Hi big brother, I want to ask your help for because my life now is a soap opera

I am 19, and I always loved men older and stronger. I dated for 6 months a bisexual guy who is 28, and now I am dating a gay Alpha, 31 years. They are both very dominant and very Alpha. We all live close to each other, and they met playing soccer. I thought they would not talk to each other and that my current boyfriend would feel jealous. But no! They started playing soccer, then started to go to the gym and drink beer together, following each other on Instagram, and they’re now close friends. My best friend is really jealous of her boyfriend, and she told me to cut the problem from the root and forbid my current bf to friends with my ex. At the same time, they’re both really Alpha and they only top, so I don’t think they will hook-up at all. I asked my current bf why he was so close to my ex, and he was very nice and said that if I was so uncomfortable he could stop hanging out with him, but I said that I just don’t want to be replaced because my way is way hotter than me. He is very athletic while I am just a short skinny submissive guy. My bf literally laughed and said that it’s more likely that he’ll become a priest than cheating on me with my ex. And then he said “if you think he’s gonna bottom for me, you’re wrong. If you think I’m gonna bottom for him, I’ll need to spank you for such an offense.” He said that as a joke, but guaranteed me that I was delusional for being jealous of two Alpha men hanging out. When I ask what they talk about hanging out so often, he chuckled and said “we love talking about the best ways to fuck your ass, baby”

So Sam, am I overreacting? They’re older and way more confident than me, so sometimes I feel afraid of losing him. But I also think my bestie is not the best person to ask about Alpha men. My ex and my current do not use words like Alphas and fags, but that’s basically what I was for my ex, and what I am for my current bf.

Can you please help me brother? I don’t wanna lose my bf, and if they get so close and decide to use me together, I don’t think I’d be comfortable having a 3some with my ex… love you big brother!

Thank you for writing to me, little brother!

First of all, congratulations on your success finding Alphas to serve! It sounds like you’ve been able to find stable, powerful Alphas who know what they want in a good faggot!

I’m not sure you’re going to like my opinion here, brother.

Your entire question revolves entirely around one person’s wants and needs: YOURS. However, a FAGGOT’S wants and needs are immaterial when it comes to serving/being owned by Alphas. Can you see what I mean?

I can’t tell you how ludicrous it sounds that you think your Alpha should take your opinion of who he befriends into consideration at all. Who cares if his friend is your ex-boyfriend? Who cares if you’re uncomfortable if they both use you together? You’re a faggot, brother. You don’t get a say. You just need to OBEY.

I can’t tell you the number of faggots who have lost Alphas because of attitudes like yours. You should really be grateful that your current Alpha isn’t pressing this issue with you. You are not equal to him, and he knows it. Your ex-boyfriend knows it. The only person who doesn’t seem to know it is YOU, and that’s a bad position for you!

I seriously encourage you to change your perspective immediately, put your head down, and submit.

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Hi Sam,

Didn’t realize it’s been 2 years since I wrote to you about this. I was gonna write you an update after my week with this fag, but I ended up so busy with life that I just never got around to it.

Anyhow, I’m just gonna give you a quick update before getting to my main point. As you said, the fag instinctively knew it was a faggot destined to serve superior men. I stayed with the fag for a few days, and it devoted itself to giving me the most comfortable stay during my trip. As a house servant and chauffeur, the fag earned a top mark. However, the fag’s ability to serve me sexually was terrible. I would give it points for its eagerness, but its oral skill was so terrible that I felt like it was a chore letting it sucked my cock. Even with days of instructions and guidance, its skills did not improve. I ended up not cunting the fag as I had planned cause I was so disappointed at how bad its skill was, and I made it very clear to the fag why it didn’t get cunt. I probably could spend more time training the fag, but as busy as I am, I don’t have time to train a fag that slows to improve. After my trip was over, I didn’t bother much with this fag, but I kept his contact cause even tho its sex skill was poor, the fag was an eager house servant. 

Over the last 2 years, the fag occasionally contacted me and begged me to let it serve me again, but considering how busy I am and how easy it is for me to find a fag that can please me sexually, I just ignored its plea. Recently, the fag contacted me again, begged to serve me, and as it happens, I will be in its country for a business trip. The fag has offered to travel to the city where I have my business meetings to serve me, and I’m intrigued by its offer. On one hand, I am curious about how much it has improved over the last 2 years, but on the other, I still remember how bad it was at serving me sexually. As a faggot, Sam, do you think I should give this faggot another chance at proving to me it can learn and improve? What conditions do you think I should give it to prove to me that it has learned from its mistakes?

This is a follow-up from a question from nearly two years ago. You can access it by CLICKING HERE.

Sir,

It’s great to hear from you again! I’m glad to hear that business is going so well, and you’re obviously being served/serviced by a solid stable of faggots! It’s mind-blowing that it’s been almost two years! Where has the time gone??

