I’m 19, gay, and I’ve been thinking about this more and more lately and wanted to hear from people who might understand.

I grew up with my single dad  who is in his mid 40s and older brother who is 21. My dad played college football back in the day and even now he still has that presence. Tall, broad shoulders, built, confident without trying. My brother took after him almost exactly. Same height, same frame, same way people just seem drawn to him.

Growing up I always idolized them and tried to emulate them, but it wasn’t really until I was in highschool that I realized we weren’t really the same. I held out for a growth spurt and some excess confidence that never came.

They are both very supportive of me even when I came out as gay (my dad even told me he fooled around in college), but I just realized even without the gay part people would never see me the way that they see them.

It seemed like girls and guys always orbited my brother, he was the quarter back on the football team. My dad never seemed to chase attention but somehow always had women chasing after him, even cause a minor scandal when he was caught with my friends mom who was married. My brother’s the same. He doesn’t really try and still people want to be around him. Even other guys seem to naturally defer to him.

Then there’s me.

I’m short. Skinny. Never athletic. I’m gay, which I don’t think caused it, but it made me notice dynamics differently. I’m not intimidating, not dominant, not the guy people look at when he walks into a room. I’ve always felt more comfortable observing than leading. I think if it weren’t for my brother I probably would have been fucked with a lot more in school. The football team kind of acted like a squad of bully’s but they wouldn’t do anything if it was against him.

For a long time I thought I’d eventually grow into being like them. But lately I’ve accepted I’m just not built for that role. I found your website looking to alpha males and honestly I think I’m a faggot.

Not in a self-hating way. More like realizing some people seem naturally suited to being the center of gravity and others aren’t.

I look at my dad and brother and think, these are alphas. Since the house was just guys, it was always pretty bro-y. We’d hang out in just in our underwear, rough house, talk in rude and gross ways.

Honestly, a big part of my gay awakening was when I was in middleschool and I guess all my dad’s underwear was dirty because he wasn’t in his usual underwear, he was just hanging out naked. I hadn’t grown pubes yet, and had never seen a grown man’s dick. I was in awe at the hair, his size, and even the smell that filled the room. I asked him why mine wasn’t like that and he said when I became a man, mine would grow to be like his (not even close).

Ever since then I have since around then loved smelling their underwear whenever I get the chance.

Anyways, this leads up to the main reason I am writing in. My brother went to school out of state 3 years ago, but I started going to a local community college so for the past few years it’s just been me and dad.

This Saturday, we were watching a movie and he was drinking a bit. Shooting the shit like usual. Out of no where he asked me if I was bottom? I took a second to process that he’d ask me something like that. I told him that I haven’t had an experiences other than oral, but that I think so. He said he figured and grinned a little bit while he sipped his beer. That offended me a little bit and he asked him why. He asked if I thought I was always sneaky grabbing his dirty underwear out of the hamper. I was probably as red as a tomato I was so embarrassed. “You could always just ask, bud” and he chuckled a bit  and grabbed his bulge. He was just wearing tighty whities. I was so flustered I couldn’t think of how to respond, I was embarrassed that I knew what I was doing, embarrassed that he could tell I was a bottom. I just turned my head toward the movie but honestly could not take in any of the information.

I don’t know how many he had, but he was definitely feeling it. He pulled out his giant veiny dick and said “You can always come straight to the source”. I had never seen it hard and it was like a pornstar’s. I was in shock but then he was even clearer “You can suck on it if you want”. I couldn’t believe this was actually happening. I got on my knees in front of him. He kept chuckling. I put his tip in my mouth and start sucking. I knew the scent and taste so well from his underwear but it was stronger and triggered something it me. Tried to get my lips to the base but I couldn’t so I just sucked on the top half and worked the base with my hands. He must have been needed it because he came in my mouth after about 2 minutes. I swallowed. It was amazing. But suddenly the reality that I just sucked my dad’s dick. He patted me on the head and said I was a good boy, while he put it back in his underwear.

I was full of excitement, and horror, and his cum. It was my ultimate fantasy but now I wondered what this meant for our family. He just turned back to the movie but I ran to my room. Furiously masturbated and then went to sleep.

When I woke up I could still taste his musk. And at first I savored it before getting in my head again and hoping he was too drunk and wouldn’t remember it.

When I went downstairs he was already up and had made coffee. So I was pretty sure he wasn’t so drunk he wouldn’t remember. My fear was confirmed when he asked why I ran off so quick last night. I was horrified but we had a good and incredibly embarrassing conversation. He said he had used lots of boys like me in college. I shouldn’t be ashamed of who I am. That we were in this together and that we could both help each other out. He said it was completely up to me but that he could tell by how quickly I got on my knees that I’d want more. We had a pretty normal lazy Sunday after that but my mind keeps racing.

Do you have any advice? Have you heard of other alpha fathers using their faggot sons? Is this natural?

My little brother, thank you for writing to me!

I must admit, I’m a little disappointed in myself. I’ve been at this so long and have had so many really crazy true stories that I feel like I should’ve seen that wild plot twist in your experience coming a mile away! I can only imagine how you felt and how confused you must be right now!

