and mine was different, too. So that was the end of that!

As you can see, this isn’t particularly difficult. It really just requires a faggot to be fearlessly honest about hierarchy and purpose. You have truth and the insatiable Alpha sex drive on your side! Use those things to your advantage just like I did then!

Here’s to your growth and success, brother!

Love,

sam the faggot

The following post is part of a thread chronicling a gay marriage that has blossomed into a hierarchical union between a faggot named Dean and his husband. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

It’s been interesting to me to follow the hierarchical transformation of Dean’s marriage to an oddly-repressed Alpha. As Dean’s understanding and acceptance of his purpose as a faggot has grown, his Alpha husband has also transformed into much more of the Alpha he was always meant to be.

This is why I emphasize how fully-actualized faggots help all Men become what they actually are. Even if that Man is a straight Alpha with no interest in gay sex, owning and using fags financially or domestically transforms him. That’s what we’re seeing in Dean’s Alpha husband as Dean submits to him more deeply.

But now we’re getting into tougher territory. A big test of a fag’s real commitment to service is the acceptance of an Alpha’s need to breed others. For most people, this would be a violation of a marriage bond, but for a faggot married to an Alpha it’s merely another way to submit.

But that service can be deepened even more, as Dean is going to discuss in his latest update:

As I told you some months ago, I have accepted that my Master-Husband has the need to breed other faggots to embrace his real nature as an Alpha. Despite our love for each other, our transition towards an unequal relationship required some adjustments in our apartment: I now sleep in the individual bed from the guests room and he stays in the master bedroom. This has made things more practical, as when he brings fags home the bedroom is always available and I can have my space while he fucks them. He also sometimes invites me in the master bedroom to sleep with him. This makes these nights even more special and I always take extra care to be smooth and ready for him. He particularly enjoys playing with me while I am asleep and often I wake up with him fingering my pussy or with his full length already inside me.

Unsurprisingly, he is having no trouble finding other faggots. He goes to the gym commando and these bitches practically throw themselves at him! I can’t blame them. But as I told you in my previous message, I wanted to find and offer him some faggots to show him my acceptance of our new relationship. My Master-Husband also thought that it would be a good exercise to train my submission and promised me that, if he liked them, he would let me join and give me his cum at the end.

My fag hunting exercise has proven very successful, so I wanted to share the tricks that I learned in case it was useful for someone else in a similar journey. At the beginning, I found it difficult to introduce the topic when I identified one, but eventually I realised that faggots love to talk about men and their relationships and is often one of the first conversations that they have with someone new. My strategy has been to start by asking, as naturally as possible:

• Have you ever been with an Alpha?

This is usually followed by them asking me what do I mean by an Alpha, which enables me to talk about the hierarchy and my relationship with my Master-Husband. They are always very curious about it, and it leads to several questions about the relationship dynamics. I make sure to show them a picture of him before we talk about the sexual dynamics, so that when we do they subconsciously start imagining him doing the things that I describe.

Then I ask the question that seals the deal:

• Have you ever been cunted?

They rarely know what I mean by this, but when I explain what it is, I have them begging me to spend a night with him!

As you can see these questions are based on the material and advice that you provide in the website to approach Alphas, just tailored to faggots and their weaknesses, and it has worked wonderfully. After all, it takes one to know one! So again, thank you Sam!

I’m really proud of Dean for embracing the new arrangement in their home. I think it’s necessary, but that doesn’t make it easy. It’s great how quickly Dean’s husband instituted new rules and sleeping arrangements, staking his claim as Master. This is an important developmental step for an Alpha, and ones wise faggots accept.

The net result of Dean’s Master-husband enforcing these rules and breeding other fags in what used to be their bed is a deepening of Dean’s submission. I suppose we could call it “cucking” even though I don’t think that exactly fits. However, the arrangement does act like a chastity cage as far as denial is concerned.

Also, Master-Husband’s prolific breeding habits leaves Dean in awe. This is why Dean was so eager to find fags for Master-Husband to breed … it’s a version of tributing to a King. These fresh fags are Dean’s tribute to him.

I absolutely loved hearing how Dean inverted my approach to Alphas in order to entice more faggots! Such a clever thing to do! I’m sure Master-Husband loved these new toys being delivered to him by his personal faggot!

Once again, it’s SO IMPORTANT to embrace truth, especially in a marriage. When we do that, not only are we allowing ourselves to experience fulfillment, but we’re also giving our partner that same gift!

Thank you, Dean!

Hi sam,
Many thanks for your answer to my question about handling personal life and service to a Master.
The MASTER i’m in contact with online said the same thing but i guess HE wanted me to hear it from someone else, especially an experienced sub like you 🙂
i’ll do my best to find the right Master. i’m surprised however that you say that France is the country with more powerful Alphas per square kilometer than you’ve ever known. What makes you say that? i saw many findom Masters (though i don’t consider most of them like “masters” because they only care for the money) but no so many real Masters…
Also, i’d like to add one more question, as you’ve been really nice to me: what is, according to you, the best way to find a Master when you’re a beginner in France?
Many thanks again for taking time to answer me.
i wish you a great day.
faggot didier (as the MASTER i’m chatting with calls me and i love it)

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thanks for writing back, Didier!

I said that about France because of the number of French Alphas I’ve chronicled on this site over the years, the number of French Alphas and Masters (not cashmasters) I communicate with on X and elsewhere. They all seem to be much more attuned to hierarchy in France than any other country.

To find a Master in France (or anywhere), it starts with your immediate circle of contacts. Think about the Men you regularly come into contact with or personally know. Are any of them Men you’d like to serve? Then make yourself useful to those Men, be complimentary, be submissive to them. When you feel comfortable enough with them and think there is a possibility, you offer your services as their faggot. You can use my “Letter To An Alpha” or my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” to make that conversation possible.

