I have just started a new job and one of the guys I work with and will in future work closely with is so hot and I’d love to worship him I just don’t know how to do it any advice?
Thanks for the question!
Well, I don’t have very much to go on … but you’ll need to get to know him a little bit first, obviously. Be kind, submissive, genuinely complimentary. Then I would introduce the concept of hierarchy by asking him if he considers himself to be Alpha. This question almost always elicits a response. With whatever he tells you, direct his attention to hierarchy by reasoning with him about his place in hierarchy and the truth of inferior males.
If you show him my hierarchy pyramid, it might open up his mind even more to that and a conversation.
I know this is a very typical question, but I feel helpless here. I’m a faggot, living in a homophobic country and studying at a university (I’m 19). I haven’t been able to get this guy out of my head for a year or so.
He is a real alpha. He’s so charismatic, confident, a little arrogant. He can sometimes be embarrassed and shy, depending on the situation, but more often he behaves like a king and like everything is under his control.
I’m not sure if he’s protective or destructive alpha tho. I heard, that he is caring in relationship, but anyway, he thinks he is better in some way than others. He can hit, if you cross the line. He and his friends even often fight with each other just for fun.
I always stared at him in the locker room and imagined how I could serve him. But the fact is that we barely talk to each other. We only say “hello” when we see each other. And.. I already tried to test the waters.
I asked one person to send him a message, so to speak, a “letter” from me with a confession. But so that I remain anonymous. This guy, the alpha, just laughed and said that he definitely did not need this. After some time I heard him and his friends discussing who it could be. And he clearly thought the situation was ridiculous and absurd. But, I think, he was a bit proud of himself, that he can attract boys too, haha.
I made a mistake. I confessed my feelings. I expected something more like a relationship. Something romantic. But I don’t know if this could ever be possible. No one’s know that it was me, who confessed. And I feel scared to do any more steps. I feel scared, even terrified, that someone will find out and start to bully me or something… The chances are high.
What should I do? Confess, that I’m okay with just being an obedient fag, not expecting anything romantic? Or just leave it behind, because my safety is a priority 1? I really need an advice, even if it’s a stupid question.
My brother, thank you for writing to me! And it’s not a stupid question at all!
One of the most heartbreaking aspects of my time running this site are the many cries for help I’ve received from faggots trapped in homophobic countries. It’s especially hard to hear this from gays in the Middle East, because as long-term readers know, I rescued an 18-year-old Syrian boy from there after he reached out to me through this site. So I have all the empathy in the world for that situation, believe me.
I realize that my message of “be brave and offer yourself” can actually be quite dangerous to people in your situation. It can also be cruel; it’s like demanding that a paralyzed person get up and walk. I never want to add any further burden to anyone.
My first advice is my most urgent: do whatever you need to do to escape your country and start a new life in freedom. Get into a school and learn a valuable skill that can get you out of there (a lot of times schools on the outside will sponsor students to move). If you have anyone on the outside, start reaching out to them and find a pathway. This isn’t going to be an overnight process, but start steering your life in that direction and fight for it like your life depends on it (because it does!).
Now, if you really want to approach this Alpha, you must do it very carefully. Either try to befriend him somehow and start offering to do things for him. Be respectful, complimentary, attentive. Once he trusts you enough, give him the “Letter To An Alpha” that I have linked in the sidebar (I’m guessing that is not the letter you already gave him). Hopefully he will see it in a different light if he cares enough about you.
That’s probably the only way you’re going to do this and still remain safe. I can’t recommend more because I don’t know the situation very well and I don’t want to give you harmful advice.
Just know that you’re in my thoughts and in my heart, little one. I love you!
Hii Sam, big fan your content, and what you are doing for fags around the world. I am Karan, 23 years old,5’2, with a dick of mere 4 inches, I am from India.
I want to talk to you about a guy who is close to me. His name is Harsh 19 years old he is almost 6’2. Well we have a special relationship, actually the son of our maid working here since I was a kid and I know him very well. Well I can say that I just don’t know him well, I know him inside and out. You see when we are young we have a lot of curiosity that is happening in our body . He and I used to get naked together and act like a couple when we were teens ,and since he was bigger than me, he would be husband and I would be wife. Infact , we would snuggle like a couple and he would dry hump me saying this is how couples make babies.
I left home for college about 4 years ago to nearby city and a few days ago I heard he is coming to city for college
I have always loved him, adored him and looked myself as an inferior to him. He is like a man’s man. While I on the other hand, very shy, feminine. But I really want to tell him that I want him to be my alpha, take me under his wing and make me his fag.
Do you think it would be right. I mean he is younger than me and my maid’s son?
Karan, thank you for writing to me!
You have a really interesting situation! Forget about the “age gap” because we are talking about four years. And I think you can forget about the maid situation, too, since you’ve moved out and moved on.
This young Alpha CLEARLY understands your submissiveness. No straight Alpha is going to dry hump you or feminize you without thinking you’re at least open to that, right? I have no doubt he thinks you’re gay, but he doesn’t understand the depth of your submissiveness or that you’re actually a faggot born to serve an Alpha like him. For many young Alphas, this is the problem: they don’t know how to make the first move because they don’t want to offend or upset someone. It’s the same reason you haven’t made a move, too.
But you definitely need to. This Alpha will use you.
Show him this site, or give him a copy of my “Letter To An Alpha” linked in the right sidebar. This should help him finally understand what you are and that you exist for him to use and own. Just offer it to him casually and ask for his opinion. You’ll be surprised!
