Does my small dick make me a fag

Hi man,

I’m a 26yo guy who has a very appealing body and attractive face however I’m very underdeveloped down there.

for me I see it as a non issue but when I try to pick up fags they tend to ignore me due to my small dick. I have never thought about serving a man myself and always have seen myself as an alpha.

so does my small 3.5’ dick make me a faggot and I should accept it?