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Feeding The Beast

August 11, 2026 No Comments

The following post is part of a thread chronicling a gay marriage that has blossomed into a hierarchical union between a faggot named Dean and his husband. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!


It’s been interesting to me to follow the hierarchical transformation of Dean’s marriage to an oddly-repressed Alpha. As Dean’s understanding and acceptance of his purpose as a faggot has grown, his Alpha husband has also transformed into much more of the Alpha he was always meant to be.

This is why I emphasize how fully-actualized faggots help all Men become what they actually are. Even if that Man is a straight Alpha with no interest in gay sex, owning and using fags financially or domestically transforms him. That’s what we’re seeing in Dean’s Alpha husband as Dean submits to him more deeply.

But now we’re getting into tougher territory. A big test of a fag’s real commitment to service is the acceptance of an Alpha’s need to breed others. For most people, this would be a violation of a marriage bond, but for a faggot married to an Alpha it’s merely another way to submit.

But that service can be deepened even more, as Dean is going to discuss in his latest update:

As I told you some months ago, I have accepted that my Master-Husband has the need to breed other faggots to embrace his real nature as an Alpha. Despite our love for each other, our transition towards an unequal relationship required some adjustments in our apartment: I now sleep in the individual bed from the guests room and he stays in the master bedroom. This has made things more practical, as when he brings fags home the bedroom is always available and I can have my space while he fucks them. He also sometimes invites me in the master bedroom to sleep with him. This makes these nights even more special and I always take extra care to be smooth and ready for him. He particularly enjoys playing with me while I am asleep and often I wake up with him fingering my pussy or with his full length already inside me.

Unsurprisingly, he is having no trouble finding other faggots. He goes to the gym commando and these bitches practically throw themselves at him! I can’t blame them. But as I told you in my previous message, I wanted to find and offer him some faggots to show him my acceptance of our new relationship. My Master-Husband also thought that it would be a good exercise to train my submission and promised me that, if he liked them, he would let me join and give me his cum at the end.

My fag hunting exercise has proven very successful, so I wanted to share the tricks that I learned in case it was useful for someone else in a similar journey. At the beginning, I found it difficult to introduce the topic when I identified one, but eventually I realised that faggots love to talk about men and their relationships and is often one of the first conversations that they have with someone new. My strategy has been to start by asking, as naturally as possible:

  • Have you ever been with an Alpha?

This is usually followed by them asking me what do I mean by an Alpha, which enables me to talk about the hierarchy and my relationship with my Master-Husband. They are always very curious about it, and it leads to several questions about the relationship dynamics. I make sure to show them a picture of him before we talk about the sexual dynamics, so that when we do they subconsciously start imagining him doing the things that I describe.

Then I ask the question that seals the deal:

  • Have you ever been cunted?

They rarely know what I mean by this, but when I explain what it is, I have them begging me to spend a night with him!

As you can see these questions are based on the material and advice that you provide in the website to approach Alphas, just tailored to faggots and their weaknesses, and it has worked wonderfully. After all, it takes one to know one! So again, thank you Sam!


I’m really proud of Dean for embracing the new arrangement in their home. I think it’s necessary, but that doesn’t make it easy. It’s great how quickly Dean’s husband instituted new rules and sleeping arrangements, staking his claim as Master. This is an important developmental step for an Alpha, and ones wise faggots accept.

The net result of Dean’s Master-husband enforcing these rules and breeding other fags in what used to be their bed is a deepening of Dean’s submission. I suppose we could call it “cucking” even though I don’t think that exactly fits. However, the arrangement does act like a chastity cage as far as denial is concerned.

Also, Master-Husband’s prolific breeding habits leaves Dean in awe. This is why Dean was so eager to find fags for Master-Husband to breed … it’s a version of tributing to a King. These fresh fags are Dean’s tribute to him.

I absolutely loved hearing how Dean inverted my approach to Alphas in order to entice more faggots! Such a clever thing to do! I’m sure Master-Husband loved these new toys being delivered to him by his personal faggot!

Once again, it’s SO IMPORTANT to embrace truth, especially in a marriage. When we do that, not only are we allowing ourselves to experience fulfillment, but we’re also giving our partner that same gift!

Thank you, Dean!

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August 9, 2026 No Comments

Hi sam,
Many thanks for your answer to my question about handling personal life and service to a Master.
The MASTER i’m in contact with online said the same thing but i guess HE wanted me to hear it from someone else, especially an experienced sub like you 🙂
i’ll do my best to find the right Master. i’m surprised however that you say that France is the country with more powerful Alphas per square kilometer than you’ve ever known. What makes you say that? i saw many findom Masters (though i don’t consider most of them like “masters” because they only care for the money) but no so many real Masters…
Also, i’d like to add one more question, as you’ve been really nice to me: what is, according to you, the best way to find a Master when you’re a beginner in France?
Many thanks again for taking time to answer me.
i wish you a great day.
faggot didier (as the MASTER i’m chatting with calls me and i love it)


This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thanks for writing back, Didier!

I said that about France because of the number of French Alphas I’ve chronicled on this site over the years, the number of French Alphas and Masters (not cashmasters) I communicate with on X and elsewhere. They all seem to be much more attuned to hierarchy in France than any other country.

To find a Master in France (or anywhere), it starts with your immediate circle of contacts. Think about the Men you regularly come into contact with or personally know. Are any of them Men you’d like to serve? Then make yourself useful to those Men, be complimentary, be submissive to them. When you feel comfortable enough with them and think there is a possibility, you offer your services as their faggot. You can use my “Letter To An Alpha” or my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” to make that conversation possible.

If you try this, you’ll find success. I promise! Especially in France!

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When Straight Alphas Want To Fuck Ass

August 5, 2026 No Comments

The following post is part of a thread following a faggot named Caio who wants to serve his two straight Alpha friends Felipe and Marcello, but they both have different issues with it. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!


It’s a scientific fact that all straight Alphas want to fuck assholes. Why? Because it’s tighter, it’s taboo, and it’s painful for the receiver. Men have deep sadistic streaks running through them, and they can barely hide it even when they’re trying.

There’s just one huge problem for these straight Men and Alphas: women almost entirely hate being fucked in the ass and will do whatever they can to refuse it.

This does, of course, provide a huge opening (no pun intended) for faggots to offer their own holes for use. That’s one reason why we’ve seen an increasing number of straight Alphas owning faggots. Not only will a faggot never tell an Alpha “no”, but it will practically beg for even more dick and cum! Straight Alphas are getting wise to this.

But so are the girlfriends of these straight Alphas. They don’t want to be repeatedly fucked in the ass by their Alphas, so why not arrange for the boyfriend to fuck a faggot instead? It takes the burden off of the girlfriend, while also making use of a fag’s natural function.

It’s one of those few situations where a faggot is a perfect solution to a persistent problem!