This is a funny story I wanted to share. I think I was about 7 years old and I unknowingly submitted to an alpha.
For some reason I wanted to be my friends footstool. I didn’t say anything about the urge but I just kneeled and got into position when he was on the couch. He laughed and put his heavy feet on my back.
Again, I was like 7, but I remember sniffing his socks and licking his sandals when he left his room.
Somewhere along the way I hid this urge and it has resurfaced. How do I submit to my straight friends?
Thank you for your funny (yet revealing) experience!
I love when people try to argue with me and convince me that being a faggot is a choice. NO. Fags are absolutely born different from straight and gay Males. There are too many commonalities fags share – and they manifest so early – that it’s undeniable we are born fags. There’s a separate argument about why that is, but that’s for another conversation.
I’m glad you had that early experience, because it’ll help inform you in your decisions today.
Clearly you have a couple of Alpha friends you’re targeting. I would start treating them to dinner, or buying them things you know they want/like/need. I’d also ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha, then direct their attention to hierarchy. There are also resources on this site to assist in the process of awakening a straight Alpha, like my “Letter To An Alpha” that’s linked in the sidebar of this site, or my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that’s in my bookstore in the navbar above.
Depending on how closely you associate with your Alpha friend, you can offer foot massages, sit by his feet more often, things like that.
Try one or all of these things. They typically yield results.
Ive known that I am a faggot for about a year now. Always been submissive and like to please men but findom has its pull on me. Every time I go to send to an alpha, I cant help but think the money would be better in my cousins hands. He is a typical 18/19 yr old gym rat. Hes incredibly sexy and straight. He deserves to be worshipped. I just dont know how to introduce it to him. Should I message him? Should a friend do it? Any advice on what to say or not say?
Thanks for the question!
Congrats on accepting your true nature, brother! It makes life so much clearer to know the truth!
I’m always curious about why faggots are “drawn” to findom. I understand that findom is a part of a faggot’s overall service, but to be drawn to that aspect particularly odd to me.
But I tend to agree with you: the money belongs in your cousin’s hands. You have an Alpha right there in your family, and you’re even considering giving your money to strangers instead?? Nah, that shouldn’t happen.
As far as introducing it to him, I have resources on this site to do exactly that. In the sidebar is a link to my “Letter To An Alpha”, designed as a brief introduction to hierarchy and the use of faggots. Then, I have my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that is a longer, more in-depth version of that aforementioned letter. Both have worked spectacularly well in the past. Whatever else you try to do, it must come from YOU. Your cousin needs to understand that you are expressing this need to serve, not your friend.
Hey Sam, wondering if you have any thoughts on this. I’ve started going to this inexpensive Chinese massage place in the West Village in NYC. It’s got 10 super plush oversized leather lounge chairs along two facing walls – so about 20 people can get foot massages at the same time. The first time I went I was the only one there. I closed my eyes and got a great hour foot massage. I heard people coming in while I was getting my massage but when I opened my eyes – I couldn’t believe the place was filled with these hot studs getting their feet massaged. They were all in their 30’s / 40’s – clearly finance/tech bros – all in T shirts and shorts – really built — meaty thighs/legs spread while a small masseur kneeled before them at their feet. ALL were looking at their phones during the massage, or watching the masseur work. None had their eyes closed. They exuded such testosterone and a cockiness, like “yeah, kneel before me and massage my feet.” One particularly hot dude kept telling the masseur he wanted it harder – and he’d bark and order how and where he wanted his feet touched. All I could think of was here was perfect hunting ground to meet an alpha. But how?! There had to be some dudes there that would welcome a FREE foot massage.. But how to approach about that? Every scenario I think of sounds creepy. I keep going back and seeing all these hot dudes getting their feet massaged is driving me crazy thinking that here is an opportunity. Would love any thoughts/advice.
Thank you for the intriguing question, brother!
All of the places where straight Alphas congregate to get body work done – gyms, saunas, massage parlors, barber shops, etc. – are great places to offer service. Why? Because these Alphas are the ones who recognize their Alphahood through their body and are seeking elite ways to pamper and enhance both the look of their bodies and their social standing. They’re typically well aware and quite conscious of Hierarchy on some instinctual level. You were right to pick this juicy spot!
Massage parlors (particularly foot massage) are especially great targets because of the inherent power dynamic involved, as well as the Alpha’s built-in desire to have his feet touched and pampered.
There are a couple of ways to approach this. I’ll outline them all and you can choose which one suits you and the situation best.
1. You could ask the staff when a certain Alpha typically makes his appointments and arrange yours around the same time in order to hopefully end up in a waiting room together. In that moment you could ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha (this is a go-to that works amazingly well). He will likely have an answer. Be ready for him to ask you WHY … you’ll need to have that answer. You might be able to direct him to this site and the Hierarchy pyramid (depending on how the conversation goes).
2. You could wait for him outside and attempt to talk to him after his massage. You could use the approach above, or possibly ask him if he would like free massages and/or domestic service. You’d be surprised at how curious that makes straight Alphas.
3. Offer to buy him a drink or lunch or something like that (depending on the time of day, etc.). Alternatively, you could buy him something if you notice an opportunity (“Sir, I saw this tie and I thought it would look great with that one suit” or something like that).
4. Print out my “Letter To An Alpha”, write “thank you for your consideration, Sir” and leave contact information on it, and leave it on his car for him to find after his session.
5. Buy a hard copy of my book “May I Serve You, Sir?”, fill in your contact info, and give it to him.
These are all viable options. You might be inspired by these suggestions to try something else, or a combination approach. But trust me, these work more often than you think.
