Sam:

Bi-Alpha Ethan here. I have no exceptional updates, but do want  to draw your attention to a figure I think is a maximal Alpha: Jack Smith. He just underwent an 8 hour deposition. Now public. Supremely controlled, wise, poised—a killer. I’m a master in my sphere, but he humbles me. Not everyone will get why I say so.

More to say at a later date.

OMG!

Sir, you’re not going to believe this, but earlier today I started a post about Jack Smith Alpha courage through that deposition! Just now when I opened up my site editor I saw this question and was astounded! Thank you for that crucial insight, Sir! I completely agree with you!

Sadly, there are far too many so-called Alphas (many of whom are actually worshiped by faggots – how fucked-up is that??) who support Trump’s criminal regime. They don’t have the first clue about what makes a true Alpha or a real Man.

But you do, Sir! Thank you!

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Hi again Sam

I hope you don’t mind this faggot following up on your very interesting reply to my last question.  Faggot wondered if it could ever be  the case that true Masters  occasionally like to take cock themselves – your answer made faggot think it’s not acceptable yet it  has had some further thoughts on this which it would like to share.  Masters have the freedom to seek pleasure wherever and however They choose. By exercising  that choice They are asserting Their rights, and faggot guesses (obviously no faggot can truly understand the mind of an alpha) that sometimes some Masters may enjoy the sensation of having Their hole penetrated. Faggot wonders if this would be  per se a loss of dignity or a diminution of a Master’s masculinity?  An interesting question, faggot thinks, for discussion in the Hierarchy University.

Of course in this faggot’s case the particular issue in the original question was its own embarrassment at having to use its dicklet in such a way; but then again, as Master has always declared that faggot’s dicklet belongs to Him then faggot supposes it could be argued that Master is merely using His own property to please Himself. This is all very perplexing for a mere faggot brain!!

The issue of faggot’s relationship with its dicklet (not really belonging to it but to Master, of course) is sometimes a difficult one to manage.  Faggot has for many years had a serious problem with masturbation but Master prefers it not to wear a device because He believes that developing self-control is a  much more fulfilling practice.  By having to struggle every day when temptation arises faggot is constantly having to focus on and strengthen its commitment to Master’s command.  However over time this has become much easier and faggot now finds the idea of masturbation repellent and selfish whilst the word itself – masturbation- seems ugly.  Faggot guesses that its growth towards dissociating its dicklet from any legitimate kind of sexual  pleasure (even though it still experiences powerful erections) has made it more difficult to satisfy Master’s very occasional commands to fuck Him – yet again faggot finds itself shuddering at the inappropriateness of those two words! Thank you Sam for taking the trouble to take on board this silly faggot’s meanderings.  It hopes you have more wise words to dispense!

Thanks for writing again, brother!

Even though I’m now a big proponent of chastity (locked for all of five years aside from my two years in prison), that wasn’t always the case. None of my Masters ever required it of me because I have a tiny penis that never got hard while serving, so it wasn’t an issue. However, I DID have a secret masturbation problem for my entire life until right before I self-locked. I overcame that issue thanks to starting this site, actually! I became intimately involved with some God Alphas, and they so humbled me that I eventually became ashamed of masturbating. Then I eventually became ashamed of using my penis like Men do (for example, using a urinal). So masturbation stopped, and I eventually self-locked out of desperation.

It sounds like your evolution is following the same path as mine. I think it’s wise of your Master to have you overcome masturbation voluntarily using self-control rather than a device. But once you do have it under control, I do hope your Master does agree to lock you in chastity. There is something profound about being locked. It has truly changed my life for the better.

I do think you should have a respectful-but-frank conversation with your Master about your feelings regarding you topping him. You need to help him see how this is hurting you, and also how it is hurting how you view him. You need to help him understand that you want nothing more than to serve him and submit to him, but topping him not only makes you extremely uncomfortable, it bit also degrades that submission you feel toward him.

Your Master sounds like an insightful Alpha. I’m sure he will listen and understand if you explain it to him.

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Hi Sam, happy new year

I was wondering, have you ever come across this before I was at a party and I saw this couple this 275 pound muscle man hairy as all hell I won’t lie. I wanted to get fucked by him a lot but he was already with someone.

His partner was this skinny surfer boy type, and I thought that he was the bottom well they invited me back to their hotel room for the night, and I learned that the big guy was actually the bottom and the little guy was the master and he actually had quite a nice healthy looking 8 inches on him

Have you ever encountered this before or do you think it’s like just a one time thing because I’ve only encountered this once and that was 10 years ago

Thanks for the question! Happy New Year to you, too!

The situation you describe is one of the great proofs of a definitive hierarchical truth: our place in hierarchy is something we are born with INSIDE, and has nothing to do with our bodies or circumstances. By all rights, that Master/faggot couple you met should’ve fit the pattern that their outward appearances suggested, but they were the exact opposite! The skinny surfer dude with the big dick was born Alpha, and the burly, muscle-bound hairball was born a faggot!

