Hello Sam,

Thank you for everything you do to serve alphas and faggots alike. You have opened my eyes to what it truly means to serve alphas around me.

My problem is that I don’t fit the stereotype of a faggot. If anything, I get mistaken as an alpha but I am far from it! You see, I’ve been blessed with good genes. I’m pretty good looking, have a naturally masculine physique, and an above average penis.

This has made it difficult to find what I’m looking for from guys. The gays are vain af and take one look at me and think I’ll dominate them. But the truth is, I am not dominant at all. I recognize the privilege I have as a hung, hot, straight passing guy. But I also know my place in the hierarchy and it ain’t at the top! I just want to submit, serve, and worship alphas. But it’s hard to find someone that isn’t intimidated by me or my size. I know those aren’t true alphas if they get intimidated by a beta.

I’ve approached a couple of straight alphas and they just want to bro out with me. One let me worship him with a blow job but wanted me to do it naked so he could demean me. But that didn’t go well, as you can imagine. Gay alphas suddenly turn vers when we hookup. I have no desire to top. I don’t want an alpha to compare dick size. I don’t deserve to have a straight “bro.”

How can I make myself more serviceable to alphas? How can I downplay myself to be a better fag? Please help!


Brother, thank you very much for writing! This is a something of a problem that I think other faggots deal with as well. 

I’m actually really glad you bring up this issue, because far too many people judge a male’s hierarchical place by the size of his dick. I’ve known some incredible faggots in my life, absolutely devoted to service and providing pleasure for Alphas, who had gigantic dicks.

Gigantic, USELESS dicks.

So I can appreciate your frustration, brother. You’re fighting against an ingrained, primal instinct, and your options to overcome it are limited, but not impossible. 

First and most importantly, I suggest you go into chastity. I realize it might be a trick finding a chastity cage to fit you initially, but I know there are custom cages available to purchase or have created. You must lock it up so that you essentially take it out of the equation. I guarantee you that straight Alphas who see your dick locked in a cage will get excited that a hung stud like you has accepted the truth. 

Also, chastity will be able to help shrink it down. 

In addition, you should really stop exposing it in a general sense. Go into chastity, and then wear jock straps to conceal it even more. Essentially, the idea behind this is to make your penis a non-issue and a non-starter. 

You didn’t mention body hair, but I think it might be good to get as smooth as possible. This will also act to feminize your appearance and keep Alphas from looking at you like a bro. 

Those are my immediate suggestions. Aside from that, I’ll just add that a Man can’t see your junk if you’re bent over on your knees. 

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