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August 1, 2025 No Comments

Hi Sam,

If you had to estimate the percentages for the amount of each level of man in the hierarchy (from apex alpha down to faggot), what percentages would you give?


Thanks for the question! This was once a post idea that ended up never getting made!

My guesstimate is:

GOD ALPHA: 1%
APEX ALPHA: 5%
ALPHA: 10%
PRE-ALPHA: 20%
BETA: 44%
FAGGOT: 20%

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August 1, 2025 No Comments


Hi Sam,

I have a question but I feel like I need to have a thorough explanation of my background to get to it, so if you wouldn’t mind, I’ll tell my story here.

I’m a 54 year old man who is married to a woman for 25 years now.  Seven years into my marriage I got curious about gay sex; I guess, that seven year itch was a real thing.  Anyway, back then, all I knew of were the personal ads section of Craigslist under Men looking for Men.

I would read personal ads there and those were enough to get my fantasy going – these would be enough fodder for me to jerk off with and I’d be good for a while.  A while changed drastically from a few weeks, to a few days, to a few hours.  I ended up spending so much time on Craigslist that I knew most of the frequent posters already. Eventually, even the ads that I would find hot would progress (or regress) from just imagining some local guy in my area getting it on with another man to more kinkier stuff — like, those involving BDSM.

Eventually, one specially horny night, I ended up replying to an ad from a Dom Master who was looking for “students” for a “submission class” he was forming.

I was surprised when Sir reaponded. We corresponded for several weeks and Sir was disappointed there weren’t enough responders to his ad but he was happy to at least have me.

His domination over me took several more weeks online (think email, not apps) before Sir had me meet him at a motel.

I was told to wait for him naked and prostrated on the motel room floor, head against the carpet and told not to move.

It was a day of many firsts for me.  I became a cocksucker that day, a piss swallower, and a cum bucket. Though, Sir left me an anal virgin still. And all this transpired while I was blindfolded.  So, I haven’t even seen my Master’s face then.

It was only after a couple more in person sessions that I finally saw his face, it was when he took my ass pussy on my marital bed without my wife ever finding out.

My last session with him, he had me spend overnight and him and his friends used me several times in so many ways I hadn’t even imagined possible.

After having experienced nothing like it in my life, one would think I would have found my calling then and started a new life as a faggot.  But that wasn’t the case, I soon found myself reeling in shame and guilt.  I swore off all faggotry and even anything remotely gay. Though I wasn’t always successful, I was determined to stay straight for the rest of my life.

Now almost two decades later, I find myself back where I was. Instead of Craigslist, there are apps now.  And just like before, I was just a voyeur to the chats and groups and porn, I slowly started chatting, then sending pics and vids of me here and there. Next thing you know, I am serving men again, albeit, all online only.

Thing is, I found a Dom who is local and he is naturally dominant and seems to understand my situation well.  He wants us to meet, he wants to use me in person. He promises to use me as the faggot I was meant to be.

Part of me wants to meet him. But I am scared.  I don’t know if I want to actually meet this Dom only to feel the same guilt afterwards.  Also, I don’t know if I still have it in me to be the faggot that Sir deserves.  After all, I am much older now.  Is it like riding a bicycle?  Will I again naturally know what to do and be able to do what Sir asks if me? Will I still be able to take what Sir plans to do to me?

He is open to discuss the situation and we have but I am still apprehensive.  I don’t want to ruin the life my wife and I have built but also there’s this opportunity that I don’t often have.  What advice can you give this closeted faggot?

Thank you


Thank you for the question!

I will say that being a faggot is just like riding a bike. You don’t forget what your purpose is or how you’ve been trained. It just takes re-engagement.

Your feelings of guilt are natural, especially for fags in your situation. And frankly, that’s probably healthy for you. 

But what are you trying to protect at this point? You already risked your wife and marriage years ago.

I think the shame you’re feeling is the same shame that led you to marry a female in the first place. That shame is still making your decisions, unfortunately. 

