Hi Sam, thanks for taking the time to respond and by presenting another alternative (that I’m actually an Alpha who has just slid off track).
I would say I’m definitely not an Alpha for a few reasons:
I have always felt like I needed to be spanked since my early teen years (the humiliation, pain, vulnerability and exposure all turn me on so much) – spanking was the “gateway” kink to realising humiliation has been at the centre off all my kinks (sissy/cfnm/cmnm/forcedbi/faggotry/slavery/chastity/exposure). I believe true Alphas will have been fantasising about using their cocks, not being naked over someone’s lap getting their bare bottoms spanked.
I like topping, but I couldn’t be satisfied form only topping. I’ve also failed to get hard several times to fuck women because it made me feel like I was too dominant (I also don’t like receiving blowjobs). But if I start typing about how I want a big strong man to grab me, force me on my knees dump his loads down my throat I start straining in my cage.
I started doing onlyfans with my ex girlfriend doing Femdom (me dressed like a sissy or just naked and in chastity getting my balls busted, spanked, pegged and humiliated). I signed a blackmail contract and she made me start serving men (filmed my first time sucking cock and uploaded it). We broke up a while ago but knowing she still has embarrassing photos/videos of me turns me on so much.
I don’t know if I’m a faggot, but sexually I’m definitely not an Alpha. I feel like the powerful ‘Alpha’ side of me that is a strong, assertive, dominant fight fuels my faggot, cocksucking, sissy humiliation side and vice versa.
The more powerful I feel, the better the high when I’m on my knees being humiliated.
The more of a pathetic faggot I am, the stronger I feel I need to workout and train.
I like knowing that I’m a sub who is powerful, a bit like a gladiator or guard dog. Powerful, strong and uncontrollable unless you’re my Master.
It’s hard to communicate everything well in such a short message but any help is greatly appreciated
Okay, well I appreciate the extra information, brother. There is a sub-class of faggots who lift weights and build massive physiques. Similarly, there is a sub-class of Alphas who prefer larger, more muscular faggots. On FWA I featured the thread of straight Master G and the larger, muscular caged faggot Jamie he owned and eventually married. Master G loved conquering his mountainous faggot. It could be the same with you.
I think you should just go for whatever you really want. You’ll eventually find the right situation that will fulfill you properly. I’ve never heard of a physically-fit gay male or faggot who never finds his place. There’s always a place for someone like you!
Hi Sam! Super glad your back; i followed you for years, enjoying your posts and your dialogue of spreading the word of Alphas and faggots.
I have a question that challenges me that I hope you can answer,…I definitely believe that im a true faggot at heart, but im having trouble accepting it. I have this platonic male friend who actually deliberately engages in dominance against me. He likes to crush with me with his body (hes much bigger than me), using his body weight to essentially crush me. He enjoys forcefully humping me as a playful act, as sort of symbol of his dominance. In a way, he seems like hes trying to teach me “you’re a faggot, im the alpha”. I think its a unique opportunity to help embrace my true faggot self…but im still having trouble letting go and fully embracing my true faggot life. Any advice for me?
Thank you for the question! I love my longtime readers!
This is a huge moment in your life, brother. This “friend” is definitely trying to dominate you (even if it’s just subconsciously). You recognize what he’s doing (thanks to me, in part!), which is also to your advantage.
What’s holding you back is fear … fear of stepping over the line and never being able to go back. Fear that your life will no longer be yours. Fear of the possible shame you’ll feel for the rest of your life.
But let me tell you what’s worse: a lifetime of regret from NOT ACTING!
I hear it again and again from older faggots who look back wistfully on a life lived in shadows of unfulfillment. Back in their day they lacked information and a freer society. They were essentially trapped, paralyzed by fear.
You don’t need to end up that way, brother. You have an Alpha who is wanting you to submit to him. Your chance his right there, dry-humping you! It’s insane to let this pass you by!
I’ll tell you the truth: the behaviors of this Alpha that you describe are very similar to the way my first Alpha Roger acted toward me until the day he made me his cocksucker and changed my life for the better!
So stop worrying about things that haven’t happened yet. You need to live in the moment right now. You learn to swim by jumping in the water and letting instinct take over. Well, it’s your time to jump.
Kneel and kiss his feet and let Nature take over. Your time in now.
Hi Sam, I’ve been reading your blog over the past year and read a couple of your books: “Are you a faggot” and “Alpha Beta: Hardcore guide to faggot Mastery”
There are many parts of being a faggot that I’m drawn to that are feel are such a big part of me, however there are a few things that I think make me not a faggot and wonder where I actually sit in the hierarchy.
My biggest struggle is needing a REAL Alpha, all these so called alphas/cashmasters and cocky entitled guys just make me cringe because I know they are weaker than me and I would just laugh if they tried to make me submit.
Im a Bi Switch (gay and sub leaning) and initially thought I might be a faggot (and admitting it on camera whilst degrading myself always makes me horny), but after ready “are you a faggot” I realised that a lot of the things don’t align with me:
I like topping (mostly guys but sometimes girls)
Im only submissive in the bedroom (in everyday life I present as alpha, I train Muay Thai and fight regularly, I’m confident, I’m assertive and I feel superior to most men (despite being collared and caged 24/7)
I’ve never really had a foot fetish (although I’m developing one as my primary turn on is humiliation and I find feet disgusting – which then makes me hard)
I would never give money to another man just because he demands it, if he’s capable he can get his own.