If you try this, you’ll find success. I promise! Especially in France!

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The following post is part of a thread following a faggot named Caio who wants to serve his two straight Alpha friends Felipe and Marcello, but they both have different issues with it. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

It’s a scientific fact that all straight Alphas want to fuck assholes. Why? Because it’s tighter, it’s taboo, and it’s painful for the receiver. Men have deep sadistic streaks running through them, and they can barely hide it even when they’re trying.

There’s just one huge problem for these straight Men and Alphas: women almost entirely hate being fucked in the ass and will do whatever they can to refuse it.

This does, of course, provide a huge opening (no pun intended) for faggots to offer their own holes for use. That’s one reason why we’ve seen an increasing number of straight Alphas owning faggots. Not only will a faggot never tell an Alpha “no”, but it will practically beg for even more dick and cum! Straight Alphas are getting wise to this.

But so are the girlfriends of these straight Alphas. They don’t want to be repeatedly fucked in the ass by their Alphas, so why not arrange for the boyfriend to fuck a faggot instead? It takes the burden off of the girlfriend, while also making use of a fag’s natural function.

It’s one of those few situations where a faggot is a perfect solution to a persistent problem!

Notice how that situation is happening to Caio:

Hi brother Sam! This is Caio again, I sent you two messages about my complicated life with Marcelo and Felipe. Do you remember me?

I told you that Felipe was too politically correct and Marcelo just makes jokes about me being a fag. And I was trying to serve them.

I have been serving Marcelo by making his girlfriend’s hair, make-up, and nails for three weeks now. She is really nice and really sweet with me. She always says how much she loves the gays and how her best friends are all feminine guys. We got really close to each other and it didn’t take too long for us to start talking about Marcelo. After a few days talking about superficial stuff, she said “you know Caio, I’m gonna tell you something because you’re my girly friend, but Marcelo has a huge dick, he gives me too much work”. I was so horny that I needed to make a huge effort not to show her how much I desire her boyfriend’s cock. But I just said “girl, you should enjoy it, I wish I had a pussy like you, that would make my life so much easier” and she laughed and went a bit deeper, and said “you know, I admire you gay bottoms because I would never let a man touch my ass, it hurts to take him in my pussy, I’m sure he’ll never convince a girl to take him in the ass, no matter how much he tries”. I told her that Marcelo is a really great guy and she should at least try, but she just chuckled and said that “she lets anal sex for the gays because she already has a pussy”. I didn’t want to insist, so I just changed the topic and went back to preparing her beautiful hair.

My first thought was to serve Marcelo by convincing his girl to give him her virgin ass, but I don’t think this is gonna happen at all. And I have a a virgin ass too! I have already make out with other fags, and I have sucked the cock of two Alphas, but my ass is completely virgin and perfectly tight. That day when I arrived home I texted Marcelo and said “Sir, your girl is nice and ready for you, I hope you’ll have fun tonight”, then he send a clapping emoji and called me a really good boy. I told him that it is always a pleasure to serve him and that I’d always do anything that I could to make sure he’ll have a beautiful lady to satisfy him. I tested the waters and asked him if his girl was submissive and he just said “not even close”, but I was afraid of saying too much, so I didn’t say anything else.

I’m so horny and confused! I now know that Marcelo wants to fuck some ass, but his girl doesn’t accept it. I have a virgin ass and I’d be really happy to take him in my hole. At the same time, I am virgin and apparently he has a huge cock, so I don’t know if I can do it… please Sam, can you help me? What would you do in my place?

Regarding Felipe, I don’t actually have an update, but we are still in touch and I’m trying to see how it goes.

Thank you my lovely brother!

I’ve suggested in the past that I believe Alpha Marcelo’s “jokes” are not really jokes (I believe all such jokes have a seed of intentional suggestion in them). I do think Marcelo would do something with Caio if the situation was right.

Well, that situation might be right NOW. As Alpha Marcelo keeps joking around with Caio, his girlfriend is putting out vibes that she wants Marcelo to fuck Caio!

Caio asked me what I would do if I were in that situation. I would probably get Alpha Marcelo alone, kneel before him (or at least get physically lower than him) and ask him if I’ve been serving him well. Then emphasize to Alpha Marcelo that pleasing him pleases me (this concept is absolutely foreign to straight Men/Alphas). Then I would tell him about the conversation with his girlfriend, and then make it clear that my body belongs to him if he needs it.

Now, Alpha Marcelo might not immediately react positively to the suggestion, but the seed will have been planted. He’ll go away and think about that offer. Then watch what happens later!

That’s probably not the only way to handle it, it that’s how I would do it. Maybe tailor the approach to your own taste and style.

However, I think Alpha Marcelo is definitely attainable. He’s a ripe fruit waiting to be picked, so go get him, Caio!

The following post is part of a thread following Kamal, a faggot who has a desire to serve his Alpha professor uncle Farid. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When Kamal first wrote to me a couple of days ago, his expressed desire to serve his Alpha uncle Farid seemed difficult. Yes, his uncle is a professor of gender studies, and yes, his uncle has been talking to Kamal about hierarchy. It still seemed to be a difficult conversation. I answered him honestly, and gave him my advice. You can read that first QFR by CLICKING HERE.

Now, very often I advise people and they don’t take action. Of course, I can’t make anybody do what they’re unable to or unwilling to do. But there is only one thing is true: anyone who is unwilling to play the game will never, ever have a chance to win.