Notice how that situation is happening to Caio:

Hi brother Sam! This is Caio again, I sent you two messages about my complicated life with Marcelo and Felipe. Do you remember me?

I told you that Felipe was too politically correct and Marcelo just makes jokes about me being a fag. And I was trying to serve them.

I have been serving Marcelo by making his girlfriend’s hair, make-up, and nails for three weeks now. She is really nice and really sweet with me. She always says how much she loves the gays and how her best friends are all feminine guys. We got really close to each other and it didn’t take too long for us to start talking about Marcelo. After a few days talking about superficial stuff, she said “you know Caio, I’m gonna tell you something because you’re my girly friend, but Marcelo has a huge dick, he gives me too much work”. I was so horny that I needed to make a huge effort not to show her how much I desire her boyfriend’s cock. But I just said “girl, you should enjoy it, I wish I had a pussy like you, that would make my life so much easier” and she laughed and went a bit deeper, and said “you know, I admire you gay bottoms because I would never let a man touch my ass, it hurts to take him in my pussy, I’m sure he’ll never convince a girl to take him in the ass, no matter how much he tries”. I told her that Marcelo is a really great guy and she should at least try, but she just chuckled and said that “she lets anal sex for the gays because she already has a pussy”. I didn’t want to insist, so I just changed the topic and went back to preparing her beautiful hair.

My first thought was to serve Marcelo by convincing his girl to give him her virgin ass, but I don’t think this is gonna happen at all. And I have a a virgin ass too! I have already make out with other fags, and I have sucked the cock of two Alphas, but my ass is completely virgin and perfectly tight. That day when I arrived home I texted Marcelo and said “Sir, your girl is nice and ready for you, I hope you’ll have fun tonight”, then he send a clapping emoji and called me a really good boy. I told him that it is always a pleasure to serve him and that I’d always do anything that I could to make sure he’ll have a beautiful lady to satisfy him. I tested the waters and asked him if his girl was submissive and he just said “not even close”, but I was afraid of saying too much, so I didn’t say anything else.

I’m so horny and confused! I now know that Marcelo wants to fuck some ass, but his girl doesn’t accept it. I have a virgin ass and I’d be really happy to take him in my hole. At the same time, I am virgin and apparently he has a huge cock, so I don’t know if I can do it… please Sam, can you help me? What would you do in my place?

Regarding Felipe, I don’t actually have an update, but we are still in touch and I’m trying to see how it goes.

Thank you my lovely brother!


I’ve suggested in the past that I believe Alpha Marcelo’s “jokes” are not really jokes (I believe all such jokes have a seed of intentional suggestion in them). I do think Marcelo would do something with Caio if the situation was right.

Well, that situation might be right NOW. As Alpha Marcelo keeps joking around with Caio, his girlfriend is putting out vibes that she wants Marcelo to fuck Caio!

Caio asked me what I would do if I were in that situation. I would probably get Alpha Marcelo alone, kneel before him (or at least get physically lower than him) and ask him if I’ve been serving him well. Then emphasize to Alpha Marcelo that pleasing him pleases me (this concept is absolutely foreign to straight Men/Alphas). Then I would tell him about the conversation with his girlfriend, and then make it clear that my body belongs to him if he needs it.

Now, Alpha Marcelo might not immediately react positively to the suggestion, but the seed will have been planted. He’ll go away and think about that offer. Then watch what happens later!

That’s probably not the only way to handle it, it that’s how I would do it. Maybe tailor the approach to your own taste and style.

However, I think Alpha Marcelo is definitely attainable. He’s a ripe fruit waiting to be picked, so go get him, Caio!

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Kamal Takes Courageous Action!

August 1, 2026 No Comments

The following post is part of a thread following Kamal, a faggot who has a desire to serve his Alpha professor uncle Farid. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!


When Kamal first wrote to me a couple of days ago, his expressed desire to serve his Alpha uncle Farid seemed difficult. Yes, his uncle is a professor of gender studies, and yes, his uncle has been talking to Kamal about hierarchy. It still seemed to be a difficult conversation. I answered him honestly, and gave him my advice. You can read that first QFR by CLICKING HERE.

Now, very often I advise people and they don’t take action. Of course, I can’t make anybody do what they’re unable to or unwilling to do. But there is only one thing is true: anyone who is unwilling to play the game will never, ever have a chance to win.

That is why I rejoiced when I received this inspirational update from Kamal:

Dear Sam,

Your words have been a quiet compass for me. I planned to write explaining why taking on household chores isn’t straightforward—his wife would notice the shift, and she already doesn’t like me much. Besides, between classes and varsity practice, I’m rarely home when she does them—but I’ve offered to help her  and maybe i can slowly take over the tasks that relate to my uncle. I want to serve him. I want to be the one who meets his needs. But that’s not why I’m writing tonight.

Masculinity has always been a quiet puzzle for me. Outwardly, I fit the part: my posture, my voice, the way people read me. But inwardly, something else stirs. It’s when I imagine being taken by a man like my uncle that everything clarifies. More than anything, I want to serve someone I deeply respect and admire. Someone whose strength—steady, unyielding, effortless—makes me want to kneel. To show him how much I want him. To let him know, without doubt, that he owns me. That his pleasure is my purpose, and being used exactly as he desires is my calling. And because it’s my uncle who has awakened this in me, he’s the only one who can fill the hollow ache inside me. The one who can finally make me who i am.

In my heart I believe this confusion only ends when he takes me for his own. When he pushes deep enough that I stop being the man I thought I was—the one who hides behind a hard shell—and finally become what I’m meant to be. I need him to split my core open, peel away the disguise I’ve worn for years, and set who I truly am free for him to see. Buoyed by your words, today I decided to stop hiding. To “man up” one last time and tell him everything and be done hiding.

It went… I don’t really know how. I found him in his study, lost in a book. When I asked to speak with him seriously, he set it down and gestured to the couch. But instead of sitting across from him, I stepped close, dropped to my knees between his spread legs, and looked up into his eyes. He blinked, surprised. I told him everything—how long I’d waited, how deeply I wanted him, how his strength pulled at something in me I couldn’t name. I held his gaze the whole time, even as my voice trembled. When I finished, the weight of it hit me all at once. My chest shook. I looked down, and tears spilled over before I could stop them.

His hand found my head and he tilted it up until i was facing him. But I couldn’t look at him so I don’t know what he saw. He spoke in that low, steady voice I know means business: “This is true?” I actually don’t remember if it was a question or a statement. All I could do was say yes and that I’d never lie to him.

There was a long enough silence that I risked a glance at his face. His eyes locked onto mine, and something in them shifted—darkened, softened, or maybe both. He exhaled slowly. “I need some time alone with this, Kamal. I’m glad you told me. Don’t cry.” His thumb brushed away a tear, and I stood and left him there. 

