Whatever this faggot imagined it was before, all of that delusion was destroyed the moment this black Alpha put a foot of black dick inside it!

Note to all big-dicked Alphas: rubbing the fag’s body during entry helps to distract them from the pain. #HierarchyIsLaw

The most beautiful thing in the world is an Alpha pumping his superior cum into inferiors! It’s the way the world is meant to be!

This is just the way an Alpha should mount, fuck, and breed a faggot: in the dirt out in the woods!

Primal acts should happen in primal conditions!

I haven’t been privileged to meet with many females in my nine years teaching Hierarchy, let alone collaborate with any. Let’s face it: even though this site deals with Hierarchy’s effect on EVERYONE, it’s still primarily a gay-oriented blog. I wouldn’t expect many women to wander across my stuff, and if they do, I’m sure they despise it.

But Sophie, the mother of 15-year-old Alpha Lucas, is not like any other woman I’ve ever encountered. She’s so intuitive and insightful that she could see her son was different from other boys his age, but she couldn’t quite put her finger on it. It so bothered her that she sought the advice of a friend, and that friend pointed her to this site.

And she saw the truth of it!

From her first letter to me I could tell she was almost relieved that she had found the answer about her son, and it was the most joyous answer any mother could ever want: that her son is Alpha, born to be a King, and born to be worshiped and served – by anyone he chooses – for the rest of his blessed life!

I’ve been so thrilled to work with Sophie (and, by extension, Sir Lucas) that I was moved to devote Hierarchy Podcast #269 to her and Sir Lucas. In it, I praised both of them and pledged myself to serve his development.

Sophie’s response to the podcast provided a lot of detail, as well as her deep respect for Hierarchy:

Sam,

As I ate my breakfast this morning, I was delighted to listen to your podcast about Lucas, while he was still asleep. I think he and I will listen to it together tonight, it will please him and surely help him.

To answer one of your comments, I have to say that although I consider myself to be a strong independent woman, I fully respect and admire powerful dominant men who are able to lead others with strength, courage and compassion. There’s nothing good in this world that doesn’t come from them.

Lucas was at home last night with his childhood best friend. As they chatted and played in front of the TV, I watched them, pensive. I remember when they were little boys, they would enjoy to play Middle Ages characters, with Lucas as the knight or crown prince and his friend as his squire or a peasant. When I see how the sweet boy still always follows Lucas’ leadership in everything, I’m thinking these roles have never really left them.

I am so happy that you regard my Lucas as your superior. I cannot tell you what incredible feeling it is as a mother to hear a grown man publicly stating that my son is superior to him. When I heard you say “All the riches and glory of this earth are gonna be laid at Alpha Lucas’ feet.” my heart exploded with pride. I can assure you: no one is going to take that from him!

When my handsome prince emerged from his room, I embraced him and showered his face with kisses. I told him “My son, you’re headed for a life of power and success! Everyone will kneel before you! You world will be exactly what you want it to be! My sweet prince, promise me you will be a fair and wise king and caring for the lesser people at your feet!”

He promised. I gave him again a big hug. He said “I love you, Mom” and then he gently pushed me away, as he does when I get too clingy! I need to accept that my little boy is becoming a man who needs space. And what a man! What a privilege to have carried an alpha male in my womb and to see him become the king he is meant to be!

Thank you again for your advice and support.

Best,

Sophie

So beautiful and heartfelt!

Sophie is simply not like most women today. In the West women are brainwashed into thinking they’re equal to Men and can do whatever a Man can do. Any objective look at reality reveals how false that is. Still, women believe it, much to the detriment of society.

But Sophie sees things like the Spartan women of old. Anyone who has seen the film 300 knows exactly what I mean. Those women honored Men for what they are: the gods of this Earth. They were proud to submit to them (like every inferior person did), support them, and and bear them Alpha sons from their Alpha seed.