Anyway, I must say I chuckled a bit when I heard the fag was still begging to serve you for the last two years! You must’ve left quite an impression on the faggot! But what it also tells me is the faggot hasn’t been serving many (or any) other Men since it was dismissed by you. Now, that might be flattering to you, but I don’t know if it’s had much practice at improving its oral skills. 

I could be wrong here. The fag might be practicing with dildos or something. But I’m guessing it hasn’t. 

Now, I don’t think that means the faggot can’t still be useful as a houseboy/chore fag while you’re in its country. As you’ve said, it’s easy to find faggots to service you sexually. You can give this fag one shot to suck your dick. If it’s not suitable, just use it as I mentioned above. If you felt creative, you could force this fag to watch a real cocksucker service you so it could see how it’s done.

I hope you’ll write back and let me know how your trip goes, Sir! Thank you for reaching out!

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Hi, I am Lucca, an Alpha from Italy, and I need your opinion on something. I have always been a top, I have no curiosity at all of bottoming, and I have no doubt about being an Alpha either. The problem is that I absolutely love the feeling of protecting a fragile fag. Nothing turns me on like touching a fag, even it they are older than me, and noticing that they feel safe in my arms. Just to clarify: I have no intention to submit to another man, and I have never questioned my own Alphahood. But I do not want to humiliate or cause any harm to bottoms either. I want to dominate than with a firm hand, but with passion and love. I want to have a fagwife who I will love, care, and provide for one day, and ideally a couple of side fags to suck my cock from time to time, but loving all of them as precious fags, not treating them like shit. However, I am 27, I’ve been fucking fags since high school and I’ve never found a fag who accepted this type of treatment.

I am 27 right now, I just finished graduate school and have a good job. I am not incredibly handsome and I don’t have a six-pack, but I am not bad-looking either. My cock is around 13cm, big balls, thick at the base. In summary, I’m not a porn star, nor a top model, but I’m a regular middle-class hard-working Italian guy. I wanna be a gentleman, a provider, an Alpha man, and in a few years perhaps a nice “daddy” for sweet fags. I dream with having a fag boyfriend who will love me and will crave my love as well as crave my cock and my cum, I will fuck and breed him, train him to become a better fag everyday, he will serve me as a good boy, cook for me, but above all I will treat him as my precious property, give him nice presents, take him out for nice restaurants, dates at the museum, and for the theater.

But, Sam, I don’t know what is wrong with me… I honestly don’t think I am bad at fucking, I usually bang the fags missionary to be able to look at their eyes and kiss them, and they moan a lot, and I often fuck a cum shot out of them. However, all the fags I find want either a random hook-up and never talk to me again looking for their next cock, or they want to be seriously humiliated or harmed. I met a very cute guy in February and I thought he would be the one, we had two dinner dates before I fucked him, and he demonstrated a very submissive attitude. When we had sex for the first time, it was amazing, he had a beautiful and smooth ass, I started very tenderly in doggy style, and I bred him while looking at his eyes in missionary. It was just beautiful. But in a few days he started to say that I was “too soft”, and he wanted me to spank him, that’s alright for me, I think spanking a smooth as can be really hot. But things escalated quickly, in a few weeks he wanted be to basically beat him up, take all his money, spit on him, pee on him.

I used to call him amore mio and baby during sex while choking him, kissing his face, for me that was great balance, but it took just a few weeks for him to ask me to call him a useless slut, a stupid whore, a piece of shit, and so on. I felt uncomfortable and told him that spanking was okay, but I didn’t want to humiliate him to that level. One night around mid-April after we had sex, I was holding him in my arms, my cum leaking out of him ass, thinking about building a life with him as my fag boyfriend, taking care of him, loving him, treating him as a little prince. And then, while in my arm, he told me that he wanted to sleep on the floor, (I’m sorry for the really gross details) and next time I pooped he wanted to lay on the floor for me to put my feet on his chest while in the toilet. I didn’t know what to answer, but I decided to have a honest conversation with him. I told him that I wanted to be dominant taking care of him, not treating him as a useless object. And he said that he wanted to be “a cumrag and an ATM,” which made be broke up with him. I wished him all the best, but said that we were not compatible anymore. I saw on Instagram that he has a new boyfriend now, they traveled to France for the summer, and a friend in common told me that he is giving his entirely salary for this guy, who usually spends the money in booze and cigarettes. This same friend in common told me that one day this new boyfriend demanded his credit card, and when the boy said that he had already spent all his limit, the guy slapped him on their face in public, and then said to the people around that it was just a joke. Anyway, I truly hope that he is happy now and won’t have his body or his feelings harmed. Over the summer, I have met a few other guys, but it’s all the same, some of them just want a hook-up and some others want to be treated as a slut.