Now I’m waiting. My pulse won’t settle and I jump at every door opening, phone chiming. I can’t wait till he gets home tonight and it’s the thing I’m most afraid of at the same time. I don’t know what will happen, but I’ll tell you when I know. 

Thank you for helping me.


HOORAY!!!

Kamal took action almost immediately, and was able to FINALLY express the feelings that had been tormenting him! And Sir Farid’s response was quite positive (others may read it differently), showing tenderness and empathy to his faggot nephew while also metering his response so as to not over-react! That is what true leaders do! I’m incredibly impressed by Sir Farid’s powerful example!

But I’m beyond proud of my brother Kamal! What he did took a lot of courage, strength, and humility! He opened his heart and offered himself with trust to the one Alpha in his life!

Why can’t more faggots do this? What stops them from trusting that superior Men would react in superior ways??

I can’t wait to find out the resolution to this situation!

Good job, my brother!

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July 30, 2026 No Comments

Hi im a 16 year old and im a faggot and i need your help because i dont know how to approach this part of myself ( sorry if my english is bad im from italy) and also how do i find a alpha my age? I been realy intrigued by tue story of master lucas and hope to find one like him what should i do?


Hi little brother! Thank you for writing! By the way, your English is just fine!

I wouldn’t pin my hopes on finding an Alpha like Master Lucas, because he’s a rare type of Alpha. However, I am sure there are Alphas in your school who could use a faggot. In school, you just start by being useful or looking for ways to serve nonsexually. Identify one or two Alphas you’d like to serve (hopefully you already know them) and start offering to buy things for them or do homework for them. Be genuinely complimentary about how they look (young Alphas love flattery and are triggered by it). Maybe even start calling them “Sir” (in Italian, of course) to see if that gets their attention.

The Alphas you seek are in your school. Go get them!

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July 30, 2026 No Comments

Dear Sam,
I hope you’re doing great. My name is Kamal, and I’m an 18-year-old college student living with my uncle, Farid, who’s a professor of gender studies on campus. I’m writing to you because I think I’ve finally figured out who I am—a faggot, and I’m really excited to learn how I can help my alpha male uncle in the way he wants.
Over the time we’ve been living together, Farid has introduced me to some interesting readings about gender and we’ve even discussed male hierarchy. The more I talk with him, the more convinced I get that I am a faggot and he is clearly an alpha male.
Farid is incredibly dominant and masculine, with a beautiful muscular body that I can’t help but stare at. His pecs are luscious, his thighs are strong, his biceps look like safety to me, and his nipples are impossible to ignore. But what really gets my heart racing is his magnificent cock—8 inches long and so thick it makes me crave the pain of taking it for the first time. Just thinking about it makes me weak in the knees.
I know that as a faggot, my main role is to serve and please my alpha male uncle. I’m eager to do whatever it takes to fulfill this role and become the ultimate sex slave for him. More than anything, I am ready to be cunted, relieved of the burden of false masculinity and transformed into a faggot by and for my uncle. I want to hurt for him, be caged by him, used by him, controlled and protected by him. It’s a physical need like hunger that I can’t stop thinking about. 

How can I make him see past his affection for me and as the fag I want him to make me into? How can I make him be the one to cunt me, make me feel the void, make me cum from being fucked by him while my cock is trapped in the cage he puts me in? Please Sam, help me. 

Kamal.


Kamal, thanks for writing!

Congratulations on discovering your true purpose! It’s an important step that is so vital for all faggots to embrace so they can live their best lives! I’m glad you’ve found the truth!

I’m pretty sure your uncle is Alpha as well. More importantly, based on his conversations with you, I believe he knows you’re a faggot. Because of the family connection, I’m sure that’s why he hasn’t forced you into submission already. However, all of those types of concerns fall away in the face of pure hierarchical truth. It doesn’t matter that he’s your uncle … he’s Alpha, and you were born to serve Alphas like him.

I know you’re all hot and bothered about getting fucked, but part of being a faggot is succeeding in the small details as well. Are you doing all of the domestic chores? Are you ironing his clothes, etc.? Are you serving him meals? Offering to provide other forms of domestic-like service? These should be happening, or you should start doing them. This will trigger in his mind that you are accepting your role as his faggot.

To break the ice even more, you might have him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in right sidebar). He’s a scholarly Alpha who understands hierarchy on some level, so I imagine that letter would ring true to him. I have little doubt that he would have a positive response after reading that (combined with your exemplary service around the house).

Try those things and see what happens, brother!

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July 29, 2026 No Comments

Hi Sam!

My name is Rulfo, and I am pretty sure I’m a faggot, but I’m 23 and no man has ever touched me. I’m not really attractive, I’m hairy, and a bit chubby. I think my life would be so much easier if I were cute, but it is what it is, and that’s okay. I have a co-worker who is openly bisexual and loves to brag about the girls and guys he fucks. Yesterday, we were talking (in Spanish) and in the middle of the sentence he said in English that our new intern, a 19-year-old guy, was “a good boy”. I didn’t understand what he meant, so I just smiled and then he said “do you know the difference between a bad boy and a good boy?”. I thought he was still talking about the college students we receive as interns, so I just said “well, good boys are more committed to their work.” He laughed and said “no, good boys deserve to be kissed, and bad boys deserve to be spanked, but at the end of the day both deserve to be bred”. I blushed immediately, it was so embarrassing, and at the same time so arousing, he kept laughing at my embarrassment. I arrived home and jerked off thinking about him. He is so Alpha and so confident in everything he does, I feel really safe when he’s around. At the same time, I am fully aware that I’m not as attractive as the cute intern or any other college twink he can find… what do you think? what would you do in my place? do you think comments/jokes like this one is just him being funny or maybe I should try to serve him?

I’ve been reading your work for 3 years, but that’s my first message to you. I hope you’ll be able to read it! I love you and your work, brother!


My brother, thank you for writing for the first time!

Let me just address the first part of your letter for a second. You say you’re “not attractive” because you’re hairy and chubby. I always encourage faggots who are serious about serving to try and get into the best shape they can, even if it’s just dieting and simple exercises. Do it for you and your self-confidence! The hair part might be more difficult to deal with, but even that can be solved. Even if you don’t, consider this: I have a fag friend who is obese and REALLY hairy, yet he serves all the time. Why? Because he knows what he wants and he isn’t shy. Being confident in yourself and your place as a faggot will overcome a lot of other, superficial issues.

This Alpha co-worker is very interesting to me. He’s quite confident and self-assured. I do think he was testing you with that statement. He was testing your reaction in order to see what it revealed about you possibly being a faggot. I thought you gave him an EXCELLENT response, and he played along! I’m proud of you for that!

So what did we learn? He fucks faggots, and he’s not too terribly picky (he breeds good boy and bad!) as long as they’re faggots (boys). He’s playful and he’s easy to talk to. And, most importantly, he understands the basics of hierarchy and recognizes it.