That is why I rejoiced when I received this inspirational update from Kamal:

Dear Sam,

Your words have been a quiet compass for me. I planned to write explaining why taking on household chores isn’t straightforward—his wife would notice the shift, and she already doesn’t like me much. Besides, between classes and varsity practice, I’m rarely home when she does them—but I’ve offered to help her  and maybe i can slowly take over the tasks that relate to my uncle. I want to serve him. I want to be the one who meets his needs. But that’s not why I’m writing tonight.

Masculinity has always been a quiet puzzle for me. Outwardly, I fit the part: my posture, my voice, the way people read me. But inwardly, something else stirs. It’s when I imagine being taken by a man like my uncle that everything clarifies. More than anything, I want to serve someone I deeply respect and admire. Someone whose strength—steady, unyielding, effortless—makes me want to kneel. To show him how much I want him. To let him know, without doubt, that he owns me. That his pleasure is my purpose, and being used exactly as he desires is my calling. And because it’s my uncle who has awakened this in me, he’s the only one who can fill the hollow ache inside me. The one who can finally make me who i am.

In my heart I believe this confusion only ends when he takes me for his own. When he pushes deep enough that I stop being the man I thought I was—the one who hides behind a hard shell—and finally become what I’m meant to be. I need him to split my core open, peel away the disguise I’ve worn for years, and set who I truly am free for him to see. Buoyed by your words, today I decided to stop hiding. To “man up” one last time and tell him everything and be done hiding.

It went… I don’t really know how. I found him in his study, lost in a book. When I asked to speak with him seriously, he set it down and gestured to the couch. But instead of sitting across from him, I stepped close, dropped to my knees between his spread legs, and looked up into his eyes. He blinked, surprised. I told him everything—how long I’d waited, how deeply I wanted him, how his strength pulled at something in me I couldn’t name. I held his gaze the whole time, even as my voice trembled. When I finished, the weight of it hit me all at once. My chest shook. I looked down, and tears spilled over before I could stop them.

His hand found my head and he tilted it up until i was facing him. But I couldn’t look at him so I don’t know what he saw. He spoke in that low, steady voice I know means business: “This is true?” I actually don’t remember if it was a question or a statement. All I could do was say yes and that I’d never lie to him.

There was a long enough silence that I risked a glance at his face. His eyes locked onto mine, and something in them shifted—darkened, softened, or maybe both. He exhaled slowly. “I need some time alone with this, Kamal. I’m glad you told me. Don’t cry.” His thumb brushed away a tear, and I stood and left him there. 

Now I’m waiting. My pulse won’t settle and I jump at every door opening, phone chiming. I can’t wait till he gets home tonight and it’s the thing I’m most afraid of at the same time. I don’t know what will happen, but I’ll tell you when I know. 

Thank you for helping me.

HOORAY!!!

Kamal took action almost immediately, and was able to FINALLY express the feelings that had been tormenting him! And Sir Farid’s response was quite positive (others may read it differently), showing tenderness and empathy to his faggot nephew while also metering his response so as to not over-react! That is what true leaders do! I’m incredibly impressed by Sir Farid’s powerful example!

But I’m beyond proud of my brother Kamal! What he did took a lot of courage, strength, and humility! He opened his heart and offered himself with trust to the one Alpha in his life!

Why can’t more faggots do this? What stops them from trusting that superior Men would react in superior ways??

I can’t wait to find out the resolution to this situation!

Good job, my brother!

Hi im a 16 year old and im a faggot and i need your help because i dont know how to approach this part of myself ( sorry if my english is bad im from italy) and also how do i find a alpha my age? I been realy intrigued by tue story of master lucas and hope to find one like him what should i do?

Hi little brother! Thank you for writing! By the way, your English is just fine!

I wouldn’t pin my hopes on finding an Alpha like Master Lucas, because he’s a rare type of Alpha. However, I am sure there are Alphas in your school who could use a faggot. In school, you just start by being useful or looking for ways to serve nonsexually. Identify one or two Alphas you’d like to serve (hopefully you already know them) and start offering to buy things for them or do homework for them. Be genuinely complimentary about how they look (young Alphas love flattery and are triggered by it). Maybe even start calling them “Sir” (in Italian, of course) to see if that gets their attention.

The Alphas you seek are in your school. Go get them!

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Dear Sam,
I hope you’re doing great. My name is Kamal, and I’m an 18-year-old college student living with my uncle, Farid, who’s a professor of gender studies on campus. I’m writing to you because I think I’ve finally figured out who I am—a faggot, and I’m really excited to learn how I can help my alpha male uncle in the way he wants.
Over the time we’ve been living together, Farid has introduced me to some interesting readings about gender and we’ve even discussed male hierarchy. The more I talk with him, the more convinced I get that I am a faggot and he is clearly an alpha male.
Farid is incredibly dominant and masculine, with a beautiful muscular body that I can’t help but stare at. His pecs are luscious, his thighs are strong, his biceps look like safety to me, and his nipples are impossible to ignore. But what really gets my heart racing is his magnificent cock—8 inches long and so thick it makes me crave the pain of taking it for the first time. Just thinking about it makes me weak in the knees.
I know that as a faggot, my main role is to serve and please my alpha male uncle. I’m eager to do whatever it takes to fulfill this role and become the ultimate sex slave for him. More than anything, I am ready to be cunted, relieved of the burden of false masculinity and transformed into a faggot by and for my uncle. I want to hurt for him, be caged by him, used by him, controlled and protected by him. It’s a physical need like hunger that I can’t stop thinking about. 

How can I make him see past his affection for me and as the fag I want him to make me into? How can I make him be the one to cunt me, make me feel the void, make me cum from being fucked by him while my cock is trapped in the cage he puts me in? Please Sam, help me. 

