The following post is part of a thread following Master Nathan, the Alpha husband of a faggot, as he applies Hierarchical principles to deepen and solidify their relationship. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!

I was intrigued when a message from an Alpha by the name of Master Nathan dropped into my “Questions From Readers” inbox regarding his marriage to an obvious faggot partner. Master Nathan wanted to help his husband embrace his faghood and become more comfortable with letting go of the fear that restricted him.

So often when I receive these kinds of messages, I never heard from them again with updates. But I was pleasantly surprised when I received the following email regarding their progress:

Just writing to update you, as I was able to take homecumming leave back to Texas to see my husband and family in person for the first time in a good while. We have been discussing our relationship in terms on hierarchy for a minute now and, God damn are the effects immediately apparent. As soon as we got home from the airport my fag closed the door behind him, stripped, and began pulling at the hem of my jeans to get at me. While this was incredibly hot, I chastised him and called him impatient- as I mentioned originally it was always me initiating sex prior to our discussion of his faggotry and what it means for our relationship. While I only meant to tease him he seemed to take it to heart and apologized, preparing me a quick snack and a bringing me a drink before sitting down on the couch with me to enjoy our first meal together in over 6 months. Still nude, he sat in my lap as we shared a sandwich. Fuck am I glad to call him my husband. Once he took the plate he kneeled before me on the couch again. Obviously he was anxious to initiate again after my teasing, but it was clear what he needed. I asked him for another beer and as I opened the can I unzipped and gave him the go ahead with a nod. I made sure not to let him take off my briefs at first, and let him get used to my scent again, just keeping him between my thighs and pressing his nose and mouth against my growing bulge. The underwear were soaked by the time I told him to take them off.

Later on during my visit the effect showed in different ways. He’s always been a bit anxious in crowds or around new people so while at a concert I danced with my arms around him from behind. When I tried to separate myself for a few moments to clap or dance on my own he eagerly held onto my arms when I came back and after said how much being held helped his anxiety. While dancing I got hard and let myself grind against him while dancing. I knew his anxiousness with crowds would prevent us from going too far but couldn’t help myself from bringing my arms from around his shoulders to his hips and pulling him into me further.

Once we returned to the car he got into the backseat rather than the front passenger and again stripped as soon as the door closed behind him. I let him sit naked back there before finding an isolated place to pull off to the side and join him in the backseat.

As far as decision making goes, we went shopping for groceries together and talked about recipes I use to get more fiber. He’s been anxious about his weight (stupid bc his tiny belly is so cute to me) but was excited when I told him more veggies would help with that while also making prepping for sex easier for him.

I’m headed back to work this week and just wanted to thank you on behalf of both of us for the perspective that has enhanced out marriage.

My heart fluttered when I read these words: “We have been discussing our relationship in terms on hierarchy for a minute now and, God damn are the effects immediately apparent.” Nothing changes an interpersonal situation like the application of Hierarchical mechanics! It literally informs everything in every relationship we have in life, so how would it not improve Master Nathan’s marriage?

I’m just glad to see how deftly he’s applying his natural power as an Alpha to help his faggot husband embrace his truth! It sounds like his faggot is really flourishing in deeper levels of subspace!

After receiving the above letter, I wrote this to Master Nathan:

You don’t really mention it, but I’m curious – do you feel that moving into the role of Owner and Master (rather than only a husband) has helped YOU grow? How has this change helped you grow and embrace your personal power as an Alpha?

His reply was quite powerful:

Good question Sam. 

