Hi, I would like to ask for some advice. I am a married guy close to 40. I am happy with my wife but I also want to be satisfied sexually. My kinks are humiliation, degradation, slavery, and submission. I started to read about that and I started to crave becoming a faggot. I never had gey tendency but I would love to try that. I am not sure if this is for me so I decided to contact a few masters online to become an online slave and at least try this way for now. But when I contact them I often hear that they need to see my face to start. I am not sure if this is a path for me, and I don’t feel comfortable showing my face at the beginning of this journey. I would like to begin anonymously. So always this ends our relationship. How should I try to fulfil my lust?


Thank you for this! 

First of all, be grateful that you’re finding serious Masters, because there are a lot of game players even among Men who call themselves Masters. So at least it seems like you’ll have options if it gets that far.

Have you thought about being dominated online in the financial domination scene (or “findom”)? That’s a relatively easy way to taste the scene and see if that even appeals to you at all. Yes, it’ll cost you a few hundred dollars most likely, so if you can squirrel away that much and keep it concealed from your wife, then I’d try that. 

Otherwise, you’ll just need to keep trying until you can find one that is willing to meet you in public somewhere without seeing a pic first. They’re out there, trust me.

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