This is why I’m repeatedly warning against judging Men based on outward appearances!

You asked if I’ve ever encountered such counterintuitive couples before, and the answer is YES! I’ve chronicled multiple couples like this. My favorite was straight Master G and his giant muscle fag Jamie. Master G was a short Alpha, and his faggot Jamie was a bodybuilder with a large dick that Master G had caged. Their thread ended with Master G marrying his faggot (using a ring he allowed me to choose!).

So yes, it’s a very real (although I’d also add RARE) thing within hierarchical couplings.

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Hello

I am a faggot who has been adoring my straight friend since high school. Even at 16 he looked like a 20 year old bodybuilder. I was adoring him ever since. In high school i didn’t pursue any gay relationships, and I had very little in common with him, but I always hung around him. On graduation day we had a party where he stripped. I drank beer from his pecs and licked his nipples. Still a core memory. When I brought it up some years later he didn’t remember.

Anyway. Over the years I have come out to him and I have saved a gallery collection of his thirst traps he has sent me. I have at times been either drunk or extremely horny and begged to be his slave or serve him in any way, and he has rejected every offer. He has never told me off for thirsting after him, but he has also never given me any indication that he will let me do anything beyond admiration. At one time he was even offended that I thanked him for tolerating my bs so much, telling me he views me as a friend and equal. At one time he said he doesn’t mind that I’m in love with him because we have very little in common, and had I not been gay we wouldn’t have become friends

One time when I was at his place we were sunbathing together on the roof terrace of his apartment building. I tried to offer massaging his feet and I got close at one point, but he didn’t let me do any of it. Zero interest.

At this point he has gone through several long term relationships with beautiful women, and atp it breaks my heart. I really want to serve him. I even tried to fix an alpha twitter for him so he could get some extra money. Am I pursuing a futile goal here? It’s been 10 years now, I really want to know if I’m just hurting myself.

Thank you for the question!

What you’ve described is the classic faggot conundrum. I think every faggot has had a straight Alpha they wanted to serve in high school. Most of them never get as close to it as you have, so that’s to your credit, brother!

The kind of Alpha you describe is the toughest type to “break”. I call them “Indifferent Alphas”. They’re so laid-back and genial that they never take a position on anything. Nothing bothers them or arouses them (except pussy, of course). You’ve even tried a carrot that typically does work – FINDOM – and your Alpha isn’t interested. That can be difficult.

Here’s what I suggest: send him a copy of my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) – or better yet, have him read it from the site – and then ask him about his thoughts regarding it. That letter has had some success, mainly because it condenses the hierarchical outline into a clear truth that most true Alphas can agree to.

I’d say if he rejects that message, then you need to give up. You are definitely hurting yourself with these rejected attempts to sway him. There are other Alphas who really are interested in owning you. You’d be better off submitting to them.

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Dear sam,

First, Happy New Year. Thank you for all that you do for the community.  You provide a valuable service and a supportive forum for faggots and Alphas alike. Your work is appreciated.

When an Alpha asks for information on likes, dislikes, or limits, how much information should a faggot give? Sometimes in answering this question, it feels like i am trying to influence what the Alpha does.  Even though my intent may be to help the Alpha control me better, i can’t honestly say that i’m not trying to guide Him toward doing certain things and away from doing other things i do not like.  Would it be OK to preface the list of dislikes by saying that i hoped He would help me overcome any of my dislikes or limits that He found objectionable? Or perhaps to supply only a list of health problems that made certain activities dangerous?

Recently another faggot told me that his Alpha punished him with spankings, which he secretly enjoyed.  Should a faggot inform an Alpha that he actually enjoys His punishments so that the Alpha can use a punishment that that faggot actually finds painful?

In short, how does a faggot toe the line between self-serving information and Alpha-serving information.

fagjohn

Thank you for the interesting question!

I’ve always been of the opinion that a faggot should simply submit and allow the Alpha to guide how things go, augmenting any sessions with information (like health information, etc.) as they arise. Preliminarily loading up an Alpha with a bunch of prequalifications and conditions would only confuse or frustrate the Alpha before he can even receive service.

I don’t want to discourage you, though, because your heart is in the right place. Such deep considerations are a key to a successful and fruitful faghood, brother. We have so much to discover about our submission! We can reap the rich bounty of self-actualization that comes when we meaningfully meditate on issues like these, so I’m proud you are doing that hard-but-beneficial work!

Love,

sam the faggot

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Look at the way Master @libraddy1 dominates his faggot, even humiliating it in the best way by comparing his big dick to its cage.

When straight Alphas tell me gay Alphas are hierarchically lower than them, I scoff. Gay Alphas are just as powerful as they are!

A faggot is born to take loads.

Alphas know this, which is why they’ll often “stealth” a faggot by wearing a condom at first, then removing it during the fuck in order to breed it.

But just like the faggot here, most are begging to be bred by the end of it.

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