I’ve known but a very few other faggots (meaning those who recognized me as a faggot and were willing to relate to me on that level)… I was surprised to find that a goodly percentage of the fellow faggots I spoke with do not feel that they were “natural born faggots”… Rather they cite some life experience such as being bullied, watching another fag being dominated by an Alpha or themselves being overcome by the desire to submit when confronted in some manner by an outwardly dominant Apha male resulting in an inner transformation… They consider this experience to have been their moment of transformation which rendered them  faggots from that point on…  Other faggots I had occasion to discuss this matter with shared my belief that we are BORN FAGGOTS and we all experience some type of life experience which serves to awaken the dormant faggot inside of us… By that point, our recognition of the superior Alpha male persona, along with our inner desire to submit cause the experience to become an extremely vivid memory which some faggots confuse with a transformation… Even before I became familiar with the term”faggot” I’ve always felt “hard wired” to submit as opposed to dominate… As early as 7th grade I began to consciously identify certain male classmates as superior to myself in both physical as well as other, sometimes indiscernible ways… I inwardly acknowledged my place at the bottom rung of the hierarchy long before I heard or understood the term… Though BORN a faggot, I believe that living the faggot life is nurtured through a myriad of life experiences…


Hi brother! Thank you for writing! 

Yes, I’m of the opinion that natural faggots are born that way. When faggots tell me that they feel like certain experiences (like the ones you mention in your letter) led them to become faggots, I simply feel like that argument is a bit of a “chicken and the egg” conundrum. It could very well be that those experiences help us to realize what’s inside us. 

Regardless, it’s probably better to accept it as an inborn need because it’s not something a faggot can escape.  

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