Let me answer this in “reverse”. Yes, I’ve covered multiple “Alpha Father sexually uses his faggot son” scenarios over the 11-year lifespan of this site. I’ve never seen any turn out negatively; in fact, quite the opposite! In possibly the most remarkable example, God Alpha Dino used (and occasionally still does use) his faggot son Jimmy. Their stories can be found in the right sidebar or by following the links I’ve provided.

The world condemns such relations between fathers and sons, of course, but hierarchy doesn’t operate within the narrow parameters of “moral values”. Hierarchy distills relationships (especially male relationships) into the pure animal instincts found within the power and dominance. At that level, your Dad ceases to be your father and simply transforms into a feral and dominant Alpha with needs that supersedes yours as the faggot programmed to satisfy them.

It’s that instinctive wiring we all have that caused your Dad to understand what you are and pull out his dick, and the instinctive wiring in you that caused you to immediately kneel and service him. Can you see that, feel that, understand that? I bet you can, and I bet your Dad can, too.

That’s why I don’t consider this situation to be “wrong”. You and your Dad are simply two males fulfilling roles you were born to play hierarchically.

It’s not surprising that your Dad used faggots in school. Many straight Alphas do. I’ve been the “first faggot” to multiple straight Alphas, so I can say it with confidence that straight Alphas possibly understand best how to use and train faggots because they are typically more in-touch with pure, unfettered masculinity. Your Dad has likely known what you are for a long time, but like any great Alpha he watched over your development and acted only when he felt it was the right time to teach you these important hierarchical lessons.

In some ways, having a Dad who is also a Master is the best situation for young faggots. Your Dad can train you with love and care, something that isn’t always guaranteed out in the world. Your Dad can strengthen your self-esteem, something lacking in many faggots. This will help you make better choices so that your precious gift of submissive service isn’t wasted on unworthy pretenders.

There is no better example of this than Jimmy. Master Dino’s use of his faggot son and the training he’s provided him has made Jimmy into one of the strongest faggots I know, and Jimmy is constantly overjoyed by the privilege he has serving both his God Alpha father and his two Alpha brothers (again, I strongly encourage you to read those threads).

I hope my answer covers your initial concerns, little brother. I know you’re reeling from all of this, but sharing these feelings with your Dad will help him understand how to guide you. I would really like you to share this post with him so he can read what you wrote and how I responded. You are, after all, his faggot … so he should be involved in any influences on you.

I’m always here if you need me. Please feel free to write to me anytime!

Love,

sam the faggot

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I’ve said it a million times here, and I’ve documented it constantly: Alphas view faggots as playthings to share as they sharpen the power in each other.

The faggot gets what it needs as well, but these sessions are hierarchically very much like a gym session between superior Men.

I love hearing the surprise in the voice of this black Alpha as he experiences service from a skinny white faggot for the first time.

Straight and bi Alphas are always shocked by not only the skill and hunger of a faggot, but also by the rush of power they feel!

It’s hierarchy!

Hi, I’m a straight black alpha with a serious dilemma. Every time I sleep/dominate trans and fem guys  after I nut I feel sick and disgusted with myself. Hang out, texting and talking on the phone  with them no problem. Just after sex I feel wrong until the next time I get the urge.  I think it might be because it’s frown upon in the black community and there’s a chance I could get exposed but idk.

Is it worth it to try to fix it or just give it up and sleep with only  woman?

Sir, thank you so much for writing!

I think what you mention here is one of the key elements all straight Alphas struggle with when they fuck faggots and engage in other “non-straight” kinds of sex. I know my straight Masters struggled with it to varying degrees. It might be helpful to break down this issue into a couple of parts:

1. Does fucking faggots make you gay?

2. Is fucking faggots wrong?

3. Would you be ashamed to be discovered owning/using faggots?

4. What is most important to you?

So let’s look into all four of these buckets, Sir:

1. It’s very simple: no, fucking faggots does NOT make you gay. I think you already realize this. You fuck faggots because you’re extremely dominant, faggots submit and serve better, their worship makes you feel much more powerful, etc. There are plenty of reasons why straight Alphas use faggots, and you probably have your own reasons, Sir. However, I suspect they’re similar to what I mentioned above.

2. If you were raised in a religious household or you’re a religious person, the question of “right and wrong” might be hanging over your head. Additionally, society itself doesn’t like the idea of our most powerful Men (like you) refusing society’s limited definition of how straight Men should live their lives. I encourage all straight Alphas to reject this completely, because straight Alphas are the most powerful creatures on the planet and should NEVER be limited in this way. The world and all of its glory and worship belongs to you, Sir. You should drench yourself in it, and proudly bask in it!

3. I’m sure you would indeed be ashamed if you were discovered owning/using faggots. Most straight Alphas would. However, this doesn’t stop straight Alphas from doing it again and again (nor has it stopped you, Sir). Of course, you’d also feel ashamed if people watched you take a shit somewhere, even though shitting is a natural function of being human. I contend that fucking faggots and other inferior/weaker people is a natural function of being Alpha. You’re being drawn again and again to fuck faggots because you’re Alpha and it feeds your need and hunger for power and worship. That right there should tell you the importance for yourself, Sir.

