As a faggot who found myself in this situation, I can tell you that this stuff goes on all the time. I know this seems like porn fantasy stuff, but it ain’t!

Hey brother sam, i recently started servicing an Alpha who is straight but he wants to suck on my faggot cock. Like you, i really don’t like the idea of my faggot cock being sucked by an Alpha but he insists. i forwarned Him, that having my cock sucked on gives me no pleasure, and that while i preferred He not suck it, He was free to do so as He is an Alpha and i am a lowly faggot. He asked me if i thought i could cum while He sucks me and i told him that i doubted it. He said He wants to suck my faggot cock anyway. i said that He should do as He pleases, but that i probably wouldn’t cum. His response was, “Then I won’t feel bad if you don’t cum.” i reassured him that it was my issue if i couldn’t cum and that He was in no way responsible for my not cumming. He said he was ok with that and said that He would suck on my faggot cock anyway.

my question brother sam, is whether i handled this correctly. i think that as an Alpha He can do what He pleases and so i decided to let Him suck me even though i wouldn’t be comfortable in letting Him do so. i’m thinking that while He sucks on my faggot cock i will try visualizing myself sucking on Him at the same time, so maybe, i can be erect at least.

Have you ever encountered a straight Alpha that wanted to taste a faggot’s cum? How would you handle this situation?

Thanks in advance brother sam!

Thanks for the question! 

My first question is this: why do you think this guy is a true Alpha? There are a lot of gays out there pretending to be Alpha (or are confused into thinking they’re Alpha) whose true colors come out once they get a faggot alone. 

Even gay Alphas that I know don’t suck dick, get fucked, or do much ass play. Think about that. And even more telling is this “Alpha’s” insistence on sucking your dick. Very strange.

As you mention, I HATE when anyone does anything with my penis. That’s why it’s so nice being caged. I think most faggots agree with us about this, too. We are simply not wired to want that or enjoy it. 

If I were you, I’d lose this guy. I think he’s a fake, and he’s also inconsiderate. There are true Alphas out there to serve. I wouldn’t waste time on this one.   

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I’m a 22 years old college student and quite new to the overall hierarchy and alpha scene I just found it this past couple months and was something I found hot to think about. Personally, I’ve never felt labeled anywhere somewhere between alpha/prealpha and maybe beta-dom as I’m a vers top were I mainly enjoy topping but I have bottomed a few times before.

My interest in hierarchy spiked again around 5 days ago when I saw one of my neighbors from my hometown posed a shirtless pic of himself at the gym. I had not seen him in over 4 years and now he was 18 and he had strong biceps, a wide chest, and what drew me the most was a strong set of 6pack abs.

Seeing his photo reminded me of something that happened a couple years back that I kind of forgot but realized was big to who I am. When I was a junior in high school we used to hang out afterschool because we grew up close to each other since elementary school. That year he got into football and especially wrestling. So he would often ask me to grapple with him which I did and I won just because I was older. However, in my senior year he ended up beating me multiple times despite being 4 years younger than me and the pinnacle moment was when he won and duct taped my hands behind my back and stood on top of my back. We never talked about it much because it was all friendly but after that we never wrestled as he trained with actual wrestlers.

Now looking back at it I’m realizing he was somewhat an alpha or I might not be as unlabeled as I thought. In the days after seeing his gym photo all I’ve been thinking about is his physique to the point where I canceled a hookup to jerk off. I’m starting to realize I definitely fall into the beta to even fag tier now as I’ve constantly thought about and even dreamt about him dominating me. I wanted to share this story because I think that so many moments like this happen to show people their place but I was just oblivious to it. Now I’m not sure how to even proceed with my newfound info especially considering how he’s much younger than me and I want to respect his boundaries. I don’t know if you have any advice on how to go about it especially if we don’t talk anymore?

As a note I am fine with the posting of the story but I’ve left the fields blank just because I don’t feel comfortable revealing my info just for my personal comfort.

Hi, thank you for writing! 

Ah, those high school years are really something else, aren’t they? Before we even know what’s happening to our own bodies we are thrown into a daily petri dish of hormones, awkwardness, impulsiveness, and wild guesswork. The forces at work on us in high school run the gamut, from physical to mental to emotional to social. It’s amazing any of us survive it all.

If we are paying attention to the clues we receive in high school, we can really find out deep truths about ourselves. For instance, when I was 17 (before senior year) I was forced into submission by my straight Alpha friend to become his cocksucker. From there I figured out about my true calling as a faggot, and I never looked back.