To be honest, I don’t really think about it all that much. I’ve never been powerless so the extent of my “alpha power” growing is mainly just felt in the way we’ve interacted together. In public I do take care to make sure he’s as comfortable as possible, whereas before I was a bit more concerned with not being overbearing. I’ll make sure to take the keys even when we take his vehicle, keep him at my side especially in crowds, etc. I’ve enjoyed the ways he’s responded to my embracing the power dynamic. But as for ME not much has changed except for much less hesitation on my part. Now that I know he WANTS to serve and be submissive to me, I don’t have to worry about taking the lead and steamrolling any of his actions or ideas. I guess I would call that freedom, not being held back by a desire to keep things between us completely even. He has expressed gratitude that he has much less to worry about with me around as most things are taken care of for him. We both were dreading my return to work as it means he has to be a lot more self sufficient and I don’t have access to my prince of a faggot. But we’ve made it through long stretches of LDR before and we look forward to me moving back home full time once my contract is up. 

Master Nathan here correctly identifies the give-and-take aspect of Hierarchical power dynamics. For him to feel complete as an Alpha, he needs his faggot to fully submit … and for his faggot to fully submit, he needs to feel safe expressing his dominance. Very important understanding!

I love seeing Hierarchical principles save relationships! I’ve helped enough people with it to confidently say it’s usually one of the major issues between couples straight and gay, but it goes unrecognized because people don’t understand Hierarchy.

But I do!

Thank you Master Nathan for continuing to share your insights!

The following post is part of a thread detailing the awakening of a straight God Alpha named Kenzo by his lifelong faggot Kevin. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I love awakening straight God Alphas. Throughout my life I have been responsible for multiple God Alpha awakenings, both in my personal life as well as my online Hierarchical teaching “career”. There is nothing like that moment when a God Alpha’s eyes are opened to the truth about himself, about his place in Hierarchy, and, most importantly, everything that is now possible in his life.

The impossible suddenly becomes not only possible, but probable.

When Master Kenzo’s lifelong faggot Kevin first opened his eyes to the truth about his Alphahood and the ownership of inferior males, I don’t know that any of us realized exactly how much power coursed through Master Kenzo. At a glance, Master Kenzo seemed like practically any other young straight Alpha who was married with kids.

But Kevin hinted early on that Master Kenzo was different. He told me there was an undeniable and irresistible control and magnetism about his Alpha friend, something so powerful he couldn’t resist it any longer. With my encouragement, Kevin opened up the Pandora’s Box of Master Kenzo’s Alphahood …

… And a Kraken emerged, awe-inspiring in power and hungry for world domination.

In almost no time flat, Master Kenzo made the leap to faggot owner and breeder, quickly accepting that it is his natural right to use anyone or anything he wants. However, owning and using faggots is easy when you’re as powerful as Master Kenzo.

But there is a greater expression of power than that: the cucking and submitting of other straight Men.

Listen to Master Kenzo’s description of what he just did a couple of days ago:

Since you’re very well versed in Hierarchy matters, I want your insight on something. I’m in the process of acquiring new slaves, looking first at my former submissive high school classmates.

There is one I have some contacts with and who lives not far away. He was of those thugs bullying weak boys and to whom I gave a proper beating, after which he became an obedient buddy. He’s married to an ex-girlfriend, who ended up with him after I dumped her, although since then I have still fucked her from time to time. I’m thinking I could enslave them both and considering how to do it.

As mentioned, I got in touch with the former high school mate I had put in his place. I went over to his place to share a few beers. In friendly conversation, I had fun reminding him how badly I kicked his ass and how obedient he had become afterwards. He laughed awkwardly and said “I knew better than to mess with you!” and I then I knew I had a free path. I even said: “I’m sure if I had told you to kiss My feet in front of everyone, you would have!” He was visibly embarrassed, but replied, “You’d already humiliated me in front of everyone, anyway!”

As I was sitting in front of him, I slumped back in My armchair, stretched, put My socked feet on his lap and watched for his reaction. He didn’t object and carried on as if nothing had happened. After a moment, I said: “Why don’t you rub them?” He paused, reluctant. “Come on, buddy, be a nice boy, I need it!” With an uneasy chuckle, he began to rub My feet. After a while, as we were talking about his wife, My ex-girlfriend, I said: “You know I still fuck her now and then, right? After all, it would be hard for her to give up the best sex after having enjoyed a taste of it.”