Here’s what I think you should do: since he’s already brought it up to you, ask him if you could ask a question and then ask him if he ever trains virgin faggots (maricons). Let him figure out that you’re talking about yourself. See where that conversation leads. Don’t be afraid of doing this, because he’s the one who introduced the subject. He did that for a reason!

If you just can’t get yourself to say that to him, let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) and that will definitely break the ice!

I’m excited for you, Rulfo! This could be the break you need!

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July 27, 2026 No Comments

Hello, im a novice faggot, ive been submissive before but then I unfortunately keep fighting it and returning to non faggot behaviors which is so wrong. Can u put me in contact with a master who is willing to train me? Especially an alpha who is kind, because I think too strong of an alpha will scare me too much, If possible let the training be online, if you know any alphas where I live thats even better


Thank you for the question, little brother!

I feel your distress, trust me! However, I don’t do connections like that anymore because when I tried to do that years ago it was a disaster every time. I simply don’t have the bandwidth to handle that with everything else. I’m sorry.

Besides, you didn’t even tell me where you’re located! I mean, I flunked ESP in college, brother!

My strong advice is for you to join my free Hierarchy University Discord. There are plenty of rooms there to explore, people to meet, and advice to seek. There are also channels dedicated to every country on Earth, so you can search for people in your area.

That’s all I’ve got.

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A Coming Vacation Of Service!

July 25, 2026 1 Comment

The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older straight Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!


As I’ve written before, the French love their coastal vacations and trips to other countries. It’s basically expected of everyone to take a month (or more) off for a long, luxurious vacation abroad. That’s definitely not how it works here in America (unless you’re ultra-rich!). It sounds like a nice way to live.

However, for young Titouan, a holiday by the sea means more “work” servicing young, shirtless Alphas playing in the water and flexing for girls. And it sounds like he’s looking forward to it:

Will be soon going to French Mediterranean seaside with my family. Already been there last holiday. Fortunately my parents and sisters do not stay with me all afternoons at beach, which makes some hot things possible…

2 Pics (with the boys’ words, I translated  from french) :  happened last time. Here Arab and Black boys are often   dominant Alphas , it can be seen at lycée (high school), and same on the beach… i know my duty is to be their young faggot and worship their dicks, they love that so much.

I hope so much this time again  such Alpha boys , or could be an Alpha mature man, will see I look at them or him, feel and show their superiority, will call me pédale (faggot), will be excited by my twink look. And will want to use me as their fag boy and cocksucker, thinking only of their Alpha rights to unlimited pleasure.  

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Caio’s Twin Troubles

July 6, 2026 No Comments

The following post is part of a thread following a faggot named Caio who wants to serve his two straight Alpha friends Felipe and Marcello, but they both have different issues with it. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!


A few days ago I received a letter from a faggot named Caio who asked how he should approach two straight Alpha friends of his who seem to be interested in him in some non-specific ways. You can read that first letter and my advice by CLICKING HERE.

Caio’s situation is frustrating because he’s actually dealing with the two types of Alphas that block faggot approaches the best. Alpha Felipe is the Caring Nurturer type of Protector Alpha who always firmly believes in proper manners and equality and respectful kindness at all times. On the other hand, Alpha Marcelo is the Playful Flirt type of Protector Alpha, a Man who likes to tease inferiors but would never want to actually degrade anyone.

These two types very often deflect approaches for service quite effectively, and I’ll admit that these two types have given me fits in the past as well. It’s hard to get kind, sweet, caring Alphas to see how unequal we are, or how they actually have a right to be served and worshiped in any capacity.

I want to get into Caio’s update right away so I can dissect it a bit more, because it’s complicated.

Hello! This is Caio again, I messaged you a few days ago talking about my brother’s friends, Marcelo and Felipe. I hope you remember me.

I really appreciate your feedback. I tried my best to approach both of them in the past few days, and I wanted to know what you think about my strategy, please. I will try to be concise but there is a lot to say…

First, I copy and pasted your Letter to an Alpha (thanks for that!) and sent it to Felipe. At first, he asked what was going on, so I explained to him that I think he was an Alpha, and I am a faggot, and explained the basic logics of hierarchy. I told him that he doesn’t need to touch me at all, but that I would be happy to serve him in any way he needs. He texted back saying “can I call you, Caio?” I was so excited and expecting a sexy porn movie plot, I was hoping he would call me a naughty fag, demand me to go to his place, give him head, and submitting my hole to him. But I was terribly wrong. He started by saying that I should not refer to myself using the word faggot (I tried to translate it in our language to explain to him), then he refused to repeat the word because he said it was homophobic. And to conclude he said “I think you need professional help to encouter your inner self and your self-steem, I can help you finding a therapist”. Can you believe it, brother? I told him that everything was okay and apologized for telling him about hierarchy. He was really sweet and said that he will not tell anything to my brother, but that I should “understand my self value”. Then we changed the topic and just pretended that nothing happened.

Right after I had this major frustration with Felipe, I decided to try it with Marcelo. Instead of just sending him the letter, I texted him pretending that I was just joking. The last time he saw me was when he slapped my ass, as I told you in my previous message, so I said “remember when you slapped my ass and said that if we were brothers you’d consider incest, or were you too drunk to remember?”, he answer with a laughing emoji. but I guess he thought I was mad, because he added “I think I do, sometimes I’m an idiot with my jokes, but you know I really care about you”. I wanted to show him that there is no reason for him to feel bad, so I said “yeah, you’re an idiot because now every time another guy wants to slap my ass I think about your hand because they don’t have your Alpha energy”. I also added a laughing emoji just to be safe. In case he reacted badly, I would just saying I was joking because unlike Felipe he loves acid and sexual jokes. But I think using the expression “Alpha energy” was a smart move because he reacted to my message with a little flame and said “well, we agree that I’m an idiot sometimes, and we agree that I have Alpha energy, these are already two things we have in common… if we find a third one, I’ll slap your ass again, ok?” I was getting nervous because he seemed to be getting into the topic more and more, but I needed to remain sexy and submissive while keeping it a funny undertone so I would not scare him. So I said “we both breathe oxygen, now we have 3”, and he said “alright, remember me to slap this ass next time I see you.” We kept basically flirting with each other for almost an hour, making jokes like that, and he kept saying how much he wants to slap my ass again, so I decided to take a step forward, and said “if you are an Alpha and I’m a fag, it’s up to you to decide what to do, and I’m sure you can be more creative than just slapping my ass”. So I sent him the very same file with your letter to an Alpha to see how he would react. He thought I was joking, so he said “don’t tease me, you’re my good friend’s little brother” And I told him that I was not joking about it, and if he wanted to embrace his place in hierarchy, my brother would never know. I was afraid he would just stop answering, but he reacted well. I am really good at hair and make-up, I even make some make-up tutorials for YouTube. Marcelo asked me if I could be in charge of his girlfriend’s hair and make-up because he usually pays for her hair, nails, and make-up. Sucking his cock would make me much happier than this, but I understand that it’s not my decision on how to serve him. I said “it’d be wonderful to make sure your girl will always be gorgeous for you.” Our agreement is that he will tell her that he is paying me, and I’ll pretend I’m being paid, and I’ll visit her once a week to give her a full spa day. Let’s see how it goes…

In summary, I think your letter to an Alpha is incredibly helpful, but my approach with Felipe could have been better, it’s my fault. But with Marcelo it worked really well, and I look forward to make sure his girl will be always pretty for him.