For you, there was apparently a lot of information guiding you to believe in your Alphahood. But this one friend showed you something by overtaking you and eventually dominating you. It’s interesting to me that you apparently pushed that memory down and forgot about it … until that pic forced it back into your psyche. 

This tells me that memory meant something more than just a passing feeling, but rather it was something your mind was fighting to suppress. So we shouldn’t try to ignore it.

I had a question like this before, and I advised the faggot to reach out to what was a former bully in high school, and it turned out well enough (they were geographically too far apart). Given that you parted as friends just a few years ago, there’s a great chance he’ll be glad to hear from you. 

More importantly, I’ll bet that incident you mentioned had a tremendous effect on his life as well. That’s a pretty ringing endorsement for his Alphahood, and I’m sure it was a pivotal moment in his development. 

So i recommend that you write to him (you could call too, possibly) and feel him out. Be complimentary about his physique, and toss in some commentary about that incident. Be complimentary about his power, and hint that it was a major turning point in your life. Chances are, he’ll pick up that hint and want to know why. 

At this point, you’ll need to be a little brave and admit that the incident awakened submissive feelings in you. If he’s Alpha (as I suspect), he will pick that up and run with it. 

Just try it. At worst, you’ll lose a friend you already don’t have. But I don’t think that’s what is going to happen.

Please keep me posted!  

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Hello, Sam. I want to share my story. I worship my childhood bully. He’s the son of my parents’ friends. When I was a kid, he took away all my pocket money. He made me do his homework for him. He’s older than me. We went to the same university. And they chose one fraternity. He was the king of the brotherhood. Everyone adored him. Parties, get-togethers. All the girls were his. And I studied well. In my third year of study, I managed to rent an apartment near the university. And get a job at the nearest coffee shop. And Trevor is the name of my bully, who was expelled from the university for drunk driving. A week later, he moved into my apartment. He just showed up. And he took a guest room in my apartment. I tried to argue, to kick him out, but it was useless. We started living together. He didn’t pay for anything. Ate my food. He took my money. The tipping point occurred during the Covid quarantine. Trevor was very afraid of getting infected. He always demanded that everything be sterile. I was terrified of strangers. I don’t know. Why, but he was very worried. One evening, when we were watching TV in the living room. There was a movie with a beautiful girl and they were kissing a muscular actor. That turned Trevor on. He did not like to muster. That’s why he asked me. I wanted to run away, to hide. But Trevor held me tight. He put me on my knees. He took off his pants and approached. His bulge pressed against my lips. The heat of this big machine could be felt through the fabric of the boxers. The next second, Trevor pulled down his panties and his cock was touching my forehead. Then the lips. Trevor was running his cock over my face. Gradually. Looking up, I saw a thin grin on his lips. Then my mouth opened on its own. It was as if Trevor had been waiting for this. He immediately plunged his cock into my mouth. A throbbing, burning cock was on my tongue. The dick of the guy who made my childhood hell. But at that moment, time seemed to stop. Trevor was already fucking my throat with his cock without hesitation. We didn’t talk. Sometimes, looking up, I saw the same grin. In about five minutes or how many, I don’t know. He came in my mouth. His cum was hard to taste because of my saliva, but I think it’s bearable. Thinking back now, I think I liked the smell of Trevor himself more. It smelled of tobacco and disinfectants. The whole quarantine, Trevor used my mouth for his pleasure. Without shame. He could come out of the shower and pull my mouth over his cock. Or during washing. When I was doing his laundry. One day he wanted to fuck me. But then he changed his mind. Unsanitary conditions. After the quarantine ended, Trevor left. A few months later, I found out that he had met the love of his life. They got married a year later. Now he and this girl have two children. He called me recently. He said he got divorced. He wants to stay in my apartment. Recall my university years.. I haven’t had another master since Trevor. I’ve only dated girls. Before him, too. Now I’m wondering if I’m a fag or not? I also think it was always him. Thanks for the advice, Sam.. I hope you won’t criticize me for not speaking very good English.. All names have been changed.. What should I do, should I let Trevor in?

Hi! Thank you for writing to me! 

That’s a rough story. It sounds like much of the time this Trevor was forcing you to do things you didn’t really want to do. And even when he forced you to start sucking his dick, you didn’t have some sudden realization that you liked doing it. That makes me question whether or not you’re actually a faggot. 

You see, there’s a line between those who are natural faggots and others like you who were repeatedly bullied into submission. Do you see the difference? 

Personally, I think Trevor seems like a selfish, ignorant pig. I don’t think you should let him in. In fact, I think you should stop talking to him altogether and find someone who can treat you better than that. 