During the fagtest in the book most of the questions I answered yes to but with the caveat that the man is bigger, stronger, more capaable and more powerful than me. I do believe in hierarchy, but I don’t believe that most of the people who claim they are alpha or real men actually are.
Thank you!
Thank you for the question!
You present a pretty intriguing case, one of the more puzzling ones I’ve ever had on this issue. Let me say first that humans are not itemized products that fit neatly into pre-ordained boxes, so classifying everyone so rigidly is simply not possible. My hierarchical layout captures a clear picture for a vast number of people, but not everyone.
I am curious about you, because I can’t help but wonder if you are another case of “Alpha Latency”, a term for a psycho-sexual condition that some natural-born Alphas experience that lead them into unnatural sub/faggot behaviors/mentalities.
Your case as described makes you sound like you’re firmly an Alpha. In fact, you sound quite proud in describing your Alpha-like qualities. It also sounds like the people you encounter are treating you like an Alpha. You just don’t seem to have embraced it for whatever reason.
Most cases of Alpha latency involve early childhood trauma (either sexual or physical abuse) or social conditioning during their developing years. Since I don’t have a chance to interview you directly, I’m flying blind. But I would comb through your background and see if you can identify possible causes for your tendency to want to submit (or even question your Alphahood).
I think something has blown you slightly off-course, but I get the impression you’re actually an Alpha who needs to simply embrace that purpose. I bet you’d feel so much more free if you were to.
You can read some of the experiences of Alpha latency by CLICKING HERE.
Hi Sam, it’s been a while now that X pushes homophobic maga supposedly Straight Alphas on my feed, and I’m surprised and ashamed to say it really turns me on. I’m ashamed to say I’ve also sent to these doms, when in heat. I understand the basic logic in it : it feels wrong so it’s exciting, it feels forbidden so it’s hot, and of course there’s a strong component of inequality, harsh words, internalized homophobia on my part, etc.
I guess as a self locked fag I’m not that surprised it turns me on, but as a pretty normal guy, from France, educated, left wing, saddened by Trump’s America, and with many friends and a caring family, I don’t get how I may be obsessed with being bullied (which I never experienced), called a loser (which I know I’m not), and most of all being led to feel shame and apologize for being a « degenerate fag » (which surely resonates within me, but which I don’t believe in).
Any advice ? Thanks
Thanks for the question!
I think you point out one of the more frustrating aspects of being a faggot with a brain and moral values. MAGA Alphas are pretty sexy, and their cocky, hateful attitudes appeal to faggots. Let’s face it: faggots naturally love degradation, and these kinds of Alphas are great at it.
I don’t know how to get around it. I’m able to put it aside because my hatred for Trump and the fucking idiots that worship him is so strong because of what Trump did to my Baby Boy when I tried to rescue him from Syria. I’ll never forgive Trump and his racist cultists.
Hello Sam, my name is Andy. I’m a 20 year old guy in his second year of uni.
First of all I want to thank you Sam, I never really considered myself a fag before stumbling on your content, which made me comfortable with using that title.
The situation is this, last year when I started uni I met a guy in one of my classes, we quickly bonded and became friends. We started hanging out every day and going to the gym together. He is very handsome and I found him attractive from the very begging. I subconsciously started serving him almost immediately after we became friends, giving him my notes, doing his homework, paying for our coffee when we go out and buying him gifts here and there. Around May of this year I started stealing his gym underwear and socks and jerking off with them before returning them. Whenever I smell his alpha scent I just think about how much I want to serve him, however I come from a fairly homophobic Eastern European country and from the things I heard him say he is also quite homophobic and right wing. I want to show him the hierarchy chart and explain to him that I want to serve him and be his fag however I’m afraid that he’ll stop talking to me afterwards. Is there any way I can introduce him to this world?
Thank you so much for the important work you do!
Thank you for the question!
Congrats on finding an Alpha close to you that you might be able to serve! This is a big trick I’ve always endorsed, and it works pretty well. Why? Because you’ve developed a relationship with him and he likes you, so he’s more likely to be sympathetic if you ever approach him about this.
First of all, I wouldn’t worry about the homophobia/right-wing shit, brother. Homophobic right-wingers are actually MORE likely to be the ones (a) eager to flex their Alphahood, and (b) more likely to be interested in doing gay stuff. Yes, I know it’s messed up, but that’s reality. Their aggressive homophobia is called overcompensation. Check the Grindr traffic around areas where American Republicans are holding gatherings, and Grindr actually CRASHES from so many in-denial Republicans looking for faggots! So I wouldn’t worry too much about that.
You’re already serving him in a variety of ways, and that’s really good! You didn’t mention his attitude toward all of these gifts and favors you’re doing for him, but I’m assuming he’s just accepting it without even thinking about it (Alphas sometimes take that for granted).
I would suggest that you try to sit at his feet and “get lower” when you’re around him. This action will sometimes lead to the Alpha teasing you with his feet. It triggers something inside them when they see weaker guys in vulnerable positions. He will start to view you as a plaything.