I’m openly gay, but most of my friends are straight. My best friend is a straight guy called Giuseppe, we have been friends for 20 years now. He is married with a woman and has a child, but we often talk about hierarchy and my sexual partners. Last night we were having a beer together and talking about this whole experience and about the fag’s bizarre desire of being a bathroom rag. He told me that I should probably look for a college boy who wants a sugar daddy, this way it will be easier to be dominant, while also being romantic and a provider. I think that makes sense, but at the same time I think I’m too young for college twinks who wants a daddy, I’m not even 30. Also, although I have a nice job, I believe that a sexy twink who wants to be spoiled will look for much richer and older guys, those CEOs in their 50s.

Well, that’s it. Sorry for such a long message, but I have been following your content for a few months, and I do think you can assist me with this whole mess. Is it a paradox to be an Alpha who wants to take my fag for a nice dinner, then a beautiful museum, and finish the night breeding him and holding him in my arms? Should I just give up on being “too soft” and start to pee and spit on any inferior fags?

I wanna be a gentleman who occasionally becomes a beast in bed. But I’m afraid the fags nowadays just want a beast who treat them as trash.

Thank you.

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me!

One of the saddest aspects of most faggots is the fact that they are broken inside. Also, kind of dumb. They crave destruction and self-harm and abuse and hate. It seems to come from early-life bullying or family abuse. They all need therapy in my opinion. I don’t connect with that mentality at all.

The real tragedy of this happens when a heartfelt Protector Alpha like you wants to “save” these faggots with love, sincerity, and affection. However, these broken faggots cannot be saved or rehabilitated. All they end up doing is frustrating Alphas like you, Sir, and wasting your time. I’m so sorry that you’re dealing with this. You deserve better!

The example you shared is the perfect illustration of what I’m talking about. You offered that faggot THE WORLD, yet all the faggot could think about is its own twisted, self-destructive desires. Sadly, it has found a Destroyer Alpha who is now dismantling its life. You can’t save it, even though I hear your sadness and yearning in your words. You’ll need to let it go, Sir.

Believe me, though … I share your sadness, Sir. I’ve been a fortunate faggot throughout my life of service in that I’ve been owned by some truly powerful Protector Alphas like you. They owned me and used me well, of course, but they also showed kindness and even love toward me. The appreciated me just as you want to appreciate a faggot in your life. So I truly know what a unicorn you are … what a rare and beautiful Alpha you are, Sir.

You will find the right faggot. Don’t give up. We are out here, just waiting for a King like you to give our best years of service to!

And as an aside, I’m tentatively planning to move to Italy at some point in the nearer future. I’ve already been looking at houses there. So maybe … well, let’s not get ahead of ourselves! Just keep it in mind, Sir!

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Dear Sam,

Thanks for all that you do for us faggots.

Lately, I have been drawn more and more to destructive practices–financially, physically, and mentally.  I have sought out crueler and more abusive alphas. I both crave and fear destruction. I know I should avoid it, but at times it is an overwhelming need, and only severe pain and humiliation can at least temporarily satisfy this need.  And then I feel guilty for being such a weak faggot that I have these needs.

It sounds silly, but do you have any advice on how to pursue destruction safely?

Thank you,

fagjohn

Brother, thank you for writing!

I’ve never fully understood the faggot need/desire to be destroyed by Alphas. I think it stems from low self-esteem or some overriding shame, but it might be more complex than that. I don’t relate to that kind of extreme.

However, all faggots want to feel powerless and controlled. We want to surrender ourselves to the will of a superior Man and obey him. I think the destruction impulse is like a wild weed that grows like an offshoot from this natural desire of all fags.

But your desire to find “safe destruction” is pretty goofy, and basically impossible to find. It’s an oxymoron, right? It’s like asking for safe, medicinal doses of cyanide.

You need to meditate on why you’re wanting to have your life destroyed, brother. You’re worth more than that. I hope you realize it before it’s too late. I might suggest seeking a therapist for some concentrated work on isolating and eliminating such an impulse.

Please take care of yourself!

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Hello. Hope you’re doing well. I live in Lebanon, Beirut and I’m a closeted faggot. In my situation where being a faggot is not acceptable in society how can I find my alpha to serve because it’s hard approaching random men in countries like these. I’ve only served online & sucked a cock or two (escorts). I’d like you to listen to your advice for someone like me. Thanks!

Thank you for writing, brother!

I get a fair number of letters from the Middle East, and my advice is usually the same: try to find a way to leave the Middle East. It’s way too risky trying to find an Alpha to serve there, even in the countries that are a bit more lenient (like Lebanon).

How might you do that? If you don’t have a highly-prized skill (like in medical or IT) or you’re not in college (which could get you sponsorship), then I suggest applying for asylum. Try to get to the embassy of a gay-friendly country (Canada and Australia, for example) and apply for asylum.

When I rescued Baby Boy from Syria in 2017, I managed to get him across the border into Lebanon, then flew him to Malaysia where I his him for two years until we got Australia to take him in. It’s definitely possible, and we did it without any clear plan and few resources. You can, too.

I wish you the best, my brother!