Not sure if you remember but some fag “Tom” wrote to you a few months ago? Well turns out he took your advice since I woke up to a letter on my desk last week of some “letter to an alpha”. Safe to say I was surprised that my roommate was a complete beta. Here’s a little context, Tom and I moved in together for uni a few weeks ago and we never really talked beyond furniture and shit like that. He was always quiet and didn’t make much sound which was quite nice but I always thought I could feel him ogling me when I changed, never had any proof but I could sense it. After the first few days I just ignored it, I’m used to other men looking at me in lockeroom so a roomie isn’t so different. Not to brag but I’ve always been the center of attention, it’s not like I try to be it just happens. Anyways last week when I was getting ready for class I found a printed letter on my desk from you know who and I confronted him about it. He was kind of vague and nervous about it, talking about some hierarchy alpha fag thing and just told me to scroll your site. Not gonna lie there’s a lot on here and I just don’t have the time nor do I want to comb over a bunch of gay porn so I thought I’d use his email to ask you directly. Where do I go from here? I’m straight and don’t really want to do any gay shit so for now I’ve just been having the fag clean the room and help me with some tedious work.
I am sure the letter and your roommate’s revelation came as something of a surprise, but the message itself was probably not as surprising. After all, you freely admit that you’ve always been a leader wherever you go and people always cater to your wants and needs.
That’s because you were born Alpha, Sir. You were always meant to be served in some way or another by inferiors like your roommate. I have no doubt that, if you examine your past, you’ll be able to recall many others who submitted and served you in various ways. It’s always come easy for you, hasn’t it? That’s your natural Alphahood at work, silently but undeniably controlling the impulses and actions of lesser ones you encounter in life.
I do want to correct you on one thing, Sir. Your roommate isn’t beta … your roommate is a faggot. There is a difference. Beta males will obey you when you tell them to do something, of course, but you don’t OWN them. However, faggots are the property of Men, especially Alphas like you. Your roommate is offering himself to you as your servant, your property.
I’m glad to hear that you’re already using your new faggot to perform domestic chores and other “tedious work” that is, of course, beneath you. That shows you have great instincts, Sir.
You asked where should you go from here … well, this can go as far as you want it to go, Sir. An owned faggot will obey your wishes in all things, so really anything is possible. Increase your faggot’s responsibilities. Have your faggot kiss your feet whenever you return to the dorm. Have your faggot give you massages and foot massages. If you needed to unload, you could make your fag suck your dick or drink your piss or whatever. It’s literally up to you, Sir. (I know you might not agree about a faggot sucking your dick as a straight Alpha, but this site has compiled a lot of evidence that straight Men use faggots as cocksuckers A LOT more than anyone knows … READ THESE TESTIMONIALS).
I also highly recommend scent training with your new faggot, Sir. It’s likely your faggot is already addicted to your pheromones, but scent training only increases the hypnotic effect. Have it kneel and inhale your scent from your crotch (you can leave your pants or underwear on), or have it deeply inhale the scent of your armpits. Foot worship will also have this effect.
Another thing I recommend is putting your faggot in chastity, Sir. Faggots should not be allowed to use their penises like Men do. Chastity cages prevent the faggot from playing with itself, but they also shrink the fag’s penis and keep the faggot focused on its purpose – serving you.
I think you will discover that faggot ownership vastly increases your power, Sir. This is one of the great untapped secrets that most straight Alphas refuse in life because of the “gay” stigma attached. You must understand that Hierarchy affects all people regardless of whether or not they acknowledge it. Men have owned faggots since forever. Entire civilizations (the Romans, the Greeks) were practically founded on that principle. Gladiators were serviced by faggots prior to battle in the Coliseum. And on and on. The British Empire had Kings, and those Kings owned male slaves that served them.
It’s simply the way of the world. The fact that straight Alphas refuse to own slave males (faggots) for their needs simply because they think it’s “gay” denies history AND denies themselves of the great power they receive through owning them.
I’m betting you’re already feeling some increase of power just from starting to accept your faggot’s service, which is why you’re writing now. You’re starting to sense there is a greater power to come from your ownership of this faggot, and you’re right. There is much more than you can know, Sir.
So don’t stop growing into your proper role, as a MASTER and eventual God Alpha!
Thank you again for writing, Sir. Please tell your faggot “Tom” that I’m proud of him for having the courage to offer himself. And Sir, please feel free to write at any time. You can use my personal email if you’d like: hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com. Thank you, Sir!