You can hear Sophie’s spiritual heritage as a Spartan woman in her words above. She glorifies powerful Alpha Men, and she celebrates the young Alpha her womb brought into the world.

As we all should!

Thank you Sophie for sharing your heart and baring your soul! And thank you for raising the next King!

This faggot tries everything to stop sucking this Alpha’s dick, but there’s one problem:

Alphas NEVER stop pursuing something they want.

If you think you can squirm away from an Alpha’s cock when he wants to shove it in your mouth, you should just think again!

Alphas love to find faggots like this one, hungry, obedient cocksuckers who drool at any prospect to swallow a load.

Females don’t do this often.

Faggots do it on command 24/7/365.

Hi sam.

I’m a soon to turn 38yo faggot from Rio and I’ve been dealing with this gut wrenching anxiety for a while. I’m a good faggot. I’ve always been, since I was 13 and served my school bullies without questioning or even knowing about what being a fag was(or even gay for that matter, I actually used to think I was bi) or hierarchy. I’ve done basically everything there is to do in the fag book: being used sexually, domestically, taking a good beating, degraded, exposed, used by my straight friends to kill their “curiosity” on how does it feel to be sucked by a guy – and completely aware that I was being used by that, and I was ok with it. I’ve served alphas in locker rooms, public bathrooms, You name it. I even got to be used to take an alphas brother virginity so he could practice with a faggot in order for him to be confident and know what to do with his first girl. I was used by a straight alpha whose girlfriend wanted to see him fucking another guy (and I only got to see that girl at the motel room). I’ve done chastity (by myself). I’ve done findom. I mean… It was never, EVER, a problem finding an alpha to serve.

But maybe I’m living a kinda early midlife crisis of some sort. My looks is not the same as it used to (I’ve always been chubby, but I gained a lot of weight over the last year and a half due to depression – which is being treated and I feel a lot better now, though I tried to take my own life last November).

I just… I feel like this is it for me. I can’t get a guy (not even talking about an alpha, but just A GUY) to use me. And yes, I tried escort services unsuccessfully. It’s like they don’t wanna use me EVEN IF I PAY THEM. And this last part is what seems to hurt me the most, idk.

I’ve always been a very proud and confident fag. And I’m pretty lost and loosing faith about it to be honest with you.

Any advise for me? Is there a point of no return in the life of faggots where we’re just disposable like that?

Hi, brother. Thank you for writing.

I understand your pain! Believe me, I get it. Aging is something everyone goes through, and it’s never pleasant. We lose steps, fall behind, things on our bodies fail, and other parts don’t stay where they used to. 

The sad reality is faggots DO have a shelf life sexually … but that shelf life shouldn’t be THIRTY-EIGHT years old, brother. But let’s be honest about things … you’ve let yourself go physically, and we can’t expect Men (especially Alphas) to want to use us sexually if we are out of shape. Men are notoriously visual, and on top of that notoriously hungry for young meat. We can’t expect conditions like those to change for our sakes, right? So we play the game as dictated by the rules in place. 

Let’s do a little test, and be honest with yourself: You might not be able to serve 21-year-old Alphas anymore, but what about a 50-year-old Alpha? What was your reaction to that last question? Did you turn up your nose at that suggestion? I know a lot of faggots who would say “Eww gross” or something like that. Do you see how ageism works in the opposite direction?

My point is we need to adjust our thinking and expectations as we age. We aren’t cute little club twinks anymore with our brains fried on poppers or other substances. The parties that seemed neverending definitely have an end. We must change as our bodies and circumstances change. 

But my message isn’t one of despair and desolation, brother. You see, when we alter our viewpoint and expectations, other forms of service can replace the old ways we served. For example, take a look at Chadwick (featured here on this site). He hid in the closet HIS ENTIRE LIFE until he got into his SIXTIES before finally being bold enough to try and be useful to Alphas. And you know what? He now serves SIX Alphas domestically and is more fulfilled now than he ever has before! 