4. Only you can really answer this one, Sir. I’ve outlined the hierarchical reasons why you want/need this, but only you can be the one to decide if those reasons are more important to you than your need for appearances.

I hope you do embrace a direction and stick with it, Sir. Once you accept a course, the feelings of shame or regret should disappear. You have far too much power to have it be wasted on half-hearted or indecisive action.

Thank you, Sir! Feel free to write back anytime!

Yours,

sam the faggot

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Hey Sam, I am a long-time follower of your account, on account of me finding submission and domination very hot since I figured out my sexuality. But I always had issues with your treating Hierarchy as a philosophy, since I’ve tended to think it’s an (no offence) eminently fascistic way of thinking. I don’t think anyone is superior to anyone else and thus seeing it as a reality has really shocked me.

however, I just had an experience that made me very confused. Mostly I don’t think I can see it in any other way that through the lens of Hierarchy.

Today I was at the sauna. I am not a regular – I don’t know what called me there. But oh; what an experience. When I got there I went down to the area with an actual sauna, and after a while of fooling around settled into a thin corridor where people sat and jacked off watching each other. Slowly, I saw people’s eyes converging on me. I am reasonably good looking, but no smoke show; my cock is on the big size and kind of thick, but it’s not anything to write home about. I guess I just radiated an aura because slowly people started to converge around me. One was sucking me off, one was worshipping my legs, another one on my nipples, another one on my armpit. I was showered in male attention, and encouraged to take my pick. If I as much as gestured to anyone looking, they would come in to worship me, and one of the ones at my feet would take a break. What I would perceive as minor Alphas would send guys my way to kneel before Me and watch as I fuxked their throats better than they ever could.

This is all just a supremely hot night with the fags at a London sauna, there is nothing new to it. What really caught me was the feeling I had. I did not just feel turned on, or even particularly hot in a way I generally would. Rather, I just felt a wave of fulfillment carrying over me, like feeling that was where I Belonged, at the adoring jokes of my worshippers.

I don’t get how this really fits into your framework, since I used to be a total bottom until about two years ago. I’ve become almost exclusively a top since (I still bottom now and then), and I’ve developed a bit of a dominating streak. I really enjoy pushing a fag to its limits and seeing how much I can own them. But still, it’s not something that initially came naturally to me.

How does this fit into your mindset? Would love to know. You’ve given me many a jack-off in my life.

Master, thank you so much for writing in and sharing your powerful account!

Yes, I called you Master!

Your experience fits EXACTLY into what I’ve always taught about hierarchy! You are a typical example of what I’ve come to call a “latent Alpha”. I think I might be the only person in the world who understands better than I do. I’ve catalogued between 5-10 cases of latent Alphahood over the 11 years of this site.

Latent Alphas are natural-born Alphas who, for whatever reason (usually childhood trauma), end up being manipulated or choosing to be a bottom/faggot. These latent Alphas are usually quite unhappy as bottoms/faggots, and that’s because that’s not who they were born to be! These latent Alphas wear submission like a cheap, ill-fitting suit that never feels completely comfortable or fulfilling.

Eventually the true Alpha buried inside them forces its way to the surface, and the newly-freed Alpha experiences something brand new: peace and fulfillment!

Master, you were born Alpha. In fact, I’m already suspecting that you were born to be a God Alpha based on how other Alphas were deferring to you out of respect! There’s simply no other way to look at this.

That feeling of “fulfillment” and “belonging” you describe is EXACTLY how other latent Alphas felt once they were freed from the submissiveness forced on them in the past. Master, you’re now freed as well! It’s like finally reaching your home after being lost for many years. It’s a deep sense of purpose that washes over you knowing that you’re finally in the right place!

I’m sure that you are seeing the world very differently now. Everywhere you go, you’ll start noticing how people treat you as you go through your day. You’ll see their submissiveness to you, their eagerness to please you. These are the subtle, subconscious signals of hierarchy that only very powerful Alphas induce in inferiors. They may have been there all along, but you never noticed it before because your mind wasn’t tuned to that frequency.

Thankfully, you’re wide awake now!

I’m so happy for you, Master! The world was always meant to be yours, and now you can claim it all!

Please feel free to write back and let me know how this message lands with you and how you’re progressing!

Yours,

sam the faggot

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This post is one restored from FWA and is part of the paid Master Nick channel here on the site.

Let’s be honest: sexual contact between Men is almost always aggressive and rough. The primal nature of Men – all violence and animal hunger – is often expressed sexually. But when a Man fucks a woman, her weaker state generally provides a check against the Beast raging within the Man; he must control himself around her in order to avoid harming her. 

But when a Man fucks another male, all stops are removed. The Man can fully express the entirety of his aggression and violence. The recipient of that aggression can often be overwhelmed, frightened, or hurt.

That power disparity is amplified exponentially within the Alpha/fag or Master/slave dynamic. Within that framework, the Alpha has all of the power, and the faggot has none. So whether the pair are exploring torture as a fetish or it’s simply a case of aggressive sex gone too far, the fact remains that the faggot is an object owned by the Alpha. 

And with ownership comes responsibility.

