Hey Sam. I’ve always identified as a bottom. My small dick and the seeming inability of it to stay hard really reinforced that thinking in my head. Plus I am a submissive person in general. Part of my wants to try topping. Like take a viagra and see what it is like. But I don’t know if that is a good idea. I just don’t know if this is a good idea.

Thanks brother. Yeah, this is a bad idea. Topping a faggot is a responsibility, especially when it comes to taking someone’s virginity. You are not equipped physically or emotionally or hierarchically for such an act. Stick to your lane.

How to get rid of a broken faggot?

I guess you could dismiss it, Sir?

Sam, I was at a small art opening the other day and there was one very hot frat/bro/alpha there with his girlfriend. He was late 20’s clearly an athlete, permanent 5 o’clock shadow, wearing T-shirt, shorts and flip/flops. He clearly was alpha, he was so self contained as he moved slowly through the gallery, his girlfriend, clinging to him. I could tell he knew people were looking at him but he never looked at anyone or at me even though I couldn’t stop stealing glances at him. He had the same energy that all those str8 bros online have who are now using fags. I wanted to somehow make contact with him or say something to him but it seemed like it would be too weird — what could I even say? But here’s my question: I wish there was a sign or signal or gesture that a fag could use to make itself known to an alpha — a sign that any alpha would understand meant:  “Oh here’s a fag making itself known to me”. I know you have merchandise like T-shirts and things that do this, but I’d be curious if you or even some of the Alphas who come here regularly could come up with something that would make it easy for a faggot to signal it’s availability to any alpha – a kind of universal sign that alphas and fags know about.  A sign that could be spread among alphas online, because fag/alpha dynamic seems to be spreading like wild fire among this new generation of Alphas – and I am sure the Alpha I saw the other day has been approached in his life by a faggot — he just had that cocky arrogant alpha big dick energy. Any thoughts from you or the alphas here would be appreciated!

Thanks for writing! This has been an issue I’ve wrestled with mightily over the years, and I’ve never come up with a suitable solution. Shirts just aren’t universal nor every day solutions, and while I think a bracelet could work, I couldn’t find one that pleased people.

Here are some new ideas. I ran them on Twitter, and the consensus seems to be in favor of the thick leather bracelet as long as it was customized.

LEAVE YOUR THOUGHTS BELOW!

Hey Sam Have something interesting happening with a biker i meet on Tiktok that I’m sure is a Alpha. He created a Discord server for his follow. I’m the only gay guy in it. He’s super sexy and funny. Loves to tease me and the ladies with picture. Also talking about we wouldn’t be able to handle his cock and he can go all night. One of his biker friends joined the discord. And when there on together. They always compete with each other trying to get the ladies worked up. The main biker get a little jealous and always makes sure to one up his friend or any other guy me and the ladies talk about. And always tell us we are all his. I’ve tried to talk with him in DM but he’s not very good about responding. He created a Throne account so people people could send him stuff without knowing his address. And I sent him stuff on there. But just last night he told us he would pick one person that he would tell his address to. And anyone that wants to send anything can go through that person. He ended up picking me to have his address and have the ladies go through me to send him stuff. I plan i ordering stuff when I get paid to send to him. I’m wanting advice on how best to approach him about his Alpha status?

Thanks for the question!

I don’t think you need to worry about teaching him that he’s Alpha. He knows. 

What he might not understand is what larger implications that has in his life (although it sounds like he does know that, too). I have plenty of resources here to send him that can start a conversation with him. My book “May I Serve You, Sir?” will lead him through Hierarchy and teach him why he needs to own faggots. My “Letter To An Alpha” is a quick, one-shot outline of that same material. Send him one of them and see what he says. 

You can tell this Alpha is a good Owner of this faggot by the way he treats it.

Notice the eye contact and the approving nod while it sucks him.

Notice the forceful way he breeds it.

Notice how he helps to milk his fåg afterwards.

Good Masters create good faggots!

That hard slap prepares the faggot for the tenderizing to come.

I imagine this would be useful in places like Alpha camping trips where there’s no convenient bathroom facilities.

Regardless, this is great training for Owners to employ with their faggots.

A faggot’s eyes might be closed, but it will always sense the cock of its Master.

The smell of it. The heat of it. How the air pressure changes as it nears its mouth.

This is how intimately a well-trained faggot knows its Owner!

Hello there,

I have an alpha that I’ve had for awhile, we don’t live together but I come by his place often. I do chores for him, and of course I service him. Though he is a caring dom, he is becoming very strict, which I have no problem with. If I am not up to his standards, he will punish me- sometimes with spankings, sometimes he will intentionally make a mess for me to clean up. It is more frequent when he is in a bad mood.

The weird part is that I always enjoy when he is like this. I really enjoy being humiliated, and I like the discipline. It makes me a better faggot for him- I don’t want to slack off. It’s never abusive or physically harmful, he is just in charge and I feel like he has the right to. Is it common for fags to enjoy this? And why do fags enjoy this? I think his raw, angry, masculine energy being taken out on me (and my holes) just brings me a level of satisfaction that is hard to describe. Not sure if this is controversial or that if some fags do not enjoy this.

Thank you for the question, brother!

Congratulations on finding a Master who seems to be hitting all of the right buttons with you! You don’t sound unhappy at all about his more aggressive moments, but more curious as to why it is pleasurable to you. (Hopefully I’m reading that right!)

Let me preface my answer this way: while faggots are a natural part of our world, we are undoubtedly broken creatures. We know our imperfections and inferiority well. We feel it deep within ourselves, this worthlessness and shame. 

We are often overlooked hierarchically by Men unless we have something to offer them, reinforcing those feelings of being nothing.

When Alphas treat us in abusive or demeaning ways, we recognize their abuse as “what we deserve”, but it’s even deeper than that. When Alphas abuse us verbally or physically, we feel finally “seen” by them. We have a purpose, and having purpose is deeply satisfying to anyone.

Some of this is closely related to Stockholm Syndrome, but I do think there are compelling variations from that classic explanation of abuse attraction. Faggots are poorly understood by modern psychiatry (if they’re acknowledged at all), so there’s very little specific knowledge to reference. 

But having been a faggot my entire life, I feel my explanation above is as close to correct as I’ve ever seen. If anyone else has something to add, please do so in the comments.

Thank you for such an important question, brother!

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