Chadwick could’ve just given up and reasoned “I’m too old and nobody will fuck me so I guess my life is over.” But he didn’t do that! He adjusted his hopes and expectations, and instead figured out how he can be USEFUL. And sure enough, he discovered that he can, indeed, be very useful! 

And so can you! So pick yourself up, shake off the pity party, and get yourself back in the game. You’re too young and definitely too USEFUL to be feeling this despondent! 

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The following post is part of a thread about Chadwick, a faggot in his sixties who serves multiple Alphas domestically. CLICK HERE to read this thread in chronological order!

My brother Chadwick is such an inspiration. He’s a pure faggot who truly embraced his purpose later in life, and he’s thrown himself into his domestic service with all of his heart and strength! He’s managed to collect a number of powerful Alphas and Alpha couples to serve around the United States, and he diligently and meticulously serves them all with the same level of devotion.

Chadwick recently updated me about his service to one particular Alpha, but what he says at the end really resonated with me:

HI sam,

Just wanted to let you know i had a great day of serving “SeekingEagerSubs.”

Due to a family issue, i had not been able to serve my Master for a month and there was quite a bit of work. 

Seven loads of Laundry

Cleaning the bathroom and kitchen

as well as the rest of His Home.

Most importantly, i made sure to greet Him when He came home for Lunch with 7 kisses on each foot. 

There is something about special about my Master that not only is he incredibly smart and Driven  but He understands me. After a lifetime of feeling misunderstood and out of place there is nothing better than feeling so accepted and safe.

It’s great that this straight Alpha enjoys Chadwick’s service and allows Chadwick to kiss his feet! This arrangement all happened because Chadwick, driven by his need to serve, humbly presented himself to this Alpha! He didn’t just sit around dreaming about it. He made it happen!

But it’s that final sentence I want to highlight: “After a lifetime of feeling misunderstood and out of place there is nothing better than feeling so accepted and safe.” When an Alpha accepts a faggot’s service and starts using it (in any way), the faggot receives a deep contentment arising from the fulfillment of purpose.

But it’s even more than that. As Chadwick mentions, the faggot feels “safe”. Well, it’s because faggots struggle with self-esteem and are often afraid of being discovered and despised for being weak. All a faggot wants to do is serve and please a Man, yet so many morons think that alone is worthy of condemnation.

But when a superior Man – an Alpha – accepts a faggot into his life and starts to use it, the faggot feels a sense of worth – of pride, even. The faggot can point to a great Man and whisper pridefully to itself, “That Man is my Master.”

And that is transformational. From a mentor faggot to an object, an Alpha’s acceptance and use changes everything!

The following post is part of a thread chronicling the submission of a British faggot named Benjamin who successfully used my “Letter To An Alpha” to submit to his straight Alpha friend. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I think the story of Benjamin the faggot and the development of his service to his straight Alpha friend should be one every faggot should study. Benjamin followed my advice exactly and it has yielded incredible results. He went from a closeted faggot desperate to serve his Alpha friend to a completely domesticated faggot slave to this friend in just a matter of days.

I received a little update from Benjamin, one with some nice details and a curious question I will answer here:

I know it has been a while since my last update, but things have been going much as there were when we last spoke. I have been continuing to serve Master in a domestic capacity, which has increased to me staying at Sirs home on Friday and Saturday nights, sleeping in the kitchen on the floor and waking him (plus any partners) with a cooked breakfast. I can tell some of the girls Master fucks find it odd but I do not care. They will be out the door in an hour, but I get to continue serving Master.

The main big update is that Sir sat me down between his feet for his usual Sunday foot washing and while I was working, he brought up another cabin trip. Master wants me to pay for a repeat trip next year, which would be the same price (not an issue for my Master) but this time Master wishes to invite about half of his rugby team but none of their girlfriends and wives. I have met each of these men maybe once or twice and they are all boisterous, drink a lot, and come across as quite dominant. Do you think Master is planning on something or is he just wanting me to provide him a lads holiday away?

