Questions From Readers

Hey Sam, Im Gabe, a 20yo mexican guy that has been following you since 2020
First I wanted to say how grateful I am for you being able to hve this place where you educate and help others discovering the hierarchy
I read about Master José, and I must admit I was interested, but there is a problem. Im sure Im submissive, but Im not sure Im a faggot. I found myself imagining me in the place of many faggots you have help, but a the same time I dont act so submissive in my daily life
I also havent meet a Dom/Alpha irl, and honestly the few I have found online were Alpha Destroyers (and I really have the means to serve in the way others do online). So I hope Master José lives close to my town
Also Im really anxious about even start dating (something I want to work on this year) so Its difficult for me to imagine me openly searching for an Alpha
On the other end Im really romantic and I also want to have a relationship and a bf, I masturbate a lot (my dick, not my ass), but maybe this is because Im an untrained faggot?

Also important, Im a med student so I feel like I dont have enough time to properly serve an Alpha, but I could still be wrong
And sorry for the long question, but there really was so much I think I had to explain, I hope you can help me and give advice

Thanks for writing! 

Not everyone falls into the “Alpha” or “faggot” sections of the Hierarchy. You could be a beta-sub … not a faggot, but just a submissive beta male. Relationships are perfectly doable for you, and there are Men out there who would date you and appreciate you for what you are. There’s really no reason to worry about it. Just accept your beta status.

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