Spreading Legs

I have a dominant boyfriend but I don't fully identify as a faggot. I suck his dick every night, he fucks and breeds me at least 3 times a week, but I don't feel fully submissive in our daily life. Yesterday, we were together on the bus, sitting side by side, his legs were wide open and I didn't have much space. So he told me to cross my legs "like a girl". I did it because I didn't have a lot of space anyway. When we arrived home, he told me that from now on he wants me to cross my legs whenever we are in public, then he said that "my legs should only open for him to fuck my hole."

I can't really talk about these details with my friends because everybody thinks I am a masculine gay and I really don't want people to see me as a faggot. Do you think it is worth it to fight back, or should I just accept that he needs me to be a faggot before he finds another one?