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This post is part of a thread following the development of a straight French Alpha named David who discovered that his roommate Vincent is really a faggot. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

It seems like literally last week that Master David took ownership of his first faggot, Vincent. Then we learned of him taking ownership of a gym faggot. But his empire has been growing exponentially since then. He recently updated me on his current stable of faggots:

Things have continued to be great for me! I now have four slaves who serve me on a regular basis, whether financially, domestically or sexually: Vincent (my roommate, my favorite), slave #2 (met at the gym), slave #3 (met at a party) and Thomas (an old classmate I’ve reconnected with). My life is so cool with them! I never go to the grocery store anymore, I don’t take care of anything at home, I hardly pay for anything! All I have to do is enjoy my life and have fun while they go out of their way to make me happy!

This is exactly the kind of life every straight Alpha deserves to enjoy, one of constant worship and service! I’m so grateful that Master David has wasted no time in building out a stable of faithful faggot slaves!

However, the main point of his latest update involved a recent twist in his personal life: the cucking of a good friend!

I’ll just let Master David tell his story:

But what has interested me since last time is this idea of beta males. I have a couple of friends who I’ve known for a long time, Quentin and his girlfriend Charlène. I always knew Quentin had a bit of a submissive side. He often needs me for anything and will usually suck up to me (figuratively speaking). To put it simply: while I was spending an evening with them at their place, I openly hit on Charlène, in front of Quentin who protested weakly, and then we fucked like animals in my room all night long. The next day, she broke up with him. 

Quentin was furious with me. He said, “How could you do this to me? You were one of my best friends!” I told him, “Sorry for you, man, but it’s only right that alphas get priority over females!” After that, he didn’t speak to me for weeks. I regretted it a little because he was a nice buddy, but I was delighted to fuck Charlène, who is very hot!

But one day, as Charlène rested on my chest, she laughingly confessed that Quentin had recently contacted her and begged her to take him back. She told him that once she’d tasted a real man, there was no turning back. He then told her he’d do anything to spend even a little more time with her.

The same day, Quentin texted me to say that he was really sorry he’d lost his temper with me and ghosted me, that he really cared a lot about our friendship and that we shouldn’t let girl stuff come between us. I told him I agreed, but that if he wanted to spend time with me and Charlène again, he’d have to make amends.

So I had an idea. Long story short: I invited Quentin to have dinner with the two of us at my place (I sent Vincent out for the night). But he had to do the cooking while we had fun watching TV and wait on us at the table. Later, as Charlène and I kissed passionately on the sofa, he licked her feet and mine.

Later that night, after I’d fucked Charlène until she fell asleep, I went to wake Quentin, who was asleep on the couch. I had him massage my feet, kneeling on the floor in front of me, while I described my wild nights of lovemaking with Charlène. He whispered, “You know, I still love her so much…” I replied, “Then be happy for her! She’s tasting the ultimate pleasure thanks to me! And you’re happy for me too, aren’t you?” He looked desperate as he replied, “Yes. You were always the better man.”

The next week (it was two days ago) I forced him to come and watch while I fucked her! He burst into tears, but stayed the whole way to watch! I allowed him to lick Charlène’s pussy dripping with my cum!

I must say that it is SO MUCH FUN and SO GOOD to humiliate a straight beta man! I LOVE it! I really love to be an Alpha man! I love to know that I was born to rule and dominate! And that so many boys were put in this earth just to serve me! It’s so good to BE A MAN!

It’s astounding to witness an Alpha like Master David raise the bar so rapidly in his life. He’s literally transformed everything in his life within a matter of months!

Think about it. He went from being an natural straight Alpha living an everyday life to taking ownership of four faggots! Now he’s able to see the truth about beta males, and he knows exactly what needs to be done to get them to submit to him as well!

In my opinion, the real key to the cucking of his former friend Quentin was when Master David woke Quentin in the middle of the night and forced him to worship his feet. That’s the final move to kill whatever pride or resistance Quentin still had, forcing Quentin to accept that he’s a slave to Master David’s overwhelming superiority.

How is this possible? It’s all happened because Master David embraced the reality that literally ANYTHING he wants he already has by virtue of his Alphahood. He literally spins gold from straw by willing it into existence. Human beings surrender their autonomy, their dignity, their lives to his glory.

There is no power among mankind to rival it. And the scary part? Master David is just getting started!

Hey Sam,

Thank you very much for your reply, it was a good read and a pleasant surprise to get not just a reply but get it so quickly too!