I say this to highlight something beautiful Master Nick did with Chin after he had to administer harsh discipline in the form of a belting. After an appropriate cooling-off period, Alpha Nick took Chin into his bedroom. There, on the bed, he held Chin tightly in his muscular arms while gently stroking Chin’s hair “just like you would do to a dog.” Alpha Nick repeatedly reassured Chin that he was “a good faggot” in soothing tones. 

This beautiful aftercare had the desired effect of rejuvenating Chin. If Chin had a tail like a dog, it would’ve been wagging happily after such tenderness and concern from his Master. That is the true power of aftercare.   

Good Alphas and Masters instinctively understand the need for this in a faggot’s life. Master Nick is a STRAIGHT MALE, yet he grasps the fundamental need for such care given that he owns these faggots. That is a quality only the most incredible Men on Earth appreciate and practice. 

Here are some ways aftercare can be administered:

PHYSICAL

• Holding each other
• Light touching, stroking
• Gentle massage
• Replenishing food and/or drink
• Loving sex

EMOTIONAL

• Discussions of feelings over what happened
• Expressions of care and devotion
• Uplifting music

As leaders, Kings, and gods, Men have a special responsibility – tend to the needs of the little ones, the weak and vulnerable possessions in their care. This is especially true of the faggots serving them. The faggot surrenders all of itself to the glory of their Owner and, like a faithful dog, seeks only its Master’s approval.

A wise Man uses aftercare to deepen the faggot’s devotion to service and give it the strength to continue to serve!      

The following post is part of a thread following a 26-year-old straight Alpha engineer who has discovered his new, younger roommate named Samuel is a faggot. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

A couple of days ago I received an experience from a 26-year-old straight Alpha in my Questions From Readers inbox. You can read it by CLICKING HERE. In it, the Alpha (later naming himself Master Stretch) told me about a younger male from his company who was staying at his place temporarily. This younger male, another engineer named Samuel, was voluntarily doing domestic chores around the house, and this alerted Master Stretch to the fact that Samuel might be a faggot.

So he asked me for advice on the situation. I was sure Samuel was a faggot, but I didn’t know how he might react if Master Stretch suddenly or aggressively made a move to use him. So I advised Master Stretch to take the course I once advised straight Master Jin to take with his faggot roommate Chin years ago.

Well, what do you know? It worked like a charm!

Follow up on the fag: When he finished his cleaning after work today, I asked him to grab me a Modelo from the fridge. He did it without hesitation.

That led to a conversation. I asked whether he’d enjoyed being my domestic faggot for the past couple of weeks. He immediately pushed back on the label, but admitted that he genuinely likes the living situation and likes feeling useful around the house.

I pointed out that he’d basically been acting like a housewife without ever being asked. We ended up talking for quite a while about why he had taken on so many household responsibilities voluntarily.

What surprised me was that, even though he still hated the word, he admitted that he enjoys having clear expectations and a defined role. He said he likes knowing what’s expected of him and likes feeling useful when he takes care of things.

At one point he told me he’d stop looking for an apartment if he could keep staying in the basement under the same arrangement. He said he likes living here, likes being useful, and likes the routine we’ve settled into. He still rolled his eyes every time I called him a faggot, but he didn’t seem nearly as interested in arguing about it as he was at the start of the conversation.

I should also be clear that while we work for the same company, I am not his supervisor.

Awesome!

I must admit I was a little bit annoyed that Samuel resisted being referred to as a “faggot”. I have no doubt that Samuel loved being called that, but it’s just part of a silly defensive system faggots put up in order to get through everyday life.

However, any successful faggot needs to overcome such reflexive defense mechanisms. Instead, we must embrace that term and its meaning. I’m not saying that ever faggot needs to be militant or “out and proud” about being a faggot as I and others are, but there must be at least an internal acceptance of that purpose. Otherwise, how will one be ready when an opportunity like this one arrives??

Fortunately, Master Stretch has had dealings with faggots in the past when he was a wrestler in school, so he knew to keep up the pressure on Samuel.

And that worked!

I was speaking with Master Stretch late tonight on the Discord and he added this:

He’s already more of a faggot that I realized. When I came back from my lift he was cleaning in a jockstrap. I had him keep his face in my crotch while I was drinking, smoking my cigar, and watching tv. Since he’s involved with my work I wanted to make sure I really got control before doing anything explicitly sexual but I’m going to start using his throat. Wasn’t resisting it when I called him a faggot today lmao. He just needs a strong hand.

Then Master Stretch, apparently too horny to resist, decided to take action:

Think I messaged you about using some faggots in school when I was in wrestling. Mostly got head but I did fuck one of the more submissive ones a few times. In retrospect I definitely cunted him. He started driving me around everywhere and buying me food and shit, and I want to control Sam on the same. I have always taken advantage of weaker guys around me. And in a wrestling environment that was really already about dominating other men, it did just feel natural to use weaker guys. And it’s easy to suss out who is who in that environment.

Was planning to ease him into it a bit, but I’m getting pent up thinking about it again, I’m going to go down there and use his throat!

A little while later I received this message:

Lighting up another cigar, he definitely struggled on it but I guess not too much, because he said “thank you sir” after I unloaded down his throat lmao. I don’t think he knew what was going on at first because he was sleeping and I woke him up with my cock in his face and told him him open his faggot mouth.

That’s how it’s done!

