Hey! Im still pretty new to being caged and I’m really loving it, it’s what feels most natural to me. One thing I’ve noticed though is that I’m not able to cum while I wear the cage, I’ll finger myself or use a dildo to try and cum because I don’t like jerking, but I can’t actually cum without taking the cage off and jerking. Do you know how to help with this? Or are faggots not supposed to cum? Thank you!

Hi brother! Thank you for writing to me! 

First off, congratulations on starting your journey into chastity! It sounds like you’re already noticing positive changes! Trust me, if you devote yourself to chastity and really meditate on its meaning, you’ll really start to feel a huge difference in your outlook and attitude. Men will notice it as well! 

Also, I commend you for trying to work on your pussy while caged. Chastity has multiple applications for faggots, and one of those involves a faggot discovering the purpose and functions of its pussy because it is no longer able to use its nub for satisfaction. 

Personally, I have never cum while wearing my chastity cage, but I have developed tremendous control nowadays. For you just starting out, it’s probably necessary to expel semen. Ideally you’d want to do this by milking cum out of you by manipulating your prostate with either a finger, or with that dildo. I’ve heard of faggots doing both. I’ve covered them both on this site. If you do a search for the word “milking” in this site’s search bar and you will find posts about that.

On a related note: a reader wrote in about cunting himself with a dildo while trying to milk his prostate. I’ve never experienced that, but it’s technically possible: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/questions-from-readers-450/  

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Hi Sam.

I’m the bottom who wrote you about two weeks ago wondering if I had cunted myself with a dildo. In my first message I mentioned how I started riding my toys without touching my cock and learned how to anal orgasm and that now it was a lot harder to orgasm from jerking off without anal stimulation. Well, I would like to report that two weeks later it is almost impossible for me to orgasm from jerking off even with anal stimulation. My erections are softer and stimulation feels a lot more muted than before. It’s gotten to the point where I could do it for an hour but I still get soft and don’t care about finishing.

The only thing that makes me feel satisfied is a couple anal orgasms now. I think my brain has actually been rewiring since accidentally cunting myself because it’s the only way I can masturbate now. It actually has become a bit of a turn-on like I’m emasculating myself and I’ve started to refer to my ass as a pussy and my orgasms as pussygasms because my penis is no longer a sexual organ. I’ve even been looking at chastity cages to make sure it stays this way.

So my questions are:

Is this a common experience after cunting?

Is this what “the void” is?

Can I still call myself a man after this?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Hi brother! Thanks for the question! 

I’m honestly so glad you wrote in again with such an insightful follow-up, because your first question caused me to really consider self-cunting and the larger implications of the cunting process. Your follow-up touches on some of the same thoughts I had, namely the alterations that happen due to cunting. 

I’ve never self-cunted through anal play like you did, so my viewpoint was skewed. I always attributed the severe changes that occur within a faggot once it’s been cunted to the power of Alpha cock alone, and not the physiological changes within the faggot. But your experience shows that a faggot’s cunting changes its very nature, and not in relation to Alphas at all. It’s interesting. 

To answer your questions:

1 . Yes, what you’re experiencing is very common among cunted faggots. After my first cunting, my urge and ability to masturbate severely decreased. Part of the reason for that (I think) is because the sensations of cunting are so extraordinary that traditional masturbation pales in comparison. But there’s more to it than that.

2. What I call “The Void” is related to cunting in a way, although “The Void” can occur in uncunted faggots. “The Void” is simply the aching emptiness we faggots have after having Alpha dick inside us. That ache causes us to stumble around in a daze in search of having another dick fill it up again. 

3. No, you cannot call yourself a Man after this, because (as you should now realize) you weren’t a Man before you cunted yourself. You acknowledge this in the fact that you’re now referring to your hole as a “pussy”. That’s why I call mine a pussy as well. Every cunted faggot has a transformed view of themselves as something almost like a third gender. That’s why we have a separate word to describe us: FAGGOTS. I suggest that you get used to it.

Semantics aside, I would never insult Men by putting myself in the same category as they are given the mind-shift I’ve experienced through cunting. I’ll never be the same again. 

I’m a little surprised I haven’t heard from faggots who’ve tried (and succeeded) in cunting themselves with large dildos after you published your experience. I know I’ve been eyeing up this huge black dildo I have … but I’d still rather be cunted by actual Alpha dick. But who knows? I’m weak! 

Thanks again, brother!  

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Hi Sam

Sorry in advance but this will be pretty long but I’ve loved your pages for years and would really like some help.
So recently I broke up with my long term boyfriend and turned 21, it’s been a big time of change for me personally and I want truly embrace the faggot I feel like I am inside but I’m a little unsure how to do that.
My ex was a dom and the relationship started as a dom/sub dynamic but evolved into a more typical relationship so I haven’t actually had many true “slave” experiences. I’m on the apps and I’ve ordered myself a cage and dildo so I’m hoping that will help but is there any advice you can give me about other things I can do or places I can go that will help me have more kinky experiences. I definitely know that I am a faggot and would love to be a slave to a dom I just don’t really know how to go about this.

I’ve also got another question about 2 doms I’ve served a few times but that can wait I don’t want this to be too long.

