Questions From Readers
Hello there,
How do I stay motivated to stay in Chastity? I dont have a proper owner- if I did this wouldn’t be an issue. I do have some alphas that fuck me on occasion, but it is very causual and not quite an ‘owner’ situation if you will. Neither of them are very into chastity, and one them actually doesn’t want me to wear a cage (he doesnt touch my dick, but I guess he doesnt like the look of them).
But outside of those, I often give in after maybe a week or so and unlock and jerk off 3 to 4 times in a row. How do I stop?
Thanks for the question, brother!
Stopping any kind of addiction (like masturbation) always involves a mindset/belief system shift. For example, people don’t permanently quit smoking until they truly get grossed out by the habit and put it down.
I finally stopped masturbating all the time when I began to think so deeply about how inferior I was to Men that I began to be ashamed to cum like them. I felt I was insulting them.
After that step, about two years later I was so ashamed about being free that I caged myself in honor of Alphas and Men in general.
I do think the way I did it is the framework for faggots who are unowned or owned by Masters who don’t care about chastity. It all starts in your mind and how you view the truth about yourself.
Chastity became such an important part of my life that it was disorienting to take off the cage for my imprisonment for two years. Upon my release, I couldn’t wait to put it back on!
Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!
Leave a Comment