Kamal.

Kamal, thanks for writing!

Congratulations on discovering your true purpose! It’s an important step that is so vital for all faggots to embrace so they can live their best lives! I’m glad you’ve found the truth!

I’m pretty sure your uncle is Alpha as well. More importantly, based on his conversations with you, I believe he knows you’re a faggot. Because of the family connection, I’m sure that’s why he hasn’t forced you into submission already. However, all of those types of concerns fall away in the face of pure hierarchical truth. It doesn’t matter that he’s your uncle … he’s Alpha, and you were born to serve Alphas like him.

I know you’re all hot and bothered about getting fucked, but part of being a faggot is succeeding in the small details as well. Are you doing all of the domestic chores? Are you ironing his clothes, etc.? Are you serving him meals? Offering to provide other forms of domestic-like service? These should be happening, or you should start doing them. This will trigger in his mind that you are accepting your role as his faggot.

To break the ice even more, you might have him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in right sidebar). He’s a scholarly Alpha who understands hierarchy on some level, so I imagine that letter would ring true to him. I have little doubt that he would have a positive response after reading that (combined with your exemplary service around the house).

Try those things and see what happens, brother!

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Hi Sam!

My name is Rulfo, and I am pretty sure I’m a faggot, but I’m 23 and no man has ever touched me. I’m not really attractive, I’m hairy, and a bit chubby. I think my life would be so much easier if I were cute, but it is what it is, and that’s okay. I have a co-worker who is openly bisexual and loves to brag about the girls and guys he fucks. Yesterday, we were talking (in Spanish) and in the middle of the sentence he said in English that our new intern, a 19-year-old guy, was “a good boy”. I didn’t understand what he meant, so I just smiled and then he said “do you know the difference between a bad boy and a good boy?”. I thought he was still talking about the college students we receive as interns, so I just said “well, good boys are more committed to their work.” He laughed and said “no, good boys deserve to be kissed, and bad boys deserve to be spanked, but at the end of the day both deserve to be bred”. I blushed immediately, it was so embarrassing, and at the same time so arousing, he kept laughing at my embarrassment. I arrived home and jerked off thinking about him. He is so Alpha and so confident in everything he does, I feel really safe when he’s around. At the same time, I am fully aware that I’m not as attractive as the cute intern or any other college twink he can find… what do you think? what would you do in my place? do you think comments/jokes like this one is just him being funny or maybe I should try to serve him?

I’ve been reading your work for 3 years, but that’s my first message to you. I hope you’ll be able to read it! I love you and your work, brother!

My brother, thank you for writing for the first time!

Let me just address the first part of your letter for a second. You say you’re “not attractive” because you’re hairy and chubby. I always encourage faggots who are serious about serving to try and get into the best shape they can, even if it’s just dieting and simple exercises. Do it for you and your self-confidence! The hair part might be more difficult to deal with, but even that can be solved. Even if you don’t, consider this: I have a fag friend who is obese and REALLY hairy, yet he serves all the time. Why? Because he knows what he wants and he isn’t shy. Being confident in yourself and your place as a faggot will overcome a lot of other, superficial issues.

This Alpha co-worker is very interesting to me. He’s quite confident and self-assured. I do think he was testing you with that statement. He was testing your reaction in order to see what it revealed about you possibly being a faggot. I thought you gave him an EXCELLENT response, and he played along! I’m proud of you for that!

So what did we learn? He fucks faggots, and he’s not too terribly picky (he breeds good boy and bad!) as long as they’re faggots (boys). He’s playful and he’s easy to talk to. And, most importantly, he understands the basics of hierarchy and recognizes it.

Here’s what I think you should do: since he’s already brought it up to you, ask him if you could ask a question and then ask him if he ever trains virgin faggots (maricons). Let him figure out that you’re talking about yourself. See where that conversation leads. Don’t be afraid of doing this, because he’s the one who introduced the subject. He did that for a reason!

If you just can’t get yourself to say that to him, let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) and that will definitely break the ice!

I’m excited for you, Rulfo! This could be the break you need!

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Hello, im a novice faggot, ive been submissive before but then I unfortunately keep fighting it and returning to non faggot behaviors which is so wrong. Can u put me in contact with a master who is willing to train me? Especially an alpha who is kind, because I think too strong of an alpha will scare me too much, If possible let the training be online, if you know any alphas where I live thats even better

Thank you for the question, little brother!

I feel your distress, trust me! However, I don’t do connections like that anymore because when I tried to do that years ago it was a disaster every time. I simply don’t have the bandwidth to handle that with everything else. I’m sorry.

Besides, you didn’t even tell me where you’re located! I mean, I flunked ESP in college, brother!

My strong advice is for you to join my free Hierarchy University Discord. There are plenty of rooms there to explore, people to meet, and advice to seek. There are also channels dedicated to every country on Earth, so you can search for people in your area.

That’s all I’ve got.

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The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older straight Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

As I’ve written before, the French love their coastal vacations and trips to other countries. It’s basically expected of everyone to take a month (or more) off for a long, luxurious vacation abroad. That’s definitely not how it works here in America (unless you’re ultra-rich!). It sounds like a nice way to live.

However, for young Titouan, a holiday by the sea means more “work” servicing young, shirtless Alphas playing in the water and flexing for girls. And it sounds like he’s looking forward to it:

Will be soon going to French Mediterranean seaside with my family. Already been there last holiday. Fortunately my parents and sisters do not stay with me all afternoons at beach, which makes some hot things possible…

2 Pics (with the boys’ words, I translated  from french) :  happened last time. Here Arab and Black boys are often   dominant Alphas , it can be seen at lycée (high school), and same on the beach… i know my duty is to be their young faggot and worship their dicks, they love that so much.