I have little confidence that you’re going to make a significant change in your life and actually experience the fulfillment of this purpose that has followed you throughout your life.

My recommendation is for you to put this away and forget it. Just live the rest of your life in the trajectory you’ve already charted for yourself. It’s simpler, and will cause you the least anxiety. 

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July 31, 2025 No Comments

Sam,

Where can I find some good TPE or master slave content on twitter or just for fans? I feel like a lot of people out there just talk to the camera or aren’t really that rough and degrading and it’s hard to search on the sites. Any recommendation of a master or fag I should follow?


Thanks for the question!

TPE stands for “total power exchange”, and typically refers to true Master/slave relationships. On FWA, I featured a real-life slave named Tim who served a straight Master, but I lost touch with him. Personally, my favorite relationship of this type is Master Declan and his faggot Zack, which has been featured here and is updated regularly on X at @jktorono11. 

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July 29, 2025 No Comments

The following post is part of a thread following the discoveries of a muscular straight Colombian Alpha named Juan as he owns and uses faggots as part of stable of worshipers. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!


When straight Alphas first try owning and using faggots, there is usually a little bit of an adjustment period needed. After all, they’re accustomed to the demure hesitations and resistances of females. Faggots, on the other hand, are much wilder and always eager to serve. It’s literally a new world for a straight Alpha.

But once a straight Alpha adjusts to the uninhibited, service-oriented nature of faggots, he suddenly realizes exactly how powerful he is and how unlimited his options for pleasure and worship truly are!

Master Juan of Colombia has been going through that adjustment phase, and practically every faggot he’s encountered has blown his mind as well as his cock. However, he just had an encounter that is so unusual that he had to share it:

Hello Sam, this is Juan from Colombia again. I think I am a magnet of unusual fags, because after the fag addicted to my farts, I have another awkward situation to solve. I like to search for new holes on Grindr at least once a week and I hardly ever end the night without a fag in my bed. A few weeks ago, I met a really sexy femboy twink, willing to take my black cock all night long. All good. I bred his hole a few times and then he told me that he wanted to have a 3some and serve me together with another boy. Just like any other top, I loved the idea, but then he revealed that he wanted to do it with his twin brother. He then showed me videos of them making out and sucking rimming each other’s fag hole. They’re exactly equal, it’s like a fag making out with a clone. And I don’t know what to do, that’s too crazy for me. At the end of the day, I am the man of the house and I’ll do whatever I want. But I’d like to know your opinion on this. I’d be happy to fuck them on different days but their kink is serve the same man at the same time. Sounds like a perfect porn movie, a black cock fucking 2 tight pink holes, but that’s still weird for me. Maybe I’m just being a conservative latino and people in Europe are more open minded?

I know plenty of Alphas who would kill their own mothers for a chance to fuck and breed twink faggot twins. As Master Juan points out, it’s practically straight out of a porn movie!

Master Juan is (I suppose) asking me if I think it would be a good idea to use these twin fags together. My answer is a RESOUNDING YES! In fact, I struggle to find a down side to a situation like this.

On the other hand, there are plenty of positives. First of all, twins have a strange connection to each other, which helps them in situations like this one to deliver coordinated pleasure.

And then there are simply the benefits of using twin faggots for pure worship. Imagine Master Juan sitting in a chair and twin fags between his legs and worshiping his cock together! Imagine the pleasure from that! Imagine the power he’d feel being adored as the focus of their world!

Alphas are always seeking worship and submission. There’s no better way to experience this than by using twin faggots!

So I hope Master Juan takes my advice and uses them together! It’s time for him to let go of his conservative upbringing and embrace the hierarchical power and glory bestowed upon him by nature!

Thank you, Master Juan!

