Sam Im a sub and going thru the process of accepting that I am a faggot – leaving all that is involved but I think lower ? It’s there such thing as being lower ? If so ca you explain the difference if there is any between a faggot and an object ?

Thank you for writing in, brother!

I’m proud of you for embracing your truth and exploring the many facets of it! I highly recommend chastity before you start exploring elsewhere, just because the things you learn from that help with everything else.

As far as “object” goes, I don’t consider it to be a realistic goal. Nobody can just be a “table” or a “coat rack” for the rest of their lives. More realistic are the many layers of slavery that can be achieved with the right Master. I’ve known faggots who were pure slaves locked away in cages when not in use, denied clothing, etc.

So there are many ways to go. Just try chastity first.

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Hi Sam —

This isn’t so much a question as it is an announcement/reminder of the truth of hierarchy. I’ve been experimenting with chastity for a while now but haven’t combined it with serving men (I guess I was just practicing with myself, getting comfortable). Anyway, tonight I met up with this amazing Black alpha. He had the body of a Greek god and his cock with perfect – 8″ and not too thick. I worshipped his pecs and abs before dropping to my knees and nursing on this amazing cock.

Like a good fag, I stayed locked and wore a jockstrap to contain myself. He fucked me relentlessly and now I’m sitting here feeling this weird feeling I haven’t felt in a while, and it hit me: he cunted me. I’m in such deep subspace right now and I feel a mix of sorrow and yearning for him. Maybe it’s because this was the first time I was fucked while in chastity, but it feels like it just hit me harder than ever before.

Is this what its like to be fucked in chastity?

Thank you for writing to me, brother!

I’m so proud of you for taking chastity seriously! It’s a huge step in the progress of a faggot (I actually wish I had been put into chastity 30 years ago!), and yes, it does affect how you process your sexual service! It heightens your senses and mental state, and deepens your submission better than any bottle of poppers ever could.

These qualities are vital for a true cunting to occur, mainly because you’re totally focused on your hole while being fucked. The sensations of every stroke reverberate through the body with greater intensity. It’s like strong strums of a guitar inside a large metal space. Eventually the vibrations compound until they reach critical mass.

I think you experienced something like that with this black Alpha.

First of all, congratulations on being able to serve that black Alpha. They’re amazing Kings, aren’t they? He no doubt appreciated being served by a serious faggot in chastity! I’m wondering if you were fully cunted, because you didn’t describe many of the traditional cunting symptoms that occur during the act of getting fucked. Maybe you left that out, though.

What you DID describe is something I call “The Void”. I wrote about that HERE. Now, cunting and “the void” are intimately related, so perhaps you WERE cunted. But you’re definitely describing the void, a feeling I STILL have that I connect to certain Alphas who’ve fucked and cunted me. When Alphas describe our pussies as “hungry”, this void is exactly why. The void makes our pussies ache to be filled again and again.

Chastity only intensifies that feeling … deepens it.

I sincerely hope you’re going to serve that black King again! Thanking him for cunting and voiding you might be a great way to trigger his ego and make him feel like a god! Try it!

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