Alphas don’t ever need permission or even the suggestion of such before they take what they want from a faggot. In fact, Alphas taking charge in this manner strengthens hierarchy by forcing its application and teaching inferiors their place. Deep down, every faggot knows that they exist to serve the needs of Men, but too many faggots have mental and emotional blocks preventing them from submitting entirely.

Those blocks must be kicked in.

Master Stretch went downstairs and fed his new faggot the first of many loads. There’s no doubt that the faggot slept much better now that it has its purpose and a belly full of Alpha cum!

This is exactly how it was meant to be!

I’m a 26-year-old engineer who moved up quickly and recently became a senior engineer at my firm. A junior engineer straight out of school joined the company and was given a relocation package that covered a hotel for two weeks while he looked for an apartment.

At the end of those two weeks, he still hadn’t found a place. Since I have a finished basement close to the office, I offered to let him stay there and pay me rent. He’s been living with me for about two weeks now.

What has surprised me is how naturally a dynamic seems to be developing. Without me asking, he’s started cleaning the house after work, doing laundry, washing dishes, and generally taking care of domestic chores. He seems genuinely eager to be useful and appreciative of having a stable place to live.

He’s younger, smaller, and much less established professionally than I am, and the whole situation has me wondering about the line between landlord, mentor, boss, and something more.

I actually found your podcast while looking for discussions about straight men making use of willing gay boys for domestic service. It got me thinking about whether the arrangement should simply continue as it is, or whether there is value in explicitly defining what is already happening rather than leaving everything unspoken.

If a boy seems happiest taking care of the home and being useful to the man providing for him, is there any reason not to acknowledge that directly? How would you approach a conversation about stopping the apartment search and making him explicitly a live in faggot. How should I take advantage of this situation?

Master, thank you so much for writing! This is an extraordinary letter!

This is not the first time the podcast has led straight Alphas to the site and eventually to the truth about hierarchy. Every time it happens, I’m just so overwhelmed with gratitude for it.

Let me just preface my advice with these hierarchical truths: hierarchically-speaking, straight Alphas deserve worship and service from every inferior, male or female. That includes sexual, domestic, and financial service. Hierarchy is not about sexuality, it’s about power, so when a straight Alpha uses a faggot sexually, it isn’t GAY because those simple labels do not apply to what is happening between an Alpha and a faggot. When a straight Alpha uses a faggot sexually, it doesn’t change the Alpha’s sexual preference. Instead, the straight Alpha experiences an unparalleled rush of power that leads to tremendous orgasms and a sense of completeness that other straight Men cannot know.

That’s a lot to take in, I realize, but it’s important to define that so we can tackle what’s going on (and what needs to happen) with the kid you have now living with you, Master.

I think you’ve already accepted the truth that your new guest is a faggot. I’m guessing by how it is behaving that it has accepted this fact about itself and is trying some of my methods to get your attention (I don’t claim to know it’s ever read my site, but it’s following my game plan to a “t”). This is great.

Here’s what I suggest, Master: tell it that you want to speak to it. When the time comes for this meeting, have it kneel before you. Commend it for the domestic work it has been performing, and that you understand why it needs to do these things. Ask it directly: “Are you a faggot?” Once it admits this, ask repeatedly: “What are you?” and make sure it openly admits that it’s a faggot. Tell it “good boy”.

Then tell it that you want to take ownership of it as your personal faggot. Ask it if that is what it wants. It will say “yes, Sir”. Have it kiss your feet. Then outline your expectations from it, and demand confirmation from it.

At this point I recommend some form of scent training exercise, Master. I don’t know what you’re comfortable with, but you can have the faggot deeply sniff your feet, pits, or dick/balls. This will cause the faggot to imprint on you.

After that, ask it again what it is. Make it say “I’m your faggot, Sir”. Then dismiss it to get back to its chores.

That is how I recommend the first initiation should go, Master.

There could be variations to this depending on how you plan to use your new faggot. If you’re planning on using it sexually, then definitely train it on the smell and feel of your cock/balls. You might feel the urge to feed it your cock/cum on the first day; you should always follow your instincts on this, Master. Nature always knows best.

But the structural approach I’ve outlined helps the faggot understand that you have expectations and it needs to obey them.

As for your everyday approach going forward, you should start outlining expected tasks as part of its duties. So far, the faggot has been doing domestic work as a “gift” in exchange for lodging. This must be mentally changed to “work as an offering to a superior Alpha”. It’s part of the purpose of every faggot.

I hope this sets you up correctly, Master. I have a feeling you have an excellent faggot residing with you, and I have no doubt you’re going to love owning it!

Please feel free to write anytime! Thank you, Master!

Yours,

sam the faggot

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It’s clear that young King @lycanthropex1 cherishes his faggots. He understands they are inferior to him and not his equal in any way, but he knows their needs and their purpose.

True Kings value their faithful slaves!

HierarchyIsTruth!

🚨Hierarchical positioning!

Notice how the Alpha takes the higher seat, looking down on the weaker male?

Ideally, all faqqots seeking to serve straight Alphas can trigger a response by taking the lower seat at their feet and looking up at them!