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July 29, 2025 No Comments

Hi Sam,

I am a 22 year old boy who is pretty feminine and people always assume I am gay but I am not ‘out’. My dad never really said anything about it, but one of his best friends figured it all out while I was growing up. Just when I celebrated my 18th birthday he had a talk with me. He is a mature very dominant Moroccan Alpha who has his own succesful businesses and he is pretty cocky.

In the conversation we had back in 2021 he told me that I am not only gay, but a faggot. And that he knew what to do with boys like me. So since then he has basically trained me and I have loved every minute of it. I suck his dick all the time, he takes me on business trips in the car so during long drives I have to suck him too. I tell my family I am going for a run while I actually clean his house and cook his food. Suck him while he watches TV and more…

The problem is that he does not seem to care if my dad one day finds out. He’s like ‘sooner or later he will know his son is a fag, at least let him be a good well trained fag then’. His cocky behavior sometimes leads to pretty risky situations, for example: he calls my dad in the car while I am sucking Sir’s Cock. And one time I was naked, caged and giving him a blowjob during a football game on TV when all of a sudden he started video calling my Dad. To talk about the game. I froze, but of course he did not show me and he just pushed my head back on his Cock. It’s not like he tries to out me to my dad, but he does not care as much about keeping the secret as I do.

It has always been great and it still is, he taught me everything about my true self and made me a really obedient faggot. I am forever thankful. I am just a bit nervous about it, do you think I should stop serving this amazing Alpha?

best,

a desperate fag brother x


Thank you for the terrific experience/question, brother!

It’s pretty remarkable that your Dad’s friend watched you and waited patiently until you were of age so he could claim you! How flattering, but also how humbling! Alphas have superior hunting instincts, and they see the truth about those around them. There’s no hiding from their gaze!

You must keep in mind that he claimed you as his faggot behind the back of his friend (your father). That’s really risky, but he clearly felt like owning you was worth it!

Now, you mention that he does some risky things when you’re servicing him, like calling your Dad on video chat, etc. You have nothing to fear, because this Alpha is simply using this as a hint of danger to make things more thrilling. He’s not going to ruin his friendship with your Dad, and he doesn’t want to hurt you. Trust him.

Should you keep serving him? Are you kidding me?? A wealthy, dominant Alpha waited YEARS just to own you, and you aren’t sure if you should keep serving him? 

If you don’t, then I will! Or so will 1 billion other faggots around the world! Stop dragging your feet and WORSHIP HIM!!!

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July 27, 2025 No Comments

Despite being an older faggot i have taken a long time, just the last few years to be able to say out loud: “i am a faggot here to be used, here to obey, here to serve and know my place”. How about you faggots?


Thank you for writing!

I do think there are generations of older faggots like you who struggle to admit their truth. The violent, rampant  homophobia and general dismissal of faghood as nothing but a fetish forced almost all faggots into hiding and self-denial.

In fact, that is one of the reasons I started this site ten years ago. I wanted faggots to embrace their truth and start living honest lives.

On X, @MasterA_2022 and I did a series of experimental live spaces in which we would allow fags to speak and admit their truth as faggots for the first time. Some of them CRIED! It was very moving.

So I’m proud of you for taking this step, brother!

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July 24, 2025 No Comments

I wanna believe you so bad when u say gay alphas exist , but in my experience I’ve never actually met one , at best they were closeted bisexual, but true gay alpha men ? Real Men , naturally masculine and gay… They’re like a unicorn. I’m honestly in a phase of my life where I’m kinda over just being used , I know I’m still a fag but I would love to be at the service of someone that “sees me” , is attracted or even with a huge amount of luck could even love me but I feel like this isn’t even a possiblity when gay alphas seems to not even exist… I guess that’s just a rant but I really have no one to talk to about this and you’re like a mentor. Thanks for even just reading


Thanks for the heartfelt question, brother!

I do understand some of your frustration. Over the years I’ve encountered gay Men who claim to be dominant or Alpha, only to discover that sometimes they like sucking dick or fucking themselves with dildos. I literally shut down when I find that out. Other times I find a Man who claims to be “Alpha”, but when you meet them they’re wearing a leather harness over their flabby, hairy torso and they have a voice gayer than Nathan Lane in THE BIRDCAGE. What am I supposed to think?