You can try a couple of resources on the site. The Hierarchy chart on here is a solid one, although it might confuse him unless you explain it. The “Letter To An Alpha” linked in the right sidebar is a useful one if you want it explained to him in a concise, logical way. And there is also my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that’s goes into greater depth (I don’t recommend it for college Alphas).
But before you give him any of those resources, you should ask him a simple question: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This almost always leads to a response, and you can usually use that response to lead him to a discussion about Hierarchy (and those resources).
Hopefully this gives you something of a game plan, brother. I have no doubt you’ll do fine with whatever course you choose. They don’t always work, but I promise you they work more often than you’d ever imagine!
hey sam, so this faggit has a long-distance Owner/Trainer that has it in chastity and Sir-ving other Men. it is very happy with Him, and wants to eventually be installed in His household as a cumdump. it was ordered to a Cocksuck shift at a local bookstore, and immediately on arrival, overtaken by a BBC who proceeded to run it for the four hours allowed in the arcade (edging Him, getting other Men off, etc). it had been in hopes that the KingBBC would agree to be the local Keyholder proxy, and faggit put them in touch. When it reported to KingBBC’s house for more Use a few days later, They had been corresponding, and KingBBC started to relate that He didn’t trust Owner/Trainer as a good Man. That He “got a bad vibe” which He repeated several times, and in the vebal abuse, was asking things like “don’t u prefer this real Cock to one u have never met” etc. faggit begged off having to choose, and KingBBC seemed to understand. it is kind of perceiving Owner/Trainer as more “Destroyer” in terms of approach, and KingBBC as more “Protector”, but both seem good Men to it. And Owner/Trainer has the prior claim, of course. it is feeling like respectfully asking KingBBC to take up His concerns directly with Owner/Trainer, as Men should discuss/decide, and faggits should do as they are fucking Told. Do u or yr readers have any insights to help the situation? thanks very much
Thank you for the question!
Well, you have a pretty great problem to have! Two competing Alphas! Nice!
Here’s my take on long-distance service situations they don’t work. It lasts for a little while, but eventually Alphas get tired of spending time on something that can’t see or touch or smell. Meanwhile, faggots are very unfaithful and notoriously fickle. They’re doomed to fail.
Meanwhile, you have KingBBC locally wanting to own/use you. I don’t think this is really much of a choice, brother. While the long-distance Master has helped you start, he’s just not going to be able to take you much further. You need deep, hands-on training by someone like KingBBC.
If there has been one consistent aspect of this site and project, it’s been my ability to enrage and trigger readers with my sometimes-controversial views. I’ve even received death threats from readers over the years (particularly during my formative years on Tumblr)!
Of course, I don’t really care about upsetting people if I feel like I can demonstrate factual or experiential evidence to support my claims. Sadly, facts mean little to the trolls online. They search the online world looking for a fight or a reason to get offended. I imagine that’s an exhausting existence, but I’m up for the fight if they’re willing to bring it to me.
That said, I received a letter in my Questions From Readers inbox from a reader who was annoyed/offended/upset by an answer I gave to an owned faggot who had a female friend demanding that the faggot must leave his Master because she felt like the Master was raping him. You can read that original Q&A post by CLICKING HERE.
The letter has two parts, so I’m going to split it and tackle each part separately.
This is not a question, but a mere correction on your application of the term “woke.”
Uh oh.
“Your female friend is totally wrong. She’s looking at things from the woke female perspective that is currently destroying all engagement between males and females.”
Social media and the internet is not real life, sir (do not mistake respect for submission), nor do I believe it is indicative of how real life interactions tend to occur. This is the opinion of an individual who ingests online interaction to an unhealthy extent, so much so that their entire worldview has been molded by the experiences of others’ online, and not their very own exposures, experiences, and environment. The internet is (and has always been) a double-edged sword that has become increasingly more sharpened on the negative side and increasingly more dull on the polar opposite of said word due to extremist positions being both presented and perceived as normalcy (due to false anonymity and lack of an equal and opposite reaction) when it just is not the case. An easy way to gauge this is the amount of disrespect and hatred that is espoused today online that simply would not be espoused, nor fly, in actual life unless you are an individual that will accept and welcome both sacrifice and consequence despite their rhetoric, beliefs, or actions i.e., integrity (a characteristic the people in this world has always lacked but now has tremendously regressed).
As for your usage of the term “woke,” I admittedly find it humorous how history tends to repeat itself, sir. This is a term derived from the Black man (and woman) that reside within the United States and has always meant to be privy of the social, economical, and political injustices, exploitations, and degradation the Black man continues to face. However sir, your usage is more aligned with the White man’s, the White man’s profound and documented history of co-opting, hijacking, and perverting idioms that originates within the Black masses and turns their colloquialisms from phrases that are primarily meant to uplift, enlighten, and establish brotherhood — into expressions delegated to denigrate, insult, and shame. This is a gross and outright disrespectful perversion the Black man knows all too well, especially within the States; does “Black fatigue” ring a bell? This is nothing new sir, this is history repeating itself over and over and over again. I suggest you educate yourself further, sir, we all can — and do — continue learning until our time has come to cease.
The first paragraph of this diatribe gets it wrong right off the bat. This anonymous writer says, “This is the opinion of an individual who ingests online interaction to an unhealthy extent, so much so that their entire worldview has been molded by the experiences of others’ online, and not their very own exposures, experiences, and environment” without knowing anything about me and my personal life. You must understand that I have a wide group of close friendships (some of them many decades long), and I have a job in SALES which puts me in constant contact with people of all walks of life. So yeah, I’m not spending all of my life online.
