Serving an Alpha I met at work

Hello Sam,

Im a long time lurker of the site and a big fan of your work. I’ve met an Alpha at my place of work. We met at an after work function and we actually hit it off pretty quickly. I can say he pegged me as a fag as soon as we started talking, and it’s quite obvious that he’s an alpha. He’s older than me in his mid 40s (I’m in my late 20s) and he’s the head of his department at our job, so pretty high in the office ladder. We don’t work in the same department, but do have to interact from time to time.

He is amazing. Very considerate and sweet, but also a beast in bed, and he fucks me up to four-five times every time we see each other, which is more and more often lately. He asked me out for coffee after the function we first met at, and quickly hit it off. He’s tall and muscular, very in shape, hairy, and he has this rough kind of lumberjack vibe to him, like full of testosterone.

I told a friend I had met someone at work and he’s told me it was actually highly inappropriate, especially on his part. He says it’s a power dynamic, that he could’ve manipulate me or screw me over, that HR would never let this fly etc.

I don’t really see the problem. We are both consenting adults and are aware of the situation. Nothing ever happened at work except one time when he pushed his crotch against my ass passing by me in a tight corridor.

What do you think? Is this inappropriate? Should I break it off? I really appreciate this alpha and enjoy serving him a lot, but I’m confused right now.

PS. sorry for the possible mistakes, English is my third language!