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Hi sam

im 18 years old from the uk. I have a friend Sam same age as me. A few weeks ago I was pretty drunk after a night out and had failed to pull a girl. I complained about it and he suggested that he could help. I was freaked out by it and just went to bed. In the morning I woke up with my usual morning wood and could stop think about his offer. I texted him and said if he was that desperate to suck my cock he should come over and do it. I was shocked when he responded telling me he was on his way. I let him suck my cock and he swallowed my cum.

we have both had girlfriends in the past. I have been looking up about fags and alphas and kind of like the idea if he is a fag of having someone who I can get a blowjob from when ever I want. Do you think he’s a fag and how do I find out if he is?

Thank you very much for writing to me, Sir!

Well, this is pretty exciting! I’m so proud of you for taking action so swiftly once it occurred to you that your friend might be a faggot! This quality is very much typical for Alphas (in case you were wondering if you are Alpha).

I think it’s kind of funny that you’re asking me if there is some way to find out if your friend is a faggot when it ran to your house to suck you off and swallow your cum ON COMMAND, Sir! Do you really need more proof than THAT? I’m not sure I can even come up with a better test than that!

So I think it’s safe to say that your friend IS a faggot, Sir. Now the question becomes: what more do you want with this faggot? Just blowjobs on command? Do you want to take ownership of him and make him your personal fag? Ownership involves training the fag, getting inside its mind and helping it accept itself and its purpose.

Here’s what I suggest, Sir: order the faggot to come over and suck you off. But when it arrives, have it kneel before you and kiss your feet. Then put its face in your crotch and deeply inhale your scent. Then talk to it, and tell it that you know it’s a faggot, and that you want to own it. See how it responds. Then as it: “What are you?” Make it say “I’m a faggot, Sir.” Repeat it until you’re happy. Then make it admit that it is YOUR faggot. Again, repeat until satisfied. Then feed it your dick and force it to swallow your cum.

These are typical brainwashing exercises to get the faggot to embrace its purpose as your property, Sir.

I really hope you decide to take ownership of it. This faggot has awakened your Alpha senses to the greater hierarchical purpose of your life as a leader, Sir. You’re taking a bold new step toward the vast power promised to you from the moment of your conception! Take it all!

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Hi im a 16 year old and im a faggot and i need your help because i dont know how to approach this part of myself ( sorry if my english is bad im from italy) and also how do i find a alpha my age? I been realy intrigued by tue story of master lucas and hope to find one like him what should i do?

Hi little brother! Thank you for writing! By the way, your English is just fine!

I wouldn’t pin my hopes on finding an Alpha like Master Lucas, because he’s a rare type of Alpha. However, I am sure there are Alphas in your school who could use a faggot. In school, you just start by being useful or looking for ways to serve nonsexually. Identify one or two Alphas you’d like to serve (hopefully you already know them) and start offering to buy things for them or do homework for them. Be genuinely complimentary about how they look (young Alphas love flattery and are triggered by it). Maybe even start calling them “Sir” (in Italian, of course) to see if that gets their attention.

The Alphas you seek are in your school. Go get them!

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Dear Sam,
I hope you’re doing great. My name is Kamal, and I’m an 18-year-old college student living with my uncle, Farid, who’s a professor of gender studies on campus. I’m writing to you because I think I’ve finally figured out who I am—a faggot, and I’m really excited to learn how I can help my alpha male uncle in the way he wants.
Over the time we’ve been living together, Farid has introduced me to some interesting readings about gender and we’ve even discussed male hierarchy. The more I talk with him, the more convinced I get that I am a faggot and he is clearly an alpha male.
Farid is incredibly dominant and masculine, with a beautiful muscular body that I can’t help but stare at. His pecs are luscious, his thighs are strong, his biceps look like safety to me, and his nipples are impossible to ignore. But what really gets my heart racing is his magnificent cock—8 inches long and so thick it makes me crave the pain of taking it for the first time. Just thinking about it makes me weak in the knees.
I know that as a faggot, my main role is to serve and please my alpha male uncle. I’m eager to do whatever it takes to fulfill this role and become the ultimate sex slave for him. More than anything, I am ready to be cunted, relieved of the burden of false masculinity and transformed into a faggot by and for my uncle. I want to hurt for him, be caged by him, used by him, controlled and protected by him. It’s a physical need like hunger that I can’t stop thinking about. 

How can I make him see past his affection for me and as the fag I want him to make me into? How can I make him be the one to cunt me, make me feel the void, make me cum from being fucked by him while my cock is trapped in the cage he puts me in? Please Sam, help me. 

Kamal.

Kamal, thanks for writing!

Congratulations on discovering your true purpose! It’s an important step that is so vital for all faggots to embrace so they can live their best lives! I’m glad you’ve found the truth!

I’m pretty sure your uncle is Alpha as well. More importantly, based on his conversations with you, I believe he knows you’re a faggot. Because of the family connection, I’m sure that’s why he hasn’t forced you into submission already. However, all of those types of concerns fall away in the face of pure hierarchical truth. It doesn’t matter that he’s your uncle … he’s Alpha, and you were born to serve Alphas like him.