As an English major, I definitely understand the importance of etymology and classical origins of words. I also understand (particularly with English) how words mutate as societal composition changes. For example, Merriam-Webster’s 2025 “Word of the Year” is “slop”, which has apparently gained a new definition in the age of AI. Word usage changes, and it doesn’t always carryover previous definitions when it does.
Sure, the word “woke” has its origins from another time, but I was using the current definition of the word the West has adopted, namely this: “Today, the term carries highly polarized meanings, used positively to signify progressive awareness and activism, but often used pejoratively by critics to dismiss progressive or left-wing ideas as excessive or performative.”
Women have largely become “woke” and hypersensitive to any actions or statements they find violates their personal space/values. I’ve seen Men jailed on false charges simply because a woman was pissed off. I’ve seen Men fired for accidentally brushing up against a woman.
Alec Baldwin mentioned this horrific new atmosphere in an episode of Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee with Jerry Seinfeld:
So yeah, I pretty much stand by my point here.
And it goes on:
“Men are afraid to even touch a female because they start crying rape. It’s stupid.”
This is simply not reality, sir. I understand man-on-man sex gravitates towards and invites rougher, more primal, and less emotional sex (I prefer my sex that way as well) but your assertion of the implication that women do not want the romantic advancements of men is false, sir. Your claim that considers the affairs today have studies conducted upon them already, and they tend to show women both want men to approach them still and they have become increasingly more individual and career oriented. This, in turn, makes men that lack self confidence, have had bad experiences, or are consuming unhealthy, unrealistic, purposefully extremist rhetoric from “manosphere” grifts online both grow a disdain for women and begin to consider the alternative — a faggot — to satiate their sexually frustrated desires.
I’ve never suggested that women don’t want Men to approach them. However, as I elucidated above, women now have countless new social roadblocks and unnatural standards that make such approaches by Men either incomprehensible, annoying, or even dangerous.
Before I get more flak, here’s what I mean by “unnatural” – women are naturally supposed to be more submissive than Men. But in the new enlightenment (sarcasm) women want to pretend like they’re equal to Men, except whenever they want the benefits of being submissive. You’d have an easier time figuring that out by reading tea leaves. It’s insane how far off track women have gone over the last 20-30 years.
As you correctly point out, this is one reason why Alphas of all kinds seek out faggots, because faggots still offer them what they really need: worship and service. It’s such a simple thing, but the implications are tremendous.
Men and Alphas are simply not going to go without what they want, need, and deserve simply because females have abandoned their natural position in the pursuit of autonomy. These days I’ve seen more Men put in jail by vengeful women and weeping in jail over the loss of their children (and/or more women abandoning their children) than I ever imagined I would, and these new realities show just how far off society is from Natural Law.
I lay a vast majority of the blame for this societal collapse at the feet of “modern” females and their unnatural choices. They simply no longer appreciate the critical role they’re meant to play, preferring instead to indulge in selfish desires. That’s why faggots are going to win many of these contests, because we still do appreciate it.
So I don’t know where this leaves us. I suppose at an impasse. I’m not changing my mind.
Hi brother Sam, i am in need of your advice. i am an older faggot, in pretty good shape, and have been searching for a real Alpha Man for a couple of years. All of the men i met at that time were NOT Alpha Men. One of them I wrote to you about, after He said He wanted to suck my faggot cock. You called it like it was; he was not an Alpha. Now i have encountered what appears to be a real Alpha, who is married to a woman, and wants me to service him orally and wants to fuck me as a “regular.” He lives only five miles away, so the Alpha/fag relationship would be ideal if it worked out. my only concern, is the fact that when we started connecting via email, His emails were unrelenting…meaning they were coming at me fast & furious. He wants a fags pussy real bad. I have not met this Alpha in person, but the multitude of emails He has sent has raised some red flags for me (real or imaginary). Then, this morning, i received another email from Him, and He obviously searched for me on the internet and now knows my address and phone number. While i am tempted to respond to the text He just sent me, i am concerned that He is a bit of a stalker. We’ve only been emailing back and forth for a week, and He has sent me 23 messages. i am concerned about whether He would turn out to be an abuser Alpha. What should i do? What would you do?
faggot marco
Marco, thank you for the urgent question!
That does seem like a lot of stalker energy. I might’ve overlooked the 23 messages, but the fact that he triangulated your position and has gained that much information about you seems a bit much.
I would say this in his defense: straight Alphas who have limited/no experience using faggots are often so desperate for relief that their eagerness gets mistaken for something more sinister. It’s like when you need to pee really so badly that you’d almost knock over your mother to get to a toilet. These Alphas are often trapped in loveless relationships, and they’re desperate for relief and worship.
I have no idea if that’s actually the case with this Alpha, but I’m just putting this out there because I have encountered and serviced such straight Alphas in the past.
I would meet him in a public place. I would voice my concerns about his behavior, and ask that he please respect some boundaries until he decides to take ownership properly.
I have just started a new job and one of the guys I work with and will in future work closely with is so hot and I’d love to worship him I just don’t know how to do it any advice?
Thanks for the question!
