The great Val Kilmer has died! 💔

He played a string of iconic Alpha characters in his life, from Iceman in TOP GUN to Jim Morrison in THE DOORS to Bruce Wayne in BATMAN FOREVER.

But his Alpha charisma absolutely transformed legendary Western outlaw Doc Holliday into an unforgettable embodiment of Sigma Alpha magnetism in 1994’s TOMBSTONE. It might still be the most quotable performance of all time.

His long, brave battle with throat cancer culminated in his final film appearance in 2022’s TOP GUN MAVERICK. Though clearly struggling, Kilmer soldiered through it with great dignity.

Goodbye, Val. You’ll always be our Huckleberry!

Hello fag Sam, it’s me Flynn from Ask a Question. Just know that I don’t really have the time to explore my Alphaness (if this word exists).

What you said about ‘Alpha Latency’ really clicked with me because I do feel like a need of domination and control that other Alphas have. I struggle with social anxiety and I grew up with poor self confidence. Although, the friends I’ve made along the way made me more confident. 

I’m gay and I’ve always had female friends and I never got to really connect with Men (especially Straight Alphas). I think this why I thought I should serve Men, because I didn’t connect with them. Right now, I’m 19 and still have female friends but I’m craving to know more guys that could guide me into domination and control. I’m talking to some subs and fags and I feel like I’m making the right choices. 

Here are my questions : Do you know how can I socialize with more masculine Men (I don’t go to the gym and I’m thinking of starting American football but I don’t have the time because of school) ? How do you think I should engage with fags when I’m talking and meeting them (I still haven’t met one yet) ? What attitude should I have in society (I have social anxiety, I don’t have the posture of Apex Alphas and I’m not a loud person) ? Lastly, what kind of clothing do you think I should wear to let fags know that I’m an Alpha (since I’m not muscular) ?

I’m looking forward in your answers (take the time you need to answer my questions), 

Just know that I really appreciate your work and want you to be the best fat you could be in order to be a model for new fags,

Have a good evening and good week,

Flynn

Sir, thank you for writing!

Alpha latency is one of those subjects that not many people understand. I only understand it because I decided to chronicle and deeply interview so many Alphas, and inadvertently helped some Alphas overcome the syndrome. 

Gay Alphas dealing with latency are particularly difficult because there are so many other pressures affecting it. By that I mean pressures of gay masculinity, and the societal-influenced inferiority complex many gays have. Sometimes it’s hard to know where the truth lies in-between the shadows that form the lives of gays and gay Alphas.

You have an added layer of social anxiety to cut through, making a diagnosis much harder to make. But keep in mind that social anxiety doesn’t rule out Alphahood for you. Sigmas are known as “lone wolf Alphas” and are largely quiet and reserved socially. 

I think you’re doing the right thing by examining this about yourself and reaching out to explore with faggots. 

To answer your specific questions:

1. If you’re looking to socialize with more masculine Men, school should provide plenty of opportunities. High school and college are hotbeds of Alpha development. Not sure what the fraternity situation is like at your school, but that would be a great place. I would just try to move in different circles and try to engage with these Alphas.
2. Faggots aren’t really that hard to find, Sir. You can use apps, or you can probably see them on campus. Engaging with them would involve you taking the lead with any faggot you talk to. You need to keep in mind that faggots exist to please Alphas like you. They WANT to be used by you. 
3. In society, you may not feel this way but society needs Alphas of all varieties taking the lead. It’s YOUR world, Sir. Even if you move silently and work locally, you can affect change and make things into whatever you choose.
4. There’s not really any clothing that denotes “Alpha”. Your Alphahood comes from your confidence and the way you interact with others – solid eye contact, unflinching conversation. 

I’m not sure any of that will help you, but I hope it gives you food for thought. Thank you so much for writing, Sir!

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