I know you’re all hot and bothered about getting fucked, but part of being a faggot is succeeding in the small details as well. Are you doing all of the domestic chores? Are you ironing his clothes, etc.? Are you serving him meals? Offering to provide other forms of domestic-like service? These should be happening, or you should start doing them. This will trigger in his mind that you are accepting your role as his faggot.

To break the ice even more, you might have him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in right sidebar). He’s a scholarly Alpha who understands hierarchy on some level, so I imagine that letter would ring true to him. I have little doubt that he would have a positive response after reading that (combined with your exemplary service around the house).

Try those things and see what happens, brother!

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Hi Sam!

My name is Rulfo, and I am pretty sure I’m a faggot, but I’m 23 and no man has ever touched me. I’m not really attractive, I’m hairy, and a bit chubby. I think my life would be so much easier if I were cute, but it is what it is, and that’s okay. I have a co-worker who is openly bisexual and loves to brag about the girls and guys he fucks. Yesterday, we were talking (in Spanish) and in the middle of the sentence he said in English that our new intern, a 19-year-old guy, was “a good boy”. I didn’t understand what he meant, so I just smiled and then he said “do you know the difference between a bad boy and a good boy?”. I thought he was still talking about the college students we receive as interns, so I just said “well, good boys are more committed to their work.” He laughed and said “no, good boys deserve to be kissed, and bad boys deserve to be spanked, but at the end of the day both deserve to be bred”. I blushed immediately, it was so embarrassing, and at the same time so arousing, he kept laughing at my embarrassment. I arrived home and jerked off thinking about him. He is so Alpha and so confident in everything he does, I feel really safe when he’s around. At the same time, I am fully aware that I’m not as attractive as the cute intern or any other college twink he can find… what do you think? what would you do in my place? do you think comments/jokes like this one is just him being funny or maybe I should try to serve him?

I’ve been reading your work for 3 years, but that’s my first message to you. I hope you’ll be able to read it! I love you and your work, brother!

My brother, thank you for writing for the first time!

Let me just address the first part of your letter for a second. You say you’re “not attractive” because you’re hairy and chubby. I always encourage faggots who are serious about serving to try and get into the best shape they can, even if it’s just dieting and simple exercises. Do it for you and your self-confidence! The hair part might be more difficult to deal with, but even that can be solved. Even if you don’t, consider this: I have a fag friend who is obese and REALLY hairy, yet he serves all the time. Why? Because he knows what he wants and he isn’t shy. Being confident in yourself and your place as a faggot will overcome a lot of other, superficial issues.

This Alpha co-worker is very interesting to me. He’s quite confident and self-assured. I do think he was testing you with that statement. He was testing your reaction in order to see what it revealed about you possibly being a faggot. I thought you gave him an EXCELLENT response, and he played along! I’m proud of you for that!

So what did we learn? He fucks faggots, and he’s not too terribly picky (he breeds good boy and bad!) as long as they’re faggots (boys). He’s playful and he’s easy to talk to. And, most importantly, he understands the basics of hierarchy and recognizes it.

Here’s what I think you should do: since he’s already brought it up to you, ask him if you could ask a question and then ask him if he ever trains virgin faggots (maricons). Let him figure out that you’re talking about yourself. See where that conversation leads. Don’t be afraid of doing this, because he’s the one who introduced the subject. He did that for a reason!

If you just can’t get yourself to say that to him, let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) and that will definitely break the ice!

I’m excited for you, Rulfo! This could be the break you need!

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Hey, German Alpha here. Can we talk about this new boy Oliver Lamb? He entered the porn industry a few months ago, and he’s the best twink I’ve seen in ages. The smile, the body, the face, and obviously the ass are just perfect. I currently have a fag and he’s great too, but I’ve been watching Oliver while my fag sucks my cock, and it’s the perfect combination. Have you seen any of his work? This faggot boy is any Alpha’s dream, I hope he stays happy, healthy, and working for a really long time.

Master, thank you for writing today!

I’ve never heard of Oliver Lamb before (primarily because I’m almost never looking for faggots to watch), but he’s definitely a tiny little cutie! I can see why you and every other Alpha would want to use him and/or own him. And what a great name for a little fag like him, too! The first name “Oliver” brings to mind “Oliver Twist”, and the last name “Lamb” evokes a tender innocence and an urge to protect him.

Here’s one of his clips I found

Thank you, Sir!

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What do i do if I think someone in my family is an alpha or someone not 18+ is an alpha? Is it allowed to serve them?

Thank you for writing!

Well, you’ve mentioned two of the scenarios that are quite tricky, obviously. I’m not going to advise anyone to break the law (when it involves minors), but Alphas are much hardier and insistent and things happen.

I think the thing to do in this situation is to submit to them informally and allow their own dominance to reveal itself. Nature will dictate the rest.

