Hi Sam,
Recently I came across some of your posts on X where you claimed that Straight Alphas say gay Alphas are below them in the hierarchy. I’ll start by saying that I agree with them. I truly believe that Straight Men are superior and that gay Alphas are below any Straight Man, but that’s not the main point.
Even if we want to indulge the idea that gay Alphas could be equal to Straight Men, or even Straight Alphas, because of how they treat others and how they act, it’s clear as day that they don’t get respected by Straight Men simply because they are gay.
The hierarchy is a social pyramid based mainly on sexual power, and the fact that gay Alphas, as gay males, could potentially be attracted to a Straight Man gives them a natural weakness and makes them inferior to a Straight Man, let alone a Straight Alpha, because the Straight Man holds power over the gay Alpha.
To me, that doesn’t mean gay Alphas don’t exist, but rather that they are below Straight Men.
We can see this everywhere, the number of dominant “Alpha” tops who have confessed that they would submit to real men, meaning Straight Men, is astounding. I’m not judging them, actually, I support this. I just don’t understand how you can believe they are equal to Straight Men or even Straight Alphas. Part of me wants to understand you and believe you, but I just can’t see that.

Thank you for the question/observation!

I’m not going to argue, because you make a salient point here. I would be inclined to agree with you based on that reasoning.

I remember back in the very early days of this site my pyramid looked significantly different. In that version I split the triangle down the middle, with one side a shade darker than the other to denote the gay versions of each level. After a significant amount of pressure from many including gay Alphas (for homophobia, no less!), I altered it. So you can see from my past stances that I’m not traditionally far off from your conclusion within myself.

I do think procreation itself is an argument for a lowered status for gay Alphas, but your additional reasoning makes a good case even stronger. However, I do think it’s more of a case of adjustment within Alpha hierarchy as opposed to an adjustment to the entire pyramid.

I’m happy to entertain more thoughts on this! Thanks again!

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The great Val Kilmer has died! 💔

He played a string of iconic Alpha characters in his life, from Iceman in TOP GUN to Jim Morrison in THE DOORS to Bruce Wayne in BATMAN FOREVER.

But his Alpha charisma absolutely transformed legendary Western outlaw Doc Holliday into an unforgettable embodiment of Sigma Alpha magnetism in 1994’s TOMBSTONE. It might still be the most quotable performance of all time.

His long, brave battle with throat cancer culminated in his final film appearance in 2022’s TOP GUN MAVERICK. Though clearly struggling, Kilmer soldiered through it with great dignity.

Goodbye, Val. You’ll always be our Huckleberry!

Hello fag Sam, it’s me Flynn from Ask a Question. Just know that I don’t really have the time to explore my Alphaness (if this word exists).

What you said about ‘Alpha Latency’ really clicked with me because I do feel like a need of domination and control that other Alphas have. I struggle with social anxiety and I grew up with poor self confidence. Although, the friends I’ve made along the way made me more confident. 

I’m gay and I’ve always had female friends and I never got to really connect with Men (especially Straight Alphas). I think this why I thought I should serve Men, because I didn’t connect with them. Right now, I’m 19 and still have female friends but I’m craving to know more guys that could guide me into domination and control. I’m talking to some subs and fags and I feel like I’m making the right choices. 

Here are my questions : Do you know how can I socialize with more masculine Men (I don’t go to the gym and I’m thinking of starting American football but I don’t have the time because of school) ? How do you think I should engage with fags when I’m talking and meeting them (I still haven’t met one yet) ? What attitude should I have in society (I have social anxiety, I don’t have the posture of Apex Alphas and I’m not a loud person) ? Lastly, what kind of clothing do you think I should wear to let fags know that I’m an Alpha (since I’m not muscular) ?

I’m looking forward in your answers (take the time you need to answer my questions), 

Just know that I really appreciate your work and want you to be the best fat you could be in order to be a model for new fags,

Have a good evening and good week,

Flynn

Sir, thank you for writing!

Alpha latency is one of those subjects that not many people understand. I only understand it because I decided to chronicle and deeply interview so many Alphas, and inadvertently helped some Alphas overcome the syndrome. 

Gay Alphas dealing with latency are particularly difficult because there are so many other pressures affecting it. By that I mean pressures of gay masculinity, and the societal-influenced inferiority complex many gays have. Sometimes it’s hard to know where the truth lies in-between the shadows that form the lives of gays and gay Alphas.

You have an added layer of social anxiety to cut through, making a diagnosis much harder to make. But keep in mind that social anxiety doesn’t rule out Alphahood for you. Sigmas are known as “lone wolf Alphas” and are largely quiet and reserved socially. 

I think you’re doing the right thing by examining this about yourself and reaching out to explore with faggots. 

To answer your specific questions:

1. If you’re looking to socialize with more masculine Men, school should provide plenty of opportunities. High school and college are hotbeds of Alpha development. Not sure what the fraternity situation is like at your school, but that would be a great place. I would just try to move in different circles and try to engage with these Alphas.
2. Faggots aren’t really that hard to find, Sir. You can use apps, or you can probably see them on campus. Engaging with them would involve you taking the lead with any faggot you talk to. You need to keep in mind that faggots exist to please Alphas like you. They WANT to be used by you. 
3. In society, you may not feel this way but society needs Alphas of all varieties taking the lead. It’s YOUR world, Sir. Even if you move silently and work locally, you can affect change and make things into whatever you choose.
4. There’s not really any clothing that denotes “Alpha”. Your Alphahood comes from your confidence and the way you interact with others – solid eye contact, unflinching conversation. 

I’m not sure any of that will help you, but I hope it gives you food for thought. Thank you so much for writing, Sir!

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