HierarchyIsTruth

Hi Sam –

Longtime fan of your site. I have been trying to figure out what to write to you for a while now (if you want to share any of this on your site please feel free to do so).

A little background: I’m a fag, 40 years old, former fraternity guy and athlete. I’ve been married to my Alpha military husband (Army Alpha) for 10 years.

Our relationship in brief: I’m obviously a total bottom, I’m into a lot of kinks and some kinda extreme stuff. I’ve experienced a few rapes over my lifetime, and it’s a big part of my desire to serve. I also tend to seek situations where I put myself at risk of that happening and recreating what I’ve gone through. My favorite experiences of service have been for sadistic, Destroyer Alphas (if those details are of interest I can share my experiences). I’m a masochistic fag and like to know that my pain brings pleasure for an Alpha.

My Alpha husband (I’d say he is in the Protector Alpha category) understands this and has been open to exploring some of these desires of mine but also says he loves me and couldn’t take it as far as I want. He is a total top, but is more vanilla sexually. I obviously don’t pressure or force him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with, but it has impacted our sex lives. He usually only uses my mouth and not my fag hole because of his size (8-8.5 inches and extremely thick). Although I am a total bottom and have taken many Alpha cocks, and I stretch myself frequently, I remain very tight – to the point that sometimes he says it’s too tight for him to fuck me and doesn’t feel good on him. I’ve told him he can force it into me, begged him to, but when I start to show I’m in pain it turns him off.

We’re fully open, he fucks other fags and likes to hear about me getting fucked by other guys. We rarely have threesomes for many reasons (mostly irrelevant but can share if you want to know). But I’ve heard a really hard time recently finding any other true Alphas that would be willing to fuck me hard and wreck my fag hole. He says if I have that done he thinks I’d be loser for him.

For the next year we are long distance (because of a deployment for him) but I’ll be able to visit him for a month or two every few months. I’ve been looking EVERYWHERE for an Alpha to own me while he’s gone (Grindr, X, BDSMLR, Reddit, etc) but have been unsuccessful.

My questions for you:

1. Where can I find an Alpha? Most guys I talk to are only seeking virtual roleplay, or are too far away to ever meet, or want a young fag (at 40 I’m still very conscious about my looks and body and make sure I stay attractive for Alphas). I’m mostly attracted to straight Alphas (all my friends are straight and they are 100% in the Alpha category). I’ve tried to show them I’d serve them but it’s never worked (a few brief moments with teammates or frat brothers or childhood friends but never long term).

2. I don’t want to pressure my Alpha husband into things and know it isn’t my place, but when he fucks other fags he is very rough and aggressive so I know he has that side to him as well. Is there a way I could respectfully encourage him to do the same to me? He recently told me about a fag he fucked wearing his uniform, one booted foot on the fags head while he fucked him using only a little spit for lube and the fag ripped and bled. I get hard knowing he did that and wish it were me. He knows that I’d like that but says he’d never want to hurt me. But he’s hurting me by not giving me that experience and it’s now becoming an overriding focus of my life. I’ll spend days seeking it out, and now that I live alone I have fewer responsibilities to my Alpha so I will ignore friends and family and work searching for an Alpha to use me (that’s incredibly embarrassing for me to admit, and I know it isn’t healthy but its been so long since I was able to feel of use and like I’m fully serving I am obsessed with it).

Sam – can you help me please?

Respectfully,

Frat Fag Alex

Thank you for writing to me, Alex! I apologize for the delay!

I’ve encountered this weird situation a couple of times in the past, and it always leaves me baffled. Protector Alphas are amazing, but when they’re GAY Protector Alphas it can almost become a barrier. Gay Protector Alphas are too careful with their faggot partners because they’re in love with their faggot partners.

A faggot is a very specific kind of creature. Our need to be used and serve overwhelms everything else. We surrender everything to fulfill this central need; our bodies, our minds, our self-respect, and even our hopes and dreams. Even extreme pain is not a real consideration for us fags, just as long as we are pleasing our Owners. All that truly matters to us is our Alpha’s complete satisfaction. I really don’t think it’s even possible for Alphas to comprehend this about their faggots, even extremely experienced Alphas like your husband.

I get that he loves you. You are his most prized possession. But that is what’s so confounding to me about this situation – he’s loving you so much that he’s preventing you from being the most complete version of yourself. By sparing you what he thinks is pain, he’s actually causing tremendous emotional damage to you instead. I’m sure you’d agree with me that a pussy hole delightfully damaged in service will recover, but slowly suffocating to death as years tick away is the kind of damage that is hard to recover. Does your husband really think it’s okay for you to watch him use other faggots the way you desperately want to be treated?? That idea is mind-boggling to me.

It’s amazing how much better straight Alphas are with their personal faggots when it comes to this issue, and I think that’s both a shame and a mystery.

Anyway, back on point. I want to deal with the second question first, because I think the real issue is what’s happening in the marriage.

First and foremost, I want you to have your husband read your ask and my reply. It’s very important that he comprehends the depth of your desperation and sadness over this. He needs to appreciate how much long-term damage this is causing within you. He also needs to understand that giving to other fags the most intrinsic thing you desire and are denied is absolutely wrong, cruel, and unconscionable.

