🚨Hierarchical positioning!

Notice how the Alpha takes the higher seat, looking down on the weaker male?

Ideally, all faqqots seeking to serve straight Alphas can trigger a response by taking the lower seat at their feet and looking up at them!

HierarchyIsTruth

Hi Sam,

I hope you’re doing good. I have a straight friend, Patrick, who I find really charming, he’s very smart and has a really nice body. Me and him have been friends for a few months now, and I’ve realized I would like him to be my master/dom in some way. However, he’s never used fags before, to my knowledge. How do I bridge the gap without it being too awkward or coming on too strong. I don’t want turn him away and possibly ruin our friendship. I’ll take any and all advice you could give me, and thanks in advance!

Sincerely,

Luke

Luke, thank you for writing to me!

That’s great that you’ve found a possible Alpha to serve! I know it’s always a little intimidating, but there’s really nothing to fear. This is all quite natural.

I don’t know how often you hang out together (or even your ages), so some of what I suggest might not be applicable given that I don’t how you typically interact. If you’re hanging out watching movies or sports in a house, try to get low in relation to his body (like sit on the floor at his feet, etc.). Offer to pay for food/drinks when you’re out together. Be genuinely complimentary. If he’s single, offer to do cleaning or laundry for him, or detail his car. In other words, find ways to be USEFUL to him. This will eventually trigger something in him if he’s truly Alpha.

A shortcut to this longer play is to simply engage him in a conversation about hierarchy. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Definitely pump up his confidence on this. Then explain hierarchy to him in relation to himself and where he stands among other males.

Depending how that conversation goes, you can show him this site’s pinned post about hierarchy so he can read it. Or perhaps give him my “Letter To An Alpha” (right sidebar) so he can more fully understand your feelings.

Again, without much detailed information about both of you and your situation, it’s hard to advise further. But these are benchmarks in the whole seduction phase with an Alpha.

Let me know how it goes!

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Where can I find true alpha men? I would prefer gay but BI would be okay too.

Thanks for writing!

It’s not that hard, brother. Go wherever Men like to congregate and socialize. Gyms, bars, sporting events, parks, hardware stores (there’s a reason why Home Depot is called “Homo Depot”), etc. If you’re in school, that’s even better because they’re literally everywhere and always horny.

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Hi I think this site is perfect to what this site stands for but it isn’t easy. I’m in my 20s but seem to be attracted to these young muscular frat guys, pretty much only str8 guys thought. Any suggestions, should I become a sissy to seduce them to use me. Any approaches, apps are not my superpower as they are full of older gays, bottoms, and others fems.

*Maybe becoming a cumdump, but it’s not 100% my goal if I service horny guys that are my type,

Thank you for the question!

You can definitely serve younger Alphas! Typically, Alphas discover the service of faggots during one of two phases in their lives: ages 18-22, when they’re young and horny and only care about getting serviced/worshiped …. and in their early thirties, when they finally realize they are not meant to be tied down to one female. So you have two primary targets.

You DON’T seduce straight Alphas by dressing up as a female to fool them. That’s a great way to get your ass kicked completely in.

You seduce them by being submissive, plain-spoken about your purpose (and, alternately, theirs), and making yourself useful in some way. How that happens depends on the circumstances or level of involvement.

Go where these Alphas are. Bars, sporting events, GYMS, etc. And start making yourself useful to them.

I have a book coming that goes into greater detail entitled “How To Seduce Straight Alphas”. It’s currently on pre-order. But regardless, the above outlines the general plan.

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Hi Sam. I hope you’re having a wonderful day/evening. I wanted to ask how do I make my straight alpha friend become my master? Me and him have been friends for a few years now and I really want him to my master. He’s not fully aware I’m a faggot, but he knows I like kinky things. I’ve been trying to gauge how he feels about these certain things by making “jokes,” like paying to smell his feet, but I don’t know how to further push it without just admitting it to him. I’m just scared it would drive him away if I came on too strong, but I’d really like him to be my master. What is the best way to get the point across? Thank you for your help in advance!

Thank you for writing!

First of all, there is no way to “make” your straight Alpha friend do anything. There are techniques you can try to arouse his dominance, but to my knowledge there is no hypnosis technique for this! Believe me, I wish there was!

So let me get this straight: you’ve made jokes about paying him to smell his feet, and it didn’t register at all? That’s odd, although I suspect that he’s started to turn questions over in his mind.

Given that I don’t know how old you both are, or what your situation is (do you spend a lot of time together alone, etc.), my advice is limited. But my primary recommendation is to print out my “Letter To An Alpha” and humbly, submissively give it to him to read. It’s designed to gently bridge the gap between a straight Alpha and a faggot. Or, you can do something I often recommend, which is to ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Depending on his answer, you can lead him to a discussion of Hierarchy. You could even tell him you came across this site and it made you curious about his thoughts on hierarchy.

You obviously need to engage him more specifically. These are the steps I think you should take, brother.

Keep me informed!

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Hey, how’s it going?

I am Henry, 20 yo, and i am going through something and what’s better than asking advice online, am i right? Firstly i want to apologize for typos in advance, english isn’t my first language.

It has been a few months since i started at the gym and figured out i am just a weak boy desperate for some male muscular attention, i have to control myself so hard when i am working out because those beefy men make me so fucking weak. I have no sexual experience, actually not even social skills at all, so i find very hard to interact with men in real life, and we can say where i live it’s not a very homosexual friendly place.