First of all, it’s awesome that this straight Alpha friend has been using Benjamin so much, even allowing him to stay over on weekends! This goes to show how much this Alpha is enjoying the ownership of his former friend/new faggot!

Even more powerful is the detail about how this Master proudly parades his faggot ownership in front of the women he fucks! He’s not shy! I’d love to hear what he tells them when they ask why he has a male slave serving him!

But as for Benjamin’s desperate-sounding question: Yes, Master is planning something. He doesn’t just decide to invite half of the rugby team on a cabin getaway with his personal faggot without some sort of plan!

What that might be is anyone’s guess. To this point, Master hasn’t engaged in a lot of sexual use of Benjamin. But soccer and rugby teams are well-known hotbeds of hetero-flexible Alphas, so there may be more going on here than just serving drinks! Only time will tell!

But once again, Benjamin’s experience shows how important it is to simply try and offer yourself to straight Alphas, especially Alpha friends! They ARE open to forms of worship if not full-blown sexual service! You just need to let them know you want to serve them!

Hi Sam,

I want to share something that happened last week. I work in a steakhouse and the end of the shift is always the most annoying part because we need to clean everything. One of my coworkers is clearly an Alpha, and this day he was acting properly like one. While me and others were cleaning and making everything he was having a coffee and a snack. At that time I was mad about it, I don’t know why, because I’m a fag and I was in my place in the hierarchy. But the next day I saw a tweet from the profile The Alpha Agenda saying “Work more so an Alpha near you can work less” and I understood that I really shouldn’t be mad, I should be happy to be able to make his life easier. It’s so much better when everyone knows their places!

Very good point, brother. It’s sad that this Alpha probably didn’t consciously understand what you were doing by working harder so he didn’t need to. He was just glad that he got paid to jack around and not do his job. 

These kinds of Hierarchical displays often go overlooked, so I’m glad you brought them out! Thank you! 

Here’s the tweet in question:

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Here’s a high school faggot being forced to massage the feet of an Alpha schoolmate.

How many times have I written about this? It’s a REAL THING!

This kind of action is typically a test by the Alpha to see if the fag can be enslaved.

HierarchyIsLaw

The following post is part of a thread chronicling the rise of a 15-year-old Alpha named Lucas, and his extraordinary mother Sophie as she attempts to raise a King. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I’ve received a lot of privileges from doing this work of teaching the truth of Hierarchy and helping people apply it. There is nothing quite like seeing an Alpha or a faggot I’ve advised use these principles and make dream scenarios come true.

Over the nine years I’ve been teaching online, I’ve had a fair number of minors (under 18) ask me questions or for advice. Many others turn such ones away, but I’ve always attempted to answer them.

Why? Well, first of all, there’s no way to stop them from accessing the site or my X feeds (I know how I was at that age!).

But more importantly to me, I want to give these young people safe, intelligent advice. There are so many bad actors and corrupt liars lurking on the internet. If I can be a trustworthy benefit to these young people, so be it.

In “live” instances when I covered a story involving a younger person (in other words, I was covering a story with a young person, and not a memory of a time in youth), I’ve always had a parent actively involved. I just know how I’d be as a parent, and I want to respect them.

That’s why I was so thrilled to hear from a young mother named Sophie regarding her 15-year-old son, Alpha Lucas. Not only is Sophie deeply-invested in her son’s welfare, but she’s also intuitive enough to recognize there’s something highly unusual about her extraordinary son.

And so (through her wise friend) she came to talk to me. I must already admit that my dealings with Sophie have been most productive and illuminating. I’m most impressed by her honesty and insight.

Sophie and I have been communicating quite a bit over the last few days. She’s agreed to allow me to communicate with Alpha Lucas (if he is drawn to) via her email so she can monitor it. I think that’s an awesome opportunity to be of help!