Well, I don’t have very much to go on … but you’ll need to get to know him a little bit first, obviously. Be kind, submissive, genuinely complimentary. Then I would introduce the concept of hierarchy by asking him if he considers himself to be Alpha. This question almost always elicits a response. With whatever he tells you, direct his attention to hierarchy by reasoning with him about his place in hierarchy and the truth of inferior males.
If you show him my hierarchy pyramid, it might open up his mind even more to that and a conversation.
Hola soy un joven mexicano de 17 años, llevo tiempo consumiendo este contenido y estoy d encuerado con la jerarquía es perfecta porque le da un sentido de utilidad a los hombres inferiores
Pero aun no descubro donde encajo en la jerarquía, soy un maricon porque disfruto de servir a otros o soy un amo porque también disfruto de tener a gente a mi servicio. Aun no se que es lo que realmente ¿soy seré un falso amo o acaso estoy en un punto medio?
Me gustaría tu ayuda para aclarar las cosas, porque a su vez deseo ser encerrado y humillado por otros hombres
Translation:
Hi, I’m a 17-year-old Mexican guy. I’ve been consuming this content for a while now, and I’m completely absorbed by the hierarchy. It’s perfect because it gives a sense of purpose to inferior men.
But I still haven’t figured out where I fit into the hierarchy. Am I a faggot because I enjoy serving others, or am I a master because I also enjoy having people at my service? I still don’t know what I really am. Am I a fake master, or am I somewhere in between?
I’d like your help to clarify things because, at the same time, I want to be locked up and humiliated by other men.
Thank you for the question! I hope the translation was accurate, because I don’t speak Spanish!
I’m glad you’re discovering your truth and exploring it! This is so important as a young person!
I would say that your interest in being “locked up and humiliated by other men” indicates something. It probably means you’re not Alpha. You might not be a faggot, though. You could be a beta male.
One way to figure it out is my book “Are You A Faggot?” which can be downloaded by CLICKING HERE. I don’t have a Spanish version, but you obviously read English if you’ve been reading this site. The end of the book has a quiz to help you figure things out.
I hope this helps!
translation:
¡Gracias por la pregunta! Espero que la traducción haya sido precisa, porque no hablo español.
¡Me alegra que estés descubriendo tu verdad y explorándola! ¡Esto es muy importante para los jóvenes!
Diría que tu interés en ser "encerrado y humillado por otros hombres" indica algo. Probablemente significa que no eres alfa. Aunque puede que no seas maricón. Podrías ser un macho beta.
Una forma de averiguarlo es mi libro "¿Eres maricón?", que puedes descargar haciendo CLIC AQUÍ. No tengo una versión en español, pero obviamente lees inglés si has estado leyendo este sitio. Al final del libro hay un cuestionario para ayudarte a entenderlo.
Is it wrong to enjoy paying tribute? The need to tribute builds up in me until I have to pay someone, anyone. It doesn’t matter who. When I pay the tribute, I feel an enormous rush of pleasure and release. The cashmasters I deal with seem to want me to feel used and ashamed. They expect the payment to hurt. But it doesn’t. The more I give, the better I feel. And the abuse and demeaning remarks the cashmasters send my way just bore me. Am I really a cashfag, or am I using the cashmasters to get off while sending them “tribute”? Is there a better term to describe someone who gets pleasure from paying tribute?
Thanks for the question!
I think you hit on a point that I’ve occasionally hit on from time and time, only to receive pushback from cash fags. Still, I believe it’s true: cash fags are largely selfish, and findom is built on two forms of selfishness caught together in some sort of death spiral.
Why do I say that cash fags are selfish? Because they’re giving money to Alphas online so that they can get off to it. Essentially, they’re using the Alpha and their money the same way a gross Man uses a stripper in a nightclub with his dollar bills.
Ultimately, cash faggotry is a fake form of submission. A fag pretends to submit while an Alpha waves his feet at it, barks some orders, and takes cash while the fag squirts his useless dribble on the carpet, and then ghosts the Alpha. That’s not submission. That’s a carnival peep show.
If I sound bitter about cash fags, it’s because of my own unique perspective as a mentor faggot running a massive, multi-pronged, and expensive teaching platform on hierarchy. I have a lot of cash fags visit my platforms every day, whacking off to my stuff (because, well, it is hot), but none of them ever think to donate even one dollar to maintain any of this. They have no issue giving thousands to an Alpha who doesn’t care about them at all, but I’m somebody they can use for free.
I had a cash fag once directly say to me: “I’d send some money to you, but you’re a faggot so that doesn’t make any sense.” Let’s just say my response was, um, LESS THAN KIND … and then the fag blocked me (of course).
Hell, there’s a faggot on my Discord right now who was tasked by an Alpha to pay me a weekly stipend (which then became a monthly one). The faggot still hasn’t paid it. Why? Because it is SELFISH. I’m not a priority to the faggot because it doesn’t get off to ME. Pathetic waste.
So yeah, cash fags are inherently selfish, and useful only as cattle. They’re almost entirely unteachable, and very rarely ever produce an inspirational story because they are black holes of inspiration.
I had a confusion regarding the terms slave and fag and other related things,
like what is the difference between a fag and a slave
how is a master different from an alpha
and what is difference between alpha-fag and master-slave relationship?