All of that lead me to try to find someone interesting in the internet. Going through some forums i actually met a very interesting guy in a masculinity topics. Our initial conversation were about gym and other typical manly stuff, i love letting men talk about that it. But pretty quickly our conversation turned into him actually showing off to me and boy… i dream about those muscles every day and night. I said to him how i had the desire of a homoerotic friendship with a straight man and he actually liked the idea and started talking freely about sexual topics and showing off to me, and always asked if his body made me horny. It did, it really did. Not only his body was amazing but i loved how he guided the conversations, how he were such an alpha in the way he chatted and i loved raising his ego. It was so good being in that place that nothing else would make me sexually excited. Soon he started been even more incisive (is that the right word?) and began to be a real alpha, he said things like “i am sure i am all you ever wanted to be”, said he knew he would have control over me easily and played saying i should get on my knees, that gave me actual chills even though it was just a text. 

Things got even more intense when he started sending pictures specifically based in what i said were some of my interests (armpit, flexing after workout, …) and asked if i jerk off thinking about his body. I didn’t confess to him at first because i thought it was a bit weird, but after some time he really insisted and sent me so many hot pictures that i couldn’t resist and i did it and confessed to him. He said it made him feel very good and even more comfortable to talk to me and i also felt very good of being in that position.

But ever since, we barely talked anymore. We talked about some other stuff but sexual topics were never brought back again. It has been almost a month and i am feeling so sad about that, i really need his attention and it’s killing me not being put in my place once again. I hate feeling like i might have done something wrong and i know that sometimes people just change their interests, but i had to come here and ask for some advice, i can’t stop thinking about that.

Thank you for the question!

I understand your frustration, brother. However, your situation is a perfect example of why I discourage online flirting and Alpha-seeking. You must understand that straight Alphas love the attention of faggots because they love attention in general. However, to them it’s just a game. They get so much attention that their lives are just merry-go-rounds of worship and adulation.

It’s all meaningless to them, even though it meant everything to you.

You simply cannot invest much into any online foolishness, because almost all of it is smoke and mirrors. This is another reason why I’m so skeptical and critical of online findom. It’s just not REAL.

You’re much better off talking to Alphas at your gym or in other parts of your life. As you do, you’ll gain more confidence and knowledge how to speak to these superior Men face-to-face. It’ll be a much better pursuit, I promise.

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The following post is part of a thread chronicling the development of a 22-year-old faggot in Mexico named Angel as he submits to and serves a prolifically-virile straight Alpha named Garcia! CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

There comes a moment in the lifecycle of a faggot when the fag must go outside its comfort zone and make an offer of service to an Alpha. This is not always easy, especially when dealing with straight Alphas who are unfamiliar with the logical truth of hierarchy. Although most straight Alphas won’t become violent if approached correctly, that thought is always running through the fag’s mind. It’s that fear that keeps faggots from actually taking that step, and they end up frustrated and unfulfilled.

That’s why I was so proud to hear from a faggot named Angel from Mexico recently. He asked for help in approaching a straight Alpha named Garcia who had already commandeered Angel’s house for sexual encounters with random females. You can read those other asks with the link above.

But now there has been a major breakthrough! Previously, Master Garcia refused to be touched or have his feet kissed because it was “too gay” (a typical complaint from straight Alphas). But listen to what just happened:

Hi Sam!! This is Angel from Mexico again. Guess what?? Garcia brought two girls to my house on Sunday and the fucked aaaaaall day. When they left, I thought he would leave too, but he decided to stay!! And told me to serve his dinner. Of course I did, and served the best meal of his life <3 and even baked a nice cake for him after his dinner. Then he said “oh wow, this food is so good, and I came so much today, I’m really tired” Then I did a wild move and asked him if he wanted a foot massage while I served some whisky for him. And he said yes!! Omg it was so amazing. This time I didn’t try to kiss his feet, I just gave him a long and relaxing massage with my fag hands.

I know it sounds stupid that I am so happy for giving him a massage, but it was soooo good!! I would never imagine that he would allow me to touch him, he is super super heteronormative. But he had a big smile on his face… I don’t think he will ever let me suck his cock but I’m so glad serving him this way. I will give him the letter to an alpha as you said, I am just thinking about the best way to do it without scaring him, you know?

Anyway, I just wanted to share this with you because I feel like your little brother and I love you <3

What a good boy!! I’m so proud of you, Angel!

Given the fact that Master Garcia had rebuffed Angel’s attempts to touch/kiss his feet, it would be understandable if Angel pulled back out of respect and fear. But Angel didn’t allow that fear to dictate his actions or his opportunities! Master Garcia’s demand for a meal gave Angel the resolve to try again!

And it WORKED!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to not only be brave, but also persistently submissive. Angel took my advice and continued to provide service to Master Garcia despite the fact that it seemed Master Garcia would never allow him to serve. This is critical, because many faggots would’ve stopped serving once they realized they wouldn’t get what they wanted. But that’s what sets true faggots apart from the rest!

So the effect of Angel’s continuous and faithful service resulted in Master Garcia finally lowering his guard and allowing his (currently unclaimed) faggot to serve him more intimately!

From Angel’s experience, we learn how a faggot’s faithful and extremely submissive service essentially allows the faggot to fly under the radar of an Alpha’s defenses. Before they know it, Alphas discover how much they love being worshiped by fags. It’s a magical discovery for them. They start to feel a power they never expected from fag ownership, and they want more of it.

This is the underlying mechanism of hierarchical dynamics.

I’m so grateful to Angel for sharing his experience with us and illustrating in “real time” how to ease into the good graces of a powerful straight Alpha!

Angel asked my opinion on how to present the “Letter To An Alpha” to Master Garcia. I’m not sure if an opportunity will naturally develop, but he could kneel and ask Master Garcia for his opinion on it. That could lead to an interesting conversation!

But I have all of the faith in my little brother Angel! I love you, kiddo!

