How do I proceed?

Hey man, love the info and guidance you share on being a faggot so here’s my questions

im a 26yo guy and have been recently really into being owned and being a faggot for alphas.

i met this one guy of Grindr and it was a transactional thing however he made me feel really comfortable and I think he also felt comfortable around me. The issue is I don’t know if he’s into the alpha and faggot dynamic but he gives off huge God alpha vibes.

I met up with him again yesterday but more to just chat and hang out and he was talking about how he sees other fags for money and I started to get jealous but didn’t make it obvious.

as I’m dropping him off he says he can’t be bothered with meeting up with a random and whipped his cock out, grabbed my hand and made me stroke him and then said I got have to go out if you wanna pay. I was completely took over by this and happily agreed. It felt really good to go and buy him things after I was allowed to drain his 9 inch cock.

i know this is quite long ended but i wanted to know whether you think he’s just here for the money or if he wants a faggot and how can I try to convince him to own me?

thank you