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Sam   How do you handle when you are more intelligent than a ALPHA?

Thank you for the question!

It’s a common misconception that faggots are “stupid” because they are inferior to Men and submit to them. We hear it a lot in the findom space especially, with straight cashmasters calling their faggots “stupid” and “worthless” simply because they were born to submit.

I can tell you right now that many faggots are NOT stupid at all, and are in some cases vastly more intelligent than the Alphas they serve. I can think of many faggots I’ve featured here who are extremely intelligent, and most likely have intelligences superior to their Masters (out of respect, I will not name names). I am definitely not a stupid fag, and I have quite often served Alphas who were not as intelligent.

But here’s the key: I don’t let my intelligence cause me to become prideful. In the end, I submit and serve Alphas (even dumb ones) because they represent other aspects of Manhood that I completely lack. Qualities like strength, power, courage, dominance, and leadership count far more than intelligence when it comes to hierarchy. So I yield, choosing instead to use my intelligence as an offering to better my Master’s life rather than use it to belittle him.

Hopefully that makes sense!

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Hello, im a novice faggot, ive been submissive before but then I unfortunately keep fighting it and returning to non faggot behaviors which is so wrong. Can u put me in contact with a master who is willing to train me? Especially an alpha who is kind, because I think too strong of an alpha will scare me too much, If possible let the training be online, if you know any alphas where I live thats even better

Thank you for the question, little brother!

I feel your distress, trust me! However, I don’t do connections like that anymore because when I tried to do that years ago it was a disaster every time. I simply don’t have the bandwidth to handle that with everything else. I’m sorry.

Besides, you didn’t even tell me where you’re located! I mean, I flunked ESP in college, brother!

My strong advice is for you to join my free Hierarchy University Discord. There are plenty of rooms there to explore, people to meet, and advice to seek. There are also channels dedicated to every country on Earth, so you can search for people in your area.

That’s all I’ve got.

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Hi brother Sam, I wanted to provide you with an update on my faggot situation.

As the weeks turn into a steady rhythm, the South Korean Alpha’s claim on me has only deepened. What began as weekly service has layered into his wife’s quiet authority. She orchestrates it with elegant precision: asking me to babysit their children at no charge, framing it as help for a busy family. I accept gratefully—it’s service, after all. Then, when they return to collect the little ones, she ensures I find her “gifts” tucked into my coat pockets…His cum soaked into her panties. The message is unmistakable. She is aware. She approves. And she is marking her territory too. He fucks her, leaves his semen, and she wants me to know that. Secretly, I have saved thes cum soaked panties because they smell like him.

He especially enjoys taking me soon after he’s been with her. The scent of their union lingers on him—a raw reminder of his primary role as husband and Alpha. I breathe it in while serving, humbled by my place in the chain. I am not replacing her. I am an extension of their dynamic: the faggot concubine who exists to relieve pressure, absorb excess hunger, and reinforce his dominance. In many ways, I have become useful to the household in multiple directions. This feels like true purpose settling into my bones.

Hunting season approaches. I already sense his expectation that I will make myself available—perhaps at the hunting blind, perhaps for longer stretches of my servicing His body. The thought quickens something deep in me: being kept close for use while he pursues game, ready whenever the mood strikes, with other hunters walking by. It aligns perfectly with the hierarchy I crave. Yet I find myself wondering what she will require in exchange. It turns out her dominance is no less real than his, even if expressed differently. She does not seek what a faggot cannot give, but she clearly enjoys directing the arrangement, testing boundaries, and knowing her husband is satisfied on all fronts. Am I crossing faggot boundaries by navigating her role? My core service and surrender remain directed toward him. Having no interest in women does not erase the reality that many Alphas exist within marriages. A true faggot learns to read the full landscape and serve within it—respecting her position without compromising the fundamental orientation toward male authority.

I think this is not dilution; it is maturity in submission. The hierarchy includes wives, households, and practical arrangements. My role is to be useful, discreet, and grateful, not to pretend the wife does not exist. This path echoes the deeper truths I’ve explored around surrender, force, and awakening. I am starting to feel like I am her faggot, as well as his.

I simply observe what the body, mind, and soul often reveal under pressure: hierarchy is not a polite suggestion. It is a force. When an Alpha (or a couple) imposes structure, it can liberate the submissive man from years of half-measures and double lives. To the broader point on controversial perspectives:

The fact his wife knows and encourages the dynamic is itself revealing—she wants her Alpha Man to be happy! I will stay humble, listen more than I speak, and let my service demonstrate value for the Hierarchy. I wanted to update you Sam, as I truly value your opinion on how faggots serve, and the different dynamics that service may require. 

Thank you for your question, brother. I did an exhaustive search to try and find out if your question was connected to a preexisting story (because this question feels like it’s an update to a previous post) and found nothing. I’m sorry if I’m missing something.

Your situation is obviously quite rare. Few women would consent to their Alpha Kings owning and using faggots, either sexually or domestically within the family unit. You’re very fortunate to be in this enviable position!

