It’s statistically difficult to find true love in our world today. Something like 60-70% of straight marriages end in divorce, and gay relationships typically fare much worse.

In the Hierarchical world, deep and lasting relationships are almost nonexistent. Sure, it lasts for a while and even burns hotter than any other kind of relationship, but oftentimes one of the two (usually the Alpha) moves onto something more stable and socially-acceptable.

While my efforts on FWA and here (and across my social media) typically don’t deal specifically with finding romance (I’m a realist), I’ve been blessed to be a part of at least four marriages between Alphas and faggots. So I’m saying that love does happen sometimes, even in deeply fetishistic relationships.

I received a remarkable letter from an older faggot named Kevin. He was moved to write to me to share his experience as an exposure faggot for an older Alpha named Dennis after I railed on the worthlessness of exposure faggots. I really wanted to highlight this message, because it should give all faggots hope.

sam the fag,

i recently listened to your podcast deriding exposure fags.  Maybe i can change your mind a bit.  i met my Master in 2007 in the old yahoo chat rooms.  We hit it off immediately and chatted regularly for several months.  Then He ordered me to visit.  He only lived a few hours away so i immediately got in my car.  When i entered His home i immediately dropped to my knees with my head down and it felt better than anything i had done previously in my life.  He ordered me to my feet because HE had other plans

He got out His camera and ordered me to strip, all the while He was taking pictures.  I was nervous having Him document me that way, but i trusted Him.  He then shaved me from the neck down and tied me up using the camera the whole time.  Then I got my reward by sucking His dick

This type of scene happened every time we met.  Eventually he would joke “too bad only the two of us know about these pictures because everyone should know what a faggot you are”.  i would laugh and quickly change the subject.  it made me nervous at the thought of posting my pics to the internet for anyone to see.

One day when i was home and HE texted me one of the photos he took of me and said: “post it faggot”.  i did not hesitate and posted it to my tumblr account.  he texted me “there is my faggot, exposed as it should be”.  That made me so incredibly proud that i pleased Him and that HE wanted to show me off.  This became a regular thing between us.

Master Dennis passed away in 2019 and that devastated me.  Now i am an old faggot in my 60s.  Alphas can have any faggot they want, so why would they want me?  Sometimes i still post pics of me because it makes me feel closer the memory of my Master.  Yes, i want more than that.  I want to serve, and i have not given up my quest to be owned again, but in the meantime exposing keeps me in my fagspace and brings back wonderful memories.

faggot kevin

It’s funny how little memories waft into our lives like a lovingly-remembered scent, and instantly we are back with those we still cherish. This sweet tribute to a long-lost Master felt that way to me.

The Master/faggot dynamic is poorly-understood by most and definitely dismissed, but as Kevin demonstrates here, the dynamic cuts through posturing and exposes the rawness of who we truly are beneath. Masters and faggots share with each other the most primal instincts one can ever reveal, bound by a trust that defies death.

I’m so glad my brother Kevin shared his heartache and longing with me, and now to you. It’s a shared longing, a shared heartache. But ultimately, taking the gamble and exposing ourselves to risk leaves us with tender memories that carry us onward.

Thank you, Kevin.

Hello Sir, I am into exposure – next to being a Finsub. What should I share publicly on the internet and where and what should stay private for masters only?

What you said makes no sense, brother. How can you be into exposure, yet only expose yourself to Masters? That’s not exposure, that’s just annoying Masters and/or sexually assaulting them.

I have a long-standing issue with exposure fags. You guys have it all wrong – being a faggot isn’t about your fetishes and kinks … it’s about serving Men. These Men (particularly Alphas in findom) don’t care about your body or what you’re doing to yourself in pics because the vast majority of them are STRAIGHT. They want your MONEY, not YOU.

Exposure faggots are ultimately worthless. Your fetish and your insistence on pushing it into the DMs of uninterested Masters leads nowhere except an unfulfilled life. Time to grow up.

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Hi I’m James a 33 year old chastity fag.

I am addicted to exposing myself. Mostly on exposure sites such as xxxposed.fun and exxxposeme.com.

I have been addicted to exposure for a while it started back on the days of temporarily.exposed and has been going strong ever since.

I sometimes go through periods of feeling guilty/sickened by the fact I do this but I always come crawling back and can’t seem to help myself.

I love the feeling of being humiliated, of having random men having access to my humiliating pictures and videos and sharing them beyond my control.

My question for you is in two parts

1. What can I do to help get more exposure/humiliation? Should I be taking specific types of pictures? Or are there sites/places I can use to expose myself?

2. Is there anything I can do to counteract the guilty/sickened feeling I get occasionally? I want a way to not back out of my exposure.

I appreciate any advice you can give.

You’re really asking the wrong person about this because I DESPISE exposure faggots. I think you’re all a titanic waste of everyone’s time. You do nothing productive, and all you care about is satisfying your own useless fetish. I have routinely shut down any requests to help exposure faggots since the early days of FWA, when I would invariably be asked to take down the exposure posts after the faggot got cold feet. Honestly, I hate even giving your stupid fetish this much bandwidth on my site.

But here are my answers to your two questions:

1. I don’t give a fuck.
2. Yeah … grow up.

Hope that helps!

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Declan and I are pretty much an open book on here but he likes to keep it discreet when out with friends. What happened yesterday shocked me.

