How should I behave with my parents

I came across your website, Hierarchy University, and it was a wonderful discovery. Thank you. It helped me understand a little more about human nature, or at least about my own.

I am a submissive. I don't know if I'm a "faggot" or a "beta" in your hierarchy. I have certainly always been attracted, and now I understand it better, to Alpha men who did as they pleased. These relationships were ruined by the fact that I wasn't always willing to accept the "natural rules" you explained so well and which are made evident by the many testimonies you share.

I always thought these were sick relationships that I was getting into, and only now do I understand that what I was truly looking for was a master to serve and perhaps to adore, a true AlphaGod male. Maybe I'll write to you later and tell you more.

Right now I have a relationship with an alpha male who governs my life a bit, and whom I serve with dedication and respect. He lives at his house with his wife, and I live at my house, but it's as if he lives with me. In fact, I have precise rules to follow: in the morning before going to work, I have to tidy up the whole house and the bathroom, in case he decides to come over. Sometimes he comes with other guys, and he likes to find the house in order. I finish work at 5 PM, then I have two free hours, but at 7:15 PM I have to be home in case he decides to come to my place. Evidently I can also go out some evenings, but I have to ask him for permission at least one day in advance. Asking for his permission and having to wait to make a commitment for an evening is embarrassing and exciting at the same time.

My parents, who don't know about the type of relationship I have with him, will be visiting in the next few days. Before reading your website, I would have kept my relationship with him a secret, begging him to grant me two days of suspension. But now that I better understand that I am part of a higher order, I would like to introduce him to my parents, and I would also like it to be clear to them that I submit to him and that I am happy to do so.

But I wouldn't want to cause pain to my parents or ask him to pretend about our relationship. How should I behave?