I have a friend. Well, he was a friend, who I have recently reached out to after a long time of not talking to each other. He has known about me and how I identify as a faggot. Thats actually how we meet. A friend of his was going to use me but he swooped in and got me to meet him prior to anything happing. But I never served him. We became fast friends. He know about my micro penis and the dom sub lifestyle I am into. So we held off on it while we worked together and traveled. But he was always into it. We hung out for a year before we got into a fight over work then we dint talk to each other for 8 months. I was the one who blew him off. But I did it to put a gap between us so I could then approach him as the faggot I am. I texted him out of the blue a few weeks back speaking to him the way you do an alpha and he was really into and loved the idea of putting my faggot ass to work. I know he wants to but is hesitant and he has a boyfriend who he met just before we stopped talking. He has slowly been taking to me and has plans for me but I am getting the feeling he is holding back. I have offered to clean his car his house take care of his garden. Just today he had me bake him cookies and bring them to him at work. Which is the place out fight actually was over. So it was humiliating to have to go back there and he know that. But I didn’t know that he and his bf where still togther and I now realize that might be what’s stopping him or he is having trouble seeing me as his inferior and a faggot, i was his boss and was training him, its why I never served him. To complicated. But I am not sure. What I would like to know now is what do I do from here? I don’t want to pester him, so I leave communication up to him because it’s not about my needs or desire to serve him. Today was the first day I saw him in 8 months or talked to him, not through text and I could tell his confidence has grown. and he was gauging the situation. Before he had talked to me about filming him and his boy fuck and edit it for online, so I was thinking of making him or offering my services to his boyfriend too who I know nothing about. or if he even knows we are talking again. He has not said anything to my offers other than I will build him a green house and maintain his garden, so the desier is there of him but just not sure what to do to cross the threshold. He is super hot him and his bf and I want to please them both but not sure the best way to go about it. I am a masculine looking and sounding faggot most people think I am straight and scary so its causes some problems because I do have the look and demeanor but I want to pacify when texting him and being around him. Any thought or suggestion would be great. Thank you!!!!!!
Thank you for the question, brother!
Your situation is quite interesting, if not a bit weird. I don’t understand why (or how) the chemistry between you and this Dom was ignored and turned into a friendship. Regardless, you took a huge risk in walking away in order to reset the relationship.
But as far as I can tell, the gambit worked. He’s clearly still interested in using you, but the limitations are probably due to the existing relationship.
The beautiful thing about being a faggot is the fact that a faggot can be added to a pre-existing relationship as a slave for the couple. So that could work for you, too. You mentioned that you wouldn’t mind serving both of them, right? So I’d shoot for that.
It doesn’t sound like you’re getting much alone time with this Dom. If you could, I would suggest that you kneel and kiss his feet and ask him if you can serve him properly. Apologize to him for your previous failure to accept your place, and beg him to accept your worship. See what he does.
i stopped lying too myself and accepted that i need and want a LTR in S&M … how do i find and approch an alpha to serve and look for ltr… i have no experience and i need and want training…in the privacy in his home, what i crave is being owned by him and making him happy
Brother, thank you for writing!
Congratulations on finally embracing the truth about yourself! That’s a huge hurdle to overcome!
What you’re describing is, I think, the most elusive goal that every faggot wants to find. A long-term service relationship is the ideal, but it might not be realistic at first. You are, after all, brand new to all of this. What you really need to do is look for Alphas to serve, either a one-time experience or in an ongoing way. Learn to walk before learning to run.
There are ways to find Alphas. The first way I always recommend is to look around your social and work circles and find those Alphas you already know in some way. This gives you a relatively safe way to offer services of some kind. If not, then apps like Grindr or TheBlowers.com will help you connect immediately to Alphas looking for service. Those two methods are the going to be the primary ways to find them.
There are more advanced methods (like joining a gym and offering service to the Alphas there), but I wouldn’t recommend them at this point.
Also, findom (online financial domination) is a possible way of at least getting some service time in a controlled way, but I don’t know about your financial situation.
You might want to join my Discord so you can talk to other faggots and some Alphas. You can do that by CLICKING HERE.
All in all, you should be very proud of yourself, brother. Have faith and apply yourself, and you will find success!
Hey how are you all I’m like brand new barely out the box realized I’m a faggot and I was looking into how to become someones full time bitch?
any tips or tricks into how I go about it ?
Thanks for the question!
First of all, congrats on realizing and accepting the truth! I’m proud of you!
To find an Alpha, start with the Alphas you know in the circles of your life. Start submitting to them in various ways. Perhaps use the resources on this site to open a conversation with him about Hierarchy. If he’s Alpha, he’ll respond.
You can also use apps like Grindr, Recon, and TheBlowers.com.
I had what I consider to be a real Alpha / Beta relationship with a guy for quite a long time. I was his Beta to use when he needed. He treated me very well because I basically worshipped him and served his needs. He had be service his friends sometimes too Which was really about him showing to me that I’m there to do whatever he said and I think to show them he had complete control of me.
Anyway, he had to move for work and I ended up moving for a job too. Now I live in Las Vegas and I thought it would be easy to find a real Alpha to serve. I’m now in my 50s, so that does make it harder. But I can’t find anyone. Yes I can easily find guys who use me as a cum dump, but that is not the same thing as a real Alpha.
My previous Alpha was a long time ago and was pretty easy to find. Not sure how to find a real Alpha man. I’d appreciate any suggestions you may have
Thanks for the question, brother!
It sounds like you had a wonderful Alpha/faggot relationship with your former Master! And yes, those things he did with you were designed to show off his power over you, as well as pay honor to his Alpha friends.
I’m sorry that’s no longer in your life!
Alphas can be found everywhere (bars, sporting events, gyms, any place outdoors) if you choose to approach them. I always advise for a faggot to look around at the friends/associations you currently have in your personal life and see if there is a potential Alpha among them. Then you would start subtly serving them and showing them deference. Ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. Work that into a conversation about Hierarchy (you can use the resources on this site) and help him understand the larger implications of his Alphahood and your purpose.
I understand these ideas might seem daunting. That’s why I wrote the book “May I Serve You, Sir?” to give to Alphas as a primer (see: book store). And that’s why I wrote “Letter To An Alpha” (link in sidebar) that can be used (and has been successfully used) to teach Alphas.
I don’t expect you to remember this at all but a while back I’d messaged asking if you had any advice about pursuing service with some Alphas I knew from my college who I only spoke to via socials.