Always,

sam the faggot

Hi Sam, I am 18 years old and cannot find and alpha masters in my area how do I find some?

Thank you for the question!

You mean to tell me you just went through high school and couldn’t find an Alpha there?? High schools are jam-packed with horny Alphas eager to do anything just to pump a load into something. Same with college Alphas.

You need to start and end there in school. They’re swimming all around you … put some bait in the water and catch them!

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Hi Sam, I’m turning to you with a question because I don’t know who else to turn to. I’m 25 years old and from the Czech Republic (Ostrava, the third largest city). I’m looking for a dominant Alpha man (preferably heterosexual) to serve. I love foot fetish so I’d rather serve an Alpha at his feet, but I also want to serve him in general. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to find an Alpha for several years. I’ve tried erotic dating sites, classifieds, Grindr, Recon, Reddit. Lately I’ve been desperate and I’ve even tried Tinder where I tried (under fake settings) to find a dominant hetero Alpha. That was unsuccessful. Then I tried to think about who I know from my surroundings who could be an Alpha and then I approached him via Instagram (my anonymous foot fetish Instagram. And that’s because I’m not out at home). This strategy eventually backfired and I tried approaching random guys based on what I thought might be Alphas (I know it’s a bad and rude thing to do). As a result, I got banned from Instagram and I couldn’t find an Alpha.
So I’m asking you, is there any way to find an Alpha that I could serve?

Brother, thank you for the question!

I know this is a common issue for faggots, but it really sounds like you’ve exhausted every angle. I feel your frustration!

It doesn’t sound like you’ve actually tried to approach an Alpha you know in real life for service. Yes, you said you approached an real life Alpha, but through Instagram. However, there’s a lot of suspicion about people offering service without money involved. I think if you just engaged with an Alpha in real life and explained hierarchy in plain terms, you might have better success. Also, you can use my “Letter To An Alpha” in the right sidebar to assist you with that.

Also, you might think about joining my free Discord (link on the LINKS page) and searching the Czech Republic channel.

I know it’s frustrating, but if you remain alert in your day-to-day life, I know you will find success!

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Hello, Sam

My name is Angel, I am a faggot from Mexico. Sorry by English, it is not very good.

I am 22 years, and am a really proud faggot. I love to be a faggot and I wanna be a faggot forever. I have been exploring hierarchy since I turned 19 in 2023, and so far have sucked 14 Alphas and have been fucked in the ass by 6 of them. I think it’s a good number for a faggot my age, right? I do my best to please them.

I work at a hair saloon cutting hair and doing make-up. All our clients are women and the employees there are 4 girls and me.  We have a security guard there who takes care of me and the girls. His name is Garcia and he is the perfect Latino Alpha, brother. Strong, tall, handsome, big arms, big hands, hairy chest. He is a God among Men. Since we are the only men working there, he feels more comfortable talking to me than with the girls, even though I am just a faggot. His wife is REALLY toxic and jealous and tells him not be friends with any of the girls, so I am the only person he can talk with no stress. He is not very progressive and quite conservative in some topics, but he has always been respectful with me although I am a real fag and femboy.

After a few months and with our friendship developing more and more, he confessed me that his wife is really toxic but he has 4 children with her and don’t want to divorce. I admit that for a second I thought he would want to have me as his faggot and that would be such a dream, but no. He asked me if he could use my house to fuck other women without his wife suspecting anything. So since last October he tells his wife that he’s gonna play soccer with the guys, come to my apartment and fuck his affairs in my bedroom while I wait in the kitchen cooking dinner for him. To have a perfect disguise, I usually text his wife telling that we are playing soccer, etc

So I really want to ask you 2 questions and would be really have if you could answer them: 1) should I stop giving him my house and cook for him while he cheats on his wife? They have a beautiful family together and every time I hear him banging random sluts in my bedroom I feel guilty and afraid of destroying such a nice family with four innocent kids; 2) I am desperate to serve him, I can’t stop thinking about his arms, chest, legs, and imagine how big his cock must be. But he is not at all like the straight Masters you feature here… He does not give me any hints that he would accept a blowjob from me, quite the contrary. He talks about his masculinity all the time and how much he loves pussy. But he always accepts me doing his laundry, cooking for him, and giving him my bedroom for him to fuck other girls. Do you have any tips of how to approach him in a subtle way showing how much I am begging to worship him? I have tried kissing his feet one day as a joke to see how he would react, but he immediately told me to stop with “gay shit”.

Please help me, brother! Thank you so much for everything you do for young faggots like me.

Dear brother, thank you for this letter!

What an exciting opportunity you have here! Alpha Garcia is clearly an incredibly powerful straight Alpha, and you’ve done a great job slipping into his trust and working your way into a position to serve him! I’m proud of you!

I’m also proud (and very impressed) that you’ve tried to kiss his feet! It’s a bummer he didn’t allow it, but Alphas usually don’t have a problem with a faggot massaging their feet. There would be nothing wrong with offering that service rather than kissing (which is a bit more intimate). I would also make sure you’re referring to him as “Sir” (I guess it would be “Señor”) so he is glorified.

It’s telling that he’s using you for laundry, cooking, and your house. It’s obvious that he knows exactly what you are and what your purpose is in the life of an Alpha like him. He’s not even shy about using you … he expects it. These are excellent signs, brother!

Let me answer your questions:

1. I realize that allowing him to use your place to fuck random women is upsetting you morally. It’s normal to worry about his family. However, you should look at it this way: he’s going to fuck whomever he wants because he’s Alpha. You refusing to allow him to use your house (a) limits what you can do in his service, and (b) puts him in greater danger of getting in trouble. So I think you should just focus on the privilege you have to serve him in this way.