But I wanted to highlight the wondrous passage Sophie wrote to me:

Thank you again for your kind answers. You make me feel much more comfortable. I’m probably worrying to much for my little prince Lucas. But you know, that’s what mothers do! 

I am looking at him and my heart is bursting with pride. He actually looks and behaves like a true prince, so no wonder he likes having servants. If he’s an Alpha male, everything is gonna be fine for him. I’m so happy to think that the world will bow at his feet every day of his life!

Isn’t that absolutely astounding?!? Thanks to what I teach, she’s seeing her son through the lens of Hierarchy and how others not only see him, but are forced by nature to respond to him!

Every mother wants a great and meaningful life for their sons, but Sophie is blessed among mothers in that she now KNOWS her son was born an Alpha King! In every way he was born to rule and be worshiped.!

That’s a heady thought, but as you can tell from what Sophie wrote, she’s appreciating it more and more!

I’m so grateful to know them!

Mr Sam,

Thank you very much for your kind answer. I must say I am very, very proud of my handsome son and I would not be surprised if he were bound for a great superior life. I know that most mothers feel that way, so I don’t want to over-interpret. But the signs seem to point in that direction.

Yesterday, I wanted to have a serious discussion with Lucas about this. I told him that I noticed he was dominant with his friends. He told me “They are nice buddies, and they agree they are inferiors to me. They like treating me like their king.” I asked him if he felt like he was superior to most boys his age and he said that he did. “I like dominating lesser people” he said.

I did my best to explain my concerns while respecting his privacy and his liberty. I said to him “You have every right to enjoy dominating people your age who submit to you, and you are free to take steps to make them do so. But please be carefull to not put yourself or anyone else in danger, my love. And do tell me if there’s a problem.” He gave me a big hug and promised to be careful. I trust my Lucas, even if I can’t help worrying for him – I’m a mom!

To be honest, I’m a bit concerned about his lack of a father figure. I try to balance my time as best I can between pursuing my career and taking care of my son, but I haven’t found the strong, powerful man I have been looking for and who could be a role model for my boy. Do you think living with a single mother can be detrimental to his potential Alpha development? Should I find an Alpha male role model for him to look up to?

Thank you for your help,

Sophie

Sophie, thank you so much for following-up on your previous question! I figured I wouldn’t hear from you again! 

I’m extremely impressed by your integrity, too. You went directly to your son Lucas and asked him the perfect questions to get him to open up about his dominance. This is not an easy thing to do, so I really commend you for this!

Given his answers, it’s clear: Lucas is definitely an Alpha. Not only that, he’s probably a much higher level of Alpha than the typical Alpha. These more powerful Alphas (if you see the pinned post at the top of this site, you’ll see a pyramid and explanations of each level of Hierarchy) often own and use faggots in addition to females. These more powerful Alphas don’t care about what inferior society says about their domination of faggots and females, either. That sounds quite a bit like your son Lucas.

The fact that he’s just 15 years old is also an indicator of his more powerful nature. Every Alpha I’ve ever known or studied who advanced that quickly at that age were always the most powerful ones, virtually unstoppable. By the time they reach their twenties they practically have a Kingdom serving all of their needs! 

Your concerns about an older Alpha mentor are valid. This isn’t an easy thing to find randomly around any corner. Ideally, that mentor would be someone he could interact with personally (as opposed to online). He may already have an older mentor at school (like an Alpha in a higher level in school).

It may not matter that much anyway. Lucas is a true Alpha and will develop as such regardless. He’s already become this very powerful young Alpha with only you in his life, so there’s no reason why he can’t continue to develop that way. 

This website is too much for him to really study because I don’t hold back on the porn or the language. However, that pinned first post might be okay for him to study if you printed it off for him to read and consider. I’m open to speaking to him via email, but only if you give permission and are monitoring it. 

I want to discuss your situation with your son on this Wednesday’s podcast if that’s okay with you. I’m actually bumping my pre-planned topic in order to cover what I consider to be a prime example of the truth of Hierarchy in the story of your son. 