He was shocked and angry. I think he had some suspicions, but for Me to tell him so openly obviously hurt and humiliated him deeply. He pushed My feet away and said very angrily “Wait, are you serious right now”? I got up and approached him menacingly: “What? You want to try and get your lost male honor back? Go on, we’ll see if the result will be different this time.” After a few seconds, he lowered his eyes. “That’s more like it”, I said, and I sat back down and rested back My feet on his lap.

He remained quite silent for the next few minutes while I was chattering to him about My fucks with his wife, when she came home. He pushed My feet away again immediately, but I got up and went to greet her before he did. “Hey babe, I just talked to your husband, he’s OK with us having sex! How about it, right now?” She was very surprised, glanced at her husband who was remaining silent and looking away, then she enthusiastically replied “Sure, why not!”

We went to their bedroom and I fucked her like a bitch (including My favorite position: foot on her head). I think her screams were very audible. When I let her rest in bed and went back into the living room, he was playing video games with the headphones on and the sound very loud! I sat down on the sofa and tapped him on the shoulder. “Hey, buddy, I’m exhausted from making your wife orgasm, I could use another foot massage while I rest.” He reluctantly sat in front of Me, remaining silent, his face tight and angry, but massaged My feet while I played his game console.

She must have been asleep, because I didn’t see her again that night and, an hour later, when I got up, I said to the inferior boy: “You know what? You actually should kiss My feet and thank Me for pleasuring your wife better than you do.” Once again, he remained frozen, silent, eyes downcast. I slammed My fist into my palm and said, “Or maybe I should teach you some manners?” Then he rushed to kiss My feet and mumbled, “Thank you for fucking my wife.” “That’s better. Good boy.” I said.

THIS is how it’s done!

I really wish more Alphas understood the incredible and unlimited nature of their own power. Of course, not every Alpha is a God Alpha, but every Alpha has within him the ability to flex his superiority in any circumstance and take what he wants.

The real difference here is that Master Kenzo has the WILL and the HUNGER to match his indominable God Alpha power.

Flushed with adrenaline, notice what Master Kenzo chose to do immediately after this dramatic conquest:

I can tell you: when I went back to My second home, I fucked Kevin harder than ever. The poor boy was pretty roughed up, as I slapped and spat at him. But I cuddled him and reminded him how much I love him.

Notice he didn’t run home to his wife, but instead he chose to mount and breed his conquered faggot Kevin. Why? Because that was a night of conquest, a night of Kingdom building, and it was important to Master Kenzo that he keeps all aspects of his reign in submission.

But Master Kenzo is far, far from done.

So, as you can see, I’ve made pretty good headway. But it’s far from complete yet. I want more.

I want him to kiss My feet right in front of her, maybe even suck My dick. I want her to watch and see that the man she had chosen to marry is inferior to Me and is made to submit to Me. And I want him to actually watch and see Me fucking his wife and hear her cries of ecstasy with My cock inside her. I want him to worship Me while I fuck his wife.

And in due time, I want to fuck him like a bitch. I want to deprive him of his last remaining vestiges of manhood. He will cry hard, I’m sure, but he will thank Me later, when he enjoys the true delight of servitude to Me.

You know what, faggot? I truly love power. I love being a God. I love being Me.

I asked Master Kenzo about cucking his faggot, and he replied this way:

I think I’m going to absolutly love cuckolding. I’m going to love breaking other males and making them accept their place below Me within the great order of Male Hierarchy. I so much enjoyed to humiliate him this much and to see the defeat in his eyes, to see him realize that even as a straight married man, he was still doomed to bow to My superiority, whenever and howerver I would decide.

I won’t stop until his humiliation is complete. I’m going to mercilessly eradicate every single last tiny drop of ego and pride in him, until he’s nothing but a grateful worm at My feet. So I have decided.

I wonder if he’s already processing that he will never father child of his own. I won’t permit it. His wife’s womb is Mine.