I hope so much this time again  such Alpha boys , or could be an Alpha mature man, will see I look at them or him, feel and show their superiority, will call me pédale (faggot), will be excited by my twink look. And will want to use me as their fag boy and cocksucker, thinking only of their Alpha rights to unlimited pleasure.  

The following post is part of a thread following a faggot named Caio who wants to serve his two straight Alpha friends Felipe and Marcello, but they both have different issues with it. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

A few days ago I received a letter from a faggot named Caio who asked how he should approach two straight Alpha friends of his who seem to be interested in him in some non-specific ways. You can read that first letter and my advice by CLICKING HERE.

Caio’s situation is frustrating because he’s actually dealing with the two types of Alphas that block faggot approaches the best. Alpha Felipe is the Caring Nurturer type of Protector Alpha who always firmly believes in proper manners and equality and respectful kindness at all times. On the other hand, Alpha Marcelo is the Playful Flirt type of Protector Alpha, a Man who likes to tease inferiors but would never want to actually degrade anyone.

These two types very often deflect approaches for service quite effectively, and I’ll admit that these two types have given me fits in the past as well. It’s hard to get kind, sweet, caring Alphas to see how unequal we are, or how they actually have a right to be served and worshiped in any capacity.

I want to get into Caio’s update right away so I can dissect it a bit more, because it’s complicated.

Hello! This is Caio again, I messaged you a few days ago talking about my brother’s friends, Marcelo and Felipe. I hope you remember me.

I really appreciate your feedback. I tried my best to approach both of them in the past few days, and I wanted to know what you think about my strategy, please. I will try to be concise but there is a lot to say…

First, I copy and pasted your Letter to an Alpha (thanks for that!) and sent it to Felipe. At first, he asked what was going on, so I explained to him that I think he was an Alpha, and I am a faggot, and explained the basic logics of hierarchy. I told him that he doesn’t need to touch me at all, but that I would be happy to serve him in any way he needs. He texted back saying “can I call you, Caio?” I was so excited and expecting a sexy porn movie plot, I was hoping he would call me a naughty fag, demand me to go to his place, give him head, and submitting my hole to him. But I was terribly wrong. He started by saying that I should not refer to myself using the word faggot (I tried to translate it in our language to explain to him), then he refused to repeat the word because he said it was homophobic. And to conclude he said “I think you need professional help to encouter your inner self and your self-steem, I can help you finding a therapist”. Can you believe it, brother? I told him that everything was okay and apologized for telling him about hierarchy. He was really sweet and said that he will not tell anything to my brother, but that I should “understand my self value”. Then we changed the topic and just pretended that nothing happened.

Right after I had this major frustration with Felipe, I decided to try it with Marcelo. Instead of just sending him the letter, I texted him pretending that I was just joking. The last time he saw me was when he slapped my ass, as I told you in my previous message, so I said “remember when you slapped my ass and said that if we were brothers you’d consider incest, or were you too drunk to remember?”, he answer with a laughing emoji. but I guess he thought I was mad, because he added “I think I do, sometimes I’m an idiot with my jokes, but you know I really care about you”. I wanted to show him that there is no reason for him to feel bad, so I said “yeah, you’re an idiot because now every time another guy wants to slap my ass I think about your hand because they don’t have your Alpha energy”. I also added a laughing emoji just to be safe. In case he reacted badly, I would just saying I was joking because unlike Felipe he loves acid and sexual jokes. But I think using the expression “Alpha energy” was a smart move because he reacted to my message with a little flame and said “well, we agree that I’m an idiot sometimes, and we agree that I have Alpha energy, these are already two things we have in common… if we find a third one, I’ll slap your ass again, ok?” I was getting nervous because he seemed to be getting into the topic more and more, but I needed to remain sexy and submissive while keeping it a funny undertone so I would not scare him. So I said “we both breathe oxygen, now we have 3”, and he said “alright, remember me to slap this ass next time I see you.” We kept basically flirting with each other for almost an hour, making jokes like that, and he kept saying how much he wants to slap my ass again, so I decided to take a step forward, and said “if you are an Alpha and I’m a fag, it’s up to you to decide what to do, and I’m sure you can be more creative than just slapping my ass”. So I sent him the very same file with your letter to an Alpha to see how he would react. He thought I was joking, so he said “don’t tease me, you’re my good friend’s little brother” And I told him that I was not joking about it, and if he wanted to embrace his place in hierarchy, my brother would never know. I was afraid he would just stop answering, but he reacted well. I am really good at hair and make-up, I even make some make-up tutorials for YouTube. Marcelo asked me if I could be in charge of his girlfriend’s hair and make-up because he usually pays for her hair, nails, and make-up. Sucking his cock would make me much happier than this, but I understand that it’s not my decision on how to serve him. I said “it’d be wonderful to make sure your girl will always be gorgeous for you.” Our agreement is that he will tell her that he is paying me, and I’ll pretend I’m being paid, and I’ll visit her once a week to give her a full spa day. Let’s see how it goes…

In summary, I think your letter to an Alpha is incredibly helpful, but my approach with Felipe could have been better, it’s my fault. But with Marcelo it worked really well, and I look forward to make sure his girl will be always pretty for him.