So I get what you’re saying. However, I’m telling you the truth: there are plenty of gay Alphas who are true Alphas and Masters every bit as equal to any straight Alpha. Take Master Lorenzo, for example. Or Master Dean. These are gay Men, gay Alphas, and they are equal in power (I actually think they exceed the power) to any straight Alphas.

It simply requires more searching in the right places. I have an advantage in that I’ve been running this site for a decade and I’ve been privileged to meet and talk to Alphas of every stripe. Every true Alpha, gay or straight, has something to offer.

If you give up or shut yourself off from those experiences, you’re missing out on chances to grow.

As a bonus, I want to leave you with this video of God Alpha @hollywoodpwrtop (a gay Alpha) fucking one of his faggots. You can’t tell me this incredible gay Alpha is not equal to a straight Alpha!

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July 21, 2025 No Comments

Hi there Sam, for the sake of anonymity my name is Tom, I’m 19 and in uni in the usa. I’ve been following your site since I was in like middle school? Highschool maybe? And I’ve always found the content really hot but I always thought I was just a horny teen. (Btw thanks for keeping it free I really appreciate it). But eventually I realized I was a real f@g and read as much of your blog as I could, even digging to find your old site when it was shut down. But anyways to my actual question.

I’m sure get this question about how to serve a lot and I’ve seen some of your replies and tried to do that (Grindr, recon, blowers) but I haven’t found anyone who really understands the hierarchy. I’m scared to find someone in person but at this point it’s not even that I want to but I can’t. I’ve tried online but as a uni student I don’t have any money to send for findom.

One thing I’ve tried is offering my services as a graphic designer, assistant, or homework slave online but they always ghost me after one or two assignments. Do you know any other ways I could try serving? Or even any alphas in school who would need a fag like me to serve them?


Thanks for writing to me after so long! I’m always wowed when I hear from youngsters who have been reading me since they were practically boys! Such a huge responsibility!

I’m proud of you for making attempts to submit to Alphas at uni! However, what you’re doing is very safe and simple and largely risk-free. 

You need to keep in mind that college Alphas are HORNY and FULL OF TESTOSTERONE. They all want service and worship. So you can often be much bolder and direct with them.

Get into a conversation with an Alpha and start it with this: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This almost always leads to conversations about Hierarchy. I did this in prison, so you can do it in uni. Use the pyramid diagram here to highlight hierarchy.

You can also use resources like “Letter To An Alpha” to explain things for you.

It simply requires bravery and boldness. You can do this!

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July 21, 2025 No Comments

Hello,

My name is Jon. I’m in my late 30s—5’10″, 155 lbs, average/fit build—and I live in Washington, D.C.

I’ve been part of the gay scene for about 20 years, but I’ve still not found what I’ve been deeply craving: the opportunity to truly submit to someone. I’ve tried, but honestly, I haven’t had much luck. I’ve encountered so many fakes and flakes over the years, and as I get older, I worry that it’s becoming even harder to find what I’m looking for. That thought breaks my heart.

At the same time, I have fears about family finding out and being disappointed in me. I dream of finding someone—a friend or boyfriend—who I can have a “normal” relationship in public, while privately being able to fully submit to them.

Just to share a little background: I was raised in an African culture and often felt more comfortable spending time with girls because I didn’t feel “man enough.” Even back then, I think I knew something about myself that I just couldn’t express. There are many moments in my life where I’ve shown my true colors.  but I’ve never been bold enough to admit anything because of my family.

I’m sorry if I’m rambling. I guess I’m just hoping for some guidance—or maybe, even, for someone out there to consider giving me a chance.

Thank you so much for reading.


Jon, thanks for writing!

