What’s is wrong with me Big Daddy? Why do I want to be possessed, owned and controls by a superior man? Even when I am sad feel like I am missing a strong Daddy to control me, possesses  me and own me. yet I am stubborn and don’t given in. I get wishy washsy when letting a Dom come over, because I haven’t clean my self out for him properly yet, or I am scared. I struggle to fully be taken and use as a submissive should. I am saved that there is a part of myself that I loss but love about myself. Yet when I offer myself up and do follow through I don’t feel the presents of the Dom with me in the room. i don’t know what so do with myself Sam, I am really struggling here, to let go and embrace submission on many levels. Advise, ideas, thoughts on this. Would even take a Dom’s insight on this.


Who in the world is “Big Daddy”? I’m a faggot named sam. Put your poppers bottle down and clear your head.

You’re having these difficulties because you haven’t yet fully accepted the truth: you ARE a faggot, and this IS your purpose. 

You’re currently living in the phantom zone, a place of indecisiveness in which you think too much and make excuses too much. You keep thinking that whatever you’re doing isn’t as right as some other shiny objective. 

This cycle of unproductive nothingness is going to continue indefinitely as long as you continue to lie to yourself and deny yourself the opportunity to actually embrace what you are.

Admit it to yourself: YOU ARE A FAGGOT.

There’s no escaping it. Even if you did nothing and died a sad virgin, you’d still die a faggot … just a useless, unfulfilled one. 

So figure it out! 

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