Food for my boy
I'm 30 and I spent 8 years with my ex-boyfriend, who was my loyal and submissive faggot. I started looking for other boys a few months ago and I found a hot twink willing to submit. He is 19 and calls me daddy when I'm banging him. We don't live together but our dynamic is very similar to father and son sometimes. He asks permission before going out, we talk about his classes at college, etc. It's all new to me becase my former bf was older than me, but I admit that it has been nice, I'm enjoying a lot being a 30-year old daddy from 1995 who breeds an obedient twink born in 2005.
But what I want to ask you is specifically about his diet. He is very nice and obedient but we always diverge when it comes to his eating habits. The boy literally eats eggs and bacon, chicken nuggets, and chocolate chip cookies everyday. The healthiest thing he eats is popcorn with butter for an afternoon snack. I'm the exact opposite. I'm very aware of what I eat and have a really balanced diet. Needless to say, besides the potential health problems of what he eats, he often feels bloated or not confident to bottom and I cannot fuck him. When I do fuck him, he spends a long time in the bathroom getting ready. His blowjob is great so it is not too bad, but still I'm not happy with having such a sexy twink for me and fucking no more than once a week because of his diet.
So I gave him an ultimatum last night. I prepared a whole diet plan for him, very detailed, and offered to pay for his food because I know that college students usually are in a tight budget: 1) fiber gummies with vitamins every morning; 2) oatmeal, fruits, chia seeds, nuts, and eggs for breakfast; 3) potatoes, green leaves, tomatoes, fish or chicken breast for lunch; 4) whole grains, brown rice, salad, fish for dinner.
After I sent him this diet plan, he reacted as if I were telling him to go through a sex change surgery just to please me. He said it's too much, it's too crazy, I'm trying to impose my needs on him. So I admit that I felt bad after our conversation, so I thought about reaching out to you because we both love your website. We send each other your posts from time to time but that's the first time I'm writing to you.
I am Italian, he is born and raised in Texas, so there might be a cultural clash on this issue as well. So I'd like to know your opinion on this. And feel free to tell me I'm wrong if you think that's the case. Am I wrong in trying to change my boy's diet? Is it an abusive behavior trying to impose this and I should just accept a twink who often cannot bottom because of his belly full of chicken nuggets and chocolate? If he is right and I am wrong, I am willing to stop talking about it. But we both need an external opinion.
In my mind, a teenage college twink would appreciate a 30-year old fit Italian Alpha with a 6-pack willing to take care of him and pay for all his meals. I am very much open to become his daddy and fulfill his fantasy of having a daddy/Master boyfriend, but changing his diet is non-negotiable for me.
You know, I really love America and everyday I'm grateful for living in this country. I even have an American flag on my front porch. But every time I go home and bang some faggots in Rome, I notice that - with all due respect - American bottoms could probably eat more fibers hahaha just kidding, I love you all, American fags, but please Sam, share your thoughts with us
