Motivation for Chastity

Hello there,

How do I stay motivated to stay in Chastity? I dont have a proper owner- if I did this wouldn't be an issue. I do have some alphas that fuck me on occasion, but it is very causual and not quite an 'owner' situation if you will. Neither of them are very into chastity, and one them actually doesn't want me to wear a cage (he doesnt touch my dick, but I guess he doesnt like the look of them).

But outside of those, I often give in after maybe a week or so and unlock and jerk off 3 to 4 times in a row. How do I stop?