Hope to hear from you, Faggot JJ

Brother, thank you for the question!

I’m not sure there is much advice left to give you, honestly. After all, you’ve already been in a Dom/sub relationship, you recognize what you are, and you’re getting a cage and a dildo to start training yourself. That’s really the perfect starter package for a faggot!

I think you will find that chastity will really transform you in unexpected-but-important ways. Take it seriously, and let it work on you for a while for maximum effect!

The only other thing you’d need to do is eventually search for and find an Alpha to own and train you. That won’t be hard given the self-work you’re doing now!

I’m proud of you for what you’re doing! Faggots who take their natural purpose seriously succeed!

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Hi Sam.

I’m 25 and a bottom.  A total bottom actually – and I read your posts about cunting with great curiosity. After some research on reddit I started to masturbate solely with my dildos while wearing a jockstrap so I wouldn’t jerk off like I used to.  The first time I did this in June I focused solely on the sensations from my ass for the first time ever while riding one of my larger toys. After about five minutes I could feel something building in me and soon I felt like I had to push out. I shoved the head past my second hole while continuing to ride and felt like I was going to pass out from so much pleasure. After about thirty seconds it ended and I released my breath and laid on the floor for a few minutes trying to catch my breath.

I have a couple questions though.  Is this what an anal orgasm is? Ever since I’ve started to have experiences like that it’s a lot harder to cum from jerking off and I need some type of anal stimulation to get me there. Does this mean I’ve cunted myself? Is that even possible?? I’ve been craving anal a lot more than before because it just feels soo good now!

Also I was wondering if an Alpha always has to be a top. Are there Alpha bottoms and Fag tops?

Hi brother! Thank you for the question! 

Wow! You managed to pull off something pretty rare – cunting yourself with a dildo! What you described is a classic cunting, but I’m not sure I’ve ever heard of a credible “self-cunt” (love that term, BTW LOL) until now! 

Yes, it’s definitely possible to do it, as you found out. And, just like any other cunting, you’re now transformed! See what I mean about how being cunted overwhelms your senses and makes you look at everything differently? 

As for your other question, yes a true Alpha is always a Top. It doesn’t make any sense for an Alpha to be dominant while getting fucked. I know there are some “bossy bottoms” out there who mistakenly believe they’re Alpha, but they aren’t. They simply haven’t encountered a real Alpha who would put them in their proper place.  

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Hi sam,

A fellow sub here and first of all, i love your content and the information you give out so freely; it is truly very generous.

A little background about me is that i have only truly started my journey in learning how to serve Men about a week ago. In my previous jobs, i have always felt strangely more compliant and more motivated to work hard whenever a Man asked me to do something for him. After years of consuming gay BDSM porn material and remaining a virgin while lost in my fantasies, i decided it’s time i started living out my truth in my late 20’s at the bottom of the hierarchy and took my first steps to make serving Men a reality.

Mentally, i am already training myself to become more submissive. For physical training, a Dom and i have recently started chatting and He wanted me to begin throat training, starting with a toothbrush since i don’t (yet) own a dildo.

i was wondering if you could suggest any online resources to read on how to improve that sort of physical technique before i start really serving Men.

More than that, please let me know if you have any advice on remaining discreet when practicing for Sirs and Alphas while not having total privacy at home with family (my own room doesn’t even have a working lock ffs). While my family isn’t intrusive at all on what i do, i don’t think it’s feasible to lock myself in the bathroom for hours to train my hole or throat.

Thanks for your time sam!

Thank you for writing! (I wish I wasn’t giving it all away so freely, because it costs me an arm and a leg!)

I’m glad to hear that you’re finally embracing your purpose and you’ve already found a Master willing to throat train you! 

If you look in my “Advice For Faggots” section of the site there are plenty of instructional material in there about cocksucking, although the one huge article I did for FWA isn’t in my archive for some reason. Alternatively, you can search “cocksucker training” and likely come up with some stuff there. 

I don’t know where else you should look except to watch the “videos” section of this site, because even at less than a year old I’ve already amassed one of the finest curated archives of blowjob material anywhere. FWA’s video section (which was eight years old) was head of the class. 

Ultimately, there are no articles or videos that can prepare you for giving a blowjob or training your throat. You really just need to get that dildo and begin trying to take more of it each time and holding it in your throat longer and longer. One pro tip: when you feel like gagging, SWALLOW. Swallowing will not only calm your gag reflex, but it’ll allow more of the dildo/cock to enter your throat! 

Good luck!

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Machines are typically torture devices without true benefit, but this one is quite useful as a training device.

As any face-fucked cocksucker will tell you, a Man is like a machine when rutting, without sympathy.

This machine replicates that nicely!

Is there an image that more completely demonstrates the Alpha/fag dynamic than this one?

Honestly, most Alphas naturally understand this dynamic. They understand it like they understand owning dogs. They don’t claim to understand (or even like) a dog’s behavior, but they know it’s a natural thing to own a dog and enjoy what the dog gives them.

Same with a faggot. This Alpha doesn’t understand why his faggot is the way it is … he just knows it belongs to him and he likes what it does for him.