2. You’re already doing a lot to serve this great straight Alpha. You should be grateful that he’s using you at all. Sadly, some straight Alphas will never come around to using a faggot sexually … and he might be one of them. But it might be a good idea to print out my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) and ask him to read it and give his opinion on it. I think that brief letter outlines hierarchy and purpose quite well, and many faggots have used it successfully. Try it, and see what happens. Otherwise, just be happy in his service in whatever way he allows!

You have a tremendous opportunity to find fulfillment serving such a powerful Alpha King! Just be submissive, grateful, and awe-struck as you faithfully submit to him! By our proper conduct as faggots we win over many straight Alphas! Always remember that!

I love you, brother! Keep me updated!

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Hello, I have this one guy who I’ve had sex with, he says he is straight but like the way guys give blowjobs and are okay with being fucked, his entire attitude and demeanor reminds of alpha men, but he seems to not fully realize it, j as a faggot sent him this page and asked him to go through it, is there any ways I can help him realize it faster?

Thank you for the question!

Sometimes despite all of the obvious evidence some Alphas don’t fully understand or accept what they are. Some are disproportionately modest, too. Through your submission and worship, many will generally start to embrace their truth.

If you want to help the process along, you might send him my “Letter To An Alpha” (or link him to it). There I spell out the basics of hierarchy, including his role as an Alpha. This might cause him to view you in a different light, as well as his own motivations.

Just keep serving him and worshiping him. Kiss his feet. Call him “Sir”. Thank him for using you. He’ll get the point.

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This post is part of a thread about a faggot called Prath who bravely sought to serve a straight local Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I love hearing stories from faggots who discover their true purpose and immediately and fearlessly take action to offer themselves. It’s something I’ve always taught, and a mantra I’ve lived by throughout my own journey as a faggot.

Submit now. Submit completely. Submit honestly. Submit integrally.

It’s a fairly simple philosophy, but it’s sad how many faggots fail at it.

One faggot I can say has NOT failed to fulfill it is young fag Prath. In my dealing with him, Prath has proven himself to be a conscientious student, always seeking advice and acting immediately on it.

It’s no wonder he’s had such great success in his short life!

It’s been a while since I last heard from Prath, but he reached out to me to tell me about a new experience.:

You know what it’s not very common in our country but still many people are aware about hierarchy, dominant relationship etc about the lifestyle. I have joined a gym last month and its a big franchise kind where many elite people generally comes.

As been into lifestyle I feel turn on and submissive after watching such hot gym masters around me and there I came across guy(master). He is younger to me which is a big turn on and then with a great masculine body. If it would have been before I couldn’t approached him but now after serving doms I did approach him without waiting for days.

You know what I met him in the locker room and it was him and me alone at that time. And without telling him anything I bent down on my knees so that he will understand some dynamics

I was curious and scared but at the same time with hard urge i did that and he literally laughed at me and took me towards his car after gym for the talk.

No brother it was not just a talk but he asked me more about the dynamics what I was looking by getting on my knees right there and then he made me lick his sweaty armpits while talking. And took me to his home where he was staying alone and I was shocked after seeing such a luxurious lifestyle he is living in such an age.

Oh brother he said, I want to take a look how determined you are to become my “pet” so he gave me a task to clean his house in presence of his female maid just in the boxers. I was reluctant first but then I did it and his maid was laughing continuously while he was ordering me to do this and that. I cleaned all his house, I set his clothes, his weights and made him a break fast. Only then he took a notice and asked me to pay or renewed for his gym membership and I did instantly..

After then while he was eating the breakfast I made he let me lick his feet clean and then he took in the kitchen where he fucked my mouth wildly and I was shocked to see his package is really great so that his stamina.. he fucked me whole day and made me cry and pained..

From then he makes me serve and support him in the gym like helping him with weights, towels anything I can in the gym.. even the daily black coffee he drinks in the gym in the morning only after I pay for him.

Yes brother and it always feels good to serve this kind of humurous, happy and playful alphas.

He is rich, playful and wild. He listen me like a lover and teach me like he is elder and this contradictory when he is younger to me.

Prath’s success as a faggot is directly tied to his bravery. When he sees an Alpha, he does things like kneel submissively regardless of the circumstances. He’s not ashamed to be a faggot; it’s simply what he is.

But here’s the key: ALPHAS RECOGNIZE FAGGOT SUBMISSION! When they see a faggot submissively kneeling before them, a primordial switch is triggered within them that makes them want to take ownership of it.

Faggot submission does that, but only when it’s done with the qualities I listed above, something Prath has become quite good at fulfilling.

I’m proud of my brother. Fags like him are the reason I’m here at all!

Thank you for your quick and very prompt response Brother Sam, It truly means the world to me to have you offering me advice  and guiding me, your website has really helped shape my life and identity and help me (and so many others) find purpose, I cannot thank you enough. I just wanted to write quickly to update you that I will do exactly as you said, I will have dinner ready by 5pm, over by 7 at the latest, a conversation during the movie about alphahood and serving him and I will offer to massage his feet -that was such a great idea, thank you for offering that , what a brilliant idea. I was also wondering do you think I should print out your letter to an Alpha and leave it on the couch before the movie or give it to him after or before dinner to open the conversation? would love to get your advice, also I know its my duty as a fag to serve straight Alpha men but part of me feels guilty submitting to my moms boyfriend, I want to submit to him wholly, fully and make his life better no matter what it’s my purpose as a fag but the guilt is inside me, I dont want to hurt my mom or betray her, do you have any advice on how best to deal with this guilt or reframing my view point? would dearly love any and all advice you can offer brother, I know I am destined to serve him but how do I keep the guilt away, what would you do, thank you brother, light and love -Ethan xo

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Ethan, thank you for following up!