I took your advice and reached out to the one who I used to kind of serve (still kicking myself for ending that way back when)… but he never responded.
I know I probably should just drop it but I wanted to ask if you had any advice for going forward? Just, keep an eye out for other Alphas in my life? Or reach out to the other 2?
[one hour later …]
Hey Sam,
I just sent a message to you earlier about how the Alpha I reached out to on socials didn’t respond, but a little while after I sent that HE FINALLY DID.
Turns out he really remembered me and we had a nice convo catching up. We don’t really live near each other anymore, it turns out, which sucks. But I apologized for stopping service to him before and for my past behavior, and I even offered to help him with anything he needs. He was really sweet about everything and didn’t make too much of a big deal about it, but seemed receptive.
For literal years I’ve thought about messaging this Man Sam, you have no idea. So thanks for encouraging me to reach out to him. I hope to start introducing hierarchy to him as we continue to talk– maybe one day he’ll find a use for me again!
Sorry for the back to back messages/asks, I didn’t think he’d even remember me but when he responded I HAD to update you.
Yes, I remember you!
I’m glad you worked up the courage to contact him! The first step is always the hardest! And I’m glad he responded and seemed open to something in the future! Definitely try to look for ways to engage him in a more direct conversation about Hierarchy! That’s a great way in!
I have a huge doubt and it’s totally okay if you don’t want to intervene in this sensitive topic, but I love your work and I’d love to hear from you if possible.
I am 23 and I have always been extremely submissive in everything I do. I had 2 boyfriends in the past but they were not really dominant, they would always treat me as an equal and one of them even wanted to bottom from time to time. My sister is 2 years older than me and she has been with her now husband for 10 years. They met in middle school and have been together since then.
We are from a very traditional catholic family and our parents raised her to get married virgin and raised me to find a wife and give them children. I obviously did not follow their dreams, but she did. We lost both of them during covid so since 2021 it’s been just the two of us. We are really good friends and support each other.
The problem is that her husband has always been really good to me and treated me with a lot of love. We would always play videogames together and a few weeks ago he invited me to play at their house and he was just wearing an underwear when I arrived there. After some time, he asked why I was single because he was sure that many guys would love to be with me. I tried to avoid that topic, but there I had my hot brother-in-law wearing underwear asking about my sexual life and saying how cute I am.
It didn’t take too long for him to approach me and I could see how hard he was. He said that he could wear something if I were uncomfortable, but he could see that I was enjoying. Then he said that he really would like to “take care” of me because he loves my sister and knows how important I am in her life.
When I said that he was already a great friend to me. He said that I need a Man not just a friend. He then admitted that because of church he has only seen one naked woman during his whole life. He is also 25, so he has only known my sister since they were 15.
Long story short, he said that they hardly ever have sex and that he gave up on fucking her ass after 10 years asking for it. He wants me to be his cocksucker and cumdump and promises that will protect me and my sister as long as he lives.
My sister would be devastated if I tell her that but at the same time he will just find a faggot or a woman to fuck outside his marriage anyway. My sister has told me many times that divorce is not an option no matter what he does (and they are only 25!). So I’m thinking that if I serve him I could keep him happy in our household while making sure that my sister will keep her marriage.
I would put my ass up for him at anytime and serve him as the God Alpha he is. But I don’t know if this is just a lame excuse for a morally questionable act… thank you for your time and sorry for being inconvenient
I love your work
Thank you for the question, little brother! I love how you think you’re question is too weird for disturbing for me … are you new here?? LOL
When I first started reading your question, I thought it was going to involve you asking for help on how to seduce your brother-in-law. But it certainly took a crazy, unexpected turn! He WANTS TO OWN YOU. In fact, he made a brazen attempt to get you to submit, and you refused. Ugh!
I do wonder if he’s out trying to get another faggot, but I think you should be the one to serve him. Yes, I know it’s morally questionable, but he’s going to fuck other faggots if not you. It’s better if you protect him and your sister by keeping it in the family.
You must understand that the situation you have here is a very rare occurrence and every fag’s wet dream. I don’t think you should fail to serve this Alpha in need, not when he’s being this bold in trying to claim you.
So try to arrange a time to meet him alone. When you see him, get on your knees and kiss his feet and then apologize for failing to serve when commanded. And then obey him from then on.
Who knows where this will lead, but I think in the moment this is the correct course hierarchically.
I’ve been following your website and profile for a while now. You’ve definitely had an impact on me as I came to terms with my desires to submit and serve. I don’t agree with everything you’ve said over the years, but I know I am a faggot and I know you helped me get there.
I’ve recently been feeling really desperate to serve. There are these 3 guys I follow on socials and I know two of them personally– really one, but I’ve spoken to the other in some of my classes a little. We all go to the same college.
The first guy I knew in high school and he was kind of my friend and kind of not? It was always weird cause sometimes he seemed to be using me. Like I helped him through some of his classes, but I got annoyed and stopped speaking to him.
The second guy, like I said, I only speak to him a couple times in class but we shared a dorm building before. I’ve seen him shirtless in the halls a couple times, but I doubt he really knows or remembers me.
The last guy I found from the second guy’s social media. One of the hottest men I’ve ever seen– real Alpha type. I think he’s trying to be a fitness influencer or something.
There’s a part of me that really wants to reach out to one of these guys and try to serve them, but we don’t really talk. I’m worried that if I were to reach out to them they’d think I was a freak and either ignore me or out me to other people. So I guess my I’m asking how do I submit to them? Is it even worth trying to? Or should I focus on other Alphas?
