Questions From Readers

Hi sam,

A fellow sub here and first of all, i love your content and the information you give out so freely; it is truly very generous.

A little background about me is that i have only truly started my journey in learning how to serve Men about a week ago. In my previous jobs, i have always felt strangely more compliant and more motivated to work hard whenever a Man asked me to do something for him. After years of consuming gay BDSM porn material and remaining a virgin while lost in my fantasies, i decided it’s time i started living out my truth in my late 20’s at the bottom of the hierarchy and took my first steps to make serving Men a reality.

Mentally, i am already training myself to become more submissive. For physical training, a Dom and i have recently started chatting and He wanted me to begin throat training, starting with a toothbrush since i don’t (yet) own a dildo.

i was wondering if you could suggest any online resources to read on how to improve that sort of physical technique before i start really serving Men.

More than that, please let me know if you have any advice on remaining discreet when practicing for Sirs and Alphas while not having total privacy at home with family (my own room doesn’t even have a working lock ffs). While my family isn’t intrusive at all on what i do, i don’t think it’s feasible to lock myself in the bathroom for hours to train my hole or throat.

Thanks for your time sam!

Thank you for writing! (I wish I wasn’t giving it all away so freely, because it costs me an arm and a leg!)

I’m glad to hear that you’re finally embracing your purpose and you’ve already found a Master willing to throat train you! 

If you look in my “Advice For Faggots” section of the site there are plenty of instructional material in there about cocksucking, although the one huge article I did for FWA isn’t in my archive for some reason. Alternatively, you can search “cocksucker training” and likely come up with some stuff there. 

I don’t know where else you should look except to watch the “videos” section of this site, because even at less than a year old I’ve already amassed one of the finest curated archives of blowjob material anywhere. FWA’s video section (which was eight years old) was head of the class. 

Ultimately, there are no articles or videos that can prepare you for giving a blowjob or training your throat. You really just need to get that dildo and begin trying to take more of it each time and holding it in your throat longer and longer. One pro tip: when you feel like gagging, SWALLOW. Swallowing will not only calm your gag reflex, but it’ll allow more of the dildo/cock to enter your throat! 

Good luck!

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