Hello fag Sam, it’s me Flynn from Ask a Question. Just know that I don’t really have the time to explore my Alphaness (if this word exists).

What you said about ‘Alpha Latency’ really clicked with me because I do feel like a need of domination and control that other Alphas have. I struggle with social anxiety and I grew up with poor self confidence. Although, the friends I’ve made along the way made me more confident. 

I’m gay and I’ve always had female friends and I never got to really connect with Men (especially Straight Alphas). I think this why I thought I should serve Men, because I didn’t connect with them. Right now, I’m 19 and still have female friends but I’m craving to know more guys that could guide me into domination and control. I’m talking to some subs and fags and I feel like I’m making the right choices. 

Here are my questions : Do you know how can I socialize with more masculine Men (I don’t go to the gym and I’m thinking of starting American football but I don’t have the time because of school) ? How do you think I should engage with fags when I’m talking and meeting them (I still haven’t met one yet) ? What attitude should I have in society (I have social anxiety, I don’t have the posture of Apex Alphas and I’m not a loud person) ? Lastly, what kind of clothing do you think I should wear to let fags know that I’m an Alpha (since I’m not muscular) ?

I’m looking forward in your answers (take the time you need to answer my questions), 

Just know that I really appreciate your work and want you to be the best fat you could be in order to be a model for new fags,

Have a good evening and good week,

Flynn

Sir, thank you for writing!

Alpha latency is one of those subjects that not many people understand. I only understand it because I decided to chronicle and deeply interview so many Alphas, and inadvertently helped some Alphas overcome the syndrome. 

Gay Alphas dealing with latency are particularly difficult because there are so many other pressures affecting it. By that I mean pressures of gay masculinity, and the societal-influenced inferiority complex many gays have. Sometimes it’s hard to know where the truth lies in-between the shadows that form the lives of gays and gay Alphas.

You have an added layer of social anxiety to cut through, making a diagnosis much harder to make. But keep in mind that social anxiety doesn’t rule out Alphahood for you. Sigmas are known as “lone wolf Alphas” and are largely quiet and reserved socially. 

I think you’re doing the right thing by examining this about yourself and reaching out to explore with faggots. 

To answer your specific questions:

1. If you’re looking to socialize with more masculine Men, school should provide plenty of opportunities. High school and college are hotbeds of Alpha development. Not sure what the fraternity situation is like at your school, but that would be a great place. I would just try to move in different circles and try to engage with these Alphas.
2. Faggots aren’t really that hard to find, Sir. You can use apps, or you can probably see them on campus. Engaging with them would involve you taking the lead with any faggot you talk to. You need to keep in mind that faggots exist to please Alphas like you. They WANT to be used by you. 
3. In society, you may not feel this way but society needs Alphas of all varieties taking the lead. It’s YOUR world, Sir. Even if you move silently and work locally, you can affect change and make things into whatever you choose.
4. There’s not really any clothing that denotes “Alpha”. Your Alphahood comes from your confidence and the way you interact with others – solid eye contact, unflinching conversation. 

I’m not sure any of that will help you, but I hope it gives you food for thought. Thank you so much for writing, Sir!

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Hi Sam – I wonder what you think of faggot couples – fags who form a relationship with another (or more than one) fag? In some ways I can see the logic of it, as you understand each other’s inadequacy and need for humiliation and domination. Over the years I have had offers from others who were (looking back) clearly fags as well and whom I’d shared master slave sessions with as slaves. I found that I got on with some of them incredibly well. It felt like a brotherhood (or sisterhood!) situation, rather than a competition, which I liked, but I never followed through with any of them as I couldn’t see the point if two fags could not hope to satisfy each other, and it wouldn’t feel right to try to satisfy another inferior male anyway; they wouldn’t deserve that; nor would I. I wonder, though, if maybe I’ve been too quick to write that idea off.  A good friend of mine of many years has confessed to being a fag as well – he used to be a gay ‘top’ (even fucked his what I now know to be) loser seed into me a few times back then. Since then he has become a sissy bottom gay and more and more a sub and a slave and we have served real men together quite a few times now.  I directed him to the Hierarchy site and he read a lot on here and really seems to get it and he says he feels like ‘fag’ is the right term for him. I’m very pleased that we has come to understand his true self in the way I have, and we’ve become closer than ever. I don’t know if it is worth going further down that road with another inferior fag, though.

Have you had any experience of this?

thanks, FagJason

I’ve never been coupled with another faggot, and that will never happen. If I’m not serving an Alpha full-time, I’m far too independent and prefer to run on my own. I have a couple of faggot friends in my personal life, and I wouldn’t live with them if they paid my rent for me. 

On the other hand, I would gladly serve a Master alongside his other faggots if that ever came up. The saving grace is, of course, the Master’s presence for stability. 

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I was trained to Pleasure and serve But my trainer wanted more at the time He was training me to take over for him. My trainer is died but his last words was I take his place. I have honored everything he has trained me as but this I am having trouble with this. I like serving I like being on my knees. I have a Handler that I serve and pleasur. I belong to him. My gawd we are married and I am still his. I know I have a dom side I know How to train I did it in the past. Like it no I rather Be a sub that serves and pleasures. But I hold Honor above everything I have Honored my trainer his teaching and my Handler agrees I should not stop Honoring him. How can I honor his last words and take his place when it means giving up what I enjoy the most?

I don’t think I fully understand this oddly-worded question, but I’ll take a stab at it.

If you want to serve your dead “Trainer”, then you should become what you were born to be, not trained to be. If you’re truly a sub at heart, then any attempt to be like what your Trainer hoped you’d be would all just be a lie, and you would fail at it. 

We are all born with a place. Staying true to that is crucial.

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Most of the time it isn’t the service that causes a fåggot to submit to an Alpha, but rather it’s the mind-fuck prior to that.

Listen to the way this Master talks to his fåg, priming it to give him everything he wants from it.