I read the wife’s actions the same way as you do – she’s trying to remind you of your place and hers. These are pure power plays on her part. But you have nothing to fear, because she’s clearly subservient to your Master and obedient.

However, whenever these types of situations have worked, the faggot almost always becomes a servant of both the Alpha and his female, albeit in different capacities. Your Master’s woman recognizes that her Man is Alpha and has some needs she simply cannot satisfy completely. She’s wisely stepping aside and allowing him the room to fully satisfy his needs with you.

Your plan is perfect, and is exactly how you should play it. Stay in the background, always ready to be of service, and occasionally do something thoughtful for the both of them so they can both see what it means to own a great faggot. Then, if she starts shit with you (or him) down the road, your value only increases.

Keep up the good work, brother!

Hi Sam,

There is a question i cant get out of my head: are D/s dynamics fake? I realized that it is always the subs decision how much control they surrender, e.g. they are in charge of the dynamic. Doesnt that destroy the idea of a D/s dynamic where the Dom has actual power over the sub? Or are concepts  like keyholding, actual control over finances or even blackmail the cornerstone of a true power dynamic? If i remember correctly, Alpha Aesthetic 8 has acquired legal authority over one of his subs. I always thought thats extreme but maybe that is the only true form of hierarchy and the rest is hierarchy play. I am curious to hear your view on that.

Thank you for writing!

You ask an important and intriguing question. There are certainly some obviously fake D/s dynamics out there like performative ones I often bitch about here like leather play, furries/costume play, etc. I would also lump in those situations that are D/s during sex alone, reducing the power dynamic to nothing more than a form of stimulant rather than an all-encompassing way of life. Those are imitations of the very real dynamic that exists in nature.

But let’s get it straight: the D/s dynamic of hierarchy is very real and extends far beyond just a Master/faggot relationship. That power dynamic exists in corporate boardrooms around the world, in bars, gyms, military units, sports teams, and any place where Men vie for control. In all of those situations the sub male surrenders his power to the Alpha, not of free will or even coercion, but because that hierarchy is understood and accepted subconsciously.

You mentioned Master AlphaAesthetic8. Let’s be real: findom is largely a farce, full of fake faggots and faker Alphas doing performative bullshit to get off or get paid. Master AA8 is an outlier in that scene, a true straight Alpha who came to realize that faggots make good and useful pets, so he’s taken ownership of a handful of them. He’s one of the few who truly appreciate the truth of hierarchy and continues to respect its very real power.

So yes, I agree that there are fake applications of hierarchy, but hierarchy itself is as real as life and death.

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Thank you for your work, I’m a fan!
Could you tell me who is the Alpha in the “Honor Your Alpha’s Cock!” video, posted on July 15, 2026?
I recognized his voice from other videos, I’m completely in love with him, but I don’t know who he is?
If he’s anonymous, can you tell me who the faggot he’s fucking, so I can get the full video?

Thank you for writing!

I’m afraid I have no information on the Alpha or the faggot in that video. I found it on X and loved the lesson it demonstrated.

Sorry!

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Hi Sam,

I think you’re really good with your words. Have you thought about writing a novel about god alphas and fags ? The real relationship is sooo hard to find in real life and you can write some original stories to demonstrate it better. I’ve been wanting to read your novel and even want to write my own.

Thank you for the question!

In my mind’s eye, I have planned a large book on hierarchy as a massive, over-arching societal concept on the scale and impact of what Charles Darwin’s “Origin Of The Species” did for evolution. It’s a tantalizing proposition. However, this monstrous site and 11 years of daily writing does much of that heavy lifting already. I’m working on two more personal autobiographical books that are more important to me.

But I will emphasize this: Any book on hierarchical issues will be only based on truth and true stories/experiences. I refuse to write fiction on the subject, because that’s just for masturbatory nonsense. I think the truth is much hotter and more impactful.

Thank you for the encouragement, though!

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Hello Sam, I want to preface by saying this isn’t a question. It’s more of an observation of a young alpha.

I work in retail and about a year ago I noticed this young guy who had recently been hired on. He’s maybe 5’7 and stocky, like a wrestler. He has that trademarked slow, swaggering walk of an athelete. Typically he work pants and long sleeves. Even so you could see the sleeves fill when he picked something up.

Recently I switched departments, which just happened to be in the same area. I couldn’t help but notice how strong the guy is. He very quickly tosses totes filled with packages of water bottle, like they weigh nothing. Each such tote is over 40lbs and he stacked 10 or 12 in a matter of seconds. Undoubtedly he’s among the stronger guys on the crew and one of, if not, the fastest. His chest is notably wider and thicker than most guys. Beyond physical qualities, the other guys deferred to him. Often asking question or seeking guidance from him instead of the actual team leads or older guys on the crew.