I’m excited for you, and I’m so proud of your courage and attention to detail! Be determined to serve him, but allow the evening to dictate how you approach it. Don’t force it. Just relax, let the rhythms guide you, and just be eager to please him.

If you want to print out the “Letter To An Alpha”, that might be a good idea, but I wouldn’t lead with that, Like I said in my previous response, I firmly believe he wants to use you. So I would try the seduction techniques I outlined, and then use the letter as a way to force a conversation or to clarify a point if he (somehow) doesn’t understand. However, I KNOW HE DOES.

As far as your Mom, I understand. However, Alphas has needs, and we faggots are born to serve those specialized needs. Your Mom isn’t going to let him fuck her ass, for instance. I’m also sure you can suck dick better than her. And most importantly, you’re submissive to him in ways she will never be. You’re providing services to him to keep him with her. The likelihood of your Mom ever finding out about this is less than zero, I’m sure. Just bear in mind that this is exactly why you exist. It’s your purpose.

My thoughts are with you little brother! Be brave, and submit!

Love,

sam the faggot

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Hi Brother Sam, I Hope this message finds you well. My name is Ethan, I am an eighteen year old faggot (and proud!) living in New York, for a long time I have known I was a fag and wanted to serve Alpha men and submit to their power and hierarchy, your pages first Fags Worship Alphas and now Hierarchy have really helped me accepted my place in the world and made me feel accepted and seen, everything you talk about is exactly how I Feel, you have helped me become the fag i am today-Thank you brother Sam for helping me embrace myself and my need to serve Straight Alpha Males.

I am writing today to seek your advice about something that has been on my mind the last few months , I tried to ignore it and supress my desires and feelings out of respect to my mom but my fag urges to submit to a superior Alpha male are to strong and the last few weeks have been very interesting, I am in need of your advice as you always know best,let me go back to the beginning . My Mother has been dating this sexy muscular Alpha male named Aidan since Easter last year, this past fall Aidan moved in to our home (mine and my mother’s) and he is the most beautiful man I Have ever seen, tall, brown eyes, big arms and chest , chest hair poking out of his open shirts and oozing with alphaness, i was weak at the knees at have dreamt of serving him for months now, he’s a great guy and very charming, he’s Alpha and he knows it, he works in the bank and is a manager and is in charge of directing people and over seeing a team of people, he’s always leading and talking trash about the guys he works with and how they fuck up and he has to fix everything , he’s dominant and decisive often deciding where and when we will have dinner and telling my mom what to do and when to serve dinner and cook, (it turns me on), a few nights ago they had guests over for a dinner party and his friend tried to sit at the top of the table and Aidan didn’t allow it, insisting this was his chair, his place, his home and his right, I was turned on

I have been fantasizing about being his cum slut and serving him for months (and feeling guilty about the fact hes my moms bf but I cant help it) , recently there has been some interesting developments, I came home from school one day, house to myself (or so I thought) as usually my mom and Aidan work late and don’t come home till after 5pm, I was getting ready to head out and see some friends before dinner but wanted to take a quick shower, I walked in to the bathroom which was unlocked and was shocked to find Aidan standing there naked in all his glory about to get in the shower having just pulled his briefs down the second I walked in, my mouth hung open and my heart was beating out of my chest, Oh Sam he looked incredibly sexy and he had a beautiful cock that even non erect was huge and framed by a big thick masculine alpha bush, my voice caught and I coughed caught off guard and apologizes and said sorry that I’d be out of his way, he said it was fine but seeing as I was there to make myself useful and bring his clothes to the laundry room and put them in the hamper, he didn’t even give a moment to respond to say yes or no he flung his sweaty gym clothes and briefs at me, patted me on the back and said good boy, he walked in to the shower straight away and started showering while I was still stood there in shock, I walked out of the room more than a little turned on and put the clothes in the laundry basket (though i did keep his white calvin briefs and sniffed them inhaling his scent and musk and jerked off to him, I still have them hidden in my room)

a few days go by and my mom gets snowed under at work and can’t keep up with the laundry so it piles up (shes an ICU nurse and was very busy around the holidays/new years), Aidan comes downstairs one saturday morning annoyed that his laundry still hadn’t been done and he was out of fresh gym shorts to wear to the gym, my mom and him got in an argument and she said she shouldnt be expected to do everyones laundry and cant do everything alone, he said it was a womans role , she left for work, I was sat in the kitchen in awkward silence, I Decided to offer my services, I approached him like the good fag I am and offer to do his laundry for him right then and there (as a way of serving him even if he didnt know it) he said that would be great and told me to get to work straight away, no thank you or yes please, just pure dominance it turned me on how he spoke to me, almost like he expected me to do it and then he said he was still annoyed as he wanted to go to the gym right now but had no shorts ready, I happened to be wearing a hoodie ,t shirt and nike black shorts perfect for the gym-he happened to notice my outfit when I was walking out of the room and commented on them and said they looked good and how he wished he had a pair to wear right now then before I could even offer (which I would have) he told me he wanted to borrow my nike gym shorts to wear to the gym as I was just lounging around doing laundry I wouldn’t need them and to change, I was stunned Sam, he was so brazen and confident, not a hint of sarcasm or joking or again asking me please or thank you, almost like a demand,   i dropped my shorts then and there and handed them to him, he slid his jeans off and left them on the floor and told me to wash them as well and then he headed off to the gym, I was stunned and in awe of his dominance, I got to work straight away and did his laundry and folded all his clothes after ironing them and put them away in his cabinets, he returned later and didn’t thank me but did say I had done a nice job and that he could get used to this