Thank you for the question!
The terms “faggot” and “slave” are nearly interchangeable. A slave might be even a bit more restricted than a faggot (possibly tortured/abused or turned into an object), but generally speaking both faggots and slaves are simply property owned by Men and serve them.
The difference between an Alpha and a Master is more apparent. An Alpha is a superior Man, a Man with great charisma and leadership and power. A Master is an Alpha who actually owns inferiors (faggots, slaves, females) to serve him.
There’s generally little difference between those relationships.
Hi! First time writing here, after reading a lot for almost half a year, I’ve come to the conclusion that I am a faggot.
A few years back I was raped, and while I’m not ready to delve deeper in that subject for now, I admit he was the first person to cunt me, and so I must say it has defined a lot my sexual relationships.
It’s a more recent event (around a year) that in sex, I’ve come to enjoy far rougher sex, to serve a man as his sexual toy, to forget my pleasure for his.
And so I’ve come to the decision that I’m a faggot, but still my mind has that voice in my head that questions if I’m truly sane for enjoying things that were so similar to that past event.
That said, I’ve never truly been with an alpha, or at least not since then… So any tips you could have are recommended and deeply appreciated!
Thanks for listening to me and have a great day to those who read it!
Thank you for writing!
What you’re experiencing is quite common among rape victims, particularly faggot rape victims. I was raped around 19/20 years old (my first time being fucked), and after the initial shock and shame wore off I began to crave him again. Even now, so many years later, I would definitely kneel and submit to him and his violence if he ever showed up again. I’ve written a song about him, in fact, titled “Kenny”. (No, it’s not available at the moment.)
I think what we’re experiencing is a form of Stockholm Syndrome that causes us to yearn for those powerful Men who brutalized and scarred us.
Some would benefit from getting counseling for it, I’m sure. I never did. I made my own peace with it, and writing about it on this site has helped me, too. You might have resources to help you, or you are welcome to join the rapidly-growing Hierarchy University Discord community (link on the LINKS page).
Hello, I’m 28 and still a virgin. Mainly because I’m a demisexual while being a faggot and those two sides contradict each other often. Usually the demisexual side wins out. How do I get my faggot side to win out so that I can serve alphas? This is a deep struggle I have felt with for a long while.
Thanks for the question!
First, a definition: Demisexual describes a sexual orientation where a person only experiences sexual attraction after developing a strong emotional bond or connection with someone, often within a close friendship or romantic relationship, rather than from initial physical or superficial cues.
Personally, I don’t see your dilemma. You can still develop sexual attraction (and therefore serve as an effective faggot) if you get to know an Alpha. I’ve always recommended that faggots start their search with Alphas they know personally, and that’s particularly true in your case.
Don’t let your unusual sexual quirk stop you from fulfilling your purpose, brother!
I know this is a very typical question, but I feel helpless here. I’m a faggot, living in a homophobic country and studying at a university (I’m 19). I haven’t been able to get this guy out of my head for a year or so.
He is a real alpha. He’s so charismatic, confident, a little arrogant. He can sometimes be embarrassed and shy, depending on the situation, but more often he behaves like a king and like everything is under his control.
I’m not sure if he’s protective or destructive alpha tho. I heard, that he is caring in relationship, but anyway, he thinks he is better in some way than others. He can hit, if you cross the line. He and his friends even often fight with each other just for fun.
I always stared at him in the locker room and imagined how I could serve him. But the fact is that we barely talk to each other. We only say “hello” when we see each other. And.. I already tried to test the waters.
I asked one person to send him a message, so to speak, a “letter” from me with a confession. But so that I remain anonymous. This guy, the alpha, just laughed and said that he definitely did not need this. After some time I heard him and his friends discussing who it could be. And he clearly thought the situation was ridiculous and absurd. But, I think, he was a bit proud of himself, that he can attract boys too, haha.
I made a mistake. I confessed my feelings. I expected something more like a relationship. Something romantic. But I don’t know if this could ever be possible. No one’s know that it was me, who confessed. And I feel scared to do any more steps. I feel scared, even terrified, that someone will find out and start to bully me or something… The chances are high.
What should I do? Confess, that I’m okay with just being an obedient fag, not expecting anything romantic? Or just leave it behind, because my safety is a priority 1? I really need an advice, even if it’s a stupid question.
My brother, thank you for writing to me! And it’s not a stupid question at all!
One of the most heartbreaking aspects of my time running this site are the many cries for help I’ve received from faggots trapped in homophobic countries. It’s especially hard to hear this from gays in the Middle East, because as long-term readers know, I rescued an 18-year-old Syrian boy from there after he reached out to me through this site. So I have all the empathy in the world for that situation, believe me.
I realize that my message of “be brave and offer yourself” can actually be quite dangerous to people in your situation. It can also be cruel; it’s like demanding that a paralyzed person get up and walk. I never want to add any further burden to anyone.
My first advice is my most urgent: do whatever you need to do to escape your country and start a new life in freedom. Get into a school and learn a valuable skill that can get you out of there (a lot of times schools on the outside will sponsor students to move). If you have anyone on the outside, start reaching out to them and find a pathway. This isn’t going to be an overnight process, but start steering your life in that direction and fight for it like your life depends on it (because it does!).