Thank you for the question, brother!
Here you have three Alpha choices. You should always start with the one you know best. So the first one you know and have (unintentionally) served a little bit. I would try to strike up a conversation and ask him if he remembers how you used to do things for him and see what he says about that. Then you can tell him that you’ve discovered why what happened between you – HIERARCHY. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Explain to him what you know about Alphas being served and worshiped for being superior.
You can show him my hierarchy pyramid in the pinned post at the top of the site. Ask him where he sees himself on that chart. Try to be brave if he asks where you think you are, or maybe ask him where HE thinks you are. This could lead to an interesting conversation.
If you don’t like that, you can always let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in the sidebar) or buy my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” (link in the books section).
Yo I’ve been in the alpha scene for around 2 years and was thinking about making one of my friends serve me. First I wanna say thanks for the page, when the first guy showed me it I was skeptical but since then owning subs has made my college life so much easier. I’ve made a couple guys serve me since then but never tried on a friend. Was wondering if you had any advice to make it chill since he’s my friend but I’ve noticed he always stares at my bulge, grabs my muscles jokingly, and I swear I saw him take one of my used gym tanks before so I feel like I’m correct. I don’t wanna offend him but I think it would be hot to have an athletic looking guy serving me any advice?
Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! Once again, I’m blown away by the long-term effects of my work here! I’m glad to see that you’re experiencing the very real power of hierarchical truth, and all the blessings it holds for Alphas like yourself!
Congratulations on being able to apply those principles to actually claim a couple of faggots on your own! I love that! It tells me you’re an Alpha who likes to confidently take action, and doesn’t care what others might think about how you conduct your business! Those are all terrific (and vital) qualities for any true Alpha, Sir!
I’m telling you right now, Sir – if you’re seeing those signs from this friend, he is definitely a faggot. It’s especially true if he did indeed steal articles of soiled clothing from you; faggots are notoriously-compulsive thieves of such items! That’s the sign of a faggot in heat, when its raging hormones are overriding its brain.
I’ll give you two ways you can get this faggot to submit to you, Sir. One is more direct that the other, but both will involve you getting him to admit he’s a faggot and you telling him that you want to own him.
SUBTLE APPROACH: Next time you’re with him, take your shoes off and ask him to rub your feet. He might try to playfully object; if he does, then revert to the direct method below. However, I think the faggot won’t be able to resist this offer. Once he is massaging your feet, compliment him and also give him some direction in order to see how he responds. Then say something like, “You like making me feel good, don’t you?” (you’re trying to draw out his ability to express his desire). Then ask: “Why is that?” (No matter what bullshit answer he gives you) you say: “No, it’s because you’re a faggot, right?” Then make him look you in the eye and say: “Yes Sir, I’m a faggot.” Tell him “good boy”, then have him worship your feet before going through the scent training I outline in the direct approach below.
DIRECT APPROACH: When you’re together, tell him to stand in the middle of the room with you. Then order him to kneel and kiss your feet. He might balk at that, but remain firm. When he does this, tell him “good boy” and talk to him while you take off your shirt. Tell him you knew he was a faggot for a while, and then ask him, “So what are you?” and make him say it loudly “I am a faggot.” Tell him “good boy” when he obeys. Repeat this several times. Then tell him to stand. Lift up an armpit and make him start sniffing and licking your armpit. Repeat this with the other armpit. Tell him “good boy” and even talk dirty and degradingly to him. Then have him kneel so he can be scent trained on your cock/balls as well. Same techniques here. Start by scent training through your underwear, and if you choose, you can pull your underwear down and make him service you directly. By the time you get the faggot to this point, he will do literally anything you command, Sir.
Hopefully you can see how either of these techniques combine verbal commands designed to get into the faggot’s mind while also using the powers of your Alpha body to force the faggot to accept its proper place.
I’m looking forward to hearing more about how this progresses, Sir! You are welcome to write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com if you’d like! Thank you, Sir!
Hii Sam, I am Asher. Few months ago I asked you about my situation with my uncle and my stepdad. Well here is the update.
As you said I started to do the household chores, even started to do his part of chores, he would like that as it would give him more time to relax. Slowly, I started to do all household chores, cooking, cleaning and he did notice that. There were even days, that I skipped college to do his laundry, as cleaning his undies is more important to me than some lectures.
Finally, one Friday evening, when we were watching T.V. , I told him what I felt. At first I just was confused with words, little panicked then , but somehow kept cool and told him that I am a faggot and looked upto to him as my Alpha. At first he went silent for a minute, then he spoke. “I always felts you were a bit odd. I mean with your dad leaving, then your stepdad, then mom, know it has been tough on you. And tbh, I kinda knew you were a beta, did not think of you as a fag, but… ya it is quite good you told this to me.”
He knew the hierarchy and he himself told me that he was an Alpha. In fact, even my stepdad is. I asked my uncle then does he have any fags. He said,” Not now, but I did have fags coming and going for many years. I would use them, get bored and tell them to never be seen again.”
Seriously, it felt so good to come out as fag to uncle. I asked him how does my life change after all. He told me that he won’t force me to do anything as it would be my consent, but I told him that I want to be dominated. He just said me to calm for now.
We had a long discussion and he asked me a lot of things , may of which I instantly said yes to. He said me that I must follow house rules as a good fag or I will be brutally punished.
I will remain naked in the house, take care of all the chores and cooking, massage uncle, eat after uncle, sit on floor and will be sleeping on a mattress in uncle’s bedroom.