I’m going to love My life.

Master Kenzo is in his early twenties, and he’s already doing things that even more experienced Alphas hesitate to try. He’s unstoppable.

He’s the very definition of a God Alpha. We’ve awakened an Alpha Beast of apocalyptic power, and he will not be satisfied until he’s consumed the world.

And we will be grateful as he feasts.

Hi brother!!
I am 19 and I serve a 33-year-old Master. We live together as husbands, but we are not equals at all. I am totally submissive to him. I love him from the bottom of my heart and wanna serve him more and more.

I am his type (smooth skinny twink) and try my best to be a good faggot for him and look attractive. However, he only uses me sexually twice a week. He usually fucks me on Saturday and Wednesday, sometimes three times a week but never more than that. Is this normal for an Alpha in his 30s? He says I am perfect for him but sometimes I think that I could be better and turn him on more. What do you think? I see some Alphas around my age claiming to fuck their faggots every single day. Is this normal for an Alpha at age 33 to cum only twice a week, or he is probably using other faggots?

Thank you, Sam! I love your website.

Thanks for writing. I’d hate to make any guesses here because I don’t want to create mistrust between you and your Master/husband. I do think it’s unusual that he’s only using you twice a week (on a schedule, even!) when he’s just 33 years old. Alphas in their early thirties are still near the top of their sexual powers, so it’s hard to believe he doesn’t need to empty his balls more often.

Of course, there are other factors to consider. How stressful is his job? Sometimes Alphas with high-stress jobs struggle to get worked up for sex because of the massive amounts of tension in their work life. 

But my gut feeling is he has a faggot(s) on the side he’s using, too. If so, I’m mystified as to why he thinks he needs to hide it from you, his primary faggot. He’s an ALPHA. Not only are they programmed to spread their seed, they have a natural right to use whomever they want. As an Owner of you, a faggot, he should already know that he simply needs to tell you that these are the rules, and you will obey. 

If he is using others, I suppose he’s keeping it from you because he cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt you. However, true faggots are not wired that way. We almost get turned on when our Masters go out and hunt/breed other faggots. It simply verifies in our mind why we serve them in the first place.

I’d like you to show your Master this answer and see what he thinks about what I’ve said. 

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Hey Sam, I’m so happy you’re back!

I have a tricky question for you but I would really appreciate your help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years. I was 18 and he was 21 when he started dating. At first it was a regular vanilla top-bottom couple. I was a full bottom and he a full top, but nothing more than that. After 6 months together, he started to call me faggot during sex when the rut got really intense. I didn’t like at first, but he trained me more and more to accept it. With time, he turned me into a full faggot and I embraced it. I cook and clean for him, he has full access to my body and I never say no, even when I’m not in the mood for sex.

The problem is: although I accept to be his owned faggot, we are also husbands, and I don’t wanna lose that. I really love him and I want to have a family and children with him one day. My main concern is that he has been bringing up more and more having a threesome with another sub bottom. He’s obsessed with that twink Sam Ledger (do you know him?), and frequently tells me to suck his dick while he watched Sam getting fucked. I don’t mind doing this because I know how much it pleases him, but every time he cums in my mouth watching Sam Ledger he says that it would be so hot to have a twink like him in our bed. This is what scares me… I’m 25 now and I’m not getting younger. Do you think that some Alphas can stay monogamic for their whole lives and have a happy “traditional” marriage? This is my dream, to be honest. I really don’t like the idea of him fucking other bottoms but I don’t want him to break up with me and find a hotter twink either.

Do you have any ideas of how I could manage this? He hasn’t fucked me in the past 2 weeks, yet every night he demands a blowjob while he watches Sam… I understand his needs, but it hurts my feelings to think that I’m not as attractive as these models.

Thank you! It’s wonderful to have you back here.

You pose a difficult question, and I’m not sure you’re going to entirely like my answer.

First of all, I’m of the opinion that it’s practically impossible for an Alpha to be 100% monogamous. They’re simply not built to be monogamous. They have a deep-seated need to hunt, conquer, and breed. 

