Questions From Readers

I am a 23yo faggot who’s never been fucked before. I’ve been throat fucked several time but never any anal fucking. Every time I try to lose my virginity and/or being used for throat service, I cancel the plans or never even initiate it. Why is that and how can I overcome it?

Fear is a natural thing, but sometimes our fear springs from something irrational that tells us more about what’s going on INSIDE a person. 

Rationally, getting fucked isn’t going to hurt you, especially if lube is used and you can manage to relax. People have been getting fucked in the ass since forever, and the survival rate is somewhere near 100%. 

But I’m thinking it’s this: you’re terrified to get fucked in the ass because (in your mind) once you do there is no turning back. You’re afraid that getting fucked in the ass definitively means you ARE a faggot and you’ll never be a Man, etc. That crossing the line and getting fucked means you can’t cross back.

If that’s the case, let me dispel that. I’ve known Alphas who spent years getting fucked as bottoms because they thought they were supposed to, only to discover that wasn’t the case at all and became strict Tops. A thousand things could happen with you.

But you’re never going to know the truth unless you TRY. If you can be throat fucked, then you can definitely handle being ass fucked. Just TRY IT and find out for yourself so you can make an informed decision. 

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