I’m very proud of you and Lucas. Just your acknowledgement of his natural Alpha power and discussing it with him helps him embrace that truth even more. And his honest answers indicate to me that he’s justifiably proud to be an Alpha (even if he doesn’t fully grasp it yet). 

You can always write to me directly if you have anything urgent or deeper to discuss at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.

Take Care,

sam the faggot

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Gyms are awesome places to experience the truth of Hierarchical dynamics. Alphas are there, veins full of testosterone and adrenaline, and feeling their own power with every flex of their muscles. Meanwhile, faggots smell the Alpha pheromones everywhere in addition to the Alpha attitudes on display, and they cannot help but submit.

This makes gyms a perfect place for moves to be made.

Ideally, you’d like it to go something like what is demonstrated in the above video. The Alpha catches the little faggot playing with itself, and so he provides something much bigger to play with.

I love how the Alpha teases the faggot at first, idly stroking the faggot’s tiny dick … but once he gets the faggot into its proper position (kneeling), it’s all about his pleasure.

The scene ends with two perfect notes: The Alpha bats the faggot’s hand off of its dick and orders it to stop touching itself … and then he tells the faggot to return to get bred again the following week. This is claiming behavior, something Alphas do naturally as they take over.

For professional porn, this scene is actually pretty useful.

I’m 27 and I’ve been on/off in my following up with your content for  years now (since 2021). I wouldn’t say I’m a true believer in your message, though I feel inspired by some of what you’ve shared. In kink world, I’m a switch and able to express both submissiveness and dominance. However, with men I can only describe as an Alphas, I feel entirely submissive, as if I should kiss his feet and serve. It’s happened multiple times in my life, starting in adolescence. In my most recent experience, I was at a Korean Sauna in my area, choosing to take a full relaxation day. After a few hours of circulating between baths and co-ed saunas, I went to a dry sauna exclusively for the men’s section. I felt oddly comfortable being nude, with my 2” penis barely exposed. That’s when I was joined in the sauna by a guy who exuded confidence. He sat near me, spread eagle, and I glanced a peek at 8” of flaccid beauty. He looked at me and bobbed it, winking at me.

Now, though I am into cruising, I made a mistake. I reached out and stroked him. My heart raced, and I began salivating. I felt him up again and he moved near me. That’s when the attendant burst in and told us both to leave. I felt immediately embarrassed, and a quickly made my way out. Somehow my 2” inverted more as he walked past me to his locker and dressed. To make a long story short, he and I were both banned, and he had me follow him to his car. He said he’ll try to Appeal and encouraged me to do the same. I thought he’d take me somewhere to continue, but he drove off. The rest of the day and into the night, the memory of my sheer impulsiveness to touch him was (and is) my greatest turn on. His confidence and power over me has me rethinking a lot, and perhaps perusing more explicitly my interest in alphas is needed. I guess this, and my direct impulse, has me coming back to the question table.
Not sure what advice there is to give, perhaps this was just some needed venting.

Not much I can add here. I’m glad you followed your instincts, because they were right. You’re born to be a faggot, and you should definitely start searching for opportunities like that. 

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Dear Webmaster,

I am the proud single mother of a fifteen year old son. I found your site on the advice of a friend about my questions about my son.

My son is very good-looking and smart. I know many mothers would say that, but some of my son’s behavior with his friends makes me wonder. Lately, he and one of his friends often challenge each other to video games, making bets. From what I can see, my son always wins, and his friend’s forfeit is to kiss his feet.

This week, he had brought over a girlfriend and two friends. She was sitting on the couch resting in his arms, the two boys were sitting on the floor at their feet. Later, she massaged his back and each of the other two massaged a foot.

Reading your site makes me wonder: is my son an Alpha? Or is he too young to consider it? Is there anything I should do for him? My only wish is for him to be happy.

