getting my fags to rim
hi sam, i'm loving your answers so i decided to give it a shot (it's gonna be a long one).
26 year old dom-top here. i'm sure i could be called an alpha. i have multiple fags i use whenever i feel like it. i love forcing them to suck my feet, choking them with my dick and fucking their tight holes. i am pretty aggresive but also keep the balance by being friendly as well. you could say who is the superior one even by my way of touching them.
that being said, years before i discovered i'm a dom, i went to a bottom's house to fuck him. since i hadn't accepted my nature back then, i wasn't treating him like how an alpha would. since my dick was too thick for him to take it from the ass, he offered me to give me a rimjob (first time in my life), and i accepted it. and it was the greatest feeling in the world. i learned that i get the most physical pleasure when someone tongues my asshole.
years passed and now i'm an alpha who owns multiple fags. even though i'm pretty communicative in bed, i never told them i love getting rimmed. i fear it could hurt the dynamic between us and diminish how they view me as an alpha if they see i get pleasure from my ass. yes, i could force them to suck my ass just like how i make them suck my dick (and they would do it), i fear they start viewling me as less of an alpha as a result. plus, even though i like the feeling of getting rimmed (favourite feeling next to getting my feet worshipped), i don't like the idea of me spreading my asshole for some fag. feels submissive, and it's out of the queston for me to do something that looks submissive from outside.
so what do you think i should do? will my fags see me less of an alpha if i get them to suck my ass? one of my faggots already told me he hates rimming without me bringing it up, and even though i'm a dom, i respect what my subs dislike in bed. i also set up a date with my favourite fag for upcoming friday (valentine's day), so what's the best course of action to let him know that i love getting rimmed without hurting my masculinity?
