It’s been an insane-yet-inspirational couple of weeks on the site because of the straight fathers who have approached me to ask about their minor sons who they suspect are actually developing faggots. What they are questioning about their children isn’t a form of child abuse, but rather a desperate desire to understand and help their children to grow up healthy, happy, and safe.

It is the highest form of father/son love imaginable.

I’ve had the occasional privilege to work with fathers who have had similar situations with sons before, but I’ve never seen such an onslaught of similar questions like I have recently. I’ve been intimately involved in the stunning success of two fathers, Sir Pietro and Sir James, in their attempts to reach and help their faggot sons. I’ve started helping another anonymous father in the “Questions From Readers” section as well.

Then, just yesterday, I was contacted by an Alpha father named Wade who had listened to my podcast episode about Sir James and his son Jamie and reached out to me for help with his 14-year-old son.

This is what he said to me:

Hello there. I am a concerned father and hope you can spare some time to chat. I found out recently that my son is gay. Of course I still love him and want the best for him but I was just trying to understand his situation a bit better. As I was looking up resources, I found your podcast, “a straight father’s love”.

Please excuse me for asking this, I just want to be sure – is what you’re talking about in your podcast sincerely true or is this a fetish thing for gay men? I was always under the impression that “faggot” was a derogatory term. But is it really true that some gays are faggots? I’m sorry again and I hope you understand my dilemma. I’d much rather my son be an alpha like his old man. I don’t want him to get hurt. He’s still my little boy. But I think he might fit the “faggot” category more. Any thoughts or resources for me?

I was taken aback by Alpha Wade’s thoughtfulness after so many years of dealing with rude, tough-talking Alphas on the other side of computer screens. Alpha Wade reminded me more of the straight Alphas I’ve served in the past.

So after reassuring him that this was not a fetish, but very real (and explaining the use of the word “faggot”), Alpha Wade continued:

I see. In that case, it would be best to let him develop and express faggot behavior in a safe way, correct? I wonder if I need to have a sex talk with him. I only had a basic one earlier.

I have another concern. On your site and podcast you talk about chastity devices. Is this really necessary for a faggot? Should my son be in one?

I was extremely impressed by Alpha Wade’s detail-oriented approach to the development of his son. I explained to him that chastity can be a very important part of a young faggot’s development. I then directed him to some of the resources here on the site, and especially pointed out Sir James’s amazing success with Jamie.

To my surprise, Alpha Wade had already been reading about it!

I saw that! That made me curious. If there are truly benefits to it, I will consider putting my son in one too. I want the best for him. If it helps him become a better faggot and attract higher quality men, I’m all for it.

I could’ve fallen out of my chair. In fact, I nearly started crying. The fact that this Alpha, obviously a Protector Alpha at heart, wants to do whatever he can to help his little boy just really hit me hard.

I think I’m going to have a talk with him tomorrow, a heart to heart where he can confess it all to me. And I’ll give him all the love and support he needs to reveal himself to me. Any tips on breaking that barrier? He might be hesitant to reveal that he’s a faggot. But I wanna hear it from him or at least make him realize it so we can have full honesty and trust.

Thank you, Sam. I will keep you posted on how it goes. Thanks for being a resource for fathers like me. I never thought I’d be saying this but I hope I can help my son be the best faggot he can be.

I cannot tell you how overwhelming it is to meet great Men like Alpha Wade or these other fathers. Young faggots are very exposed and frightened – I know, because I was once that scared faggot, too. I wish like hell I could’ve had a father like Alpha Wade in my life to guide me and give me a sense of self-worth. His little boy is going to be a strong and confident faggot for sure!

Overall, I can see the paradigm shifting in real time. True Alphas like Alpha Wade are leading the way to an acceptance of faggots as a recognized and valued part of our world.

Hierarchy is the First Law. It’s time that we start living our lives as a reflection of that Truth. It all starts with our youths … and their fathers.

Thank you Alpha Wade for your trust and example!