Secondly, whenever you both are together, I want you to try Caged Jock’s ingenious hole-stretching method using chopsticks (SEE THE VIDEO HERE). This is an activity you can do together to stretch you more and prepare you for the fuck of your life. This is the kind of “upkeep” every Master should be doing with their faggots in order to customize them for proper service.

As for your Question #1:

Submitting to your straight Alpha friends is still a possibility, but it might be only in the domestic aspect unless you get them drunk. The problem faggots have when trying to seduce their straight Alpha friends is the “friends” part. When an Alpha sees a guy as his friend (and “equal”), he’s less likely to want to use the fag. Calling them “Sir”, being complimentary, and directing the conversations to them in upbuilding ways (particularly engaging them in conversations about their Alphahood) can and often does lead to some engagement. Take a couple of these straight Alpha friends out for dinner/drinks and employ a more submissive persona, utilize what I just told you, and you might be surprised. I wonder if they even really understand what a faggot is … so it might be good to educate them. They’d also need to understand that your Owner has no issue with you serving other Alphas.

You can employ these same techniques while out alone at a bar or restaurant/bar and you see a straight Alpha alone. Offer to pay for his meal/drinks, and when he asks, just be frank as to why. Is he really going to hit a submissive male who’s buying stuff for him and calling him an Alpha? Of course not! He might not be willing to do anything, but this is a game of repetition and averages. Keep trying, and you will find success.

The apps are a mess, but apps like TheBlowers.com will absolutely get you Alpha action. Try that in a pinch.

In conclusion, I honestly think this situation with your Alpha husband can be fixed. There needs to be more open, honest communication and some experimentation to make it work.

Thank you for the long-time readership, and for reaching out to me, my brother!

Love,

sam the faggot

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Whenever people ask me how I came up with the definitions of various levels of hierarchy I get a little nervous. Yes, there are certain criteria that define each level, but some of it is my instinct honed over the course of 30 years. I can just feel out a person’s status by the details of their stories and how they express themselves and determine their status.

But some levels of hierarchy are easier to read than others. From my vantage point as a faggot, I’ve learned to spot the Alpha levels of hierarchy so well that they are as clear as daylight. That’s why I was the first (and perhaps still the only) teacher of hierarchy to really isolate these subtle Alpha layers and clearly delineate them.

The most important of these Alpha layers is the top one, which I’ve named “God Alpha”. God Alphas lead the pack, so to speak, setting the pace for everyone else and receiving the greatest rewards for their vast superiority.

Watch this incredible video narrated by straight findom Master @HoldenMastersX in which he describes his life and how he came to accept and embrace the entirety of his God Alphahood. Afterward, I will break down the deciding factors of his status:

There are quite a few God Alpha signals in this video. Let’s pick them apart:

1. Submission of other Alphas – In the video, Master Holden describes how other Alphas followed him and looked to him for guidance. He was the captain and quarterback of the football team, a very natural position for a God Alpha.

2. Claiming of the property of other Alphas – Master Holden insinuates that he could (and did) take the women from fellow Alphas and other males.

3. The submission of older people in positions of societal power – Master Holden insinuates that even school faculty let him have his way, thereby unofficially acknowledging his natural authority over them.

4. Easy claiming of females – Master Holden admits that getting whatever he wants from girls is not even a challenge because women simply surrender to him and offer themselves to him.

5. Faggots submitted to him from a very early age – This is almost always a sign of burgeoning God Alphahood, because faggots in high school are typically too scared to offer themselves unless motivated by a truly and uniquely powerful force.

6. Master Holden accepted the worship/service of faggots – This is a critical step for God Alphahood, because it reveals in the Alpha an eagerness to embrace all of hierarchy as a natural extension of his truth as a God Alpha. Any true God Alpha must understand the very nature of hierarchy and accept it.

What did you notice about Master Holden’s extraordinary description of his God Alphahood?

Hierarchy 312 – True Alpha Qualities To Worship

A true Alpha is more than the size of his dick!

SITE: https://hierarchypodcast.com/hierarchy-312-true-alpha-qualities-to-worship/

SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/2TqhwaNl7kdcyZXK7YL5FV?si=1Trk3AbJTH6UWx1UVRYMrw

AMAZON: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b09c451b-5400-481c-b69e-85463cf2e84c/the-hierarchy-podcast

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When I say that Alpha cum reprograms the minds and bodies of faggots, I mean it.

Just listen to this:

This is how it starts.

An Alpha finds a faggot and wrestles with it, trying different submission holds on it, testing out why dominating the faggot makes him feel so good.

It almost always graduates to blowjobs after this! At least, it always has with me!

Hey fag Sam. I don’t know if you’ve already covered this but I might be at my ropes end and looking for some advice.

I’m a faggot. I accept it. I live out hierarchy. However hierarchy to me is also includes big dick worship. It’s hard for me to see someone with a small or average dick as superior to me or others. I’ve served some average cocks with inflated egos but over time the urge to serve dies down on my part if they don’t keep that ego up. I can inflate it all I want to but an act is an act and I can’t help an Alpha if he’s acting.

I’m experiencing that currently. An Alpha I serve has been taking pictures of himself and his cock but never a full body one. Never one connected to his face. Recently he sent a photo and I can tell his dick is average or even my size.

