A Father’s Faggot Son

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I recently had a very touching Questions From Readers question from a worried 34-year-old father about his 16-year-old son he suspected was a faggot. You can read that question by CLICKING HERE. Despite some dumbasses in the comments section crying “FAKE!”, I think constructive people joined me to comfort that distressed father and give him a sense of direction with the issue.

This is a deeply personal and complicated problem for a straight father to confront. Faghood is something no father would want for his son, and in some ways it stabs at his own masculinity. Bad fathers would try to beat that faghood out of his son or even worse. But good fathers want to understand how they can understand the issue and try to protect their son while preparing them well for a future they can’t possibly understand. It can be overwhelming, to say the least.

Over the years I have received letters from parents of faggot sons much like the father above. It’s frightening to them, but always inspiring to me. These parents are the types of caretakers who truly love their son no matter what they are born to be. They just want their faggot sons to be safe and healthy and fulfilled in life. It’s a beautiful expression of love.

The father’s question was sent to me a week ago. Now I’ve received an email from a second father with a very similar problem:

Hi Sam,

My name is James and found your site because I was just doing some research because I have a feeling that my 16-year-old son may indeed be a faggot.  

A few weeks ago his soccer coach told me that he walked into the locker room after a soccer practice and my son was on his knees sucking off one of his teammate. Then the other day his mother found a chastity cage in his gym bag. We are a bit of a loss on what to do next with him.

Should we sit down and talk to him. Should we cage him to keep him out of trouble? We are both a bit of a loss at this moment

I was deeply touched by the level of involvement these parents were prepared to try in order to help their child. I immediately wrote back.

Sir,

Thank you for reaching out to me! I can hear the tension in your words, and I do sympathize with you. 
Just don’t worry. It’s going to be okay!

First of all, let me remove any doubt: your son IS a faggot. There’s no question about it. If he’s sucking off straight Alphas on his team and he’s purchased a chastity cage (or was given one), then he’s most certainly a faggot. 

Being a faggot isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The word has negative connotations, of course, but if your son has come to accept this as his identity, he can grow up to be very fulfilled as a proud faggot (like me) and find purpose as an owned faggot of an Alpha. 

You and your wife need to put aside your own dreams for your son and allow him to express these things. I know that isn’t easy, but it must happen. If you try to box him in, he’s only going to rebel or, even worse, come to live a miserable life as a ghost of what he potentially could be. I’m sure you don’t want that. 

It’s hard to advise you on how best to approach the subject with your son because I don’t know what your relationship is like with him. If you’re particularly close to him and speak freely with him, you might be able to have a full-blown talk about how you want him to be happy as a faggot but that he needs to be more careful about where he services Alphas. If you’re not as close, you might just tell him to make sure he’s careful when having sex in general. 

Again, don’t panic. He’s always going to be your son even if he’s a faggot. Approaching this with care and love will assure that your son has the best possible start as a faggot, and he will have the self-respect required to make good decisions about who he serves. 

If you have any additional questions, please feel free to write me, Sir! 

This is always a difficult piece of advice to give a parent. I’m not officially a parent, so what do I know? But I gave this father my heart in the hope that I might reach his.

And it seems to have helped. I received this lovely response from this father today:

Hi Sam, Thanks so much for your reply, We have always been a very close family and learning that our little boy is indeed a faggot does not change a thing. And we are hanging out together this weekend and I will be telling him that I understand and we will always be there for him.

I hope you don’t mind me writing to you as I watch my baby boy blossom.

That means so much to me to hear him call his faggot son “baby boy”! I refer to my Syrian son as “Baby Boy” as well. They will always be our babies, no matter how old they get. And, like babies, we as fathers will do whatever we can to protect them!

I thank Sir James for sharing his story and trusting me with it. I will always stand beside these straight fathers who are willing to brave the unknown frontiers of their son’s futures!