Thank for your insights,

Sophie

Hi, Sophie! Thank you for writing to me! 

I love when parents come to me with Hierarchical questions about their sons! It goes a long way in demonstrating how inborn and pervasive these concepts really are! We are simply born to fulfill roles, and we often really come to embrace them (or try to) during the teenage years. I commend you as a parent that it’s awesome you’re so attuned to these kinds of subtle changes in your son!

Before I say anything else, I want to preface this by saying that sexualized behavior between teen males is almost completely meaningless in terms of sexuality. I’ve known teen boys who masturbated and sucked each other who went on to be completely straight Men; it was nothing more than an experimental phase.

That’s why all parents should react to these behaviors as well as you have! You’re approaching this from a desire to understand it, rather than just lash out and judge him harshly (which happens far too much). I’m proud of you, Sophie!

Now to your question: It’s hard to make a definitive statement about whether your son is Alpha, but the stories you’ve told me make me lean toward answering “YES”, your son is Alpha. His desire for foot worship and service alone makes me answer that way, but maybe more important is the fact that he’s “enslaved” a couple of sub friends into being his foot fags. Not just that, but he’s more than willing to use these friends right in front of his girlfriend and she doesn’t bat an eye. That’s Alpha-level confidence for sure! 

So what do you do if he is, indeed, an Alpha? Well, there isn’t much you can do except try to encourage independent thinking and aggressive action-taking (it sounds like he’s already there anyway). Many times parents want to tamp down an Alpha son’s assertiveness (for fear he might get into trouble), but as long as he’s being respectful and follows the law, there isn’t much else to do except trust him and the natural power gifted to him. 

If he turns out to be the Alpha I expect, then congratulations! Any son is a blessing, but bringing an Alpha into the world is truly a privilege! I hope I was able to ease your mind! 

Thank you,

sam the faggot (the “webmaster”)

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Hi Sam,

This is the first time I’m writing to you on the site, but I would like to share my story if you think it’s appropriate. Thanks to you, I have discovered my nature as a faggot. I have learned about hierarchy and my place at the feet of alpha men. I am grateful to you. My name is Antoine (on social media, I go by Lucien, like my crush). I am Italian, 35 years old, and I am a virgin. Lucien is a former Swiss guard, straight, and alpha, and I am madly in love with him. I was fortunate to live with him for a few months in Rome, and I always showed myself to be available and submissive, obviously without telling him anything, but I tried to make him understand my devotion through my availability and by helping him with many things. I also visited him in Switzerland, and those were the most beautiful moments of my life. In the end, we both returned to our own places, and the distance made me realize how much I depended on him. I bought your book “Can I Serve You?” and I found it fantastic. Thanks to our discussions on X, I was convinced to confess my feelings. Since I did, he hasn’t been treating me the same way; he ignores me, we don’t talk on the phone anymore, he says he has work problems and doesn’t want to. I even offered to help him financially, but he refused. I am desperate! In a few months, I will meet him in Rome with a group of friends who know nothing about all this, and he will be staying with others instead of with me. I have become so jealous that I made it obvious to him, and he responded annoyed, “Stop with these childish things, or I will kick you out of the group.” I am desperate, Sam. Help me; how should I behave when I meet him in front of everyone else? I m a faggot Sam, I need to serve an alpha, to be ed by an alpha. Thank you, Sam; you are precious.

Brother, thanks for telling your story here on the site! 

Lucien does sound like an amazing, very dominant Alpha. I can see why you love him and worship him so much!

It does seem like you’ve pushed him too far or been too needy/desperate with him, and that clinginess is bad for Alphas. They don’t like that, and sometimes react angrily to it. You need to relax and be submissive and quiet and let him dictate things for a bit. Perhaps the trip to Rome might be a chance to offer him help or gift him something, but I wouldn’t make a big production out of it if you do. You really need to allow him to take the lead if he chooses. 