I really can hear the frustration eating you up inside, and I feel for you. For African cultures, there’s enormous pressure on males to conform to certain masculine expectations. That can be overwhelming, and almost choke you to death.

But you are not alone in this. We all deal with these pressures in one way or another.

Honestly, trying to live life as a true faggot is very hard because much of gay culture dismisses faghood as a fetish, and not a serious state of being. So we are sometimes even ostracized by our own “community”. 

But to be blunt, the solution to your issue lies INSIDE YOU. You need to learn to let go of these family pressures (because they ultimately mean nothing) and take responsibility for your own path and happiness. 

Finding a Master is a process of trial and error, but it can be done. Apps like Grindr, TheBlowers.com, Recon, and others can get you access to Alphas, and from there you can start making connections. I’d recommend that you start submitting to Alphas you know in your everyday life, but you don’t sound ready for that.

There’s no magic bullet here. It just takes working on yourself and trying your best to submit both publicly and privately to Men. It will lead to success, but nothing will happen until you heal the family issues holding you back.

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July 21, 2025 No Comments

I read the question and answer about cunting and it made me wonder about femdom implications.  I know a local female domme who also does double with a male domme.  Her clients are not faggots per se but more so beta males, or beta sissys.  How does cunting apply in a situation like this that starts with a femdom theme and beta males?


Thanks for the question!

Cunting is a physical/emotional experience when a sub male is fucked by a Man, and is not exclusive to faggots. So beta males can be cunted as well if they are properly broken and fucked.

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July 21, 2025 No Comments

Hi brother. I have been avidly consuming your site over the past few months and it has really opened my eyes to the fact that I am a faggot and born to serve superior alpha men. That fact has been playing itself out through online findom for me over the past few years. I have dipped in and out of that and served a few masters online though I always felt that it was insincere on their part. They were conventionally attractive straight guys using it as an easy way to make money. About a year ago however I started to serve a new master who is different. He is young and straight and incredibly handsome. More than that though he thrives on power and control. I’ve sent him a lot of money over the past year but also had such deep conversations about myself and him as well. I’d categorise him as an apex alpha and definitely as a protector.  I’m more open with him than I am with anyone else. Submitting to him feels so good and right. He is however 100% straight and I know this will never go anywhere beyond this type of service and submission to him. I feel so conflicted about whether I should stop as findom ultimately feels like a stupid path to be following. Equally however I trust my master and know that he won’t take advantage of me beyond a certain point. If I walk away from this I worry that I’ll eventually get weak and go back looking for more and end up under the control of a destroyer alpha who could do real damage to me.

I’m so torn about what I should do. Any guidance you could give this confused Fagott would be much appreciated.


Thanks for the question, brother!

As I’ve made pretty clear over the years, I’m not a huge fan of findom. Mostly my dislike centers around the laziness/addictive aspects of it, which I find to be harmful dead ends.

But there are also genuine faggots like you who would do well with a real Master, but you’ve painted yourself into a corner just as you described. 

Since you have a deep connection with this Master, I’d talk to him and tell him what you’re dealing with. Tell him you need something more real, and see if he has a role for you. Sometimes long-term straight findom Masters begin to want to own personal fags, and you could be one for him.

If not, then I think you should move your focus away from findom and start looking for a local Alpha. They exist, and they will use you. I realize this is scary, but at some point the training wheels (findom) must come off the bike so we can ride free. This might be that moment for you.

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July 20, 2025 No Comments

Hey Sam. I’ve always identified as a bottom. My small dick and the seeming inability of it to stay hard really reinforced that thinking in my head. Plus I am a submissive person in general. Part of my wants to try topping. Like take a viagra and see what it is like. But I don’t know if that is a good idea. I just don’t know if this is a good idea.


Thanks brother. Yeah, this is a bad idea. Topping a faggot is a responsibility, especially when it comes to taking someone’s virginity. You are not equipped physically or emotionally or hierarchically for such an act. Stick to your lane.