I have two further questions if you don’t mind

1. How, specifically, would you differentiate a beta sub and a faggot? I’ve read your descriptions for both, but honest the beta sub description sounds very similar to the faggot one but more critical lol.
2. Do you have any advice on how on earth I’d be able to find a dommish partner who is alright with no sex? Feels like an impossible task but I really don’t want to be alone forever. Just want a guy who will rub his sweaty socks on my face in a dom way, have slight control over the reigns in the relationship, AND is okay with no sex. Maybe this question is outside the content of this website though, if so just ignore it if you want.

Thanks again!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thanks for writing again!

1. The primary difference between a beta-sub and a faggot is the fact that a faggot is more of a slave or object, a possession. A beta-sub is a partner in a relationship, with certain rights and independence and a stake in it. Hopefully that clears it up.

2. I think you will have a hard time finding a partner, honestly. There simply aren’t many Dom Men (even  slightly dominant) who aren’t interested in sex. Frankly, your insistence on these sexualized acts makes me think you aren’t fully asexual. Any asexual people I’ve known want NOTHING to do with sexual acts of ANY kind. So I think you have some soul searching to do on this. 

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Hi Sam,

I’ll be honest, your philosophy really intrigues me (much to the horror of my heart lol) but I feel like I don’t fit into your hierarchy at all.

Basically, I’m asexual, kind of. I refuse to partake in anything traditionally seen as sex/sexual (anal, bjs, hjs, rimming, etc) because I am sex-repulsed. But, I still get turned on by dominance (and feet/socks lol) and wish to enter a relationship with a slight power imbalance with my partner as the dom.

I wanted to know if you think I still fit into the hierarchy, or if I exist separately from it? Apologies if this is too vague, but I really want to know what you think.

Thanks,

Thank you for writing! 

Believe it or not, I have some personal experience with asexuality. My precious Baby Boy, the kid I rescued from Syria, is also asexual. We sort of discovered this about him over long conversations, and he finally came to accept this about himself. I’m so proud of him (and you) for embracing this unusual aspect of your lives!

As far as asexuality in Hierarchy is concerned, you’re misunderstanding something. Hierarchy is not a SEXUAL structure of societal composition, but rather a way to understand the POWER and SOCIAL INFLUENCE aspects of societal composition. 

Now, sex DOES come into play (due primarily to the power play aspects of sexual encounters), but sexual orientation, sexual position, or sexual preference has nothing to do with where we are Hierarchically. 

If I had to guess without knowing more than what you told me, I’d say you are a “beta-sub” on my chart. That’s a comfortable place to be for a sub-leaning asexual! I hope that helps!  

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I’m glad I was able to find you again Sam as I followed your fags worship alphas site and wondered what happened when you disappeared.  My question is for further clarification on the difference between fags and betas. I love to suck cock and serve dominant alpha guys but a part of me feels drawn to being fully and sexually submissive. Does that make me beta?

I’m glad you’ve found me again, brother! Thank you! 

Faggots are essentially slave males. They don’t have natural rights like most other males; they belong to Men and Alphas to use as they will. A faggot has a need to be enslaved and used by Alphas without choice or question.

Submissive/bottom betas (beta-subs) are autonomous males who do not have a slave mentality and are simply more comfortable being fucked. It’s more of a sexual position rather than an entire lifestyle.

Hopefully that clears up your question.

As for you, I think you sound more like a faggot based on what you mentioned. However, you can try to use my book “Are You A Faggot?” (check out the link in the “Book Store” section). It’s designed to help you answer this yourself.  

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Hi Sam, I’m a fag from New York and I recently meet a alpha online, one thing that confused me was the he told me he was vers and the likes getting fucked. I’m curious Sam can a gay vers be an alpha in your experience and opinion.

Thanks for writing, brother. In my experience, a vers guy cannot be Alpha. It violates one of the tenets of Alphahood, that they are dominant Men. You cannot claim to be dominant if another Man is topping and penetrating you. Sorry. I know that’s going to offend switches out there, but I don’t care. I’m tired of pretending like this is not the truth just to placate their indecisiveness. 

Here’s another truth: practically every vers I’ve ever known eventually makes a decision one way or another eventually, and they almost never choose Alpha. In other words, they’re really bottoms/faggots who are simply trying to resist it. 

I find this behavior to be just as offensive as so-called “cash masters” in findom pretending to be Alpha so that faggots will pay them money, and then they weakly tribute that money to real Alphas in secret. It’s underhanded and pathetic. 

BE WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE!! 