fast forward to last week, he comes home from work exhausted and tired after a stressful day of clients and meetings, he storms in the room and immediately starts shucking his coat off his shoulders and body, loosening his tie and unbuttoning the top button on his shirt and he takes his shoes, he sees me, smirks at me and throws his coat and tie at me and tells me to hang them up for him, I do just that , by the time I return he is on the couch watching Super Bowl commentary before the big game and drinking a beer (that he made my mom bring him btw ) and complaining about how he has walked all over New York and how his feet  in particular are aching and in need of a massage, I tell him he works very hard and is a true leader, I sit down on the couch next to him but he stops me and tells me to put his shoes upstairs (I had just been and he never asked, I picked them up and went back to his room and putthem in his closet) . when I come back down I take my sear (moms in the kitchen making dinner and snacks for the game), he spreads his feet out across the couch in to my lap without a word, his feet smell ripe and sweaty, im so turned on but terrified to do anything, does he want me to massage his feet? is this a test? what if my mom walks in and catches me? I sit there in awkward silence , tempted to touch them and start rubbing but I dont despite wanting to, he just keeps watching them pre game commentary and ignoring me, feet still in my lap, I sit there in silence, after what felt like an eternity (but was like 20 minutes) my mom joined us, he removed his feet and we ate dinner in the drawing room watching the game, my mom took my seat and he did the same to her and put his feet in her lap and she rubbed them (barely but she did, I thought I could do a better job and would have) while she was rubbing them he made intense eye contact with me

later that night after the game I went to bed as did my mom and Aidan, he was thrilled the Seahawks won (he hates the patriots) my moms room is opposite mine so my wall is against her wall if that makes sense, its like 2am and I can hear them having sex loudly and my mom moaning out his name loudly and the bed frame shaking/hitting the wall making loud clanking noises, he sounds like a fuck machine, I think nothing of it try to block out the noise and go to sleep, the next morning Monday my mom is back at work, I have the day off due to inservie day and Aidan hasnt left for work yet, im in my room doing homework and chilling when I hear his voice, he’s on his phone, the door to  my moms bedroom is wide open and I can hear every word he’s saying, he’s talking to one of his buddys about the Seahawks winning and how pumped he is, then he starts talking about him and my mom and the sex they had, at first he’s complimentary and nice,, then his tone changes and he starts complaining that he wanted to do anal and fuck my moms ass but that she wont do anal and no matter how hard he fucks her pussy he wants to do anal and that pussy and ass aren’t the same, his friend agrees and says his wife is like that to and they vent about women not doing anal and how they miss it with random sluts they met in college, the call ends as he has to go to work, I hang out in the hallway making it clear I heard every word when he emerges from the room but say nothing, the thought of him breeding my fag ass crept in my mind

I know this is very long and detailed but I want to give you all the details, we are approaching the final part and the area where I need guidance, this friday night my mom is going to a college reunion and has left money for me and Aidan to order take out and watch a movie, she wants me to get to know him independent of her as she loves him a lot and is serious about him long term, I have been thinking about this for the last week and agonizing over what to do, a plan formed in my mind, I want to offer my asshole to Aidan and ask to serve him as his slave and do his laundry, cooking and anything he needs, I have a plan that we would watch Pillion (I saw it last fall at a film festival and LOVED it, I saw you talking about it to)  its online to watch in HD so I can get it for us, I have a plan to cook him dinner (Id use the money my mom left for take out to buy groceries) I want to make his favorite which is steak and home made french fries and strawberry cheesecake (Im a good cook, I took home ec and like to bake so its easy to me) I want to cook him a full meal, watch pillion and offer him my ass and  to serve him in anyway he needs, I even plan to wear a G-string under my shorts to show off my ass to him and how fuckable it is ,my mom has let the laundy pile up again and I havent done his on purpose so he will have to borrow my shorts again and I can show off my ass to him when I take them off for him, I have it all planned out and want to offer him my ass as well as showing him, my servitude, loyalty and cook him dinner like he deserves, massage his feet and watch pillion and discuss alphahood and servitude with him based on the film, my only issue is I am terrified of doing this, do you think he will freak or agree to it? how would you approach it sam? am I a bad son for wanting to serve my moms boyfriend sexually? I feel guilty and torn but I realize i am a fag and it is my duty to serve straight alpha men and its a natural party of hierarchy and that trumps family even if its difficult for me, I guess what I am asking is for someone who understand hierarchy to tell me I’m doing the right thing and how to approach the situation? how should I broach the subject with him, what if he tells my mom? should I even ask him? I’m nervous, excited, anxious and need help and advice and you are the best person to ask and I value your opinion and advice, please help me brother Sam -I need your wisdom, advice and help, what would you do if you were me? how would you handle ir? am I wrong for wanting to serve my moms boyfriend?, I so want to serve this man and need your help in doing so, peace, love and light-Ethan! xo

My brother Ethan, thank you for this question!

First and most importantly, I want you to understand this: Aiden knows you’re a faggot. There is absolutely no question about this. I honestly think (given his behavior) that he’s used faggots in the past. Almost all of the telltale signs are there. In fact, he seems to be trying to trigger you into submitting to him (like with the loud conversation about ass fucking). His behavior goes way beyond typical innocent Alpha behavior.

Alpha Aiden has left a veritable trail of bread crumbs leading directly to his cock, and he’s been watching you follow that trail like the good boy you are. He honestly seems to be enjoying the little tasks he throws at you, watching you scamper eagerly to please him.

Your only “failure” was not massaging his feet when he put them directly in your lap after telling the entire house how his feet hurt. This was a mistake, though understandable given that your mother was in the other room. However, it cannot be ignored that he did this anyway. He was testing you (as are all Alphas who make this move). So even though you didn’t take the bait the first time, you need to make the most of this upcoming opportunity.