Since I wrote a quite long message, I’ll try to wrap up with a few questions to make it easier for you to answer, brother:

  1. I think that serving Felipe will be really hard, but I haven’t given up yet. I just need to find a better approach and show him that hierarchy is beautiful. I do think he has potential to be a good Protector Alpha. He is really sweet and caring with his girlfriend, and even with me, he just needs to understand that being superior is not a problem. On contrary, he can only be so caring with his girl and his friend’s fag brother because he is indeed superior to us. If you were in my situation, would you give up, or maybe try another approach?
  2. I realized that pretending that we are joking, while showing our submissive nature can work very well with some Alphas. It is definitely working with Marcelo. What do you think about it, brother?
  3. Right now, I ensured a chance to serve Marcelo, and I see a slight chance of serving Felipe. But even with Marcelo I don’t know if he will accept sexual service. I know that we fags are always craving straight Alpha cum, but sometimes I think that the vast majority of service to straight Alphas is not sexual… am I right? I have very little experience with Alphas.

Thank you, Sam. I really appreciate your support and would love to stay in touch.

Love,
Caio.


I really love how Caio immediately and accurately followed by instructions, and he did a good job of trying to reason with them! These kinds of blocks can be maddening, but Caio has kept his composure and he’s not giving up.

Part of why I told Caio to approach both of them differently is because I wanted these reactions from these two Alphas. The only way to correctly solve a puzzle is to see it from different perspectives.

Let’s take Alpha Felipe first. The Caring Nurturer type is tough because they want to believe in this utopian ideal of equality, like the world is an episode of Star Trek or some shit. It’s NOT, though. It might be nice to live in a vanilla-flavored dream world where we all hold hands and sing “fa la la” all day long, but that’s simply not reality.

Alpha Felipe is an overly-activated Protector Alpha. Even more problematic is the fact that Alpha Felipe clearly loves his little faggot friend Caio, and doesn’t want to demean him by using him. The only way through this barrier is to break it down over time with logical reasoning on the truth of hierarchy. Caio needs to help Alpha Felipe understand that he’s Alpha for a reason (I’ll bet he doesn’t even believe in Alphahood or his own Alpha status) and that logically, if there are Alphas, then the polar opposite must also exist (in other words, faggots). He needs to appreciate that our entire world, natural and man-made, is all built on hierarchy. That hierarchy is NATURAL.

I’m not sure Alpha Felipe will ever come around and see the truth. I’m very sure he will never call Caio a faggot (or maricón) or even accept that truth about his friend Caio. What a shame. Alpha Felipe is missing out on the rich possibilities his own life could be as a King of our world, and the power he would feel if he allowed submissives to submit to him and serve him!

But here’s what I’d suggest next for Alpha Felipe: let him read this post directly from this site so he can examine it. He needs to realize there is much more to this than some silly fetish. It’s REALITY!

As for Alpha Marcelo, his playfulness and good-natured flirting is fun, but he needs to take this more seriously. I think Caio needs to stop joking around with him about this stuff (which puts you on his level as a friend) and start acting submissively toward him. Here’s what I suggest: offer Alpha Marcelo a foot massage. Be worshipful about it. Alpha Marcelo needs to see that you truly worship him and are eager to serve his needs. For straight Alphas, this is usually a revelation, because women do not treat them the way they know they deserve.

In a general sense, it’s important for Caio to be more submissive and respectful. Start calling them Sir, use submissive body language, etc. When playing video games with them, sit on the floor at their feet. Start serving their needs (like fetching drinks, etc.). Just be of more service. The girlfriend makeover is a terrific way to serve Alpha Marcelo, but make it clear that you’re doing it because HE deserves to be satisfied and pleased.

These are my suggestions for right now. I do think these young Alphas can be helped to appreciate their real place in the world, and Caio is just the clever faggot to do it!

Talk soon, Caio!

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Hello! My name is Caio. My brother is straight and he always brings his friends to play videogames and soccer in our house. They stay in the living room, talking loud, mocking each other, playing online soccer, drinking beer, farting, and doing things that straight guys do. They are all straight, and they come here without their girlfriends because they say that they need some “free time without the ladies.” I am a fag, my brother knows that, and respects me, but we don’t talk about my sexuality very often. All his friends respect me as well, they make homophobic jokes among them, but never when I’m around. I like to fetch them snacks and beers when they’re here, they just say thanks but do not seem to be interested in anything related to hierarchy.

But there is one guy named Marcelo who is a bit different, he makes more direct comments about me, including some jokes and puns. Last week my brother made a barbecue in our house because our parents were out and he invited his straight friends. As always, I served them and tried to be helpful, but they basically ignored me or just said “thanks” while playing their games. Marcelo, however, called me the little mermaid when I wore my speedos to join them in the swimming pool, then said that I have beautiful legs. When we went to eat the barbecue, he kept joking if I wanted to taste his sausage. Another of my brother’s straight friends, Felipe, is very polite and politically correct, and reprimanded Marcelo in front of everybody for offering me sausage making this joke or calling me a mermaid saying that it was homophobic and not funny. I didn’t say anything, but I got so horny seeing one straight Alpha saying that I have nice legs, while another Alpha was trying to “protect” me, although I was not offended at all.

When they were leaving and everybody was drunk, all the guys said good-bye without touching me at all, but Marcelo gave me a hug, SLAPPED MY ASS, and said “wow, if I were your brother I would seriously consider incest” and started laughing out loud. A few hours later, Felipe texted me saying that Marcelo’s attitude was unacceptable and rude, that he could never had slapped me without consent, and that he wanted to apologize on his behalf, asking me if I wanted him to talk to Marcelo about that. I told him that it was okay, that I understand that he was just joking, but that I appreciated his concern. I asked my brother about Marcelo later that day and he said that I should stop fantasizing with his friends because Marcelo is straight and was only drunk and making fun of me.

Felipe treats me like a virgin girl from 1950s and keeps thinking that anything slightly sexual is homophobic and disrespectful. Marcelo is the opposite and touches me whenever and however he wants and never stops making jokes about me being a fag. I would love to suck both of them, but I know that if I offer them head and they refuse, it will probably affect their friendship with my brother, and my brother will be really mad at me. What should I do, brother? By the way, I am 19, my brother is 23, Felipe is 23, and Marcelo is 25. So a lot of hormones going on!! Thank you Sam, I love you and what you do for little fags like me


My brother, thank you for writing to me!