This is a dance. Occasionally a toe gets stepped on, but that doesn’t mean the dance is over. Keep trying.

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Sup Sam, found your podcast just wanted to ask about my situation. Little bit about me, I’m 19 5’5 , a fit 145lbs, hairy, 8 inch cock, but in my day to day life I’m a little bit more feminine acting. I enjoy more gay things like theater, but I still dress masculinely. I think people intuitively expect me to be a faggot but I have found that I really enjoy dominating. I have both dominated and submitted to guys before but I seem to have a knack and a very intense elation that comes with dominating men, especially taller older men. I also have several guys who are long term submissive to me who do any task I request of them over video. I guess my question is am I still an alpha by your standards if I enjoy more feminine things? Love the pod, great jerk off fodder.

– twink alpha C

Sir, thank you for writing to me! 

I get so tired of people putting limitations and enforcing stereotypes on Alphas. I hear these complaints all the time. “He’s not tall enough to be Alpha” or “his dick isn’t big enough to be Alpha” or “he doesn’t have enough muscle to be Alpha” or whatever. I’ve heard it all and I’ve shot them all down. 

Let me just say it again for the Peanut Gallery in the back rows: An Alpha is defined by what he is INSIDE. 

Now, most of the time there are outward qualities that manifest from that inner Alpha (like he works out because he wants a body that reflects his heart, or a cocky walk or way of speaking), but those outward qualities don’t define the Alpha. 

I’m just going to say this right up front: you’re Alpha. Everything you described to me identifies you as an Alpha in my eyes. 

Let me tackle your “feminine” personality aspects: A findom Master by the X name @ServeElRey is a twink Alpha with a scrawny body, a big dick, and he’s extremely dominant. He’s a gay Alpha, and he mounts bodybuilders twice his size. But when you hear him speak, he sounds like a very feminine, “clubby” gay boy. But if anyone judged him based on those outward factors, they’d be making a mistake; he owns many faggots all around the world and makes more per year than most doctors. 

I feel like you might be holding back from truly expressing your dominance because of some prejudice you’ve built up within yourself based on how you think others view you. I implore you to stop doing that, Sir. You are not only denying yourself the enjoyment of your natural Alpha power, but you’re also denying the world of it! 

So embrace your Alphahood, Sir. Accept your rightful place and start building the type of Kingdom you want for yourself … even if that Kingdom has sparkly unicorns and glitter everywhere! (that last part was just a joke, Sir!)

I hope this helped, Sir! Thank you!   

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Hi Brother Sam,

I never saw this before but I think I’m a 25 year old faggot. Thanks to your podcast and this website I start to realize my purpose in life. Unconsciously I have always surrounded myself with Alpha malesthst I needed to serve.

I have sucked many straight guys, like my uber driver while driving, and been a domestic faggot before. And sometimes I lock myself in chastity to serve a Daddy Alpha as a free use slut. It’s never about my pleasure. The focus in the last 8 years has been on being an obedient slut for real men.

But some part of me wants to have a romantic life with a cute boyfriend that I will eventually marry. Do you think this is possible? Or should I embrace being a faggot and cage myself and get on my knees in my thong to serve lots of strong man? Is being a good faggot more important than my personal love life?

Thanks for everything you do!

x a faggot from the Netherlands

I don’t consider this to necessarily be an “either/or” issue. I know of plenty of Alphas in relationships with their faggots – even marrying them! – so I don’t think they’re mutually exclusive options. In my time running FWA and this site I’ve seen four marriages occur between Alphas and faggots! In fact, right now this site has a contributing writer, Zack, who is a faggot owned by a very powerful Alpha Master AND BOYFRIEND named Master Declan. 

In my opinion, it’s best to start by simply serving the best Alphas you can find as well as you possibly can. Any good Alpha will want to keep you for good, and more can come of it.  Either way, devotion to service will keep you busy and used during the lean times without love and romance. The other way around doesn’t work as well. 

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