Everything you said sounds perfect. It’s exactly what you should be doing to seduce this Alpha (although he sounds far too powerful to be “seduced” so much as given permission to take you). You need to serve him completely, call him “Sir”, and reduce yourself as much as possible. If nothing happens by the time he’s relaxing after dinner (make it an early dinner), then you should offer him a real foot massage. It would be a good time to admit that you wanted to rub his feet the other day, but you were nervous. That could lead into a conversation about his Alphahood and hierarchy.

Don’t be afraid, Ethan. I’m fully convinced that Alpha Aiden wants to use you. He’s not going to beat you up, obviously, so you have nothing to fear. Approach this as your greatest opportunity to truly serve a very powerful straight Alpha, so cast aside any worry and submit. He wants you to!

Keep me informed, my brother!

Love,

sam the faggot

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I want to become an obedient servant to my neighbor Steve! I’ve sent messages to him asking for his help in getting his cock into my throat and his balls on my face. He doesn’t respond but when we run into each other he’s pleasant and friendly. I can’t help staring at his crotch and I want to suck him so bad. What else can I do?

Thank you for writing, brother.

First of all, please STOP what you’re doing immediately. You’re doing it completely wrong. You think you’re being sexy for him by acting like a complete whore. Guess what, sweetheart? HE’S STRAIGHT. He’s not attracted to you physically.

That’s why we faggots must use our complete submission to fly under the radar. I always advise fags to offer services like domestic service or monetary service or gifts. I advise having conversations where you unlock his mind to think about hierarchy and his power. Get him to talk about himself. That’s why I advise fags use physical cues for submission (like getting physically/visually lower).

But you’ve blown all of that with your ridiculous actions.

I want you to go to him and humbly apologize for acting that way. Actually say “Sir, I wanted to apologize to you for disrespecting you and your Alphahood. I’m sorry that I offended you. I simply want to be useful to you.” This might get his attention.

But I think you’ve significantly fucked this opportunity.

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Hey I came across ur website a couple months ago, and it got me to realize that being a faggot was something I wanted to persue but I have never tried it so I don’t know where to start when it comes to finding a master. you have any devise or any masters looking for a new faggot?

Thank you for writing!

Congratulations on recognizing the truth in yourself and choosing to take action! That’s half the battle, honestly!

I don’t connect Alphas and faggots anymore. I tried it at the start of this site ten years ago, and it was a disaster.

I don’t know how old you are, but depending on your circumstances you just need to look around at the Alphas in your life that you’d like to serve and start submitting to them in various ways. You can use my free resource “Letter To An Alpha” in the right sidebar to open a conversation and help the Alpha you want to serve to understand what you are and what he is. That letter has worked multiple times.

You can also use apps like Grindr, TheBlowers.com, Recon, etc. Faggots often find Alphas there.

I hope that helps!

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Hi Sam! Super glad your back; i followed you for years, enjoying your posts and your dialogue of spreading the word of Alphas and faggots.

I have a question that challenges me that I hope you can answer,…I definitely believe that im a true faggot at heart, but im having trouble accepting it. I have this platonic male friend who actually deliberately engages in dominance against me. He likes to crush with me with his body (hes much bigger than me), using his body weight to essentially crush me. He enjoys forcefully humping me as a playful act,  as sort of symbol of his dominance. In a way, he seems like hes trying to teach me “you’re a faggot, im the alpha”. I think its a unique opportunity to help embrace my true faggot self…but im still having trouble letting go and fully embracing my true faggot life. Any advice for me?

Thank you for the question! I love my longtime readers!

This is a huge moment in your life, brother. This “friend” is definitely trying to dominate you (even if it’s just subconsciously). You recognize what he’s doing (thanks to me, in part!), which is also to your advantage.

What’s holding you back is fear … fear of stepping over the line and never being able to go back. Fear that your life will no longer be yours. Fear of the possible shame you’ll feel for the rest of your life.

But let me tell you what’s worse: a lifetime of regret from NOT ACTING!

I hear it again and again from older faggots who look back wistfully on a life lived in shadows of unfulfillment. Back in their day they lacked information and a freer society. They were essentially trapped, paralyzed by fear.

You don’t need to end up that way, brother. You have an Alpha who is wanting you to submit to him. Your chance his right there, dry-humping you! It’s insane to let this pass you by!

I’ll tell you the truth: the behaviors of this Alpha that you describe are very similar to the way my first Alpha Roger acted toward me until the day he made me his cocksucker and changed my life for the better!

So stop worrying about things that haven’t happened yet. You need to live in the moment right now. You learn to swim by jumping in the water and letting instinct take over. Well, it’s your time to jump.

Kneel and kiss his feet and let Nature take over. Your time in now.

Get back to me when it happens, brother.

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Hello Sam, my name is Andy. I’m a 20 year old guy in his second year of uni.

First of all I want to thank you Sam, I never really considered myself a fag before stumbling on your content, which made me comfortable with using that title.

The situation is this, last year when I started uni I met a guy in one of my classes, we quickly bonded and became friends. We started hanging out every day and going to the gym together.
He is very handsome and I found him attractive from the very begging.
I subconsciously  started serving him almost immediately after we became friends, giving him my notes, doing his homework, paying for our coffee when we go out and buying him gifts here and there.
Around May of this year I started stealing his gym underwear and socks and jerking off with them before returning them. Whenever I smell his alpha scent I just think about how much I want to serve him, however I come from a fairly homophobic Eastern European country and from the things I heard him say he is also quite homophobic and right wing.
I want to show him the hierarchy chart and explain to him that I want to serve him and be his fag however I’m afraid that he’ll stop talking to me afterwards. Is there any way I can introduce him to this world?