This is a very interesting situation you’re in right now!

Let me say this first: you tell me “they’re not interested in hierarchy“ but they can’t avoid it. Hierarchy affects all of us regardless of whether they’re aware of it or not. It’s inescapable.

That said, the effects of hierarchy can be muted by emotional and social conditioning. For instance, Felipe has been conditioned to think everyone should be treated ethically and fairly, and even the suggestion of inequality is somehow homophobic. Unfortunately, Felipe is wrong. Men are NOT equal, and acknowledging that fact isn’t homophobic. A faggot is simply not equal to a Man. This is a fact, and I think the other Alphas you mention recognize this fact. They let you serve them as if it’s the most natural thing in the world because it is.

Marcelo, on the other hand, has clearly been thinking about you and your submissiveness. It has nothing to do with him being drunk. Your willing submission has pinged his Alpha instincts (which is why I’ve always taught that fags need to show submission to ALL Men because Men are paying attention!) and he wants to try using you.

Personally, I think you can potentially serve Marcelo and Felipe, but they require two different approaches.

With Felipe, you need to teach him about hierarchy. You can use this site for reference, of course. Reason out with him the truth of hierarchy simply by looking around at our world, or his dealings with other Alphas. You could use my “Letter To An Alpha” to help him grasp the purpose of faggots. This might break the conditioning that currently blinds him.

As for Marcelo, I think he’s ready to try using you. Offer Marcelo a foot massage, or kneel and kiss his feet. Make him food and serve him. Buy him a gift. Do something tangible to demonstrate you’re serving him.

Or ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha (and emphasize that you think he is), and speak to him in plain terms about there are naturally Alphas and faggots and you were born to serve.

Or ask to speak with him, kneel, and thank him for accepting you as a faggot. Tell him that serving him fulfills you as a faggot.

One of those methods should trigger Marcelo into action. I think he’s been feeling you out to see if you’re receptive (rather than just taking you) because you’re the little fag brother of his Alpha friend, and also because he doesn’t know how to capture faggots yet. He’s trying, but it’s still foreign to him.

Keep this in mind: once one domino falls, the rest fall. If you suck off Marcelo and he likes it, don’t be surprised if the others take a turn, too. I’ve seen it happen. Alphas talk, and they love to share a good thing with the members of their pack.

I’m excited for you, little brother. This is a great situation, and you’re poised to really elevate one or more of these Alphas through your worship/service!

Keep me posted!

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Hey Sam!, How’s it going?

I’ll call myself Osvaldo. I’m a 22 year old Mexican fag who’s been following your content for over two years now. It has made me realize my place in hierarchy. I really love to surrender to a man and service him. I’ve done it sometimes with men I’ve met on Grindr, but I’m pretty much done with that.

Anyway. I’m writing to you ’cause I want your advice; you certainly have experience with these things. I want to serve an alpha man, just one; for life, if possible. And I think I have the perfect candidate.

I’ll call him “Matt”. He’s my same age, and I met him in my university. To picture him physically, think of a trust fund kid (he ain’t got that much money now, but he was born, raised and still participates in that environment); he’s a bit shorter that me (I’m 5’9″), slimmer than me, really hairy an very, very handsome. And yes, like any man from that context, he’s straight and kind of religious. He knows I’m gay and he’s chill about it, he’s even said that in the future, he’ll help me adopt children so I can build my own family, haha.

I have kind of served him for as long as I’ve known your content. “How so?” you might wonder. Well, he’s an entrepreneur and I’m his personal assistant; as well as the assistant of one of our friends, as they do business together. Also, as we’re in the same classes at uni; I’ve been his teacher whenever we have a test and I’ve included him on group projects and he does nothing, as I know he has more important things to do. He’s aware of the things I do for him off-work, and he sometimes thanks me. I wish I could get to the point where I can take his load from all my holes, but I’ll conform with servicing and worshipping his feet for now, haha. I’ve thought of I few strategies, and I’d like  your feedback on them.

I’m thinking about feminizing myself, by doing the following:
1. Going to the gym to become slimmer. Rn, I’m kind of chubby. Not fat nor thin. My body concentrates some fat on my belly, but mostly on my thighs and ass. I want to train to have a slimmer figure, femboy-like.
2. Shave my whole body. I’m naturally kind of hairy, mostly on my lower back, arms, legs, (and again) thighs and ass. I’ve started to do so recently and I have received positive feedback from the men from Grindr, but I’m not sure if it’ll apply to him as well.
3. Wear feminine clothes. I’m thinking on start wearing fishnets, a choker (maybe) and lingerie for my fat ass (haha). I can’t outright wear women’s clothes, like skirts as I, for starters, don’t really like wearing those; and also because Matt, his business friend and my other boss, and our whole friend group don’t like “stereotypical” gays (i.e., loud, promiscuous and feminine wannabes). Also, because our line of work involves the local government, and our city is kinda conservative, I can’t do that openly. I’ll have to be discreet.

Now come all my questions, and I’d like to read what you think. Also, if your followers have some tips on the matter, I’d like to read them too:
1. Do you have a gym routine I can follow to reduce my belly fat and to define my thighs and ass?
2. Can you recommend a skincare and shaving routine? 
My body hair grows quickly and my skin is really sensitive to that, and to shaving
3. What discreet things can I wear and how do I show them to him?
4. How do I deepen further my service to him?
I’ll be off-duty with him for either six months to a year, ’cause unfortunately I have to attend some personal business.

I plan to be working with my other boss and with Matt for the rest my life, though. That’s why I thought of Matt to be my master. I want him to know that he has a service faggot in me, and that he can use my mouth on fag pussy whenever he likes, either because his future girlfriend/wife doesn’t want to take his load (his past girlfriends have been like that), or just because he wants to blow some steam quickly. I don’t want to be an unclaimed fag forever.

I hope you can read and answer my query. I’ll be expectant! Thank you for everything you do with this site, you’re the best!

Sincerely yours, Osvaldo


Osvaldo, thank you for your detailed message!

First of all, I’m curious about how you think you’re going to seduce a straight Alpha that you said “doesn’t like stereotypical gays who act too feminine” by dressing up in feminizing clothes. That doesn’t make any sense. Straight Alphas will use faggots that look masculine. They respond to submission, not your clothes or use of makeup and stuff like that. They want their DL faggots to be passable males so that others don’t think they’re interested in faggots. Get what I mean?

As for your questions:

1. It’s almost impossible for me to go into great detail about a gym routine here. You’re young, so dieting will go a long way toward shaping your body. There are several routines online you can try to develop your glutes (ass muscles), something all straight Alphas will notice.

2. If you really grow hair quickly (and thickly), I’d recommend waxing. Waxing actually thins and reduces hair if you do it often enough, and allows you longer periods of time without needing to shave. Straight Alphas generally want us clean-shaven everywhere, so this would be the route I would take.

