Hi Sam, I hope you’re having a great day.

I am 20y.o. fag, from Spain, and I seem to have kind of a problem but I don’t see it like that, and I just need a wise advice.

I have come across a lot of alphas, older than me, whom I have liked and have given me truly moments when I am enjoying my best ‘fag life’; however, they seem to dislike me when I get into my brat attitude, but it doesn’t come out of nowhere.

I have noticed that the doms I have encountered are so decided to get you, to own you, to dominate you at first, and then… they just become a dead body on the couch giving orders, and I am like… ‘you know that I’ll do anything you ask me, can you just… I don’t know, move? go back to be that man that was obsessed touching me and enjoying me like the object I am’.

Am I the drama? HAHAHAHA thank u! xoxo.

Brother, life is not like porn. You want to have wild sex and be used constantly and treated like a hot sex object all the time, but everyday life doesn’t work like that. Men have lives, jobs, taxing issues on their minds, and (if you’re serving older Alphas) less stamina and energy when they’re older. 

You think it’s supposed to a whirlwind of sex and orgasms and cum flying everywhere, but that’s not realistic. Moreover, the real magic of the Alpha/fag dynamic isn’t just with sex … it’s in the everyday service and submission of a faggot to its Master. 

So yes, you and your bratty, self-centered attitude is the problem here, but you’ll grow out of it.

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Hi sam,  i want to thank you for bringing your site back and giving giving a voice to faggots like myself. So many of us feel alienated and alone. As for myself, i have always struggled with similar emotional, physical and financial issues. The posts from faggots voicing to their struggles are powerful and helpful. It may be difficult and unconventional, but it is fierce how so many are taking matters into their own hands and making their lives better.

Thank you brother for your kind words! I like highlighting faggots who have overcome repression, poor self-esteem, and fear in order to find fulfillment. I’m grateful to ones like you and the other brave faggots who have lent their examples!

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Hey Sam, I’m a faggot from Aus I’m 21 years old about a year ago I had a sub/dom relationship with a dom we both got along and only spoken online for a year but he knew all my limits and safe words prior to us meeting I arrived and everything was going well until I kept saying my safe word and he didn’t stop I got to the point where I froze and saying my safe word and stop I left and blocked him on everything but I haven’t been able to have the courage to put myself with a man or a dom since so I guess my question is am I overreacting with my last dom and how should I get over it, thank you for making a beautiful platform I do agree with your views.

It’s impossible to answer this since you told me nothing about the encounter. What was happening that caused you to use a safe word? Did he rape you? Did he pass go without paying $200 in Monopoly? Because I don’t know what happened, I can’t tell if you overreacted or not, right? 

My gut tells me you did overreact, because this Dom took his time with you, indicating a thoughtful approach on his part. But without the information, I hesitate to venture a firm guess. 

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