Since I wrote a quite long message, I’ll try to wrap up with a few questions to make it easier for you to answer, brother:

1. I think that serving Felipe will be really hard, but I haven’t given up yet. I just need to find a better approach and show him that hierarchy is beautiful. I do think he has potential to be a good Protector Alpha. He is really sweet and caring with his girlfriend, and even with me, he just needs to understand that being superior is not a problem. On contrary, he can only be so caring with his girl and his friend’s fag brother because he is indeed superior to us. If you were in my situation, would you give up, or maybe try another approach?
2. I realized that pretending that we are joking, while showing our submissive nature can work very well with some Alphas. It is definitely working with Marcelo. What do you think about it, brother?
3. Right now, I ensured a chance to serve Marcelo, and I see a slight chance of serving Felipe. But even with Marcelo I don’t know if he will accept sexual service. I know that we fags are always craving straight Alpha cum, but sometimes I think that the vast majority of service to straight Alphas is not sexual… am I right? I have very little experience with Alphas.

Thank you, Sam. I really appreciate your support and would love to stay in touch.

Love,
Caio.

I really love how Caio immediately and accurately followed by instructions, and he did a good job of trying to reason with them! These kinds of blocks can be maddening, but Caio has kept his composure and he’s not giving up.

Part of why I told Caio to approach both of them differently is because I wanted these reactions from these two Alphas. The only way to correctly solve a puzzle is to see it from different perspectives.

Let’s take Alpha Felipe first. The Caring Nurturer type is tough because they want to believe in this utopian ideal of equality, like the world is an episode of Star Trek or some shit. It’s NOT, though. It might be nice to live in a vanilla-flavored dream world where we all hold hands and sing “fa la la” all day long, but that’s simply not reality.

Alpha Felipe is an overly-activated Protector Alpha. Even more problematic is the fact that Alpha Felipe clearly loves his little faggot friend Caio, and doesn’t want to demean him by using him. The only way through this barrier is to break it down over time with logical reasoning on the truth of hierarchy. Caio needs to help Alpha Felipe understand that he’s Alpha for a reason (I’ll bet he doesn’t even believe in Alphahood or his own Alpha status) and that logically, if there are Alphas, then the polar opposite must also exist (in other words, faggots). He needs to appreciate that our entire world, natural and man-made, is all built on hierarchy. That hierarchy is NATURAL.

I’m not sure Alpha Felipe will ever come around and see the truth. I’m very sure he will never call Caio a faggot (or maricón) or even accept that truth about his friend Caio. What a shame. Alpha Felipe is missing out on the rich possibilities his own life could be as a King of our world, and the power he would feel if he allowed submissives to submit to him and serve him!

But here’s what I’d suggest next for Alpha Felipe: let him read this post directly from this site so he can examine it. He needs to realize there is much more to this than some silly fetish. It’s REALITY!

As for Alpha Marcelo, his playfulness and good-natured flirting is fun, but he needs to take this more seriously. I think Caio needs to stop joking around with him about this stuff (which puts you on his level as a friend) and start acting submissively toward him. Here’s what I suggest: offer Alpha Marcelo a foot massage. Be worshipful about it. Alpha Marcelo needs to see that you truly worship him and are eager to serve his needs. For straight Alphas, this is usually a revelation, because women do not treat them the way they know they deserve.

In a general sense, it’s important for Caio to be more submissive and respectful. Start calling them Sir, use submissive body language, etc. When playing video games with them, sit on the floor at their feet. Start serving their needs (like fetching drinks, etc.). Just be of more service. The girlfriend makeover is a terrific way to serve Alpha Marcelo, but make it clear that you’re doing it because HE deserves to be satisfied and pleased.

These are my suggestions for right now. I do think these young Alphas can be helped to appreciate their real place in the world, and Caio is just the clever faggot to do it!

Talk soon, Caio!

Hello! My name is Caio. My brother is straight and he always brings his friends to play videogames and soccer in our house. They stay in the living room, talking loud, mocking each other, playing online soccer, drinking beer, farting, and doing things that straight guys do. They are all straight, and they come here without their girlfriends because they say that they need some “free time without the ladies.” I am a fag, my brother knows that, and respects me, but we don’t talk about my sexuality very often. All his friends respect me as well, they make homophobic jokes among them, but never when I’m around. I like to fetch them snacks and beers when they’re here, they just say thanks but do not seem to be interested in anything related to hierarchy.

But there is one guy named Marcelo who is a bit different, he makes more direct comments about me, including some jokes and puns. Last week my brother made a barbecue in our house because our parents were out and he invited his straight friends. As always, I served them and tried to be helpful, but they basically ignored me or just said “thanks” while playing their games. Marcelo, however, called me the little mermaid when I wore my speedos to join them in the swimming pool, then said that I have beautiful legs. When we went to eat the barbecue, he kept joking if I wanted to taste his sausage. Another of my brother’s straight friends, Felipe, is very polite and politically correct, and reprimanded Marcelo in front of everybody for offering me sausage making this joke or calling me a mermaid saying that it was homophobic and not funny. I didn’t say anything, but I got so horny seeing one straight Alpha saying that I have nice legs, while another Alpha was trying to “protect” me, although I was not offended at all.

When they were leaving and everybody was drunk, all the guys said good-bye without touching me at all, but Marcelo gave me a hug, SLAPPED MY ASS, and said “wow, if I were your brother I would seriously consider incest” and started laughing out loud. A few hours later, Felipe texted me saying that Marcelo’s attitude was unacceptable and rude, that he could never had slapped me without consent, and that he wanted to apologize on his behalf, asking me if I wanted him to talk to Marcelo about that. I told him that it was okay, that I understand that he was just joking, but that I appreciated his concern. I asked my brother about Marcelo later that day and he said that I should stop fantasizing with his friends because Marcelo is straight and was only drunk and making fun of me.