We were out with 3 of our close friends and one guy who we never met that now lives here but originally from Alabama.

We were having a few beers, shots of tequila and enjoying each other’s company on a heated patio.  The conversation turned into fucking bottoms. Most were going around telling some of their recent stories.  All were going in details of how they would fuck a slut but the new guy John confessed being a total bottom and he kept looking at me while telling some stories.  I can tell that he had the hots for me and my boyfriend also noticed it.

It was now my turn and Declan interrupted me before I spoke and looked at John and said: “I’m assuming you think Zack is a top?”

John: “Yes and probably a dom top”

Declan laughed and said: “He has been my bottom for many years and would do anything to top but I don’t allow it. I made sure of that”

John: “What do you mean?”

Everyone now paid close 

attention to Declan’s every word. 

Declan: “Let’s just say I keep his cock secure and under lock and key”

The group started to laugh as I just got outed by my boyfriend and my face turned so red of embarrassment and humiliation. That’s when John stopped looking at me and was paying more attention to Declan.

This guy was so hot and my bf cock blocked me!!!  Not only did he steal John’s attention from me but now all my friends know that my cock is locked in chastity.

Later on I went for a smoke and the guy followed me: “Zack you are fucking hot but I can’t do anything with you since you don’t even have access to your own pathetic cock. Your boyfriend’s dominance over you in front of your friends got me so hard. Hope that’s ok to say.  I love how he owns your cock and controls you.

You mind if I sit by him when we go back to the table?”

Me: “Sure”

We continued socializing at the table, the conversation switched to work and living in the big city. I was no longer under the spot light which was nice.  

Later I went for another smoke (vape) and came back to find Declan and John missing from the table. I asked my friends if they knew where they were and one of my buddies said “Probably gone to the washroom together to take care of some business.” as he laughed.

15 minutes later, they walked back together and both had a huge smile on their face.  That’s when Declan said I needed to pay our bill and call an Uber as we should head out and go home.

At home I asked what happened and he said: 

“I was hard watching John admiring you and I decided to let him suck me before I fucked my load in his ass in the washroom stall. If you weren’t locked, I would have let you get a blow job from him but you are locked.   Thought I lend my bone to him and be nice to the new guy 😜”

Me: “I’m happy you got serviced by the Hotty!”

Declan: “I’m going to bed, come suck my cock for a bit until I fall asleep and you probably get to taste him”

So I sucked his cock for a few minutes while he was on his phone. I made sure it was nice and clean and he eventually fell asleep. 

I went back to the living room to have a beer and think about everything that happened tonight.

Shortly after, I received a text from a number I didn’t recognize: “Hey it’s John, thanks for letting me spend time with your boyfriend.  I hear you got to taste my ass a while ago.  See you on Tuesday!”

I found out today that on Tuesday he is coming over and they are going out to have dinner and see a movie. I will be told if I can join or not that day.

If anyone would like to chip in with their night out, then you can help out by going to Declan’s PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/JkToronto?locale.x=en_CA

As I am writing this I am straining in my cock that has been locked for 156 days.

I journal everyday on X/Twitter & Bluesky:

JKTORONTO11

Hey Sam! Glad to see you back! Your website was one of the main reasons of me coming to terms of being a faggot and accepting that. During the time that you were away, I was lucky to serve an alpha online for a few months after I found his personal ad looking for subs and then reaching out. I sent him a few photos of myself and he liked them and took me in to serve him.

Our main dynamic of service was he would give me a task, sometimes with photo examples, which I would then photo or record myself doing. He would sometimes take these photos and videos, edit them and put them in an online album and make that album public for people to see for a short time before privating the album again. These photos got quite a few views, not just a few dozen but my first time being exposed got 600 views.

The photos and videos I sent them were really humiliating, they had me naked, riding a dildo and other degrading things. Eventually he convinced me to start including my face which he would then edit out for my online exposure, but the face videos and pictures were for him to use and share with his alpha friends (not sure if he shared edited versions). I eventually backed out of the relationship after one of my family members died and I used it as an excuse to get out of the relationship since I started getting scared of the consequences of exposure, even though he never showed signs of abusing his power. He made it clear he didn’t want me to talk to him again but I sometimes think of going back to him and apologizing so I can serve him again, however I still don’t know how to feel about the exposure aspect as it’s quite scary.

So my question to you Sam is, despite exposure being enticing for some faggots, do you feel like it is safe for an alpha to be able to use exposure as a form of service and where do you stand on it? Have you heard of other examples of faggots and alphas using exposure in service?

Thanks Sam for all your work!

Thanks for the question and the support, brother!

I’m not sure why any Alpha would only want a faggot to serve by submitting pics of itself simply for exposure. I don’t understand the fetish, I guess. Maybe the Alpha was getting off on the power of making you do these humiliating things? No idea.

I do understand why some faggots crave exposure and humiliation of this sort, but in my experience the thrill only lasts as long as it takes for them to cum. Then they feel regret and want to take back what they shared. This is why I stopped doing exposure for faggots a long time ago. I don’t have the time to go search for the material I exposed and erasing it whenever the fag has second thoughts. As for your direct question, I think it’s perfectly safe for Alphas do get involved with exposing faggots. What’s the danger for them?

However, my original question remains: what’s in it for them in the first place? Thanks brother!

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