Sam how do I deal with fakers and weird “Alphas” who are more interested in stroking their egos than actually being dominant and owning fags?
For a variety of reasons I struggle to serve in-person for Alphas, so I’ve tried to be of use virtually as a cashfaggot and wallet. I found an Alpha online and he seemed really legitimate. He was organized, domineering, and amazingly self-assured. But eventually he started saying some inconsistent thing? Gave vague responses to them, and just overall started acting like as an Alpha he had no reason to explain himself. Normally, I’d agree but the internet is a wild place and there are fake Alphas everywhere trying to rip fags off and redflags just seemed to keep rising. I stopped serving him and we disconnected shortly after. But what the fuck sam? How do you tell Real Men apart from fakers?
Thank you for the question!
As you may know, I’ve always been wary about findom, and one of my biggest concerns is the issue you bring up here: fake or scammy Alphas. Sadly, the nature of anything online involves some degree of fakery or scamming. Findom is an easy way for a Man to pretend to be something he isn’t and get paid for his lies. It’s also a way for unscrupulous Destroyer Alphas to take advantage of weak faggots.
I’m involved with findom only to try and assess Alphas in the scene and attempt to be a bellwether/advocate for the true ones. There aren’t many, though!
My advice has always been to proceed with caution in findom. Take your time with Alphas there. Talk to other faggots serving Masters you like to see what they say about them.
Everything in Hierarchy is a crap shoot. You never know if any Man, in real life or online, will be good. But your chances of finding a true Alpha and good Master in findom is greatly reduced. Be careful!
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