Ive known that I am a faggot for about a year now. Always been submissive and like to please men but findom has its pull on me. Every time I go to send to an alpha, I cant help but think the money would be better in my cousins hands. He is a typical 18/19 yr old gym rat. Hes incredibly sexy and straight. He deserves to be worshipped. I just dont know how to introduce it to him. Should I message him? Should a friend do it? Any advice on what to say or not say?

Thanks for the question! 

Congrats on accepting your true nature, brother! It makes life so much clearer to know the truth!

I’m always curious about why faggots are “drawn” to findom. I understand that findom is a part of a faggot’s overall service, but to be drawn to that aspect particularly odd to me. 

But I tend to agree with you: the money belongs in your cousin’s hands. You have an Alpha right there in your family, and you’re even considering giving your money to strangers instead?? Nah, that shouldn’t happen.

As far as introducing it to him, I have resources on this site to do exactly that. In the sidebar is a link to my “Letter To An Alpha”, designed as a brief introduction to hierarchy and the use of faggots. Then, I have my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that is a longer, more in-depth version of that aforementioned letter. Both have worked spectacularly well in the past. Whatever else you try to do, it must come from YOU. Your cousin needs to understand that you are expressing this need to serve, not your friend. 

Keep me posted! 

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Recently a top I’ve been seeing has been using breath control on me. At first this involved only pinching my nose shut while thrusting his cock down my throat or putting a rubber hood without a mouth opening over my head and then closing off the nose holes. Last night he put a plastic bag over my head while I was tied up and held it closed until I passed out. When I expressed alarm about this activity, he assured me that he was in control and even said that next time he would introduce me to garrotting. I’m nervous about this. The guy is a great top, and I want to go on seeing him, but how do I get him to stop this?

Brother, thank you for your question!

I was horrified to read what you wrote. Simply put: your life is in danger. I don’t care if this Alpha is a cardiologist with a Nobel prize in medicine – there is NO guarantees when you cause another person to lose oxygen, stop breathing, or pass out. The plastic bag on the head should’ve been the end of it, but he wants to keep experimenting. 

EDIT: a very experienced Alpha on the HU Discord named Master Hadrian added this important information:

Absolutely the right answer. There is NO safe way to do breath control, and the main danger isn’t, as most people assume, asphyxiation. That danger can be managed to some extent. The real danger is a heart attack—lack of oxygen caused your body to send erratic electrical signals to your heart, trying to get oxygen moving to your organs. If one of these random signals hits at the moment your heart should beat normally, the two signals can essentially cancel each other out and trigger ventricular fibrillation, which causes the heart to stop beating and just quiver in effectively—in laymen’s terms, you have a heart attack.

There are basically two types of heart attack. Atrial fibrillation is where you have chest pain, shortness of breath, etc—if you get treatment there’s a good chance you survive. Ventricular fibrillation is when you clutch your chest and drop dead. If a defibrillator is applied immediately, you’ve got maybe a 50% chance to surviving; if not survival rates can be as low as 2%. And you’ve only got a couple minutes to get defibrillated before it’s too late.

With garroting, there’s a host of other risks—damage to the windpipe, damage to the nerves in the neck, brain damage, damage to the spinal cord…

This ‘alpha’ is a fucking idiot

The answer needs to be the firmest possible “no”, and if he doesn’t accept that, then it needs to be “goodbye”. I don’t care if he’s Dr. Fucking Frankenstein and he reanimates dead people every single day – the answer needs to be NO.

Honestly, your refusal is as much a protection for HIM as it is for you. By refusing, you’re preventing him from any chance of becoming a murderer. 

I cannot stress this enough. Your life is in danger. Take action immediately. 

Love,

sam the faggot 

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I am straight and I wanna start using cashfags.  But I am not sure what kind of app I must use to receive money. I want something secure and discrete with no chargeback. Any ideas fag?

Sir, thank you for the question!

I’m glad you’ve decided to start an account in findom, Sir! Straight Alphas like you are learning that being worshiped by faggots can be beneficial in many ways, including financially. I’d be curious to know how you came to know about findom, hierarchy, and the use/ownership of faggots, Sir, so hopefully you’ll be inclined to share that with me at some point.

As far as apps for findom … you’ll definitely want to set up accounts on X and Onlyfans. There’s also a site called RealAdult.fans that was created by a gay Alpha and promises secure payment  processing. 

So OnlyFans and RAF process tributes. So does Throne.com (you’ll want to have an account there). Create an Amazon wishlist so fags can send you gifts to your unlisted address. There’s also JustFor.Fans,

Then there are the typical payment systems. CashApp, PayPal, Venmo. It can be tricky using these apps, because they are widely considered to be trouble and can cancel you in a heartbeat if they think something’s wrong. Once you get in good with a whale faggot, you can start using TeamViewer to get into the fag’s computer and Zelle yourself money. 

I hope this helps, Sir! I wrote a bit more than you asked for, but I wanted you to have the best possible start! Please let me know how you’re doing Sir. If you’re on X, I’m @hierarchyuni. I can push you. Thank you, Sir! 

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