Now for the meat of his alpha-ness. I assumed he was 20 – 22 years old. It turns out he just turned 17 two weeks ago. Most of the guys on the crew are between 18 and 24, so for this past year so or so they had been deferring to a 16 year old. He’s extremely knowledgeable and capable, to the point that when he’s not there, people actively mention needing his help.

Beyond work, this extends to personal conversation. He controls the topic and pace of conversation with guys much older than himself. He’s frequently flirting with the girls, who are all older than him and they are seemingly receptive of his flirtations.

He’s also very intelligent, with numerous people commenting on how smart he is. We’re in Texas. His mom is white. His dad is Mexican. He is white passing, and even knowing his background you wouldn’t expect him to know Spanish. Except he does and speaks at a high level of mastery more aligned with an immigrant than with mexican-americans. I bring this up because for many Chicanos, Spanish is lost over the generations, and many people who speak the language are unable to read or write, not having a formal education on the subject. From what I understand, the schools in the area offers an advanced course typically for Spanish speaking students where the course work is more akin to something in Puerto Rico or Spain. The nature of the course means it’s not an easy A, regardless of skill level and thus most of his peers wouldn’t enroll.

In terms of schooling, the area offers career & technical education for various plants and refineries in the area. He’s already taken classes in preparation for a career as an electrician.

All and all, this young alpha shows tremendous physical attributes, charisma, intelligence, and foresight.

Thank you for writing!

People think I’m telling lies when I stress the truth of hierarchy and the reality of Alphahood. But now that your eyes are opened, you see the world the exact same way as I do! It’s literally IMPOSSIBLE to miss once you know it.

This young Man is definitely Alpha, and likely a high-level Alpha. It’s been that way his entire life, and I’m sure it just comes naturally to him.

But I’m of the opinion that these young, unaware Alphas should be made aware. So here’s what I suggest: get him in a quieter, one-on-one moment and ask him a simple question: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” If he demurs or says something like “I don’t believe in that”, redirect him to notice what he sees in his life … how people defer to him, obey him, seek his approval. Show him how those things are proof of his Alphahood. Then explain to him how hierarchy is natural, and he is at the top of that pyramid.

I’ve seen the eyes of many Alphas light up in wonder when they realize the truth of it. You’ll see it, too, if you do it! Trust me!

Thank you for highlighting this extraordinary young King, brother!

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Beyond the clear influence of Alpha male fathers on the development of young Alphas. I think it is very important to emphasize that Alpha women also have a vital role in maintaining the hierarchy.

I don’t know if you have touched on this topic in any post, but in my case I was raised by a mother whom I can only describe as at the top of the hierarchy and although sometimes it is difficult to get along with her because of our similar personalities (both We are alphas) I believe that her influence was vital to being what I am today.

Thank you for the question, Sir!

I can certainly appreciate what you’re suggesting, and I definitely believe some women without Men (or even Alphas) in their lives tend to step up into an Alpha-like role for their sons. This is especially true when the mother recognizes that one or more of her sons is Alpha. She fills in for an Alpha mentor in order to give her Alpha son(s) as much preparation as she can so that they can fulfill their purpose in society. This is all mostly subconscious and instinct, but it really goes to show how much we genetically appreciate Alphahood and hierarchy!

There is a good example of this here on this site. I’ve been covering the development of a young (I guess he’s now 16 years old) Alpha named Lucas who has been dominating both females and faggots for a couple of years now. His mother Sophie reached out to me to tell me about her remarkable son, and how she’s attempting to provide the mental and emotional nourishment she feels her Alpha son needs. She actually watched her son’s feet being worshiped by school faggots, and it filled her with awe (and not dread, like many mothers would react). You can read this thread by CLICKING HERE, Sir.

I’m really proud of you for recognizing what your powerfully strong mother provided for you, Sir! Far too many Alphas are not reflective and thoughtful enough to give up that kind of credit! It really speaks to her influence as well as the high-quality Alpha traits you carry inside! Whoever you choose to take as your property will be very fortunate, indeed!

Thank you for writing, Sir, and please give your mother a gift of thanks for raising up such a quality Alpha! Our world needs more like you, Sir!

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Not a question, but I have a referral for you. Discovered this cute fag on Youtube who details how he blew it with his straight alpha friend. This boy needs a lesson on hierarchy (desperately). Looking at his other vids, he’s ~75% of the way there but hasn’t quite put the puzzle pieces together. Maybe you can help.

Thank you for the referral!

I’m not sure why you think this guy is a faggot. Frankly, he seems more Alpha to me than faggot. I mean, Alphas cry … Alphas fall in love … Alphas get heartbroken.

When it comes to young love/first love, emotions run high regardless of hierarchical status.

There’s something about the way this guy carries himself that leads me to think he’s not a faggot. He reminds me a bit of Mark E. Miller, the famous gay YouTuber who is clearly a gay Alpha yet still has a lot of “gay” or “feminine” tendencies.

I just don’t know that we can clearly call him a faggot. At least not based on that video.

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