Felipe treats me like a virgin girl from 1950s and keeps thinking that anything slightly sexual is homophobic and disrespectful. Marcelo is the opposite and touches me whenever and however he wants and never stops making jokes about me being a fag. I would love to suck both of them, but I know that if I offer them head and they refuse, it will probably affect their friendship with my brother, and my brother will be really mad at me. What should I do, brother? By the way, I am 19, my brother is 23, Felipe is 23, and Marcelo is 25. So a lot of hormones going on!! Thank you Sam, I love you and what you do for little fags like me

My brother, thank you for writing to me!

This is a very interesting situation you’re in right now!

Let me say this first: you tell me “they’re not interested in hierarchy“ but they can’t avoid it. Hierarchy affects all of us regardless of whether they’re aware of it or not. It’s inescapable.

That said, the effects of hierarchy can be muted by emotional and social conditioning. For instance, Felipe has been conditioned to think everyone should be treated ethically and fairly, and even the suggestion of inequality is somehow homophobic. Unfortunately, Felipe is wrong. Men are NOT equal, and acknowledging that fact isn’t homophobic. A faggot is simply not equal to a Man. This is a fact, and I think the other Alphas you mention recognize this fact. They let you serve them as if it’s the most natural thing in the world because it is.

Marcelo, on the other hand, has clearly been thinking about you and your submissiveness. It has nothing to do with him being drunk. Your willing submission has pinged his Alpha instincts (which is why I’ve always taught that fags need to show submission to ALL Men because Men are paying attention!) and he wants to try using you.

Personally, I think you can potentially serve Marcelo and Felipe, but they require two different approaches.

With Felipe, you need to teach him about hierarchy. You can use this site for reference, of course. Reason out with him the truth of hierarchy simply by looking around at our world, or his dealings with other Alphas. You could use my “Letter To An Alpha” to help him grasp the purpose of faggots. This might break the conditioning that currently blinds him.

As for Marcelo, I think he’s ready to try using you. Offer Marcelo a foot massage, or kneel and kiss his feet. Make him food and serve him. Buy him a gift. Do something tangible to demonstrate you’re serving him.

Or ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha (and emphasize that you think he is), and speak to him in plain terms about there are naturally Alphas and faggots and you were born to serve.

Or ask to speak with him, kneel, and thank him for accepting you as a faggot. Tell him that serving him fulfills you as a faggot.

One of those methods should trigger Marcelo into action. I think he’s been feeling you out to see if you’re receptive (rather than just taking you) because you’re the little fag brother of his Alpha friend, and also because he doesn’t know how to capture faggots yet. He’s trying, but it’s still foreign to him.

Keep this in mind: once one domino falls, the rest fall. If you suck off Marcelo and he likes it, don’t be surprised if the others take a turn, too. I’ve seen it happen. Alphas talk, and they love to share a good thing with the members of their pack.

I’m excited for you, little brother. This is a great situation, and you’re poised to really elevate one or more of these Alphas through your worship/service!

Keep me posted!

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Hey Sam!, How’s it going?

I’ll call myself Osvaldo. I’m a 22 year old Mexican fag who’s been following your content for over two years now. It has made me realize my place in hierarchy. I really love to surrender to a man and service him. I’ve done it sometimes with men I’ve met on Grindr, but I’m pretty much done with that.

Anyway. I’m writing to you ’cause I want your advice; you certainly have experience with these things. I want to serve an alpha man, just one; for life, if possible. And I think I have the perfect candidate.

I’ll call him “Matt”. He’s my same age, and I met him in my university. To picture him physically, think of a trust fund kid (he ain’t got that much money now, but he was born, raised and still participates in that environment); he’s a bit shorter that me (I’m 5’9″), slimmer than me, really hairy an very, very handsome. And yes, like any man from that context, he’s straight and kind of religious. He knows I’m gay and he’s chill about it, he’s even said that in the future, he’ll help me adopt children so I can build my own family, haha.

I have kind of served him for as long as I’ve known your content. “How so?” you might wonder. Well, he’s an entrepreneur and I’m his personal assistant; as well as the assistant of one of our friends, as they do business together. Also, as we’re in the same classes at uni; I’ve been his teacher whenever we have a test and I’ve included him on group projects and he does nothing, as I know he has more important things to do. He’s aware of the things I do for him off-work, and he sometimes thanks me. I wish I could get to the point where I can take his load from all my holes, but I’ll conform with servicing and worshipping his feet for now, haha. I’ve thought of I few strategies, and I’d like  your feedback on them.

I’m thinking about feminizing myself, by doing the following:
1. Going to the gym to become slimmer. Rn, I’m kind of chubby. Not fat nor thin. My body concentrates some fat on my belly, but mostly on my thighs and ass. I want to train to have a slimmer figure, femboy-like.
2. Shave my whole body. I’m naturally kind of hairy, mostly on my lower back, arms, legs, (and again) thighs and ass. I’ve started to do so recently and I have received positive feedback from the men from Grindr, but I’m not sure if it’ll apply to him as well.
3. Wear feminine clothes. I’m thinking on start wearing fishnets, a choker (maybe) and lingerie for my fat ass (haha). I can’t outright wear women’s clothes, like skirts as I, for starters, don’t really like wearing those; and also because Matt, his business friend and my other boss, and our whole friend group don’t like “stereotypical” gays (i.e., loud, promiscuous and feminine wannabes). Also, because our line of work involves the local government, and our city is kinda conservative, I can’t do that openly. I’ll have to be discreet.

Now come all my questions, and I’d like to read what you think. Also, if your followers have some tips on the matter, I’d like to read them too:
1. Do you have a gym routine I can follow to reduce my belly fat and to define my thighs and ass?
2. Can you recommend a skincare and shaving routine? My body hair grows quickly and my skin is really sensitive to that, and to shaving
3. What discreet things can I wear and how do I show them to him?
4. How do I deepen further my service to him? I’ll be off-duty with him for either six months to a year, ’cause unfortunately I have to attend some personal business.