Added to that biological programming is the pervasiveness of internet porn, which has trained Alphas to think all sex and sexual partners should be like what they see in video clips. That’s not realistic, of course. You as a marriage partner shouldn’t need to compete against fancy editing, professional makeup and lighting, and overdubbed moaning. But that’s the world we live in today.

I commend you for accepting the faggot role he forced onto you. It was, no doubt, jarring and uncomfortable. But I want you to try something … I want you to lean into the faggot thing. Greet him at the door on your knees. Kiss his feet. Call him Sir or Master. Become that faggot slut he seeks with Sam Ledger. Let’s see if your husband comes around with a little change like that. 

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Hi there. I hope I’m not asking questions that have been answered elsewhere. I’m a 29 year old fag who is married to a great guy who treats me well. We met when we were 19, so we’ve been together a very long time, and we love each other a lot. However, I’ve always had this feeling that something is missing in our relationship. I’ve always wanted to be dominated, to be subservient, to hand over control and decisions to someone. I thought it was just a kink, that I was a submissive bottom, and that my husband dominating me in the bedroom once in a while would satisfy those desires. My husband, an enthusiastic top, and even a little dominant, happily obliged. But always at my urging. And always stopping just short of where I wanted him to go, always cautious and never pushing my limits. He bought me a chastity cage, but he doesn’t order me to wear it and doesn’t hold me accountable when I fail to, so I’m essentially self-locked. And the domination always stops when we leave the bedroom. Over the years it has become clear to me that my husband is definitely kinky, and willing to explore my sexual fantasies, but at the end of the day will always view me as an equal. But I’ve also come to the realization that I am a faggot at heart. I don’t want to be equal. I want to be made to submit, to be told when and how to serve, to make a superior Alpha man happy with my submission. I’ve talked to my husband about this. We’ve had an open relationship since the beginning, and he’s been willing to let me explore these feelings both with him and other men. It’s been difficult though. My husband continues to wait for me to ask to be dominated before taking control. I’ve had a couple encounters with Alpha men who have used me, and those experiences have been incredible and I crave more. But I feel limited in how well and often I can serve due to my relationship, and thus somewhat unfulfilled. I know I could be a good faggot if simply allowed to. I don’t want to be a faggot just occasionally on the weekends. I want to grow into my potential.  I guess I’m looking for advice. How can I explain to my husband that this is more than just a kink? Is it possible that by treating my man more like an Alpha, he may grow into the role? Or that I might find an Alpha or Alphas who can fit into our existing relationship dynamic? I love my husband and I want to be with him. But I know I won’t be truly happy if I don’t become the best faggot I can be. Thank you for reading. I’ll appreciate hearing any thoughts you might have on this. <3

This is a VERY common issue with gay couples. It’s a frustrating one because the established relationship (and the roles in it) acts as another barrier to fulfillment for whichever member needs something different, 
 
Fortunately, a faggot can appeal to a Top much easier than an Alpha might appeal to a bottom, if that makes any sense. As you’ve said, your Top boyfriend has already expressed some amount of dominance toward you. The chastity cage raised my eyebrows, too. So clearly, your Top boyfriend has some interests in dominating you. 
 
However, I think he’s pulling back on it because he thinks of this as a “kink” instead of a very real need you have to serve. This is also a very common problem with Tops – they cannot wrap their minds around the fact that their bottom actually needs to be OWNED and USED like property. But that is exactly what faggots crave, and why we are born. 
 
You need to break through to your boyfriend. I mean seriously, start calling him “Sir” all the time, start sitting at his feet, stop eating at the table with him, ask his permission when you leave the room, start serving him all the time on every occasion. He doesn’t open his own doors anymore, etc. Really lean into being his FAGGOT in all aspects, and see how he reacts. This will either trigger his Alpha instincts (if he has them), or it will upset him. At least then you’ll know. 

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