Romance for a faggot

I guess strict terms are useless and we are all on a spectrum because seeing your post about faggots not wanting romance from their alphas made me think I'm not really a FULL faggot but merely a beta/boy with faggot tendencies because while I want to be dominated and used by my alpha I also want the romance part too - like when he's done with me I'm the boy wife/his princess even though he is in control and rules and I am subservient to him.