How to make a faggot realize he is a fag?

Hey Sam, glad to see you're back. I wanna get your take on something.

A year ago I met this guy on grindr, it was (at least for me) a pretty standard hook up. I went to his hotel room, I tried to fuck him but my dick was too big for his inexperience hole, so I just dosed him with popper and used his throat instead. I alternated between fucking his throat and letting him sucking my cock for about 2 hours before I got bored and fed him my load. I chatted a bit with him afterward and we added each other on instagram before I left.

Since that meeting, he's been texting me fairly frequently, and I only response sporadically.I got the impression that he's obsessed with me. I recently told him I'm planning a trip to his city later this year, and he immediately offers to not just host me at his place, but also drive me around the city and take care of all my needs. I'm fairly certain he's a faggot due to how submissive and how eager he is to provide me with services, but he doesn't know it yet considering how inexperience he is.

I'm thinking I can use the time during my trip to help this faggot realize he's a faggot and begin his training. However, I've only ever used fags who already accepted that they are faggots. So making a fag realizing he is a fag is unfamiliar territory for me. What do you think is the best way to make this guy realized he's a fag?