After this, I got naked in front of him and had a boner. My dick ain’t that big or thick. So even my boner is like small. My uncle giggled looking at it and asked if I have seen a thick big cock. I told him only in porn. Then he slowly unzipped his pants, and lowered underwear to showcase his monstrous cock. It had all veins on it and thick as a can. I asked him if I could suck or touch it, but he refused. “You have to earn it”, he said.
He noticed I was constantly touching my dick, so he asked me if I would be comfortable wearing it. I said no for now.
My brother Asher, it is so nice to hear back from you! Thanks for writing!
I’m very impressed by your bravery! I am so tempted to turn this into a proper thread, because your example is just that important.
I also really proud that you followed my initial instructions, but then took it several steps further on your own! Nice improvisation!
It’s really awesome that your uncle recognizes hierarchy and your faggot status (and also identifies as Alpha!), which eliminates huge barriers. Things are going to move fast from here.
Here’s a bit of advice that you might approach your uncle about: going into chastity. The erection you had was embarrassing and should really be under control, and chastity is the way to accomplish that. Think about it.
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Mika, a teenage faggot in Peru who bravely and successfully seduced a straight Alpha named Gael. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
There’s nothing terribly difficult about what I teach here regarding either submitting to a straight Alpha or taking ownership of a faggot. That’s not to say it’s easy – it’s not – but the mechanics of it have been in place since the beginning of human interaction. Hierarchy is so fundamental to everything we are that everyone responds in a primal way if those triggers are manipulated.
For faggots wishing to serve a straight Alpha, the first thing that must happen is a mind-shift. A faggot must recognize that it was born to serve superior Men, but also that superior Men were born to own them. Men have a definite need and desire to be worshiped and served, and once they understand that faggots offer that in abundance, they let go of the sexual stigma associated with faggots and instead embrace the glory of being worshiped.
It just takes bravery on the part of a faggot to begin that chain reaction.
Recently I’ve been answering questions and coaching a young faggot named Mika. He’s from Peru, he’s in school, and he wanted to serve a hot straight Alpha named Gael. You can read all of Mika’s questions by following the link above.
But now Mika has had an incredible breakthrough, so I’ve elevated his story to a proper thread on the site!
Listen to his incredible update:
Hi Sam!!! This is Mika from Peru and I’m so so happy
Remember what I told you about the trainee that work in my school? His name is Gael, by the way. This morning, thanks to our conversations here, I finally had courage enough to do what I need to do.
I was super nervous when I arrived at school to my class, but as soon as I saw him, I opened a big smile and asked how was his weekend. He said that he had a lot of work and didn’t have time to relax, then I don’t know what happened to me but I just said “well, I would love to help you relax, a Man like you deserve to relax” Of course he understood what I wanted, because he already asked a blowjob 3 times… 2 times as a joke, but the third time more serious. So he just told me that he would give me a ride after my classes were over.
As soon as I entered his car, he started to say that his girlfriend was really pretty, but she refused to cook for him, so he always needed to cook lunch and dinner after a long day at work. Then he went into sexual stuff and said that she doesn’t want to have sex before they get married. After complaining about his girlfriend for a while, he stopped at an empty parking lot a few blocks from my house and said “I really don’t understand why she does that with me. If you were my girl, would you treat me like that?”
Omg Sam, that moment was so crazy. I was so afraid of saying something stupid!! But I just said “if I was your girl, your stomach would be always full of good food, and your balls would be always empty, because that’s what you really deserve” I think that was a good thing to say because he smiled to me, then I asked if he was just joking when he asked for a blowjob. He said that he really respected me and didn’t want to hurt my feelings, but that since we have basically the same age he never saw me as a student, but as a sexy girl. Then he admitted that he was a virgin and never received a blowjob because his girlfriend only kisses him and nothing more.
I was still a little scared but I said that I never sucked a dick too and would love to learn sucking his. He looked around in the parking lot, and put his dick out and it was soooo hard. I was really confused at first because everything was so new, but I did what felt more right, and started to suck his dick while holding his balls and jerking him off. I was so nervous but so happy to be the first one suck his dick and he was the first dick that I put in my mouth. My mouth and jaw started to hurt but I wanted to make him proud and didn’t stop sucking. After some time, he just holded my hair and jerked off with the other hand. He was very sweet and told me that he could cum on the floor outside the car if I wasn’t ready to take it. But I just said “in my mouth please” and swallowed everything.
Omg Sam, this is so crazy… this morning I was just a virgin faggot now I sucked a big dick and swallowed my first load. I hope I did it well!! But he told me that he want to see me again, so I think I was a good boy for him. I would be so happy if he wanted to be with me as his boyfriend, but I don’t think he will leave his girl…
Thank you, Sam!! <3 I really love your site and am happy now
AMAZING!!!
This is literally all it takes! Just make yourself available and be eager to submit! Go in with the proper mindset – positive, joyful, and eager to serve in whatever way they need – and a straight Alpha will understand your purpose and use you!
I’m so proud of Mika for accomplishing this!
Now, I’m not sure if Alpha Gael will want to take on Mika as a “boyfriend” given the fact that he’s straight, but I’m sure he’d love to own Mika as his personal faggot! Especially if his girlfriend is that frigid and unloving!
I hope this post inspires other faggots out there to bravely submit to the Alphas in their lives!