Its a pattern I’ve been noticing of average dicked Alphas vs big dicked Alphas. A big dick Alpha won’t be afraid to show off their body, their cock, all of themselves to show their hierarchy status, no matter what they look like. However average dicked Alphas will hide or play camera tricks to give the illusion of a big cock. Its becoming self evident to me that if an Alpha has to lie about his cock, that’s not an Alpha. I know there can be different circumstances where they are average and Alpha, but insecurity to the point of fabrication doesn’t sit well with me.

The Alpha I serve has been on the life for over 20+ years. He can be very alluring but then sends cock pics and it just breaks the vibe/scene. Am I a bad faggot or am I not listening to my instincts? Thank you for your time.

Thank you for writing, my brother!

This issue is an ongoing one on this site and across my social media. As a faggot who has never focused on dick size as a defining Alpha characteristic, I think I’ve made my position clear enough.

However, I DO understand your frustration regarding Alphas and dick size.

Yes, huge, heavy dicks owned by aggressive, dominant Men are quite breathtaking and cause immediate awe and submission in most people, but especially faggots. There’s no argument here.

But I just don’t believe we can judge a Man’s Alphahood based on physical characteristics he can’t control. So much of what makes a Man an Alpha comes from what is inside him that pinning the essence of a Man on a genetic lottery at birth seems random and wrong.

This is why I’m more prone to question the Alphahood of a fat slob. Would any true Alpha not care about the physical attributes he CAN control? How can a Man simply dismiss the way his physicality reflects his Alphahood?

But here’s the part of your question I really agree with completely: no Man can be an Alpha if he’s misrepresenting himself or creating a fake persona online. There’s simply no way to accept such a person as Alpha, and every faggot should reject them completely. Not only is such behavior NOT Alpha, but it’s also NOT MANLY OR RESPECTABLE.

As a side note, I’d like to reiterate that this is why I don’t search for Masters online. If I encounter an Alpha I want to serve in real life, then I make my move. That way, I see his Alphahood in action socially and KNOW FOR SURE what he is … making his penis size a secondary or nonexistent issue. You see how that works?

So you don’t need to feel bad about rejecting some of these insecure pretenders bothering you. It doesn’t make you a bad fag, brother … but rather, a wise one!

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Notice how these two obvious Alphas use their words and commands to brainwash this defenseless faggot! Having the fag repeat “I’m nothing but a hole” or “I’m your hole” is a terrific way to force it to admit it purpose and accept it!

Before social media and the broader internet, Alphas were simply genetically-superior Men with finely-sculpted bodies, razor-sharp intellects, or indomitable wills that led armies and bred thousands.

Sadly, social media is rapidly diluting our stock of true Alphas, replacing these superior Men with dumb, navel-gazing Instagram models who measure their so-called Alphahood by their follows, likes, and retweets.

Alphahood is no longer a calling … it’s a brand.

Sadly, this degeneration of the Alpha in our society has merged (inevitably, I suppose) with the rise of dickless, INCEL-like narcissists plaguing social media with hateful rhetoric and amplified aesthetics masquerading as Alpha. Guys like Andrew Tate and, most recently, some test tube robot named “Clavicular” have spearheaded this (bowel) movement.

Clavicular is particularly problematic. He came out of nowhere, his claim to “fame” being some extreme body-modification shit called “looksmaxxing”. In theory, Clavicular beat on the bones of his face with a hammer to accentuate his cheekbones, etc. (too bad he didn’t use the claw end). He’s also known to take lots of peptides and other formulations to boost testosterone and transform him into an ultimate male.

Sadly, hammers and peptides can’t fix a lack of personality.

Here are a few clips of the awkward, autistic bastard interacting with other worthless social media garbage like an alien life form newly hatched from a pod.

There is nothing appealing about this socially-awkward wannabe. He’s arrogant for no reason, having not accomplishing a single damned thing in life except getting attention on Kick for hitting himself in the face with a hammer. THINK ABOUT THAT.

Clavicular was recently on the podcast of another social media cancer, Jake Paul. Now, some might make the point that Paul is Alpha (I might even begrudgingly agree), but watch this excruciating moment when Paul asks Clavicular to rank him on “masculinity” or “hotness” or whatever:

Clavicular says Paul is a “6.5” out of 10, and Paul looks crushed! WHAT THE FUCK?!? No true Alpha would give ANY fucks what RealDoll Clavicular thinks about them, especially not one as wealthy as Paul!

And that’s certainly true once Clavicular reveals how he’s trying to “looksmaxx” his tiny penis by pulling on it constantly:

HAHA what a fucking joke!

Ultimately, Clavicular’s influence will be short-lived, as will most of the other bad actors in this most recent affront to hierarchical order and true Alphahood. The angry, violent ones (like Tate or ChudTheBuilder) will end up in prison, and Clavicular is simply too boring to last.

But my concern is with all of the young Alphas out there watching these examples getting way too much attention and thinking that’s how they should act.

Honestly, this site and its message can only do so much to help Alphas. It’s really incumbent upon true Alphas everywhere to mentor the next generation, teaching them values that define true leaders of lesser Men.

I only hope it happens before true Alphahood is lost!””