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July 20, 2025 No Comments

How to get rid of a broken faggot?


I guess you could dismiss it, Sir?

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July 20, 2025 No Comments

Sam, I was at a small art opening the other day and there was one very hot frat/bro/alpha there with his girlfriend. He was late 20’s clearly an athlete, permanent 5 o’clock shadow, wearing T-shirt, shorts and flip/flops. He clearly was alpha, he was so self contained as he moved slowly through the gallery, his girlfriend, clinging to him. I could tell he knew people were looking at him but he never looked at anyone or at me even though I couldn’t stop stealing glances at him. He had the same energy that all those str8 bros online have who are now using fags. I wanted to somehow make contact with him or say something to him but it seemed like it would be too weird — what could I even say? But here’s my question: I wish there was a sign or signal or gesture that a fag could use to make itself known to an alpha — a sign that any alpha would understand meant:  “Oh here’s a fag making itself known to me”. I know you have merchandise like T-shirts and things that do this, but I’d be curious if you or even some of the Alphas who come here regularly could come up with something that would make it easy for a faggot to signal it’s availability to any alpha – a kind of universal sign that alphas and fags know about.  A sign that could be spread among alphas online, because fag/alpha dynamic seems to be spreading like wild fire among this new generation of Alphas – and I am sure the Alpha I saw the other day has been approached in his life by a faggot — he just had that cocky arrogant alpha big dick energy. Any thoughts from you or the alphas here would be appreciated!


Thanks for writing! This has been an issue I’ve wrestled with mightily over the years, and I’ve never come up with a suitable solution. Shirts just aren’t universal nor every day solutions, and while I think a bracelet could work, I couldn’t find one that pleased people.

Here are some new ideas. I ran them on Twitter, and the consensus seems to be in favor of the thick leather bracelet as long as it was customized.

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July 20, 2025 No Comments

Hey Sam Have something interesting happening with a biker i meet on Tiktok that I’m sure is a Alpha. He created a Discord server for his follow. I’m the only gay guy in it. He’s super sexy and funny. Loves to tease me and the ladies with picture. Also talking about we wouldn’t be able to handle his cock and he can go all night. One of his biker friends joined the discord. And when there on together. They always compete with each other trying to get the ladies worked up. The main biker get a little jealous and always makes sure to one up his friend or any other guy me and the ladies talk about. And always tell us we are all his. I’ve tried to talk with him in DM but he’s not very good about responding. He created a Throne account so people people could send him stuff without knowing his address. And I sent him stuff on there. But just last night he told us he would pick one person that he would tell his address to. And anyone that wants to send anything can go through that person. He ended up picking me to have his address and have the ladies go through me to send him stuff. I plan i ordering stuff when I get paid to send to him. I’m wanting advice on how best to approach him about his Alpha status?


Thanks for the question!

I don’t think you need to worry about teaching him that he’s Alpha. He knows. 

What he might not understand is what larger implications that has in his life (although it sounds like he does know that, too). I have plenty of resources here to send him that can start a conversation with him. My book “May I Serve You, Sir?” will lead him through Hierarchy and teach him why he needs to own faggots. My “Letter To An Alpha” is a quick, one-shot outline of that same material. Send him one of them and see what he says. 

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July 20, 2025 No Comments

Hello there,

I have an alpha that I’ve had for awhile, we don’t live together but I come by his place often. I do chores for him, and of course I service him. Though he is a caring dom, he is becoming very strict, which I have no problem with. If I am not up to his standards, he will punish me- sometimes with spankings, sometimes he will intentionally make a mess for me to clean up. It is more frequent when he is in a bad mood.

The weird part is that I always enjoy when he is like this. I really enjoy being humiliated, and I like the discipline. It makes me a better faggot for him- I don’t want to slack off. It’s never abusive or physically harmful, he is just in charge and I feel like he has the right to. Is it common for fags to enjoy this? And why do fags enjoy this? I think his raw, angry, masculine energy being taken out on me (and my holes) just brings me a level of satisfaction that is hard to describe. Not sure if this is controversial or that if some fags do not enjoy this.


