Cunt Status

This faggot has a question about cunt status, I was anally raped by a Man when I was underage, that was my first sexual experience. I didn't tell anyone at the time and never really thought about it until I became an adult and had naturally gravitated towards Men and developed my own understanding of what being a faggot was going to mean for me. A recently, I met this particular Man who was one of if not the biggest I have taken and we have since been seeing eachother 2-3 times a week for a few months now. Only recently, I have seen a change in my assholes appearance and I believe my cunt is developing. Would my official cunting be the first Cock I took? Or the first Cock that started my cunting process?