I plan to be working with my other boss and with Matt for the rest my life, though. That’s why I thought of Matt to be my master. I want him to know that he has a service faggot in me, and that he can use my mouth on fag pussy whenever he likes, either because his future girlfriend/wife doesn’t want to take his load (his past girlfriends have been like that), or just because he wants to blow some steam quickly. I don’t want to be an unclaimed fag forever.

I hope you can read and answer my query. I’ll be expectant! Thank you for everything you do with this site, you’re the best!

Sincerely yours, Osvaldo

Osvaldo, thank you for your detailed message!

First of all, I’m curious about how you think you’re going to seduce a straight Alpha that you said “doesn’t like stereotypical gays who act too feminine” by dressing up in feminizing clothes. That doesn’t make any sense. Straight Alphas will use faggots that look masculine. They respond to submission, not your clothes or use of makeup and stuff like that. They want their DL faggots to be passable males so that others don’t think they’re interested in faggots. Get what I mean?

As for your questions:

1. It’s almost impossible for me to go into great detail about a gym routine here. You’re young, so dieting will go a long way toward shaping your body. There are several routines online you can try to develop your glutes (ass muscles), something all straight Alphas will notice.

2. If you really grow hair quickly (and thickly), I’d recommend waxing. Waxing actually thins and reduces hair if you do it often enough, and allows you longer periods of time without needing to shave. Straight Alphas generally want us clean-shaven everywhere, so this would be the route I would take.

3. You can wear thongs that could show above the waistline of your pants. Maybe wearing more pink colors or feminine colored clothes? This is a hard one because typical male clothing isn’t particularly designed to be sexually enticing (although that is changing somewhat).

4. I’m not sure I understand what “off-duty with him for a year” means. It sounds like you WON’T be with him, so … I dunno, the wording confuses me. Just be genuinely complimentary, submissive, try to get physically lower than him (closer to his feet) whenever possible, etc.

I think it’s great that you want to be a long-term owned faggot, and that’s certainly possible. I wouldn’t just fixate on one Alpha right now, because sometimes we miss opportunities with other Alphas while focusing on one specific person. You’re young and you have a game plan. Just execute it with every Man, and you’ll find success!

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I work in a refugee center and there are three Arab Alpha Refugees from Syria! They grab their big bulges when I am around! How should I approach them? I feel the need to worship them!

Thank you for writing!

First of all, I thank you for the work you’re doing at that refugee center! As you may or may not know, I rescued an 18-year-old boy from Syria in 2017 at great risk and cost to both myself and him. Fortunately, it worked out eventually, and my precious Baby Boy is safe and thriving in Australia today. He is the most precious treasure in my life, a gift I will forever hold close.

The Syrian people have been brutalized by so many harsh regimes (as well as a punishing religious order) that helping them can be tricky. Baby Boy somehow kept his heart intact through all of the terror and abuse he suffered, but he was one of the fortunate few.

Hierarchically, most males in that region are conditioned to be Alphas. Of course, that doesn’t always “take”, but most of them recognize the natural order. From what I’ve come to know through this site over the years, straight Muslim Alphas have no issue using faggots as long as they can get away with it. Syria is one of the most virulently anti-gay countries in the world (Baby Boy saw gay people getting beheaded in the town square), so there is a lot of dangerous homophobia to be aware of.

Maybe try to acknowledge their bulges with your eye contact (and maybe a sly smile) the next time they’re grabbing them. This might trigger them to know what you are. This is a tricky situation (especially since this is occurring at your job), but you never know.

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🚨Hierarchical positioning!

Notice how the Alpha takes the higher seat, looking down on the weaker male?

Ideally, all faqqots seeking to serve straight Alphas can trigger a response by taking the lower seat at their feet and looking up at them!

HierarchyIsTruth

Hi Sam,

I hope you’re doing good. I have a straight friend, Patrick, who I find really charming, he’s very smart and has a really nice body. Me and him have been friends for a few months now, and I’ve realized I would like him to be my master/dom in some way. However, he’s never used fags before, to my knowledge. How do I bridge the gap without it being too awkward or coming on too strong. I don’t want turn him away and possibly ruin our friendship. I’ll take any and all advice you could give me, and thanks in advance!

Sincerely,

Luke

Luke, thank you for writing to me!

That’s great that you’ve found a possible Alpha to serve! I know it’s always a little intimidating, but there’s really nothing to fear. This is all quite natural.

I don’t know how often you hang out together (or even your ages), so some of what I suggest might not be applicable given that I don’t how you typically interact. If you’re hanging out watching movies or sports in a house, try to get low in relation to his body (like sit on the floor at his feet, etc.). Offer to pay for food/drinks when you’re out together. Be genuinely complimentary. If he’s single, offer to do cleaning or laundry for him, or detail his car. In other words, find ways to be USEFUL to him. This will eventually trigger something in him if he’s truly Alpha.

A shortcut to this longer play is to simply engage him in a conversation about hierarchy. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Definitely pump up his confidence on this. Then explain hierarchy to him in relation to himself and where he stands among other males.

Depending how that conversation goes, you can show him this site’s pinned post about hierarchy so he can read it. Or perhaps give him my “Letter To An Alpha” (right sidebar) so he can more fully understand your feelings.

Again, without much detailed information about both of you and your situation, it’s hard to advise further. But these are benchmarks in the whole seduction phase with an Alpha.

Let me know how it goes!

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