What do you make of me?

Hi Sam,

I'll be honest, your philosophy really intrigues me (much to the horror of my heart lol) but I feel like I don't fit into your hierarchy at all.

Basically, I'm asexual, kind of. I refuse to partake in anything traditionally seen as sex/sexual (anal, bjs, hjs, rimming, etc) because I am sex-repulsed. But, I still get turned on by dominance (and feet/socks lol) and wish to enter a relationship with a slight power imbalance with my partner as the dom.

I wanted to know if you think I still fit into the hierarchy, or if I exist separately from it? Apologies if this is too vague, but I really want to know what you think.

Thanks,

R