3. You can wear thongs that could show above the waistline of your pants. Maybe wearing more pink colors or feminine colored clothes? This is a hard one because typical male clothing isn’t particularly designed to be sexually enticing (although that is changing somewhat).

4. I’m not sure I understand what “off-duty with him for a year” means. It sounds like you WON’T be with him, so … I dunno, the wording confuses me. Just be genuinely complimentary, submissive, try to get physically lower than him (closer to his feet) whenever possible, etc.

I think it’s great that you want to be a long-term owned faggot, and that’s certainly possible. I wouldn’t just fixate on one Alpha right now, because sometimes we miss opportunities with other Alphas while focusing on one specific person. You’re young and you have a game plan. Just execute it with every Man, and you’ll find success!

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June 4, 2026 No Comments

I work in a refugee center and there are three Arab Alpha Refugees from Syria! They grab their big bulges when I am around! How should I approach them? I feel the need to worship them!


Thank you for writing!

First of all, I thank you for the work you’re doing at that refugee center! As you may or may not know, I rescued an 18-year-old boy from Syria in 2017 at great risk and cost to both myself and him. Fortunately, it worked out eventually, and my precious Baby Boy is safe and thriving in Australia today. He is the most precious treasure in my life, a gift I will forever hold close.

The Syrian people have been brutalized by so many harsh regimes (as well as a punishing religious order) that helping them can be tricky. Baby Boy somehow kept his heart intact through all of the terror and abuse he suffered, but he was one of the fortunate few.

Hierarchically, most males in that region are conditioned to be Alphas. Of course, that doesn’t always “take”, but most of them recognize the natural order. From what I’ve come to know through this site over the years, straight Muslim Alphas have no issue using faggots as long as they can get away with it. Syria is one of the most virulently anti-gay countries in the world (Baby Boy saw gay people getting beheaded in the town square), so there is a lot of dangerous homophobia to be aware of.

Maybe try to acknowledge their bulges with your eye contact (and maybe a sly smile) the next time they’re grabbing them. This might trigger them to know what you are. This is a tricky situation (especially since this is occurring at your job), but you never know.

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May 24, 2026 No Comments

🚨Hierarchical positioning!

Notice how the Alpha takes the higher seat, looking down on the weaker male?

Ideally, all faqqots seeking to serve straight Alphas can trigger a response by taking the lower seat at their feet and looking up at them!

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Hi Sam,

I hope you’re doing good. I have a straight friend, Patrick, who I find really charming, he’s very smart and has a really nice body. Me and him have been friends for a few months now, and I’ve realized I would like him to be my master/dom in some way. However, he’s never used fags before, to my knowledge. How do I bridge the gap without it being too awkward or coming on too strong. I don’t want turn him away and possibly ruin our friendship. I’ll take any and all advice you could give me, and thanks in advance!

Sincerely,

Luke


Luke, thank you for writing to me!

That’s great that you’ve found a possible Alpha to serve! I know it’s always a little intimidating, but there’s really nothing to fear. This is all quite natural.

I don’t know how often you hang out together (or even your ages), so some of what I suggest might not be applicable given that I don’t how you typically interact. If you’re hanging out watching movies or sports in a house, try to get low in relation to his body (like sit on the floor at his feet, etc.). Offer to pay for food/drinks when you’re out together. Be genuinely complimentary. If he’s single, offer to do cleaning or laundry for him, or detail his car. In other words, find ways to be USEFUL to him. This will eventually trigger something in him if he’s truly Alpha.

A shortcut to this longer play is to simply engage him in a conversation about hierarchy. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Definitely pump up his confidence on this. Then explain hierarchy to him in relation to himself and where he stands among other males.

Depending how that conversation goes, you can show him this site’s pinned post about hierarchy so he can read it. Or perhaps give him my “Letter To An Alpha” (right sidebar) so he can more fully understand your feelings.

Again, without much detailed information about both of you and your situation, it’s hard to advise further. But these are benchmarks in the whole seduction phase with an Alpha.

Let me know how it goes!

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May 22, 2026 No Comments

Where can I find true alpha men? I would prefer gay but BI would be okay too.


Thanks for writing!

It’s not that hard, brother. Go wherever Men like to congregate and socialize. Gyms, bars, sporting events, parks, hardware stores (there’s a reason why Home Depot is called “Homo Depot”), etc. If you’re in school, that’s even better because they’re literally everywhere and always horny.

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May 9, 2026 No Comments

Hi I think this site is perfect to what this site stands for but it isn’t easy. I’m in my 20s but seem to be attracted to these young muscular frat guys, pretty much only str8 guys thought. Any suggestions, should I become a sissy to seduce them to use me. Any approaches, apps are not my superpower as they are full of older gays, bottoms, and others fems.

*Maybe becoming a cumdump, but it’s not 100% my goal if I service horny guys that are my type,


Thank you for the question!

You can definitely serve younger Alphas! Typically, Alphas discover the service of faggots during one of two phases in their lives: ages 18-22, when they’re young and horny and only care about getting serviced/worshiped …. and in their early thirties, when they finally realize they are not meant to be tied down to one female. So you have two primary targets.

You DON’T seduce straight Alphas by dressing up as a female to fool them. That’s a great way to get your ass kicked completely in.

You seduce them by being submissive, plain-spoken about your purpose (and, alternately, theirs), and making yourself useful in some way. How that happens depends on the circumstances or level of involvement.

Go where these Alphas are. Bars, sporting events, GYMS, etc. And start making yourself useful to them.

I have a book coming that goes into greater detail entitled “How To Seduce Straight Alphas”. It’s currently on pre-order. But regardless, the above outlines the general plan.

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Hi Sam. I hope you’re having a wonderful day/evening. I wanted to ask how do I make my straight alpha friend become my master? Me and him have been friends for a few years now and I really want him to my master. He’s not fully aware I’m a faggot, but he knows I like kinky things. I’ve been trying to gauge how he feels about these certain things by making “jokes,” like paying to smell his feet, but I don’t know how to further push it without just admitting it to him. I’m just scared it would drive him away if I came on too strong, but I’d really like him to be my master. What is the best way to get the point across? Thank you for your help in advance!


Thank you for writing!

First of all, there is no way to “make” your straight Alpha friend do anything. There are techniques you can try to arouse his dominance, but to my knowledge there is no hypnosis technique for this! Believe me, I wish there was!

So let me get this straight: you’ve made jokes about paying him to smell his feet, and it didn’t register at all? That’s odd, although I suspect that he’s started to turn questions over in his mind.