Thank you so much for the important work you do!

Thank you for the question!

Congrats on finding an Alpha close to you that you might be able to serve! This is a big trick I’ve always endorsed, and it works pretty well. Why? Because you’ve developed a relationship with him and he likes you, so he’s more likely to be sympathetic if you ever approach him about this.

First of all, I wouldn’t worry about the homophobia/right-wing shit, brother. Homophobic right-wingers are actually MORE likely to be the ones (a) eager to flex their Alphahood, and (b) more likely to be interested in doing gay stuff. Yes, I know it’s messed up, but that’s reality. Their aggressive homophobia is called overcompensation. Check the Grindr traffic around areas where American Republicans are holding gatherings, and Grindr actually CRASHES from so many in-denial Republicans looking for faggots! So I wouldn’t worry too much about that.

You’re already serving him in a variety of ways, and that’s really good! You didn’t mention his attitude toward all of these gifts and favors you’re doing for him, but I’m assuming he’s just accepting it without even thinking about it (Alphas sometimes take that for granted).

I would suggest that you try to sit at his feet and “get lower” when you’re around him. This action will sometimes lead to the Alpha teasing you with his feet. It triggers something inside them when they see weaker guys in vulnerable positions. He will start to view you as a plaything.

You can try a couple of resources on the site. The Hierarchy chart on here is a solid one, although it might confuse him unless you explain it. The “Letter To An Alpha” linked in the right sidebar is a useful one if you want it explained to him in a concise, logical way. And there is also my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that’s goes into greater depth (I don’t recommend it for college Alphas).

But before you give him any of those resources, you should ask him a simple question: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This almost always leads to a response, and you can usually use that response to lead him to a discussion about Hierarchy (and those resources).

Hopefully this gives you something of a game plan, brother. I have no doubt you’ll do fine with whatever course you choose. They don’t always work, but I promise you they work more often than you’d ever imagine!

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I have just started a new job and one of the guys I work with and will in future work closely with is so hot and I’d love to worship him I just don’t know how to do it any advice?

Thanks for the question!

Well, I don’t have very much to go on … but you’ll need to get to know him a little bit first, obviously. Be kind, submissive, genuinely complimentary. Then I would introduce the concept of hierarchy by asking him if he considers himself to be Alpha. This question almost always elicits a response. With whatever he tells you, direct his attention to hierarchy by reasoning with him about his place in hierarchy and the truth of inferior males.

If you show him my hierarchy pyramid, it might open up his mind even more to that and a conversation.

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I know this is a very typical question, but I feel helpless here. I’m a faggot, living in a homophobic country and studying at a university (I’m 19). I haven’t been able to get this guy out of my head for a year or so.

He is a real alpha. He’s so charismatic, confident, a little arrogant. He can sometimes be embarrassed and shy, depending on the situation, but more often he behaves like a king and like everything is under his control.

I’m not sure if he’s protective or destructive alpha tho. I heard, that he is caring in relationship, but anyway, he thinks he is better in some way than others. He can hit, if you cross the line. He and his friends even often fight with each other just for fun.

I always stared at him in the locker room and imagined how I could serve him. But the fact is that we barely talk to each other. We only say “hello” when we see each other. And.. I already tried to test the waters.

I asked one person to send him a message, so to speak, a “letter” from me with a confession. But so that I remain anonymous. This guy, the alpha, just laughed and said that he definitely did not need this. After some time I heard him and his friends discussing who it could be. And he clearly thought the situation was ridiculous and absurd. But, I think, he was a bit proud of himself, that he can attract boys too, haha.

I made a mistake. I confessed my feelings. I expected something more like a relationship. Something romantic. But I don’t know if this could ever be possible. No one’s know that it was me, who confessed. And I feel scared to do any more steps. I feel scared, even terrified, that someone will find out and start to bully me or something… The chances are high.

What should I do? Confess, that I’m okay with just being an obedient fag, not expecting anything romantic? Or just leave it behind, because my safety is a priority 1? I really need an advice, even if it’s a stupid question.

My brother, thank you for writing to me! And it’s not a stupid question at all!

One of the most heartbreaking aspects of my time running this site are the many cries for help I’ve received from faggots trapped in homophobic countries. It’s especially hard to hear this from gays in the Middle East, because as long-term readers know, I rescued an 18-year-old Syrian boy from there after he reached out to me through this site. So I have all the empathy in the world for that situation, believe me.

I realize that my message of “be brave and offer yourself” can actually be quite dangerous to people in your situation. It can also be cruel; it’s like demanding that a paralyzed person get up and walk. I never want to add any further burden to anyone.

My first advice is my most urgent: do whatever you need to do to escape your country and start a new life in freedom. Get into a school and learn a valuable skill that can get you out of there (a lot of times schools on the outside will sponsor students to move). If you have anyone on the outside, start reaching out to them and find a pathway. This isn’t going to be an overnight process, but start steering your life in that direction and fight for it like your life depends on it (because it does!).

Now, if you really want to approach this Alpha, you must do it very carefully. Either try to befriend him somehow and start offering to do things for him. Be respectful, complimentary, attentive. Once he trusts you enough, give him the “Letter To An Alpha” that I have linked in the sidebar (I’m guessing that is not the letter you already gave him). Hopefully he will see it in a different light if he cares enough about you.

That’s probably the only way you’re going to do this and still remain safe. I can’t recommend more because I don’t know the situation very well and I don’t want to give you harmful advice.

Just know that you’re in my thoughts and in my heart, little one. I love you!

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