Thank you for the question, brother!

Congratulations on finding a Master who seems to be hitting all of the right buttons with you! You don’t sound unhappy at all about his more aggressive moments, but more curious as to why it is pleasurable to you. (Hopefully I’m reading that right!)

Let me preface my answer this way: while faggots are a natural part of our world, we are undoubtedly broken creatures. We know our imperfections and inferiority well. We feel it deep within ourselves, this worthlessness and shame. 

We are often overlooked hierarchically by Men unless we have something to offer them, reinforcing those feelings of being nothing.

When Alphas treat us in abusive or demeaning ways, we recognize their abuse as “what we deserve”, but it’s even deeper than that. When Alphas abuse us verbally or physically, we feel finally “seen” by them. We have a purpose, and having purpose is deeply satisfying to anyone.

Some of this is closely related to Stockholm Syndrome, but I do think there are compelling variations from that classic explanation of abuse attraction. Faggots are poorly understood by modern psychiatry (if they’re acknowledged at all), so there’s very little specific knowledge to reference. 

But having been a faggot my entire life, I feel my explanation above is as close to correct as I’ve ever seen. If anyone else has something to add, please do so in the comments.

Thank you for such an important question, brother!

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July 19, 2025 No Comments

Hi, first of all, love your work

So, i am now 25 years old and own multiple fags, some my age, others older and most of them younger than me. The older faggots I mostly see them as cum dumps and toys to use to let off some steam and the younger fags, although I do like to break them in and training them to be good fags I also like to treat them almost as girlfriends. But it wasn’t always like that. When I was about 18 till I was 21 i had a crush on a friend of mine and I think I almost had fag feelings for him, I wanted to be his fag. Now, nothing happened between us because he was deep in the closet so I got over the crush and started to own faggots and now I can’t even think of ever wanting to be a fag ever again. So… what happened?? Can a fag evolve into an alpha?? Or was I always an alpha and was just infatuated?? Or am I pretending to be an Alpha now and I am in fact a faggot in denial??

Thank you once again and sorry for any misspealing mistakes, english is not my first language


Master, thank you so much for writing to me!

The issue you mention is something  that happens to some Alphas and tends to cause a lot of confusion. It involves a lack of understanding of ALPHA HIERARCHY.

As you know as a reader of this site, I outline a distinct, four-level Hierarchy among Alphas. Like any hierarchy, the lower levels of the Alpha Hierarchy “submit” to the upper levels.

Occasionally this submissive obedience/respect feels almost like infatuation or sexual attraction, because all Alphas are sexually aroused by power. That doesn’t mean the lower Alpha is actually a faggot. It simply means that he recognizes the superiority of the more powerful Alpha.

Sometimes sexual encounters happen between Alphas of different levels, with the more dominant Alpha feeding/breeding the lesser Alpha. These do not result in a “fagification” of the lesser Alpha. Instead, there is a mutual interchange of power. Sex between Alphas is almost like mutual admiration, a shared celebration of superiority.

I believe this infatuation you felt when you were younger is part of your growth as an Alpha. This Alpha you mention was likely a more powerful and developed Alpha, and his power intoxicated you. But I don’t think you were ever born a faggot, Master. Your life since then bears that out.

Now you’ve moved on and became even more powerful yourself, Sir. You’ve ascended, and now know the truth about yourself and your purpose – as a leader, an Alpha. You own all of these faggots, and they gladly submit to your every command because you are a natural-born King.

You were never going to be a faggot, Sir, and you never will be. You’ll always be rightly worshiped, just as nature intended from the beginning of your life!

I hope that helps ease your mind, Sir! Thank you again for writing!

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July 19, 2025 No Comments

Hi brother Sam.

It is a fagot from France. It doesn’t know if it has really a question to ask, but would like to share a few things.