Given that I don’t know how old you both are, or what your situation is (do you spend a lot of time together alone, etc.), my advice is limited. But my primary recommendation is to print out my “Letter To An Alpha” and humbly, submissively give it to him to read. It’s designed to gently bridge the gap between a straight Alpha and a faggot. Or, you can do something I often recommend, which is to ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Depending on his answer, you can lead him to a discussion of Hierarchy. You could even tell him you came across this site and it made you curious about his thoughts on hierarchy.

You obviously need to engage him more specifically. These are the steps I think you should take, brother.

Keep me informed!

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March 22, 2026 No Comments

Hey, how’s it going?

I am Henry, 20 yo, and i am going through something and what’s better than asking advice online, am i right? Firstly i want to apologize for typos in advance, english isn’t my first language.

It has been a few months since i started at the gym and figured out i am just a weak boy desperate for some male muscular attention, i have to control myself so hard when i am working out because those beefy men make me so fucking weak. I have no sexual experience, actually not even social skills at all, so i find very hard to interact with men in real life, and we can say where i live it’s not a very homosexual friendly place.

All of that lead me to try to find someone interesting in the internet. Going through some forums i actually met a very interesting guy in a masculinity topics. Our initial conversation were about gym and other typical manly stuff, i love letting men talk about that it. But pretty quickly our conversation turned into him actually showing off to me and boy… i dream about those muscles every day and night. I said to him how i had the desire of a homoerotic friendship with a straight man and he actually liked the idea and started talking freely about sexual topics and showing off to me, and always asked if his body made me horny. It did, it really did. Not only his body was amazing but i loved how he guided the conversations, how he were such an alpha in the way he chatted and i loved raising his ego. It was so good being in that place that nothing else would make me sexually excited. Soon he started been even more incisive (is that the right word?) and began to be a real alpha, he said things like “i am sure i am all you ever wanted to be”, said he knew he would have control over me easily and played saying i should get on my knees, that gave me actual chills even though it was just a text. 

Things got even more intense when he started sending pictures specifically based in what i said were some of my interests (armpit, flexing after workout, …) and asked if i jerk off thinking about his body. I didn’t confess to him at first because i thought it was a bit weird, but after some time he really insisted and sent me so many hot pictures that i couldn’t resist and i did it and confessed to him. He said it made him feel very good and even more comfortable to talk to me and i also felt very good of being in that position.

But ever since, we barely talked anymore. We talked about some other stuff but sexual topics were never brought back again. It has been almost a month and i am feeling so sad about that, i really need his attention and it’s killing me not being put in my place once again. I hate feeling like i might have done something wrong and i know that sometimes people just change their interests, but i had to come here and ask for some advice, i can’t stop thinking about that.


Thank you for the question!

I understand your frustration, brother. However, your situation is a perfect example of why I discourage online flirting and Alpha-seeking. You must understand that straight Alphas love the attention of faggots because they love attention in general. However, to them it’s just a game. They get so much attention that their lives are just merry-go-rounds of worship and adulation.

It’s all meaningless to them, even though it meant everything to you.

You simply cannot invest much into any online foolishness, because almost all of it is smoke and mirrors. This is another reason why I’m so skeptical and critical of online findom. It’s just not REAL.

You’re much better off talking to Alphas at your gym or in other parts of your life. As you do, you’ll gain more confidence and knowledge how to speak to these superior Men face-to-face. It’ll be a much better pursuit, I promise.

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Angel’s Persistence Pays Off!

March 18, 2026 No Comments

The following post is part of a thread chronicling the development of a 22-year-old faggot in Mexico named Angel as he submits to and serves a prolifically-virile straight Alpha named Garcia! CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!


There comes a moment in the lifecycle of a faggot when the fag must go outside its comfort zone and make an offer of service to an Alpha. This is not always easy, especially when dealing with straight Alphas who are unfamiliar with the logical truth of hierarchy. Although most straight Alphas won’t become violent if approached correctly, that thought is always running through the fag’s mind. It’s that fear that keeps faggots from actually taking that step, and they end up frustrated and unfulfilled.

That’s why I was so proud to hear from a faggot named Angel from Mexico recently. He asked for help in approaching a straight Alpha named Garcia who had already commandeered Angel’s house for sexual encounters with random females. You can read those other asks with the link above.

But now there has been a major breakthrough! Previously, Master Garcia refused to be touched or have his feet kissed because it was “too gay” (a typical complaint from straight Alphas). But listen to what just happened:

Hi Sam!! This is Angel from Mexico again. Guess what?? Garcia brought two girls to my house on Sunday and the fucked aaaaaall day. When they left, I thought he would leave too, but he decided to stay!! And told me to serve his dinner. Of course I did, and served the best meal of his life <3 and even baked a nice cake for him after his dinner. Then he said “oh wow, this food is so good, and I came so much today, I’m really tired” Then I did a wild move and asked him if he wanted a foot massage while I served some whisky for him. And he said yes!! Omg it was so amazing. This time I didn’t try to kiss his feet, I just gave him a long and relaxing massage with my fag hands.

I know it sounds stupid that I am so happy for giving him a massage, but it was soooo good!! I would never imagine that he would allow me to touch him, he is super super heteronormative. But he had a big smile on his face… I don’t think he will ever let me suck his cock but I’m so glad serving him this way. I will give him the letter to an alpha as you said, I am just thinking about the best way to do it without scaring him, you know?

Anyway, I just wanted to share this with you because I feel like your little brother and I love you <3


What a good boy!! I’m so proud of you, Angel!

Given the fact that Master Garcia had rebuffed Angel’s attempts to touch/kiss his feet, it would be understandable if Angel pulled back out of respect and fear. But Angel didn’t allow that fear to dictate his actions or his opportunities! Master Garcia’s demand for a meal gave Angel the resolve to try again!

And it WORKED!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to not only be brave, but also persistently submissive. Angel took my advice and continued to provide service to Master Garcia despite the fact that it seemed Master Garcia would never allow him to serve. This is critical, because many faggots would’ve stopped serving once they realized they wouldn’t get what they wanted. But that’s what sets true faggots apart from the rest!

So the effect of Angel’s continuous and faithful service resulted in Master Garcia finally lowering his guard and allowing his (currently unclaimed) faggot to serve him more intimately!

From Angel’s experience, we learn how a faggot’s faithful and extremely submissive service essentially allows the faggot to fly under the radar of an Alpha’s defenses. Before they know it, Alphas discover how much they love being worshiped by fags. It’s a magical discovery for them. They start to feel a power they never expected from fag ownership, and they want more of it.

This is the underlying mechanism of hierarchical dynamics.

I’m so grateful to Angel for sharing his experience with us and illustrating in “real time” how to ease into the good graces of a powerful straight Alpha!

Angel asked my opinion on how to present the “Letter To An Alpha” to Master Garcia. I’m not sure if an opportunity will naturally develop, but he could kneel and ask Master Garcia for his opinion on it. That could lead to an interesting conversation!

But I have all of the faith in my little brother Angel! I love you, kiddo!

Always,

sam the faggot

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