Now, if you really want to approach this Alpha, you must do it very carefully. Either try to befriend him somehow and start offering to do things for him. Be respectful, complimentary, attentive. Once he trusts you enough, give him the “Letter To An Alpha” that I have linked in the sidebar (I’m guessing that is not the letter you already gave him). Hopefully he will see it in a different light if he cares enough about you.
That’s probably the only way you’re going to do this and still remain safe. I can’t recommend more because I don’t know the situation very well and I don’t want to give you harmful advice.
Just know that you’re in my thoughts and in my heart, little one. I love you!
Hi Sam, I have a friend who is such an Alpha stud, he is literally amazing. I have been obsessed with him for years now, and always have been drooling over him and his beauty. Since recently I have started doing something some people might think is weird, as we all know AI is growing every day, so I find out about this amazing AI that lets you create very realistic pictures of people. And I have been obsessed with creating pictures of my Alpha friend. Is it too weird to make AI pictures of him?
Thanks for writing, brother!
I hope you aren’t wanting me to tell you this isn’t weird, because I’ll tell you the truth: it’s a little weird! I saw one of the pics you made that you sent to me, and it looks pretty generic. Like, it could literally be any guy’s real-life body. Now, I don’t know if that’s what your friend’s body looks like, but still … I don’t understand the point of the exercise.
Here’s an idea: show these pics to him and tell him you were practicing your AI skills and that you created those AI pics of him and/or his body. He’ll probably be flattered, but, more importantly, it’ll clue him in as to what you are. It might lead to a fruitful conversation.
That would be a way to turn this into something more productive than just whacking off to AI generations of your friend.
How can I know if an Alpha is a destroyer? My Master loves fucking and breeding me, in general he treats me well, he has never done anything that would hurt me or cause harm, but there is something that I can’t stop thinking about.
My ass is very tight and his cock is thick, so it is not always easy to take it the way he likes it. Sometimes I say “I can’t take it anymore” while he is pounding my ass and he NEVER stops banging, he just slows down, then he says something like “I can stop now baby, but I will be so disappointed, and if I finish I will be so proud of you” Then every time after he says this, I end up saying “please, keep fucking me”
I am sure that if I insist to stop he will, he is a good Man and he would never force me to take his cock if I were in serious pain. However, he never stops when I first say it, he just tries to calm me down and keep banging me in a slower pace until he finishes inside my ass.
I am new to hierarchy and to gay sex in general (I am 20 and only dated girls until last year). My best friend knows everything about my life and she says that if he does not take his cock out of my hole as soon as I tell him to stop, he is toxic, violent, etc. She basically thinks that he is a monster and has been trying to convince me to break up with him. I know she wants me to be safe and happy, but I think an opinion of another fag would be essential before I take such a decision.
He is a good Man and I like when fucks me, but I am afraid this is a red flag for potential worse behaviors. So please Sam, could you please give me your opinion and, if possible, give some examples of Destroyer Alphas? Is my Man a Destroyer? 🙁
Thank you for writing, brother!
First of all, let me define Destroyer Alpha tendencies: they go out of their way to harm others, they manipulate, they entrap, they steal they blackmail, they sadistically torture people, etc. We are talking about truly despicable Alphas, Men who use their power to destroy the lives and the self-esteem of inferiors.
Clearly, that doesn’t sound anything like your Master, does it?
Your Master is the average dominant Alpha, and he fucks exactly like one. Here’s the problem: he knows it hurts (and he likes that it hurts), but he also knows you need it to hurt. Let me explain that: Faggots respond submissively to being fucked by their Owner, and their desire kicks in to fight through the pain in order to please him. Yes, you asked him to stop, but your Master knows you really need to be pushed through it. Think of his actions like a trainer who pushes his trainee in the gym beyond what he thinks he can handle.
Your female friend is totally wrong. She’s looking at things from the woke female perspective that is currently destroying all engagement between males and females. Men are afraid to even touch a female because they start crying rape. It’s stupid.
Your friend doesn’t understand what faggots need, nor does she understand what it means to be owned by an Alpha. I cannot emphasize this enough: DO NOT listen to this friend. She’s going to ruin something special you have with your Master.
You said it repeatedly yourself: he’s a good Man. He’s a good Master. He’s not ever going to destroy you. He wants to own you and keep you and push you to become the best faggot you can be.
Why? Because he’s more of a Protector Alpha than you realize.
Hi Sam, my name is Nick, a fag from Argentina, and I am 19, I love your work and I have been reading your website for 3 months now every single day. I jerked off countless times to the videos and stories here. And I want to start by saying thank you for your effort to put this together. I do not have any fag friends and your work has been really important to understand who I am.
I lost my virginity this year in March and it was weird at first, but I guess first times are always weird. It was with a random guy from Grindr and he didn’t care very much about me, but he was gentle, didn’t hurt me at all, and tried to be kind, although he just wanted to fuck my hole. He wore a condom and came inside the condom, and I left his hole with my virgin hole fucked but without a drop of his cum. Since then, I have been fucked 3 times more. All of them random guys from Grindr, and all of them wore condoms. That’s why I am writing to you.