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Hey Sam, Im Gabe, a 20yo mexican guy that has been following you since 2020
First I wanted to say how grateful I am for you being able to hve this place where you educate and help others discovering the hierarchy
I read about Master José, and I must admit I was interested, but there is a problem. Im sure Im submissive, but Im not sure Im a faggot. I found myself imagining me in the place of many faggots you have help, but a the same time I dont act so submissive in my daily life
I also havent meet a Dom/Alpha irl, and honestly the few I have found online were Alpha Destroyers (and I really have the means to serve in the way others do online). So I hope Master José lives close to my town
Also Im really anxious about even start dating (something I want to work on this year) so Its difficult for me to imagine me openly searching for an Alpha
On the other end Im really romantic and I also want to have a relationship and a bf, I masturbate a lot (my dick, not my ass), but maybe this is because Im an untrained faggot?

Also important, Im a med student so I feel like I dont have enough time to properly serve an Alpha, but I could still be wrong
And sorry for the long question, but there really was so much I think I had to explain, I hope you can help me and give advice

Thanks for writing! 

Not everyone falls into the “Alpha” or “faggot” sections of the Hierarchy. You could be a beta-sub … not a faggot, but just a submissive beta male. Relationships are perfectly doable for you, and there are Men out there who would date you and appreciate you for what you are. There’s really no reason to worry about it. Just accept your beta status.

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I do admire your work and all the effort you put on this website, but I have a feeling that you only talk about Alphas and Faggots. What about the middle? Your hierarchy model has several other layers. Could you please talk more about Betas? I am 19 years old, I am very attracted to powerful man, but I don’t see myself submitting and becoming property of an Alpha. Am I a Beta?

Sorry if I sound rude, but I’m in a conservative Catholic family and it’s really hard to find material about that. When I finally find someone gay they want to fuck and breed me as submissive bottom, but I’m not sure if this is what I am.

You’re absolutely right, and I’m always conscious of my overlooking beta males in my coverage. I think part of the reason for that is that betas are generally overlooked in LIFE, and that’s not fair because beta males have done amazing things. Think about someone like Mr. Rogers, surely a beta male, and how he transformed the lives of generations of children. Many great scientists and musicians are betas. It’s funny but while I was locked up I sketched out a video highlighting famous beta males! I haven’t gotten around to it yet, but it’s coming!

As for you, the answer to your situation is still up in the air because you’re young, and because most people are attracted to powerful Men without being faggots. I created a book titled “Are You A Faggot?” which is designed to walk the reader through a questionnaire to help them figure out if they are a faggot. That might be a place to start. The book can be found by following the link in the Book Store section of this site. 

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This will be an ongoing feature in which I try to point out examples of Alphahood and Alpha behavior as expressed in the arts, primarily movies.

The 1992 crime thriller Glengarry Glen Ross is a middle-of-the-road film about a bunch of mostly broken Men trying to salvage something of their lost lives.

But it opens with one of the most dynamic representations of Alpha/beta Hierarchy ever put to film. Alec Baldwin (in his only appearance in the film) plays a dynamic, successful corporate sales manager sent in to motivate the flagging sales team. The way he does it establishes himself firmly as the God Alpha among the other males. Kevin Spacey plays his beta-dom suck-up. Among the group, guys like Jack Lemmon are like beta cucks.

Only Ed Harris exhibits any potential Alpha qualities, initially fighting back against Baldwin’s bluster. However, Baldwin’s God Alpha character kicks Harris back into place.

Here is the scene:

Hi! I had a quick question for you – do you think it’s possible for straight fags to exist? I have never once had a “crush” on a man, only women which is why I believe to be straight. I have never had any desire to be in a romantic relationship with a man. I don’t really find men hot or anything.

However I am definitely a faggot. I know I am inferior to other men, and I am attracted to the idea of serving them. I’m even more attracted to serving them non sexually than sexually (i dont really want to serve sexually, i just know it is required of me). I’m attracted to the power they have over me and them using that power. But i’m not attracted to the men themselves.

I’m pretty convinced I am a “straight” faggot, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!

I’m not fully convinced you qualify as a “faggot” just because you desire to serve powerful superior Alphas. That’s because BETA MALES also have that desire to serve Alphas. However, if you started cleaning and cooking and doing faggot-like chores for an Alpha, I’m pretty sure he’s going to think of you as a faggot rather than a beta. But I have known straight beta males who loved serving the nonsexual needs of superior Men (I definitely saw this during my time in prison).

I’m not discounting that you could be a very repressed faggot, but for now that would be my answer.

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