Hello Sam, I’m at a tough spot as a 24 year old fag. All my friends are dating and want to get me on dating apps and start going out with guys to get a boyfriend. Right now my priority is finding an Alpha to serve, but I’m having trouble balancing these two separate sides of my life. What do I do?

Thank you for the question! 

I’m a little surprised that there aren’t more questions like yours, honestly. I would imagine this would be on the minds of a lit of faggots!

The ideal circumstance would be to find an Alpha who could also be a boyfriend, like Declan and Zack that are featured here on this site. It happens a lot, so I wouldn’t discount that.

If that’s not possible, then here’s my take as based on plenty of empirical experience: Your desire for a boyfriend can be satisfied within the confines of serving an Alpha, but your needs as a faggot will never be met by a regular boyfriend. The need to serve Alphas is so primal, so hardwired into us that it’s impossible to lock it away. You’d be in that relationship with a vanilla boyfriend and forever be gazing distractedly at the horizon thinking about that ache to serve. 

In fact, it’s this powerful need to serve that distinguishes faggots from gay bottoms. It can’t be ignored.

So my advice is to specifically seek an Alpha near your age who is looking for a bottom/faggot to have as a boyfriend. Then you can have your cake and eat it, too! 

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You see the porn. You read the stories.

You’re turned on by dominant Alphas.

You feel a strange pull to serve them.

What does this mean? Are you a fåggot?

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Hi there, I remember your earlier series of podcasts and where you discussed Apex Lias. You’re probably aware that he’s deleted his Twitter and Instagram recently. What’s interesting is that I feel Lias’ power and influence has grown significantly over the years, basically the extent of his apex alpha-ness is far stronger and more developed than it was back when you did that earlier podcast, given the number of people who followed him. And likewise of course Lias has become even more attractive, muscular and frankly even more hung (his cock is now longer and thicker than ever), causing him to exude even more powerful energy. Is this sort of growth typical for apex’s or is this a factor of his own drive/determination? Hopefully he will return to social media at some point.

Thanks for the question!

Actually, with everything that has been happening since my return, I didn’t know he had deleted his social media. 

I had a tempestuous relationship with Lias. We had some productive conversations, but he had a short fuse (mostly due to his overwhelming arrogance), and for a liberal Alpha he seemed to have little concern for anyone but himself. Honestly, he seemed to despise the audience he craved so much. I never understood it, other than the fact that he loved the attention his mammoth cock and plastic surgery-enhanced good looks brought to him. 

I did FINALLY get him to admit that he lived off of the money of a wealthy faggot, which afforded him the opportunity to leisurely travel the world, indulge in the arts, and spend lots of time taking selfies in every single mirror he encountered.

If I sound like I didn’t like him, that’s true.

But he was beautiful to look at! I’ll include some pics of him from my archives after the jump! 

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What’s is wrong with me Big Daddy? Why do I want to be possessed, owned and controls by a superior man? Even when I am sad feel like I am missing a strong Daddy to control me, possesses  me and own me. yet I am stubborn and don’t given in. I get wishy washsy when letting a Dom come over, because I haven’t clean my self out for him properly yet, or I am scared. I struggle to fully be taken and use as a submissive should. I am saved that there is a part of myself that I loss but love about myself. Yet when I offer myself up and do follow through I don’t feel the presents of the Dom with me in the room. i don’t know what so do with myself Sam, I am really struggling here, to let go and embrace submission on many levels. Advise, ideas, thoughts on this. Would even take a Dom’s insight on this.

Who in the world is “Big Daddy”? I’m a faggot named sam. Put your poppers bottle down and clear your head.

You’re having these difficulties because you haven’t yet fully accepted the truth: you ARE a faggot, and this IS your purpose. 

You’re currently living in the phantom zone, a place of indecisiveness in which you think too much and make excuses too much. You keep thinking that whatever you’re doing isn’t as right as some other shiny objective. 

This cycle of unproductive nothingness is going to continue indefinitely as long as you continue to lie to yourself and deny yourself the opportunity to actually embrace what you are.

Admit it to yourself: YOU ARE A FAGGOT.

There’s no escaping it. Even if you did nothing and died a sad virgin, you’d still die a faggot … just a useless, unfulfilled one. 

So figure it out! 

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I’m a vers gay and I found this page about 2 months ago and have been following it ever since. I always enjoyed the dom and submissive roles in sex and thought the stories you posted were hot but I never thought I would fall into one myself. This past week I’ve had recurring dreams of seeing two of my friends shirtless and vividly thinking about their feet and found myself noticing it more like how big they are when we saw each other. I’ve been so confused about that since in how to make sense of all of it especially since I never had these thoughts before and I consider one of them like a mentee of sorts.

Thank you for the question! 

I’ve long contended that being “versatile” is merely a delusion. Every so often a vers person attacks me for that stance, and I clam up about it. However, I have yet to encounter someone who remains versatile throughout their life. Eventually, the true role/need is revealed, either through self-discovery or by encountering the right person who will help them accept it. 

For you, I think encountering the message of this website has triggered you to start accepting your true desires for these Alphas in your life.

Your fascination with their feet is a pretty common “first trigger” for faggots. You desire to touch them, kiss them, smell them, worship them. These are natural feelings for natural-born subs. 

As far as your concern about one of these Alphas being a “mentee” … let’s be clear that a “mentee” is someone you mentor or train, right? That kind of relationship means little here. There are plenty of faggots serving Alphas who are “lower” in social status, financial status, or professional status. It’s likely that this “mentee” already sees your weaknesses, but is being respectful. 

If you want to get a better handle on this question of whether or not you’re a faggot, I recommend my bestselling book “Are You A Faggot?”. It’s designed to help you figure out what you are through a series of self-answered questions. You can buy that by CLICKING HERE.

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