I have seen many posts about cum here. Your posts with cumshot videos, Master Lorenzo’s complaints about the fag who didn’t swallow him cum, Master Arturo’s desire to cum on the fag’s face, etc. I am new to this world and I have only seen 4 dicks in my whole life, and have never been bred or even tasted cum. I met a fag from Spain online and we have been talking about being a sub fag and he said that “if I haven’t been bred by a Man, I am still a virgin.” I think he is exaggerating, but could you please tell me more about that?
First, is it that different to feel in our holes a cock if it is bareback, or the feeling is about the same? Also, does being bred feel that good? I see that many fags love cum and love being bred. I would never spit Master Lorenzo’s on the floor or refuse to take facial, because I really want to improve my skills and be a good fag for my Master in the future. However, I am so afraid of SITs… I literally panic when I think about the risks of taking cum in my hole, so I can’t relax, enjoy, and serve my Man as I should.
The only solution I envision right now is finding a good Master who will take care of me, take me as his boyfriend, do all the tests regularly, and then I will allow him to breed me whenever he wants. But I don’t know how realistic this is, since most of the Men I know, gay, bisexual, and straight, do not fuck just one hole, they love having many holes for them, so I cannot see a safe way to take cum in my fag pussy.
Sorry if this is a stupid question, Sam. Am I a bad faggot for having these thoughts? I am just so afraid… I know that if I come home with a SIT my father would beat me up for being a faggot.
I really admire you, respect your work, and I hope to be smart and clever like you are one day.
Thank you, Sam! I don’t know if you will be able to read and answer this, but if you ever read this message, please know that there is young twink in a small town in Argentina who loves you!
My sweet little Argentinian angel … of course I would read and respond to your question! After all, I made this website ten years ago for wonderful boys JUST LIKE YOU!
First of all, congratulations on losing your virginity, as well as serving four Alphas in total this year! Good boy! Those are big steps, but you sound like an intelligent young brother!
Ignore what your idiot friend said about how “if you haven’t been bred by a Man then you’re still a virgin”. You still felt the Man’s dick in your ass, didn’t you? You definitely are no longer a virgin! Silly stuff! LOL
I understand why you feel uncomfortable about cum. However, it’s an important issue for Alphas, and they definitely want faggots who love and respect their cum. So what can we do to handle that? First of all, I recommend that you serve Alphas your own age, because they will (most likely) be disease-free (STI’s, not SIT’s) and just as off-balance as you are.
But if you’re serving older Alphas, you must be okay asking them to get tested first. It is your right to protect yourself, even if you are a faggot. Older Alphas are more likely to maybe have something, especially if they’re promiscuous. That doesn’t mean they do, just more likely. Respectfully ask them to get tested.
If you follow these sensible guidelines, you’ll be able to relax and enjoy serving with your whole body, heart, and mind!
And by the way, you’re not being a bad faggot AT ALL. In fact, you’re demonstrating the kind of cautious-yet-eager attitude toward service that any Alpha loves to find in a faggot. You WILL find the right Master as long as you continue to grow in your submission and remain humble!
I love you very much, baby brother! Thank you for writing to me, and I hope I was able to ease your mind, little one!
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for the past six years. Recently he had to move in a different country for some months so we are experiencing long distance for the first time.
I refer to us as “boyfriends” because that’s how we’re publicly viewed but as a matter of fact I’m a faggot and he’s my master.
To spice things up, since we won’t be able to see each other for another two months, he decided to revoke any permission to touch myself, so that I could “enjoy it more when we are together”, as he said. Naturally I accepted his will without any doubt that it is the best thing that I could do, but now, two weeks in, I’m really struggling. I don’t have a cage, so I feel “it” yearning to be touched in a way. I never did chastity before but i really don’t want to disappoint my master in any way so I’m refraining to do anything that he wouldn’t want me to do.
What I’m asking is if there’s anything that could make this easier??
also I’m curious if don’t touching myself for so long will make cumming from being fucked easier in some ways.
Brother, thank you for writing!
I really admire you for trying so hard (no pun intended) to remain faithful to your Master’s command to refrain from masturbating! It’s definitely not easy, especially if you’re new to it and are accustomed to jerking off all the time. I know too many faggots who would just masturbate anyway, their unfaithful and disobedient minds reasoning that their Master would never know for sure. You’re clearly different!
I don’t have any surefire method for this … I only know what worked for me. I had largely masturbated at least once every day since I started puberty, even while being owned. None of my Masters ever knew anything about it, nor did any of them ever demand anything regarding masturbation with me because I was never hard while serving.
When I started this site in 2015, I was still masturbating constantly (all the amazing porn I was uploading didn’t help!). However, as I really came to deeply know and respect some powerful God Alphas, I began to feel shame that I was using my penis like other Men, Men like them. That shame led me to slowly lose an interest in masturbating until I stopped.
By then, I was discovering the pride these Masters felt when their faggots accepted chastity in order to honor them, and my path toward chastity began. I finally understood that chastity isn’t a fetish (which is what I previously thought), but it is a profound way that faggots can show complete respect and devotion to both Alphas and to service. Finally I could no longer take it, so I caged myself (I was without an Owner at the time). The wonders I’ve discovered since being caged far outweigh the desire to masturbate, I assure you.
So I guess this is long way of telling you that you need to develop a disgust and shame for the practice, just the same way longterm smokers finally get sick of it and put them down forever. It’s really that, plus the fact that you love your Master more than you love yourself. There really isn’t more magic than that.