Hello, Sam. I’m sorry I couldn’t tell him about the Hierarchy. It’s like my lips are stuck together. About Yannick and the bathroom situation, I think he was very calm at the time. Not nervous. Like he should be. Like he wasn’t naked at all. After that meeting, we saw each other a few days later. His aunt and uncle said he won a competition he was in. And I wanted to do something for him. So the day before he arrived, I made a cake. Tender crust, cherry frosting. I was very nervous. In the morning, we were all waiting for him in the living room. When he came through the door smiling in his team uniform. I was ecstatic. Then there was a lunch specially prepared for him by me. His aunt can’t cook. It was my pleasure. Lunch went quickly. Yannick was tired after a hard workout and went to his room to rest. I went straight to the kitchen to prepare dinner. That night everyone complimented me, praising the food on the table. Yannick smirked at me. I blushed slightly at the sight of him. His morning sunny smile was different from the one he showed me. Could he really want to make me his? The whole evening after that, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Yannick is so handsome, so beautiful. If you choose among actors, he looks most like a young Chris Hemsworth. The evening was over. The old couple went to bed. And I went to Yannick’s room with a cake on my hands. I knocked and waited for the door to open. When the door opened Yannick stood naked with only a towel stretched on his thighs. His hair was still wet. There were still drops of water on his chest. They rolled down his abs disappearing under the white towel. It made me swallow my saliva. I couldn’t hear what he was saying anymore. It took me about ten or twenty seconds to come to my senses. When the magic was over. I congratulated him on his victory and pointed to the cake. He nodded his head. He said come in. So I entered his abode. I put the cake on the bedside table. I turned around, my heart pounding. Yannick was standing very close to me. Still in his towel. I said quickly, “Excuse me, sir. I’ll pardon me. Yannick said nothing. He stood calmly close to me. After a while, something fell to the ground. It turned out to be his watch. I didn’t even realize he’d been holding it the whole time. It’s a towel. Those chest muscles, those abs mesmerized me. Made my heart pound. Yannick stood, I quickly knelt down to pick up the watch. Kneeling in front of such a divine creature I just stupidly opened my mouth. Yannick came so close to me that my open mouth could have caught the edge of the towel and I grasped with my teeth. And pulled. But at the last moment, Yannick held the towel back. Looked at me, grinned. He lifted his foot and his toes were next to my lips. Without thinking, I kissed his toes. First one, then the other. On the third, he put his foot on my chest. And kicked me lightly. I handed him his watch. Yannick took the watch. Put his other hand on my head and ruffled my hair. Then he quickly took his hand away. Walked away from me. I got to my feet. He looked at the door. And I left. What did I do wrong, Sam? What did he expect me to do? I was so nervous.
Hi Ethan. Thanks for writing again!
I’m so proud of you for taking the initiative and offering gifts to Yannick in an attempt to trigger a response from him! This was the exact right thing to do!
AND IT WORKED! You sound discouraged, but Yannick’s reaction was actually very promising. No, you didn’t necessarily get to service him (yet), but this was an extremely sexual outcome nonetheless. More importantly, Yannick now knows what he’s suspected about you: you’re a faggot, and that you understand he’s Alpha.
Keep submitting to him. Don’t stop now. Kissing his foot is HUGE and will almost assuredly lead to more!
Hi Sam. Last time I told you the story of my relationship with Trevor, my childhood bully. As you advised, I said no to him. I broke off all relations with him. I moved to another country. Not because of him. I was simply offered a job in Poland. There I rented a room in the house of a nice elderly couple. Their nephew Yannick lives with them. He looks like he’s 17-19 years old. Tall, blond, with blue eyes. Yannick sometimes works outside without a shirt. His eight-pack abs, strong muscular arms and big, gorgeous ass have been turning me on a lot lately. One day, something happened that turned my whole brain upside down. I went to the bathroom to do my business. Yannick was sitting on the toilet with his pants down. His dick was resting on his thigh. Long. With mesmerizingly large balls. I stared at the penis. My inner voice said that this was indecent. But I couldn’t bring myself to leave. I stared in rapture. Yannick didn’t say anything, but every now and then he’d look up to look at me. But he didn’t do anything. At that moment, I really wanted to kiss the head of his cock. Run my tongue along the shaft and feel the skin and veins. But after a while, I ran away. We hadn’t seen each other since, and he was away at a swimming meet in college. What should I do, Sam?
First of all, congratulations on getting away from Trevor! What an awful person! I’m glad to hear about your new life in Poland!
I have little doubt that you’ll be able to serve Yannick. His relaxed, confident response to you staring at his giant cock and balls tells me he’s been admired and worshiped before. This works in your favor.
I’m also going to suggest to you that he probably already knows you’re a faggot. First of all, Alphas of his caliber have exceptional fag radar and can usually spot them on instinct alone. And secondly, the very awkward bathroom encounter feels like something else was supposed to happen. I’m wondering if he was too nervous to make a move, or if he was expecting you to drop to your knees right there (this is what I think).
So what should you try when you see him again?
First of all, start calling him “Sir” (or the equivalent in your language). Be very complimentary of his body, his scent, etc. Young Alphas are just learning the extent of their sexual powers and how their body/presence influences others, so this will be effective. You should try to get down low, near his feet, whenever possible. If there is any possibility to offer him a foot massage, do it. If there is anything you can do for him/buy for him, do it.
Now, if you want to take a more aggressive step, ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. If he doesn’t understand, show him the post “Hierarchy: A Primer” that opens this site (use the tools on this site! That’s why it’s here!). A conversation about Hierarchy and his place in it will lead in many interesting directions, but it will for sure tell him this: you, an inferior, thinks he’s superior. And that’s really all you need.
