Hi! First time writing here so please forgive me for any errors. I am a college student at a school in a large city. I have talked to quite a few masters on Grindr and even scheduled meeting times. I’m so excited for them then… I bail. I’ve done it multiple times and I feel terrible. I really want to try to submit. It’s just so scary to commit to meeting up. How do I get over this and how do I best serve a master the first time we meet up?

Thanks!

Thank you for writing! 

Well, you’re definitely not alone in this, brother. Meeting a new potential Master can be intimidating, especially online when guys can pretend to be anything (which is why I don’t care for that method). 

But here’s the problem you’re facing: doing NOTHING leads to NOTHING, right? 

At some point we all must engage with our lives and make uncomfortable choices. Through those uncomfortable choices – let’s call them challenges instead – we learn and we grow. 

So really, the answer to this is really inside of you. Do you want to live a life in dreams, or do you want a dream life? 

If/when you decide to meet a Master, immediately kneel and kiss his feet. The Master will direct you from there most likely, but you want to make the first effort to show your submission to him.

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