First of all, you won’t like it, but it is maried to a woman since 30 years and love her, but does not have sex with her anymore. Therefore being a fagot is not easy. Anyway it knows its place in the hierarchy probably since ever. It will always serve and submit to Alpha in any situation.

It doesn’t only serve Alpha, since there are a lot of Men, shy, Muslim, maried, old or whatever that need a mouth and sometimes an ass to empty their balls and it is happy to help.

It is really lucky to be owned by a wonderful Master since 6 months. Master likes to get a massage and it really improved a lot its skills. It is really proud to please its Master and still works to give better service.

Master is not really into giving pain, and it misses it but has no right to complain. Nevertheless it has been beaten on ass and balls recently because it did a big mistake and needed to be punished : it did play with its clit and of course it ended in cuming. Not real orgasm, hopefully,  just a failed one. But Master was really angry and it was really ashamed.

Beating the slave was not the only punishment. The real one was to devoid the slave the right to serve Master in any other way than massage : it was stopped when trying to lick His feet,  His ass or His balls. It was of course not allowed to suck Him or be fucked by Him. That’s a real punishment. Master said He’d better masturbate and use a tissue to clean His cock than use the slave. Of course Master is right.

It is really impressive to see how it is craving to serve and worship its Master. It is suppose to be born as a Male, but it is obviously not. It is not looking for any kind of sexual pleasure. Just try to serve. Does a fagot got pleasure when it licks feet or ass or cock? Of course not. But it can’t do anything to repress it from doing it. And is so sad when it is not allowed to do it.

It seems that is so easy for Alpha since fagot are so willing to serve They don’t even have to dominate. But the truth is that fagot will not submit and serve any Man the same way. It will always be helpful to empty balls. But it will only submit and worship Alpha as soon as they smell Them. There is not question. Just the urge to kneel.

Thanks a lot brother for your work here. It for sure helps a lot of fagot and some Alpha to better know what they are and be happy in finding their place in the hierarchy. And also thanks to be very clear about destroyer Alpha.


Thank you brother for sharing your experience! No matter what circumstances we have, we can still make ourselves useful to Alphas!

Good boy!

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July 17, 2025 No Comments

Hey how are you all I’m like brand new barely out the box realized I’m a faggot and I was looking into how to become someones full time bitch?

any tips or tricks into how I go about it ?


Thanks for the question!

First of all, congrats on realizing and accepting the truth! I’m proud of you!

To find an Alpha, start with the Alphas you know in the circles of your life. Start submitting to them in various ways. Perhaps use the resources on this site to open a conversation with him about Hierarchy. If he’s Alpha, he’ll respond.

You can also use apps like Grindr, Recon, and TheBlowers.com.

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July 13, 2025 No Comments

Hey brother Sam,

i have been approached by an Alpha who trains faggot’s like us to take a fist. I noticed that there isn’t much information on your site about fisting. He claims that a Man can cause a faggot to orgasm wholly through their boipussy itself through fisting. I imagine that this would be similar to cunting? He claims that by effectively inducing a physiological “female” orgasm in a faggot through fisting is superior to any other form of orgasm. According to Him the resulting orgasms are infinitely repeatable and escalating in their intensity.

I’ve done some research that tends to agree with what He is saying, if it is done by someone with experience and is gentle. But i would like to know what you think. Have you ever been fisted?

i would love to know your thoughts Sam!


Thanks for the question!

I’ve never been fisted, and none of the Alphas I’ve ever served have demanded that of me. I’m kinda glad, because I can’t say it’s particularly interesting to me.

I have a fag friend who loves being fisted (he even visited Germany once and was fisted on a stage by two Men!), and he’s reported to me that he feels euphoria from it (something like being cunted).

I guess I don’t feature fisting content on the site because it’s not a personal interest and few ever mention it to me. I think if I found fisting content that was hot or a teaching moment, I’d feature it.

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